Future Obgyn

I get a lot of unfollows when I post about the but I don’t care. I stand for !I hope to one day have an all practice! is very important! Every one deserves to go to a doctor that is inclusive!

Every time I post about the community I get a lot of unfollows. I stand for 🏳️‍🌈.Speak your truth!

My life currently has almost always surrounded my pelvic pain. Being gaslight by doctors in my teens till now! Its been a rough journey but I am most thankful for this community of people!I want to help as many people as possible. Sending you all the love!

Thanks a lot pelvic floor muscles. You can't relax can you. Trying my best to love my body is hard. Pelvic floor againa and dysfunction. My muscles are so tense.Pelvic floor therapy isn't helping as much but I hope it will.Today was a really painful session. I hope with more appointments that I see some progress.
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YOU ARE NOT ALONE!
YOU ARE AN AMAZING PERSON
I BELIEVE IN YOU
I myself have dealt with depression anxiety and ocd since the age of 11. It can be really hard. I've been there. I know it can be scary right now. Sending you all the hugs and love

I just want to be normal. A normal 20 year old. This new acceptance of my body has been really hard. I love my body
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I want to be a normal 20 year old

I want to be able to have s*x without pain

I want to have a good night's sleep every night

I want to be able to hang out with friends and actually enjoy it

I want to be able to attend my classes regularly

I most of all just want to be a normal

Hi new followers!This has been an exhausting month. I keep constantly break through bleeding. I can't wait till I get this polyp removed.
A little bit about me
I've wanted to be an obgyn since I was 4 years old
I've been having pelvic pain and migraines since I was 8
Gaslighted by my pediatricans saying that I'm normal and that its just my anxiety.
I feel deep down & always knew something was wrong
Diagnosed with pcos
Diagnosed with chronic pelvic pain
I'm still investigating endometriosis
as a cause of my constant pelvic pain 24/7😥
I met with an awesome specialist for endo who believes I have it
My pelvic pain has cost me a lot of my life
Missing school in elementary,middle school,highschool,&college
Through it all I'm still determined to be the best future obgyn I can be
It will take me longer than most obgyns to get my facog degree
Nothing is stopping me now to help people just like me fight their pelvic pain

You are amazing! I know this day is so hard for so many. Its so painful. So many in my family have experienced this. Your pain is vaild today. I'm sending you all the love.

I want to honor all of you who have wanted to be mother
Who experienced infertility
Who lost a pregnancy
You are amazing and your pain is valid
Sending you so much love today and always

Happy Mothersday to all of you
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A great description of endometriosis from

How to care for an Endometriosis patient: By

1. THINK BEFORE YOU SPEAK. Words can hurt more than you know. Saying "You can't be in pain EVERYDAY.", "I feel like you're acting to get attention/to stay home from work or meetings.", "Just get pregnant!", "Just take an Ibuprofen!" etc. are hurtful and annoying.
2. LISTEN TO US AND TAKE US SERIOUS. We have had
enough of "Your pain is probably imaginary.", "You should just drink more water, you're probably dehydrated." bu****it. This is a real chronic illness. This fu***ng sucks. We need surgeries and treatments. We want someone to acknowledge our pain and take it serious enough to help us make the best out of it.
3. HEATING PADS. They can be a real lifesaver. They might not help at all pain levels but it's so much better than nothing. Keep one at handy, you could save someone's day just by being ready and willing to help someone.
4. AVOID RED MEAT. As this most likely only goes for the actual patients, it might be a good idea to avoid red meat while cooking dinner or doing groceries. Red meat causes flare ups and increases the risk and chances of bowel cancer. Not only for the patients but also for you.
5. GET EDUCATED. Read blogs from actual patients,
read what can cause flare ups, ask the person about their personal symptoms, if not too personal, ask them what you can do if you notice them having a flare up.
Just seeing you wanting to help us is wonderful for us as we get ignored a lot. Dont leave us alone. We know it's hard dealing with us and dealing with our illness, but remember it doesn't define us. We have happy days. We can have fun, we can love endlessly and unconditionally just like everyone else. We need someone to reassure us they're staying with us even if times get hard. Thank you for your patience.









