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Ang ganda ng topic for midweek worship service, about responsibilities of the parents and the importance of having a good partner. 💕

My favorite key points:
1. Ang mag-asawa ay dapat laging magkatuwang sa lahat ng bagay, pagdidisiplina sa anak at pagpprovide ng needs nila. Hindi dapat iasa ang pagdidisiplina sa nanay lamang or the other way around.

2. Hindi natatapos ang responsibility ng parents pagka nagkatrabaho na ang anak, patuloy pa rin na dapat mag provide ang magulang sa anak. AND not the other way around, hindi anak ang bubuhay sa magulang. Blessed na lang ang parents kung magbigay ang anak, it should be voluntarily not mandatory. At kung may "utang na loob" ang anak, patunay lang na napalaki ng magulang nang maayos ang kanilang mga anak at naibigay nila ang pangangailangan ng anak, kaya binabalik lamang nila ito.

3. Mag tipon/ipon for the future of your children, and for the parents. Education plan, health care, and retirement plan. Hindi habang buhay ay malakas ang mga magulang para magtrabaho para sa kanilang mga anak. Mas mabuting handa ang magulang para din sa kanilang health. Kaya mas mabuting mag plano kung ilan ang gustong anak, or kung hanggang saan lang ang kaya ng kinikita sa trabaho.

4. Communication is not just thru words, parents should be an example to their children. Makipagusap nang malumanay sa anak at ang anak din ay gumalang sa magulang.

5. Sa mga anak na naiinis na paulit-ulit na sermon ng magulang. Ang sabi, "Walang maguutos, kung patuloy na sumusunod". Hindi na magsesermon ang magulang, kung alam na ng mga anak ang dapat sundin at gawin.

Lastly,
6. Humanap ng mapapangasawa na tutulungan ka, aalagaan, mamahalin, rerespetuhin, at sasamahan ka sa lahat ng bagay. Kaya napakahalaga ng pagpapanata na ibigay sa'yo yung lalaking/babaeng makakasama mo pang habang buhay 💖🇮🇹

Credits : Keith Edzel

📢 WISDOM FOR PARENTING 📌👨‍👩‍👦

1. Avoid Giving your child everything he asks for. He will grow up believing that he has the right to get everything he wants.

2. Avoid laughing when your child speaks insulting words. He will grow up thinking that disrespect is entertainment.

3. Avoid remaining insensitive to bad behavior that he can display without scolding him for his bad behavior. He will grow up thinking that there are no rules in society.

4. Avoid picking up anything that your child messes up. He will grow up believing that others must take responsibility for his responsibilities.

5. Avoid letting him watch any program on TV. He will grow up thinking that there is no difference between being a child and being an adult.

6. Avoid giving your child all the money he asks for. He will grow up thinking that getting money is easy and will not hesitate to steal for it.

7. Always avoid putting yourself on his side when he is wrong against the neighbors, his teachers, the police. He will grow up thinking that everything he does is right, it is the others who are wrong.

8. Avoid leaving him alone at home when you go to the place of worship, otherwise he will grow up thinking that God does not exist.

9. Avoid talking down about a family member or spouse it will teach them to hurt others and that conflict and hurting others is okay.

10. Avoid showing them that not helping others in need is ok it will give them lack in grace.

To make things simple, teach them grace and kindness in all things and treat them the way you would want them to be treated. 💗😌





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Kapag nag-asawa ka hindi ka na pwedeng magdesisyon nang parang single ka pa din. Palagi mong ikokonsider ang asawa at mga anak mo.

Hindi na pwede ang biglaang labas kasama ng barkada.

Walang masamang makipagkita at lumabas kasama ng barkada. Pero dapat pinaplano. Pinaguusapan nyong mag-asawa ahead of time. Otherwise, para mo na ding binastos ang asawa mo.

Hindi kabaklaan o kamartyran ang pagtanggi sa invite ng barkada. It's okay lalo na para sa pamilyadong tao.

Kapag niyaya ka ng barkada mong lumabas bago ka magsabi ng "yes" konsultahin mo muna ang asawa mo kung okay lang sa kanya o baka mas kailangan ka nya sa bahay? O baka may plano kayong gawin na nakalimutan mo?

Bago ka magdesisyon konsultahin mo ang asawa mo. Bakit?

Una, hindi ka na single na walang maghihintay sa'yo sa bahay kung anong oras ka uuwi.

Pangalawa, anuman ang mangyari sa'yo mula sa mga bagay na gagawin mo ay asawa at mga anak mo ang unang mga taong maaapektuhan kaya dapat alam nila bawat kilos mo.

Pangatlo, ikonsidera mo ang sitwasyon ng asawa mo bago ka maghayahay!

Baka may sakit ang anak nyo at kailangan nya ng tulong mo?

Nakakalabas din ba sya katulad ng ginagawa mo?

Kapag ba biglaan din syang umalis kasama ng barkada okay lang din ba sa'yo?

Ano kaya ang nararamdaman ng asawa mo habang nagpapaka-ulirang ina/ama sya ay nagagawa mong magpakalasing kasama ng barkada?

Nag-asawa ka upang may kapartner ka sa buhay. Hindi yung partner mo lang sya kung kailan mo lang gusto.

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20 Tips for a Husband ❤️

1. Don't yell at your wife. (Prov. 15:1)

2. Don't use derogatory terms, she may become whatever you tell her. (Genesis 2:19)

3. Never compare your wife to another woman. (2 Cor. 10:12).

4. His marital love, affection, praise are for her alone (Matthew 5:18).

5. Never neglect your sexual intimacy. (1Cor. 7:4-5)

6. Be kind and gentle with her (Ephesians 4:2)

7. Don't keep any secrets from her. Now they are one, is their ideal help (Genesis 2:25)

8. If you have anything to settle, do it in good terms and in the privacy of your room (Matthew 1:19)

9. Be thankful to her, for she is struggling with you, your home, business or ministry (1Thess. 5:18).

10. Give thanks and praise to your meal It's not easy to cook 3 times a day, 365 days a year (Prov. 31:14).

11. Never put your family before her. She is your wife, she is one with you (Genesis 2:24)

12. Intentionally invest in your spiritual growth (Ephesians 5:26)

13. Don't forget to make the Family Altar, pray with it, with your children (James 5: 16)

14. Take leisure time, enjoy each other, play, laugh (Ecl. 9,9)

15. Never use money to manipulate or control her. Everything that's yours is hers She is connected to you by Gods grace
(1 Peter 3, 7)

16. Never speak ill of her to others, you will also be speaking ill of yourself. Be a shield around her. (Ephesians 5: 30)

17. Honor your parents and be kind to your relatives. (Songs 8, 2)

18. Never stop telling her how much u love her Do this everyday of your life. Women never get tired of being loved and hearing it. (Ephesians 5:25)

19. Never make negative comments about her body, that's disgusting. (Ephesians 5:25)

20. And you, grow up, be more like Jesus, for Christ must be your head, there is nothing that gives a wife more security than having by her side someone who loves God. (1 Cor 11:3)

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