Fatal Dates

"We used to worry that our lovers were being unfaithful. Now we worry if they—and we—can feel love at all…"

The show is on pause for now: busy writing FATAL DATING TIPS: A Practical Guide To Finding Real S*x & Love In An Unreal World, forthcoming from Sublation Press in early 2024. Read the introduction here:

Intro: Getting Blown These tips are fatal because they were picked up, in part, from French thinker Jean Baudrillard’s book FATAL STRATEGIES. Fatal strategies are what you use when normal strategies no longer work. It may feel a bit flip and dodgy to combine ‘fatal’ with ‘dating’. To be clear: nothing here is ...

Watch the unedited uncut with Boris Groys here:

Boris Groys UNCUT Here is the entirety of the Fatal Dates interview with Boris Groys.

It was beautiful to talk to Boris Groys:

Boris Groys on Making Yourself Into Art Boris Efimovich Groys is an art critic, media theorist, and philosopher.A global distinguished professor of Russian and Slavic studies at New York University...

Reflecting with Lotte Latham after watching our very spilt & generous date how heternormative is. "To me: perversion & s*x work are two different things, which cross in a Venn diagram," Lotte says, in a frank, challenging, messy lo-res outing.

Is S*x Work Anti-Capitalist? Lotte Latham's recent memoir "Dear Mr. Andrews" is "a millennial’s journey through the precarious landscape of sugar dating in the 21st century. Latham embod...

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cNmxi_o88ds&t=452s&ab_channel=SublationMediawithDouglasLain

Why Women Should Be Consumers in Love Ashley Frawley and Susanna Kleeman go on a Fatal Date. They discuss consumerism, childhood traumas, Marxism, Baudrillard, and how it might be that, though th...

Fascinating to discuss being a degraded capitalistic object in a degraded capitalistic world (via a degraded, unstable internet connection) with author & s*x worker Lotte Latham (her memoir, Dear Mr Andrews, is out now & is great).

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Just had a great date with Ashley Frawley!

Privation • Wanting Everything • Freedom • Success • Masks • The Power Of Not Caring About Men • Real Love • Male Theorists • Or***ms Are Capitalistic • Choice Is Vulgar

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Getting ready for another ...

Just wrapped a great with theory student and independent s*x worker Bella Donatelli, my first female guest. Thank you so much Bella! So much was dished: Objects & Subjects • What Men Want • The Empowerment Of Transactional Relationships • Advice To Younger Women • All P**n Is Revenge P**n • Self-Commodification Under Capitalism + much more. Coming soon...

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A with p**n advocate Jerry Barnett is now live:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ypxelscfbzg&ab_channel=SublationMediawithDouglasLain

P**n & the male psyche • Do men like s*x more than women? • Differences arising from evolutionary pressure • Obscenity • Monkey prostitution • Choosing p**n over s*x • Is p**n liberating? • For whom?
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A Date With a P**nography Advocate Susanna Kleeman goes on a fatal date with Jerry Barnett, author of P**n Panic, to discuss his advocacy for p**n and the male psyche. Do men like s*x more tha...

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A date with the boss.

New with artist Mason Storm is live. Digital virtual tech has prettified the entire world & turned us all into preening, self-created, perfectible works of art. What does that mean for actual art & actual attraction?

A Fatal Date with a Prankster Artist Susanna Kleeman goes on a date with the British artist Mason Storm. Storm is known for provocative works that poke fun at the hypocrisies within modern socie...

Wasn’t sure which look to go for for my date with Jerry Barnett, author of P**n Panic. S*xy Andrea Dworkin? Pia Zadora? Stern Technocrat?
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A still from an upcoming with New York pick up artist and dating coach Eric Disco. This was an absolutely fascinating chat. Coming soon...

New episode is live! Apps and superficial virtual connection get a bad rap, but real raw head-over-heels connection can mess you up for life. Thank you so much to guest Jason Myles for a deep and revelatory chat:

Real Date with A Radical (ft. Jason Myles) Jason Myles from This is Revolution seems to be truly enamored with Susanna Kleeman as they discuss dating apps, serial monogamy, and Jason's history with lo...

New we**am.

Fatal Dates #3: Susanna's date is Draxtor, creative force in the online world Second Life & expert on fakeness, false selves, avatars, digital identities and pixel-based love:

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Fatal Dates #2 is out now! Author and academic Laurent de Sutter chats fatal strategies & the erotic dimension of thought.

The Erotic Dimension of Thinking (ft. Laurent de Sutter) Susanna's date is Laurent de Sutter, the author of more than twenty award-winning books translated into a dozen languages, among which, recently, "After Law"...

First Fatal Date is up! Thanks so much to my guest, 'John From Twitter', for being so honest.

Can We Find Love in Hyperreality? Susanna Kleeman, the author of the novel TWICE, is starting a new podcast and video series called Fatal Dates. It's a show about real connections in an unrea...

Fatal Dates launches today! Here's the link: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6WrmkLC6CsQ&ab_channel=SublationMediawithDouglasLain.

Thank you Sublation Media, Douglas Lain and my guests, especially ‘John From Twitter’, my first date. Hope we are fatal enough for you…