EveAmara

The sorrow between a mother and father who have lost their baby may look different. She may even desire him to grieve similarly.

Often the loss of a baby is a different experience for both as she was intimately connected with the development of their baby. She also felt the physical loss as her body adjusted to no longer being pregnant.

So, when my husband asked me to make him a wallet card with Amara’s prints, I was surprised and happy that he still has her in his heart. Now when he misses her he can touch her prints, even when he’s away from home.

I thought others might find comfort in it too so it’s available on our Etsy shop. Just drop a comment with “card” below and I’ll send you a direct link to the listing.
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Sending light and love,
Amara’s mommy

When I get this question in my DM, here are some questions that come to mind. Every situation will be different but I hope they can be beneficial to you.

What would you add to the list that can help another mother?

An incompetent cervix does not define me. To ensure the best outcome for both myself and my baby, I embrace proactive measures and confidently seek answers, no matter how 'simple' they may seem.

Say hello to Owen 😊
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36 weeks: Ditched the Stitch!
Can you believe this piece of material, coupled with various other precautions, has played a pivotal role in extending my pregnancy journey?

While I’m a bit sad my pregnancy is coming to an end, there’s also joy. Navigating through a 9 month period with an incompetent cervix has been an overwhelming experience, even for a second timer.

According to my drs, I am at a 2cm dilation and 20% effacement—remarkably similar to my condition when I underwent the cerclage procedure at 12 weeks. The stitch has fulfilled its purpose.

I’m curious to learn about your own experiences when the stitch was removed. Feel free to share in the comments below or drop me a direct message!

My child-
You are unforgettable,
Irreplaceable, wanted,
Missed…

And still loved 🤍

May this sticker be a gentle companion on your healing path, a visual representation of the love that remains, and a testament to the profound impact your baby had on your life.

Now available in on Etsy shop:

https://www.etsy.com/shop/EveAmara

22 weekers can survive and thrive. Swipe left.

Do you have a 22 weeker? Share below!

After you lose a loved one especially your own child, you often wonder how they’re doing in the afterlife, if they see or hear you.

I used to wonder and pray every night for my girl to come into my dreams. Now I’m more at peace.

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Arriving 3.20 🗓️

A combination of two of our most loved items on a ss tumbler!

If you’re pregnant with a cerclage you know exactly what this means. Should I make this into a shirt? 🤣

An individual’s situation will vary but you may be told to avoid 🛑 the following with an incompetent cervix:

👉🏼avoid pools/hot tubs
👉🏼avoid strenuous exercise
👉🏼avoid inserting anything in the va**na

Things you should do👍:

👉🏼drink lots of water!
👉🏼keep your area clean (cleaner than usual anyway)
👉🏼take it easy
👉🏼go to antenatal checkups

Note: I am not a health professional so please consult your doctor for any concerns.

❔ how severe was/is your cervix in your pregnancy and what methods did you think helped?

I just want to be sensitive to anyone who may be struggling with infertility, had a recent baby loss and to anyone else in between.

I do want to celebrate that I am expecting my double rainbow! Though I am extremely happy and grateful for this gift I am also terrified of my water bag rupturing early again (also known as pprom).

I will be getting a cerclage placed this Friday which is to prolong my pregnancy. I will also be taking other precautions that go in hand with someone who has an insufficient cervix.

The procedure is not 100% but I am positive it will go well considering it was successful with my last pregnancy. The only difference this time around is that my drs aren’t recommending progesterone.

I hope this post can offer some sign of positivity who also experienced a loss due to pprom. I know nothing is a guarantee but you can get pregnant again and you can make it to full term 🤍

Today marks three years since Amara’s last breath on earth. I’m always a little sadder this time of the year. I seem to relive what happened because it makes me feel closer to her physically even if it makes me sad.

In life you don’t ever expect your child to go before you, let alone set aside money for his/her funeral. When it came down to funeral expenses thankfully, we were able to take out a small loan from our 401k. Donations from families and friends also helped tremendously. I realize that other loss parents may not be as lucky, I wanted to help in any way possible.

