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It hurts..
It hurts when people don't believe in your dreams and do everything to talk you out of it.
Such that when you gather enough courage to pull through, you are tempted to work twice as hard to despite your naysayers.
You don't have to do that. It sucks your energy, and get you drained faster.
You would want to get things done and right at once. You'd not give yourself the chance to be the human that you are. All because you want to prove a point.
That's unnecessary pressure.
If spiting your naysayers is your motivations for hardwork, you allow them to dictate how that part of your life should be. Even if that isn't your intention.
Find your motivations in the fact that you came loaded with alot. To make these things shine through deserves the best effort you can afford one day at a time.
No pressure
Being a woman can be difficult.
At some point you are completely taken for granted, the instances where you're not meant to speak or act like you exist at all.
Then there's the part where the expectations are wild and overwhelming. Those areas you are supposed to show up everytime, without reservations.
The level of compliance you are meant to give to all these without questions will most times throw you off balance.
I'm here to tell you to pay attention to the voice of purpose inside of you, dear woman. That's the only way you can find balance and stability in life.
Trying to please the outside world is torture because you can never be enough and up there forever, when it comes to pleasing people.
Being A Woman….
It's a beautiful thing. Her potentials, her energy, nature's trust in her to nurture life and care for it. Itgoes on and the beauty of it never fades.
Then again, being a woman...
It spells responsibilities and higher stakes when it comes to expectations, generally. The many things she should know and be.
Now, she gets apprehensive, she does not want to let them down, at all cost, she wants to get above the stakes and be perfect. She can't stop to catch her breath, constantly hitched on surviving this task at hand.
This becomes her life, living for the next duty and call. While at it, she gets broken, physically and mentally, most times not being able to stop and fix herself. It gets worse but she has to continue.
Does she not know?
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Dear Woman,
Give it a try.
Dear Woman,
Find your why, it's what keeps you going when you have no other reason to move an inch further
Dear Woman,
live YOUR life