10Steps2Over

When the work wife feeding him & the house wife feeding him
Is he the side piece?
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Asking for a friend

Do NOT publicly embarrass your spouse!!!
PeriodT

Idgaf what was done don’t embarrass yourself or them

RNRT = Restless Night Random Thoughts

My nephew has a baby by a “hoe” 😠 & feels she’s to blame

Ctfu
I couldn’t be more disgusted with HIM.
1) He had a choice long before he gave her the choice.
His hoe ass could have chosen to wear a condom if he was so concerned about having a “hoe” for a baby mama.
2) His hoe ass knew what he was doing when he decided to raw dog a “hoe”
I’m sorry no sympathy here fool. You lay with stray dogs you’re bound to get fleas. In this case pregnant 🤰🏽
3) Your father was a hoe but he was a damn good father. How dare you not live upto his expectations and beyond?

The fact is young men, if you’re going swimming without a life jacket anything can happen. If you’re not willing to protect yourself, no one else is obligated to protect you. Therefore, after you’ve implanted your seed into the “hoe” you can’t be mad when she chooses to exercise her right to choose.
You can’t run, you can’t hide. You’re now tied to the “hoe” and she’s tied to you for the entire life of the child.
A responsible man will own up and be a great father to any woman’s child regardless of how the child was conceived.

My own father is almost 80yrs old and has never met his biological father. He’s wondered most of his life whether his father ever knew of his existence or chose to be absent. I’m now doing everything I can to find his people before he departs this earth. This is a lonely feeling.

To hear my nephew speak so cavalier really makes my blood boil.

Do better!!!!

Communication 101
Let your heart be your guide. Don’t answer out of anger or frustration. When dealing with a loved one, make love with your words just as much as you want to physically make love. If you’re used to being confrontational or demanding, you may be surprised how well your mate responds to your new communication skills.

Morning
Luvsouls

I’m a passionate smart ass. I always speak my truth and often challenge people to live in their truths.

Most people are afraid to be honest because of the consequences they may face. However, I’m a no Vaseline, rip that Duck-tape off & get to the point women.

When I ask a question I already know the answer. So, why would I ask questions if I already know 🤷🏽‍♀️? I’ll tell you why, to test your character. That’s the only time I ask questions.

My face should tell you if you’ve passed my test. I typically do a 🤨 with a little smile if I’ve caught someone in a lie. Then it’s a wrap on trust or intimacy from there on. I will take my leave quietly.

If you can live with your lies, she can live with her truths.

Fellas you may be good at telling lies but she’s better at keeping secrets.

My book is on its way to editing
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This!!!
Oftentimes we dim our lights trying to fit into a position we’re too qualified to fill. Stop forcing it🦋

This took me out 😂 so much truth in this skit 🧐

Matt Rife on TikTok Who’s in the wrong? 👀

If you don’t establish your zero tolerance do’s & don’ts in the beginning don’t expect much later.

Sis it cost you $22+tax every time you’re with him.
GET OUT!
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Sexual Favors🤔
If he/she isn’t reciprocating are you working hard or hardly working?

I love control!

Don’t make him/her work hard to do what they love. If you love what you do it’s not work, it’s play.

Let the games begin🦋

It’s ok to fall completely in love 🥰
But Don’t fall completely stupid

Watch, listen and dodge 🚩
Never be afraid to set limits before you get attached. Once you fall it’s harder to stand up for yourself. So stand before you fall so you are able to fall safely🦋

At what point does putting on your own oxygen become relationship murder?

Think about it? If your partner is making money moves without you, is that really the oxygen they need to survive and lift your union or the oxygen needed to survive alone?

If you’re married and you make money moves that harm your relationship but protect yourself that’s relationship murder. I mean you’re both in the same boat and it’s sinking. The solo moves are only providing one life vest and a raft with holes. Someone is going down with the ship and someone is escaping high and dry.

When you notice shady move being made grab your own oxygen because it’s survival of the smartest at that point.

Be blessed 🦋