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12 psychological tricks that will help in communication

If the interlocutor's answer did not suit you - for example, he did not say something, expressed himself unclearly, or lied - you do not need to ask again. Instead, just silently and carefully look into his eyes - this technique simply will not leave him a chance, and he will be forced to continue his thought.

If someone is yelling at you, make an effort and remain completely calm, remaining unperturbed. The first reaction of the screamer is anger, which your behavior will only provoke, but it will subside very quickly, and reaction number two will begin - guilt for your defiant and aggressive behavior. Most likely, it is the screaming one who will ask for forgiveness.

If you know that you will hear criticism from a person (they will make comments or scold), take courage and try to sit or stand next to him - in this case, he will soften, and the negative will come from him many times less than if you were on distance.

Eating in a person is associated with calmness and security, because we do it most often at home, in our native walls. That is why, if you are very worried, chew gum: this will deceive the brain, creating the impression of what you are eating, which means it will make you feel more confident and calm.

An old and tried and true method used by many students in the exam is to imagine that the teacher is your good and close friend, then it will be much easier to answer, and you will feel calmer. This technique works in other situations as well. For example, it can be used before an important interview.

If everyone in the company starts laughing at once, then everyone, at the level of instinct, looks at the one who is most attractive to him, with whom he would like to become closer. Therefore, catch glances after a successful joke - you will learn a lot of new things.

When meeting a person, express a little more joy in his attitude: for example, smile sincerely or try to pronounce his name softly and warmly, then over time you will begin to relate to him much better, and the joy of meeting will be sincere.

If you want to get the attention of someone you like, stare at an object directly behind their shoulders. As soon as you realize that you have caught the eye of the object of sympathy on yourself, quickly look into his eyes and smile a little - it works flawlessly.

In fact, we can control our stress: when you are very worried, feel how you began to breathe deeper, how your heart began to beat faster, and try to force yourself to breathe more calmly and balance the beat. We really can do it.

To win over a person at the first meeting and get his sympathy, simply determine his eye color at the time of meeting: eye contact is conducive to you.

When setting any requirements or conditions, initially raise the bar. Most likely, the person will not agree to this and refuse. But on the other hand, he will 100% agree to the real conditions that you offer later: people tend to give you less if they denied you something more before that.

People are drawn to those who are confident in themselves and their actions, so just show that you know exactly what you're talking about (even if you don't really).

There are likes and dislikes.

They call their loved ones every day without reminders, ask about health and mood, give flowers with or without a reason, circle on their hands at a meeting and give warm mittens when you constantly forget them at home on cold days.

With the unloved speak stiffly. Every word spoken out of place causes a storm of irritation. They are remembered when they are bored, have nothing to do, have not had s*x for a long time. You don't have to be nice to them when you're not in the mood. For them, there are no holidays and reasons to please something. With them, you can do everything that you do not need to do in principle.

How are you around someone? What do you feel after? Happiness or emptiness?

Choose what you see for yourself - prosperity and harmony or despondency and uselessness. But the logic itself suggests: leave only those who love nearby. Exclusively. Send the rest to destroy someone else's garden. We need to bloom!

Love it...

1. Loving is not stopping you from growing.
A lover won't offer you a piece of cake if you're on a diet. Just as he will not require you to comply with his picture of the world: do not drink if he decided not to drink, and live the way he wants.

2. To love is not to play mind games.
The lover does not "blame" you or manipulate you. He doesn't say, "It didn't happen," if you clearly saw that, yes, it did. He doesn't call you crazy if you refuse to go along with his lies.

3. To love is not to fight.
The lover does not back up his arguments with personal attacks. He doesn't hit in the gut. Does not step on your throat and does not lead you to death. He is looking for a solution and is ready to compromise. He does not seek victory at any cost.

4. To love is not to be selfish.
A lover is able to empathize and sympathize. He washes to reach out and lend a shoulder.

5. To love is to respect.
The lover respects your boundaries, respects your time, respects your ideas, respects your emotions, respects you.

3 prerequisites for those who strive for financial prosperity.

1. Strive for career growth.

Be realistic about your prospects for your current job. Are there opportunities for your professional and career growth? If there are none, then it's time to update your resume and start actively looking for a new employer (or learning a new profession).

2. Treat money like an entrepreneur, not a consumer.

Make your money "work" for you and stop "dancing to their tune". Teach yourself financial literacy: to do this, read at least one book on personal finance management and investment in the very near future.

Get used to living "within your means": do not spend the money you earn on impressing others.

3. Don't stop there.

Make a firm decision to "not relax" until your finances are in order.

We don't even think
How often any solvable situations, problems equate to the end of the world.
Thus, just a ton of negative thoughts visit our head every day. Someone is unhappy that they cannot get a certain job or get a certain position, and as if they do not consider themselves alive until that moment. Someone does not live because of debt holes. Someone does not live without a loved one. Etc. And every day, regardless of the situation or problem, we spin these negative thoughts in our head. Thus, we attract more problems into our lives.

You need to watch your thoughts as well as what you say.
We need to change our attitude towards the problem. After all, if a situation or a problem has a way out, no matter what OH, TOT that does not suit you or suits you. If there is a way out - it's not a problem. But only minor difficulties. And even more so, this is not a reason for depression, a constantly loaded head, etc.

Why get upset at all and think about what is being decided?

You just need to decide as far as possible and that's it. But at the same time continue to live your life, and not your difficulties.
Every day, choose positive thoughts that cheer you up, make you smile, make plans and set goals no matter what the difficulties. As soon as you manage to switch negative thoughts to positive ones, life will become better and easier every day. You start to feel free no matter what.

THERE IS NO SECOND YOU ON EARTH
The best thing to do is to make yourself beautiful inside and out. Not like someone else, not like someone else, but just like you. Even the same looks different on everyone. Therefore, there is nothing like that if you liked someone and you will do it too. If it's something cool, interesting, developing, transforming. Do it too. In any case, it will be different for you, you will get into a rut and later you will already do what you yourself wanted.

You are beautiful and no difficulties should turn you into gloomy unkempt. But do not scold and do not ridicule yourself for sadness or sadness. If you want to be sad, give yourself two, three, four days and noah. But as soon as the set days pass. I got up, smiled and went to turn into a princess, work and develop. A girl shouldn't be around a man who doesn't have time for her.

A girl cannot be near a man who is not in his field of vision. A girl cannot be emotionally balanced if she does not understand who she is for a man. A girl cannot feel confident in her feminine energy if she does not feel what she means to a man. And when a man constantly refers to some kind of employment, some issues related to work, he is a workaholic, important projects or something else, and he disappears from your field. It only says that he doesn't need you. And no more explanation is needed.
In the end, you will still end up with someone who will do everything for you when he is not even asked. With someone who will first think about your convenience, and then about their own. With someone who will worry about whether you eat normally and whether you took those warm clothes, and then scold you that you dressed too lightly. And you will love him in return and share your whole life with him.
Because love is not about pain at all. Love is about real happiness.

Love and take care of yourself.
Take care of yourself. Enjoy yourself. Life will love you back 100%.