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How does a guy's ass feel, when you put a c**k in? Kyle Phoenix's answer: Fair to middling’ It’s not like a va**na. A va**na tends to be engulfing, it feels like a wet glove with a handful of warm gel or mayonnaise. (Imagery. lol) The male a**s feels like a glove but mainly on the shaft of the p***s as you’re really being engulfed—-shaft or ...

How many drafts does a novel typically go through, and how different is each draft from the next? Have you ever rewritten a book from scr... Kyle Phoenix's answer: Professor Raymond Federman, who I TAed for and was one of my handful of intense mentors (for years, I went to/stayed in Buffalo to work with him and others) recommended that my novels were not novels until I had done 12 drafts. I loved Federman even as I was slightly intimi...

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Is the gay men dating scene harsher than the straight dating scene? Kyle Phoenix's answer: Men into men often don’t ask men out. Simple as that. But the complex foundation of why men don’t ask men out is what births the simple lack of compatibility. Minority Most men, let’s say LGBTSGLOMNIQIA+ to cross the spectrum of where MSM could be, are not raised by thei...

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What is it like for 2 gay men raising children? Kyle Phoenix's answer: It’s often wildly hilarious because men simply relate to children and child-based problems differently. I sue a lot of the incidents in my writing because children are an excellent way to illustrate someone’s personality and character. “Hi, guys are you at the museum?”...

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How does an older gay bottom attract tops? Kyle Phoenix's answer: It’s difficult. A lot of male s*xuality, whether hetero or not, is based upon virility, masculinity, testosterone, power, stamina, resilience. In working on a long term project, Lived Lives——an examination of LGBTSGL s*xuality beyond simply positions, s*x, relationships,...

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Death: how long are we conscious for and does life really flash before our eyes? If humans can be resuscitated after six, seven, or even ten minutes, it could theoretically be hours before their brain shuts down.

Have you ever met a serial killer? Kyle Phoenix's answer: In my 20s, I got into an argument with a neighbor. During the course of the argument, I stepped from my property line to his. Technically trespassing. Slightly corrupt county nearing bankruptcy, everyone got to sit in jail as bail was first set at the outrageous sum and the...

Questions for Gay Men--REAL "Communication" by Kyle Phoenix Questions for Couples Pt 9 Communication. Great questions around a variety of topics to discuss on a date/getting to know someone phase.

What's it like being gay in prison? Kyle Phoenix's answer: I was hopped up on drugs that the jail legally gives to everyone who enters. I'd never done drugs before or since. Basically the science of some anti-psychotics is if you are psychotic, it knocks you out; if you aren't psychotic, it sends you to Funky Town on a rocket drive...

What do poor people misunderstand about rich people? Kyle Phoenix's answer: That there's a constant valuating against your overall worth/assets. It becomes like another entity. I had this experience today. I go to some shaky neighborhoods for educational consulting and about half the time out of the state. Today at a cheap motel near the school I'v...

As a gay man, how did you develop your dominant top personality? Kyle Phoenix's answer: There are three ways, two connected by biology and the third by sociology. Based on testosterone and estrogen levels there are just more manly looking men, who have the physiological look that makes them appear to be Dominant Tops. Alpha men tend to have a planed shoulder ...

How can I, as a male, dominate a male submissive? Kyle Phoenix's answer: Men, whether they be straight or something other than straight, often confuse terminology because there is so little Identity, Lived Identity studies on non-heteros*xual male interactions. Most of the literature that a guy would come across generally falls into three areas:...

Why do black gay men have the hardest time coming into their own? Kyle Phoenix's answer: Feelings: Love, Loneliness and Lacking Esteem In workshops with men of color it’s generally very casual at first. They′re always looking around. There’s generally a minimum of 25 men in the room, the maximum for a planned workshop has been about 67. Most times it’s bee...

Are some gay men totally top or totally bottom always? Kyle Phoenix's answer: A Lived Lives Question! In teaching men;s workshops on s*x and s*xuality for over a decade and concurrently being a youth coordinator to young males from 14 to 27—-I got inundated with both questions and forms of answers about s*x and s*xuality that was hetero and non-hete.....

