Mulungi fertility support group.
A problem shared is half way solved. At Mulungi we talk about infertility and help one another to overcome it.
All great women in the Bible never had a an easy past. Check our Sarah, Hanah, Esther,Deborah etc your current situation could be preparing you for greatness.
One day your insults will become testimonies. Simply type Amen.
To all women out there that struggling to concieve I know it's tough but find solace in your God for he has a perfect plan for you. I can say this in faith after my long wait of nine years ended in Glory. People will talk what they know and what they don't know about you but your reaction is most important. Look at them and smile leave the battle to God.
5 THINGS YOU SHOULDN'T ASK PEOPLE MORE SO IF YOU FEAR TO LOOSE THEM.
1. Their age
2.Why they aren't married.
3.When they are marrying.
4.When they are having babies.
5. How much they earn.
WHY YOU SHOULDN'T ASK.
About their age, many people do not look their age! Some look younger and others look older than their age. Secondly, some people's thinking and behavior does not correspond with their age which makes your question offensive.
Why they aren't married yet, there so many reasons why people take long to marry some are social, spiritual, emotional, financial and some are biological. What makes you think people are comfortable sharing with you? So don't ask. Let them be.
When they are marrying? Seriously? Are they getting expired? Are they dating so many people? Are you going to finance their wedding? Are you the chairperson Mother's/Father's union? People marry when they want and when they are ready. Again give them a break.
When are you having babies? !, This is one of those wrong questions to ask especially to a woman. What if they cannot bear children biologically? What if they lost their uterus? What if God hasn't said yes to their prayers? Wait patiently, if they want to discuss with you they will come to you. Mind your own business.
Finally, don't ask people how much they earn! Many people live way above or way below their income which makes your question funny. And many don't wish to share their incomes so mantain social distance by living your life and when it comes to other people's lives always lie low like an envelope.
Trying for a baby is like treating measles, you will try out everything as long as it does not contradict with your personal values. However you will need to be calm and patient with others but most importantly yourself. Follow this group for more and invite others to like it especially those with fertility challenges.
Inability to conceive is every woman's night mare and it's one thing that causes inner pain that nobody can feel for you not even your own mother! Having gone through it, I chose to create a platform for women going through it and giving them courage and possible solutions.