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As this Sunday draws to a close remember to be still and check in with yourself. How do you feel? Are your needs met? If not, what do you need to do to fix it? You are in control.

We are happy to have you on this journey with us. And as always stay ‘nôdē!

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Some times we need reminders to prioritize what is important to us... and S*X can for sure be one of those things. Things get busy, and there are a lot of life's little surprises that can get in the way. We have to figure out what s*x is and what we want it to be. so why not choose to make it good...Real Good *wink*. So let this serve as your reminder for the day!⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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Hey ‘nôdēs, ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
Just sharing some wise words from those at .⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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I am a s*xual being, but I am not defined by my s*xuality. My self-love and self-worth come from within, and exist separately yet blissfully in tune with my s*xual expression.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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No one can take my value away from me, or define my worth for me, based on my s*xuality or otherwise.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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I am aligning with my truth and my s*xual essence. I can rely on myself for love and validation, and feel secure knowing I am living my authentic truth.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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Words: adapted from A Slutty Girl’s Manifesto on sluttygirlproblems.com⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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If you need it, let this serve as a reminder today to continue to tap into your inner self, s*xual or otherwise. Figure out who you are, what you love and your own self worth.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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Happy Sunday ‘nôdēs! ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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Hey ‘nôdēs,
Just sharing some wise words from those at .
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I am a s*xual being, but I am not defined by my s*xuality. My self-love and self-worth come from within, and exist separately yet blissfully in tune with my s*xual expression.

No one can take my value away from me, or define my worth for me, based on my s*xuality or otherwise.

I am aligning with my truth and my s*xual essence. I can rely on myself for love and validation, and feel secure knowing I am living my authentic truth.

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Words: adapted from A Slutty Girl’s Manifesto on sluttygirlproblems.com
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If you need it, let this serve as a reminder today to continue to tap into your inner self, s*xual or otherwise. Figure out who you are, what you love and your own self worth.

Happy Sunday ‘nôdēs!

Stimulus vs Stimulate.....why choose, you can sign me up for both. ✅ ‘nôdēs as we roll into into this weekend do what you need to bring yourself a little pleasure...or a lot. It’s up to you 😉😏. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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Sexual Script Theory is the notion that cultural norms provide guidelines for how we engage with s*x. These scripts are typically gender normative (reinforce standards of masculinity and femininity) and can lead to s*xism, and misogyny.

We’re reminding all of our ‘nôdē’s that women are s*xual and sensual beings; that mothers are s*xy as hell; women can be s*xually assertive and initiate s*x; and we do not have an obligation to comply with the needs of others!

   
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It. Is. Friday.
Inhale.
Exhale.
Relax.
And stay node.

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The word ownership is extremely powerful as it conveys that one has control over something. We should not be shamed or ashamed for enjoying pleasure, having s*x, or taking control of our s*xuality. Taking ownership of your s*xuality is truly empowering and it can lead to different healthy and positive experiences.

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While love is in the air, we pause to remind our ‘nôdē’s to practice self-care and love on yourself. A healthy relationship with yourself will lay the groundwork for healthy relationships. A wise person once said, "you can't pour from an empty cup as you cannot give to others what you don't have yourself." While some may misconstrue self-care as selfish, it's FAR from that. Drop your favorite self-care practices below!

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While this is not an exhaustive list of end goals, all of these things lead back to one thing - wellness!  Whether it's mental or emotional wellness, financial wellness, or s*xual wellness, let's prioritize wellness so that we move through life not just surviving but thriving!

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It's important for us to take up space in the arena of s*x and sensuality in a world that has historically over-s*xualized, shamed, and profited from BIPOC. Here at 'nôdē, we are telling the world "Bitch, I'm back and I'm here to stay." We brought our own seats to the table, we are taking up space, and aim to empower others to prioritize their bodies, pleasure, safety, and s*xual health.

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PSA for the day - You cant make everyone happy so don't stress yourself out trying to do so. At the end of the day, guess whose happiness is the most important? It's yours!