I started EveAmara in memory of my sweet Amara with the focus of contributing a portion of the proceeds to loss support groups and other loss related nonprofits.

Every year on Amara’s birth date anniversary, I gift these proceeds to an organization that needs the support. Other contributions are made to those who I meet along the way who are also impacting the loss community.

I want to give a BIG thank you to all my supporters whether you’ve purchased something from the shop, shared and liked my posts or have messaged me with their stories and words of encouragement. I truly appreciate every one of you. 🤍

Because of you, EveAmara has been able to gift over $700 in monetary and gift donations from 2/2022 to 2/2023. This amount will only continue to grow with your help.

Though Amara may not be here physically she remains a constant in my life. I am so grateful to be her mother.

A customer said to me “your service is wonderful. You are helping every angel mama honor her baby’s memory”. 😭😭

I never thought of it that way; the helping part. I know that my keepsakes are to help others commemorate their loss but never did I think I was helping them help honor their baby. Am I making sense?

This comment made my day and only shows how much others love their angel babies and how much keepsakes are needed.

On every single personalization piece, I work with you until you 🤍 it.

These ornaments are sold out however many other keepsakes are available on my EveAmara Etsy shop.

Wishing you comfort and the support of friends and family this holiday 🤍

We should be trimming the 🌲 with our child. Instead we are putting up keepsakes of them on the tree. Just forever more years to go 🤍

I’m offering these personalized “Sleep in heavenly peace” angel wing with heart ornaments for the season only. Visit EveAmara’s Etsy shop to order for your angel. See b i o link.

I only thought it happened to “other people”. Never thought I’d be part of the statistic, but here I am…

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Even if for only 5 months pregnant and a few hours alive with us, I'm forever grateful. I experienced your growth in utero, heard you cry, felt your button nose against my lips, baptized you, and got to know a love so great not even heaven and earth can separate us.

I find myself speaking of Amara in the present tense and it’s because she continues to exist within me.

She’s in everything that I do and I see her features in her siblings. She may no longer physically be here, but her soul shines bright and is very much alive.

She’ll never be a thing of the past, only the present and future just like her older brother and younger sister ❤️

Like and share if you do the same with your baby gone too soon.

In honor of Pregnancy & Infant Loss Awareness Month, I am giving away one of our new Butterfly feet necklaces engraved with your baby's name and footprint.
All I ask in return is for an honest product review!

Here's how to enter:
1) Following us on IG
2) Like this post
3) Comment your baby's name
4) Share this post for an 2 extra points!

Winner will randomly be chosen 10/7 and announced at 12pm ET.

Giveaway open to US residents only.
No purchase necessary to enter.

This promotion is in no way sponsored, endorsed or administered by, or associated with Instagram.

There will be another giveaway towards the end of October for an item not listed in the shop yet! Stay tuned!

🤍New- free digital freebies on EveAmara.com

I noticed some mothers’ babies weren’t given birth certificates due to being stillborn or miscarried. I’m so sorry. Every baby’s life should be acknowledged.

I created a Certificate of Life in three different color pallets where you can fill in yourself after printing. It’s a pdf file so you also have the option of typing in the information if you have Adobe.

They’re offered in 8.5” x 11” size so you can easily print from home. If not, Staples and FedEx offer standard printing for less than $1.

Link in bio

Our brave mama design is now available on a sleep n play in our Etsy shop!
Perfect for the cooler days ahead. It comes with mitten cuffs to prevent your little one from scratches.

…because your journey deserves acknowledgment of how frightened you were yet you fought your way through!

Planted on Earth 🌎 Blooming in Heaven hoodie now available on EveAmara.com and our Etsy shop!

When your own child passes, you do all you can to keep their memory alive.

That is why I created this sweater personalizable with your angel baby’s name(s) and birth month flower.

Available in rose and misty blue. Which color is your favorite?

Pprom: Preterm Premature Rupture of Membranes is when your amniotic sac breaks or leaks before labor begins and before 37 weeks gestation.

Most people have never heard of this medical term, including myself before it happened to me.