What are common errors made when people write books? Kyle Phoenix's answer: Understanding what a book is and what a book really is. When we read a book we take it literally at face value, as what it is. What a book actually is composed of are a lot of random pieces that have amalgamated into two different experiences—-the text/narrative and the ph.....

Why do a lot of rich people pay rent instead of buy property? Kyle Phoenix's answer: Because there are choices with real estate that people who can only afford to rent can’t take advantage of. If you have this apartment—-say you’re Will Smith filming Will Smith Action Adventure With CGI Part 7. And you rent this apartment in beautiful SoHo, New York. For...

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Do gay men generally prefer other men to be totally shaven? Kyle Phoenix's answer: My ex was hairy like this. Actually more so. He was actually a Prince of the Ottoman Empire and rich as cream….but that’s another tale. He would regularly go to get waxed because it was such a pain with clothing and sweating and warm weather. In workshops when men start di...

What's it like dating gay men as a Black man? Kyle Phoenix's answer: My universal answer: It depends. By that, it depends on who you are dating and when you’re dating them. Age and race change what you get served by the range of men available to you. When I first came out at 18, I joined a couple of LGBT youth groups in my high school and ...

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Would a gay man present as trans or cross-dress, go through the transitioning process? Why? Kyle Phoenix's answer: Wrote a book about it. (You know I did! lol Yes, available on Amazon.) I was a Youth Coordinator for an organization that 10 years later, most of their extreme corruption almost gone, I can now name as Gay Men of African Descent. I literally don’t include it on any of my r.....

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Is there a gay incel phenomenon i.e. gay men who can't get laid and become unhinged, desperate for s*x? Kyle Phoenix's answer: Oh, hell to the YES! Like all humans there is still some discrimination in a positive way around engaging with folk. And just because you have s*x doesn’t mean it’s satisfying. the act itself isn’t healing, it’s the joy, the intimacy, the pleasure and relaxation. There...

White, Black, Latino Safe Sex/HIV Different Infection Rates, PT. 3: LGBTSGL Relationship Phase 1 LGBTSGL Dating 401, PT. 3: Phase 1 of a Relationship (Episode #601), LGBT & Same Gender Loving Tips/Strategies. This video teaches strategies to negotiate se...

Which is easier, being masculine or feminine? Kyle Phoenix's answer: That’s a very interesting question. I present as more masculine though I’m completely comfortable with the feminine things I enjoy. And I enjoy a lot of masculine and feminine things. Casual Femininity Right now I’m going through a scarf phase—-I used to buy Pashminas....

Can 3 gay men live together in a trio marriage? Kyle Phoenix's answer: Yes, and it sort of does happen but biology makes it difficult. When two men are together their testosterone increases—-this leads to fights, arguments, higher s*xuality. Generally mature men are able to manage this Phase is called the “Power” struggle and negotiate Why ...

Episode 600, Negotiation of Love Styles and Needs, LGBTSGL Dating 401 Part 2-C Negotiation of Love Styles and Needs, LGBTSGL Dating 401 Part 2-CKyle Phoenix is a Writer, teacher and Entrepreneur with books, newsletters, host of a TV sho...

12 Black, Q***r Entrepreneurs Share The Secrets You Need To Succeed Nothing excites me more than seeing powerful examples of people who look like me doing amazing things. So, I’m not only sharing stories about these entrepreneurs but also asking them to talk about their experiences, strength and hopes on specific topics.

How can I rise into the upper class, coming from a lower-middle class family? Kyle Phoenix's answer: I agree somewhat with the other answer that suggests you have to consider it a long term, pre-adulthood interaction but there are ways. One, you’re going to have to abandon your lower-middle-class family/roots. They can’t come with you. They are like a form of cancer. They...

How can I make it out of poverty? What are your best solutions? Kyle Phoenix's answer: A lot of the below answers are very good, the problem is they are Middle Class solutions. Poverty is made up of at least 11 dimensions, only 1 being financial. the others are social, education, racial, s*xuality, health, mental, emotional, language, hidden societal rules of...

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Why are some gay white men only attracted to darker-skinned black and Latino men? Kyle Phoenix's answer: Sam Sure pointed out some good points. And yes it is bizarre when someone tells you how beautiful your skin or hair is, not because of the compliment itself but because as a person of color you're not sure, because it is often said early on, if it's a genuine aesthetic comp...