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Hey ‘nôdēs...I know they say that size matters, and were not here to argue about that (but feel free to drop your opinions in the comments), but the most important 6 inches is that big, beautiful, throbbing....umm brain 😏. The brain is one muscle that we can all learn to flex more. Research, read and communicate with your partner (or yourself) to discover what brings pleasure. I guess they also say the mind is a terrible things to waste, and to that, we agree. Get in there. Learn something. Try it out. That’s really what it’s all about.

Think and Stay ‘nôdē y’all!

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With Valentine’s Day around the corner we tend to think of our relationship status. Regardless of your status - partner(s) or no partner - remember that you are currently in a relationship with your body. As states, this is the most important relationship you will ever be in. So ‘nôdēs, what are you actively doing to love yourself?

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Every year, we're conflicted during Black History Month as Black History is American History, and the history, contributions, and rich complexity of Black culture and community should not be confined nor only shared during one month out of the year.

Whether you reflect on the history of the nation, the freedoms that are afforded to us by those who fought before us, or spend time celebrating Black joy, 'nôdē 'in-,pūt will reflect on the fact that we can always do better and we can always do more to educate ourselves and work against blatant and systemic racism especially in spaces that talk about s*x and sensuality.

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Every year, we're conflicted during Black History Month as Black History is American History, and the history, contributions, and rich complexity of Black culture and community should not be confined nor only shared during one month out of the year.

Whether you reflect on the history of the nation, the freedoms that are afforded to us by those who fought before us, or spend time celebrating Black joy, 'nôdē 'in-,pūt will reflect on the fact that we can always do better and we can always do more to educate ourselves and work against blatant and systemic racism especially in spaces that talk about s*x and sensuality.

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While many use the beginning of the year to reset, it's important to remember that we have the power as individuals to reset whenever we choose. Give yourself grace and remember that each day is a new day full of opportunity.

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January 2021! Or maybe the 13th month of 2020?!? Either way cheers to the weekend

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Today we lost a legend. Cicely Tyson lived 96 full years of life. And we thank her for giving so much to us. 💜👑

It’s hard to be a woman in today's society. The same person can be too much to one person and not enough for other. So In the illustrious sung by Leana Horne, 'don't bother with people you hate... and live life without care!" (song: The Lady is a Tramp)

You don't owe them anything! So just do you and stay ‘nôdē!
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Hey 'nôdēs,
Did anybody ever tell you that we'd still be playing with toys as adults? Whether your answer is yes or no, let's continue to confront the shame associated with toys and truly learn that self-pleasure is an act of self-love.

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Hey ‘nôdēs!

The world can be so demanding sometimes. You may feel like you have to be the boss chick, the baddie, the nurturing motherly type, the experienced s*xual partner, the funny one, the brainiac, the domestic diva, the career woman, Miss Independent, a little boyfriend dependent, not a gold digger but a goal digger and many other things all at one time. People may try to put you in a box, but at the end of the day you were placed here on this earth to be unapologetically YOU. Disregard what others want you to be and dial into who you want to be. You are beautiful, you are loved, and you have purpose in this world.

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Hey ‘nôdēs!
We have taken the last two days marveling at the glass ceiling that has been shattered above our heads. While justice still needs a seat at multiple tables, it's important to recognize that Kamala Harris, a Black and South Asian woman, has risen higher in the country’s leadership than any woman ever before her. Lets us also acknowledge the other beautiful women that took center stage at the inauguration. Amanda Gorman with her eloquent words lit a spark that shown bright around the world! Dr (yes I said DR for those in the back that weren’t sure) Jill Biden, the first First Lady to continue working to educate Americas youth while in the White House. And Michelle Obama...… I mean do we really need to say more? 💁🏾‍♀️ Ya'll we just witnessed some real hot girl s**t, and we like it!!! Hope you are enjoying this Friday as we slide into the weekend!