**kendometrios

How to care for an Endometriosis patient: By

1. THINK BEFORE YOU SPEAK. Words can hurt more than you know. Saying "You can't be in pain EVERYDAY.", "I feel like you're acting to get attention/to stay home from work or meetings.", "Just get pregnant!", "Just take an Ibuprofen!" etc. are hurtful and annoying.
2. LISTEN TO US AND TAKE US SERIOUS. We have had
enough of "Your pain is probably imaginary.", "You should just drink more water, you're probably dehydrated." bu****it. This is a real chronic illness. This fu***ng sucks. We need surgeries and treatments. We want someone to acknowledge our pain and take it serious enough to help us make the best out of it.
3. HEATING PADS. They can be a real lifesaver. They might not help at all pain levels but it's so much better than nothing. Keep one at handy, you could save someone's day just by being ready and willing to help someone.
4. AVOID RED MEAT. As this most likely only goes for the actual patients, it might be a good idea to avoid red meat while cooking dinner or doing groceries. Red meat causes flare ups and increases the risk and chances of bowel cancer. Not only for the patients but also for you.
5. GET EDUCATED. Read blogs from actual patients,
read what can cause flare ups, ask the person about their personal symptoms, if not too personal, ask them what you can do if you notice them having a flare up.
Just seeing you wanting to help us is wonderful for us as we get ignored a lot. Dont leave us alone. We know it's hard dealing with us and dealing with our illness, but remember it doesn't define us. We have happy days. We can have fun, we can love endlessly and unconditionally just like everyone else. We need someone to reassure us they're staying with us even if times get hard. Thank you for your patience.









**kendometrios

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Be kind to yourself. You are an amazing human being! I believe in you! ❤❤❤

May is Mental Health Month
Never be scared to reach out
I know it scary and tough and life can feel like it's not going well for you
Especially now since were all in quarantine
I myself struggle with ocd ,depression and anxiety
Its okay to take a break sometimes❤❤
I know that it can be so hard
It really can be
Sending you all the love in the world

Stop telling children to suck it up
Stop telling children that painful periods are normal
Stop telling children to be quiet about their period
Stop telling children that pain is normal
Stop telling children that the obgyn is a scary place
I've been told all these awful things my whole life
I did suck it up and I ended up missing too much school
I hid my pain from others
I kept my mouth shut and cried in school bathrooms
I thought I was crazy to be having so much pain
I finally went to the obgyn and no its not scary. No one is going to do a pelvic exam or pap smear without consent!
Why must we tell children these lies! It makes me sad to think of the children who are told these things!
I was told this by my pediatricians. By my friggin pediatricians!

This week I got a second opinion. I talked with another wide excision endometriosis specialist. She believed me. It felt like a miracle. She said that my pain is definitely caused by endometriosis. It felt like a home run. I felt like jumping for joy. I cried when she said that everything was going to be okay. She said that she thinks I have IC and pelvic congestion. I'm going for more tests. It feels so good to be believed. I'm so glad I got a 2nd opinion. This was the best decision I have ever made. Unfortunately I won't be able to get these tests done until covid clears. I can't attend pelvic floor therapy until it clears too. I hope it clears fast.

It can be really hard for people to understand what you are going through. Some understand and some don't.
Some people feel the rain,others just get wet.

I remember watching your videos and relating so much to them. I was 15. I was missing school because I was always in pain. I tried to tell my pediatrician about it. She said I was too young. She told me to do kegals. I left her office embarrassed and sad. I didn't get any answers. I'm so thankful for all that you do!!! Thank you for always being authentic in your healing journey.

You are so unbelievably inspiring! In highschool I was desperate to figure out why I was in so much pain. I looked up painful periods and found endometriosis and pcos. I remember telling my pediatrician this and she said I was too Young. And told me to go hime and do kegals. She should have sent me to a obgyn but didn't.Thanks so much for being inspiring❤❤

One time I had to go home early because of pain.A coworker said aren't you lucky you get to go home. I hope you have fun sitting on your butt and watching tv. Not to mention other ridicule from other people. The nerve of some people. I really don't know. Even with the pandemic,I really don't think people UNDERSTAND what's its like to have a chronic illness. I can't think of the number of things I have not attended because of my pain.

I really don't know where I would be right now of it wasn't for this amazing community. I recommend following all accounts I tagged. Each one of these accounts has helped or supported me in one way or anouther. Damn it won't let me tag more than 20 people. I have so many more people an accounts to thank I'll make another one of these I promise!

I have been exhausted. I've been breakthrough bleeding with no end in sight. I have been bleeding for over a month.I've been is so much pain today that I've cried several times. Sending you all the love.

Live your best life! Live it for you! You are amazing and wonderful ❤️

You are amazing! Please stop comparing your journey to someone else's. I know times are tough right now. It's hard not to compare. Missing your old able bodied self. Looking over at your able bodied friends with envy. Just wanting to be normal. This is really hard for all of us. I feel your pain. I'm so glad for this community. It makes me feel like I'm not alone. That there are other young people with uteruses that go through the same things as me. Thank you all for your follows and kindness.

Thank you so much! The whole world says thank you!

This is my motto and psa y'all! Please be kind to young people. I wish that as a child that my pelvic pain was taken seriously! I have had pelvic pain since I was 8 years old. I wasn't diagnosed with chronic pelvic pain until January 2020. I am so grateful for this community!

Love my obgyn so much