Pprom may never happen to you but in case it does, this regimen provided by can help any prospective or pregnant women after a rupture.

It is not be be substituted for medical advice. From a patient perspective, I remember being in that hospital bed with little to no information on what I should do. The doctors weren’t very positive on the outcome yet they didn’t do much to help change it either.

Have you pprom’d? What did you do that helped prolonged your pregnancy? Please share below, it can help another mother 🤍

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Amara would be 2 years old. How old would your baby(ies) be?

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The other weekend, my husband and I had his almost 2 year old nephew with us in the car along with my 3 yr old and 1 yr old. They were all in their car seats, chilln and behaving so well.

Out of the blue hubby emotionally said to me, “this is what our family would look like if Amara was here”.

We had our moment of silence, tears rolled down our faces while driving to our final destination.

I hate this gaping hole in my heart of not having our sweet baby girl. I can never and will never forget her.

Small things continue to trigger us and I’m ok with that. I love that even in random moments of life, she is still brought up between us. Amara was never a thing or a person in the past. She’s very much alive in our hearts currently and in our future.

Free for this month of July only! I have teamed up with an artist to create these beautiful memorial cards or for you. Only available in size 5x7 and in colors blue or pink.

To get your freebie, hop onto EveAmara.com and click on digital freebies on the top bar or click on the banner.

Add to cart.

Under “gift message” type in baby’s name and date(s)

You will check out like normal but you won’t have to pay for anything. Don’t forget to include your email so I know where to send the image to. Please limit to 2 per person.

Your image will be sent to you within 2 business days or sooner.

Why a month for bereaved parents?
Because long after our child’s death, we still desire to talk about them.

Our children wasn’t a thing of the past. Their memory continues to live within us and we want to share them without feeling pressured into leaving them in the past.

has a beautifully written article by Caila Smith on the importance of advocating and residing awareness if one’s life after the loss of a child. Link is in my bio for the read!

Tomorrow‼️ I’ll be announcing a new digital freebie for the month of July in honor of Bereaved Parents Awareness month. I’ve teamed up with a talented artist for this, I hope you’ll like it!

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EveAmara updated their business hours.

I will never forget such harrowing words from the neonatologist when my water broke unexpectedly at 22 weeks. I got an infection and had to be induced otherwise I could have gotten sepsis and die.

Every doctor who came by told me they would not intervene if I had to deliver my daughter early. “22 weekers are not viable and if she lived, she would have no quality of life” is what they all said. There was no option of saving us both. I felt like I was living in a developing country.

I get it, tell me the worst case scenario but also give me a damn option. I would rather have false hope than no hope at all. There was a childrens hospital down the road that has saved a 22 weeker. Send me there! (I only found out about this afterwards).

My daughter had a heartbeat, she cried, she breathed, her tiny legs even moved yet the drs I saw that day wouldn’t help her. She didn’t get a chance, I didn’t even get an option.

I should have left but I didn’t know how to advocate for my daughter.

What’s so sad is that many before me and unfortunately more after will go through this unlucky fate.

Through I have learned that there are hospitals and doctors who believe 22 weekers are indeed viable and can thrive with intervention.

If you’ve experienced pprom, contact your doctors immediately. Also contact the ladies at if you’re having difficulties from the hospital to help save your baby.

And for anyone who disagrees with intervention at 22 weeks, you can keep your opinion because this post isn’t for you.

Have you experienced a Preterm Premature Rupture of the Membrane? Share below, it can help another mother.

Mommy’s little helper.
My apologies if your packaging paper arrives a little wrinkled! 🤣

I’m sorry it only took a year to get this out! I wanted to make sure it was perfect for honoring your son’s loss.

As much as I get mothers purchasing angel mama shirts for themselves, I also get a lot of grandmothers too!!…for their daughter or son who lost a baby. It breaks my heart because their child is in so much pain and all they want to do is comfort them 🤍

I love this shirt because you have the option to personalize it with your baby’s constellation zodiac. ⭐️

Honor your son, grandson, or nephew. Now available on eveamara.com