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Case Processing with Doc Hawk LPC
Focused Repetition in Stage 2 Withdrawer Re-engagement
Join the SV Team and James "Doc Hawk" Hawkins as we observe a session with James working with a withdrawer in early stage 2. James will provide moment-by-moment commentary, choice points, and insights during the session.
Participants will learn to recognize how avoidant attachment manifests in relational patterns, including withdrawal, emotional suppression, and avoidance of vulnerability within the couple's interactions.
Learners will explore how past attachment injuries or relational traumas contribute to the development and maintenance of avoidant behaviors, creating barriers to emotional intimacy in couples.
Participants will learn strategies for creating a therapeutic environment in which avoidant partners feel emotionally safe enough to express deeper emotions, fostering connection and trust with their partners.
Learners will be able to help couples reframe avoidant behaviors as protective strategies rooted in attachment needs and work toward transforming these patterns to promote secure, responsive connections between partners.
Link to Register
https://www.successinvulnerability.com/courses/sv-live-with-james-hawkins-repetitioninstage2
George Faller, with another incredible UPDATE!! From the Module 3 training- "Taking Control of Session", here is an update on the T.E.R.R.O.R. acrostic!! Adjusting the last "R" to REFRAME!!
To watch the full Module on working with Escalated Couples, go to our Success In Vulnerability Website link in the comments.
TERROR acrostic update: last R to Reframe From Module 3- Taking Control Of Session UPDATE on acrostic T.E.R.R.O.R.• T: Take Charge of Session• E: Explicitly Explain Intentions / Process• R: Restrain...
If we are not blessed to receive a gaze of love in our vulnerability, we do not develop the neural ability to know how to respond lovingly to anther's vulnerability. This is often the generational legacy of withdrawers! George Faller
Slow focus for the win here.
The cycle hinders our clients' best efforts and the therapeutic process, which frustrates everyone. Dr. Chad Imhoff will share insights from supervision and years of practice to equip participants with the skills and understanding to track and break these chains. CEUs are available upon request and payment.
Objectives
Identify the roles each partner assumes within the negative cycle.
Understand the emotional and relational costs of the pursuer and withdrawer roles.
Explore the implications of not adopting the pursuer or withdrawer roles.
Present alternative strategies for each partner to shift away from their current roles.
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We’re always grateful when we get to share the things we care about! Check out this latest We Heart Therapy Episode where SV Team Members Chad and Angela Imhoff discuss Addiction and Relapse and how it impacts the attachment work you do in EFCT! Thanks for having a us Dr. Belle for having us. 🙌🏻🙌🏻
Relapse & Addiction-Using EFT Emotionally Focused Therapy with The Real Imhoffs Chad & Angela Imhoff Relapse and Addiction Recovery for Therapists | We Heart Therapy with Dr. Belle, PhD, LMFT & Special Guests The Real ImhoffsIn this episode of We Heart Thera...
Shortly after we started SV, a few therapists in Poland who are visionaries in their community reached out to us. They wanted to offer resources that would help their community grow in EFT. We were glad to partner with them! These incredible humans have spent HOURS translating the English version of our Modules into Polish!
They had to read over and understand the transcripts, record themselves doing in the moment translations, load the videos up for us- we then intercepted them, re-edited and re-rendered our videos with picture-in-picture - IN POLISH! These Community Leaders are incredible and we could not be more proud to have SV in Polish!!
Thank You Polish Team for giving your time so that your community could have access to this resource! How fun that George got to do an in person training in a community that already feels like they know Him!
Doc Hawk shares a valuable insight on examining attachment protective behaviors in couples' work.
Our next SV live is open for sign up!
Join Dr. Chad Imhoff on Wednesday, Sept. 25th from 11am-1pm Eastern to learn how to untie couples against their cycle!
Link in the comments! Sign up today.
SV UPDATE!!! Check out this 8 minute video where EFT Trainer George Faller walks you through how to use TEMPO through the EFCT process!
In Module 1: Keeping Your Focus- George taught about affect assembly using the acrostic TEMPO- Trigger. Emotion. Meaning. Protection. Organize. NOW, he makes it even more clear by explaining how to adapt assembly as your couple progresses.
Our goal at SV is to continue to update, modify and bring clarity to your EFT learning journey- and this means that we'll be adding new- relevant information regularly- even to the older modules!
Over the past year we've updated demonstrations, application exercises, self of the therapist segments and more. Check out this video, and head over to our website to see the rest!
Happy learning from the SV Team!
Module 1 Update!! How to use TEMPO throughout the EFCT Process!!
Accessing one's heart and mind is essential to attuning and facilitating the experiential process.
Sign up NOW for our NEXT SV Live. Join EFT Trainer Ryan Rana as he shares how he was trained as a new trainer!! Learn how to grab practical tactics to sorting through the chaos by using the concept of focusing on "The FRAy" - Failed Repair Attempts.
Wednesday, August 28th. 10am-12pm Central. Live online. Link to register is in the comments.
Who doesn't need more PRACTICE with Stage 2??
Join SV Team Manager, Angela Imhoff in our next SV live as she reviews the Nuances of Stage 2 in EFCT!!
Wednesday, July 31st. 10am-12pm (CST)
The wording, the depth, the attunement, the trust in the process; STAGE 2 is HARD Y'ALL! We'll watch clips from live sessions that show, great stage 2, good enough stage 2, and close, but not quite stage 2. You'll even have a chance to practice your wording around Stage 2 Interventions!
Registration now open. Link in the comments!
Incredible NEW Module just released with Special Guest, S*xologist and S*x Therapist, Dr. Laurie Watson,!! You’ll get to hear EFT Trainer George Faller, and his Foreplay Podcast Co-Host Laurie, walk you through the importance of honoring the S*xual Cycle in your couple sessions!
Module 15: The S*xual Cycle- Part 1 NOW AVAILABLE!!
Link in the comments.
Module 15: The S*xual Cycle Join us for lessons on how to apply EFT to the sexual cycle and help couples engage with one another in an physical and emotional way! Check it out!!!
James shares a quick nugget about the importance of unpacking protection.
Doc Hawk LPC The Leading Edge in Emotionally Focused Therapy
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Always great to collaborate with Esther Perel!
The link to register for our next SV live is now open! Sign up to learn about The Tango in STAGE 2! Join EFT Supervisor Dr. Chad Imhoff as he walks you through some of the key differences in the Tango during Stage 2. Wednesday, June 26th, 10am-12pm (CST).
2 NBCC CEs are available for those who attend the live event. Register now! Link in the comments.
In this episode, Shane talks with Dr. James Hawkins about Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) and attachment. James is a Licensed Counsellor, and an ICEEFT-certified trainer, supervisor, and therapist. Hear how success and vulnerability are tied together, how to bring the most important things to the forefront, how love and protection fit together, why validation is so key, and how often he sees a typical client.
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