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“...According to neuroscientists all midlife brains undergo a remodel, so it’s no surprise they deal with things differently. The weight of these multiplying roles and changes in brain function mean we need to start taking more care of ourselves as we age and how we live day to day has to change.” More from The Telegraph: https://bit.ly/3JJm1zD

“...A call came in from a restricted number and I answered, hoping it was one of the many investors who hadn’t gotten back to me, but it was the organizer of an event called FailCon (Failure Conference) telling me I had been nominated twice to speak. I was hesitant, but when she mentioned there would be investors in the audience, I accepted the keynote speaker slot immediately. There were investors in the audience, but there was also a New York Times reporter. Fast forward to my surprise when I saw my wife holding the latest issue of the Times with a full-length article on failure, featuring me…” Become backable with Suneel Gupta: https://bit.ly/3INtBbv

It’s almost May, let the light in…or get outside. Some of our favorite ways to play in the sunshine like a grown-up:

· a scavenger hunt
· nature walk
· food or wine tour
· camping
· outdoor yoga

What are yours? Tell us in the comments.

A tote that's all that and a bag of...whatever you own. We like to think Doc left a mark on his way to bring Marty back to the right time and place. Available at The Reverse: https://bit.ly/3XlMTvz

“Following the launch of its first higher-end Anthology capsule collection in September 2023, specifically targeting midlife women, JD Williams has now launched a follow up collection for SS24 – ‘in response to demand for the debut line’...” By midlife, for midlife: https://bit.ly/49DJYCY

“...What we’ve been through affects how we feel in our bodies, without a doubt. And for those with percolating mental health challenges pre-pandemic, they’re now fully visible and undeniable. As human beings, we tend to gravitate toward quick fixes that we know aren’t healthy, but help numb discomfort—emotional eating, alcohol use, smoking marijuana—and then lose ourselves in a shame spiral…isn’t it better to have problems you can solve than avoid them until they’re harder to fix?” More wisdom from Dr. Lucy McBride: https://bit.ly/4aqOtC2

“Like” this post if you remember how to work one of these.

Everybody wants to rule the world—or at least travel it. Here's a crewneck that captures all the nostalgic wanderlust of our coming-of-age. Available at The Reverse: https://bit.ly/43L0mPz

Jools Oliver has revealed she is embarking on a new career as she approaches her 50th birthday. The model, 49, who is married to celebrity chef Jamie Oliver, with whom she shares five children: Poppy, Daisy, Petal, Buddy and River, has shared her plans to switch careers and is retraining to become a midwife: https://bit.ly/3PBJcPC

“...Fast forward 20-something years, when I created a podcast called Gen X Amplified, which embraced my generation for different reasons. Now we’re in our middle age. We're the creators of all these things. We're leaders. And we're going through this malaise, trying to figure out how do I pivot or what do I do? I always remind people: Connect the dots. Take some time to unpack and reflect those things that energized you, and you'd be amazed how all the dots in your past will lead you to your purpose…”

Mid-career mastery with Adrion Porter: https://bit.ly/3SrDsIl

Spotted in Verse yellow? This departure lounge, now boarding mod style and grown-ups writing their next verse. Grab your seat: https://bit.ly/3yNOQmJ

Say Ciao to this print moment from the shop they called "a daytime Studio 54" (we can just see it tossed around Andy's neck). Shop it at the ReVerse: https://bit.ly/3qpEYAH

“...According to the Bureau of Labor Statistics, the pandemic saw an entrepreneurship boom and more and more women in midlife are part of this cohort. Another survey found that Gen X (those between the ages of 44 to 59) make up 69% of women business owners in 2023...” Meet 6 women on what they learned about starting a business in midlife: https://bit.ly/3Tmbnmu

We’re grown-ups, so of course we’re not going to let clickbait, propaganda, poor quality journalism or misleading headlines ruin our day (or decision-making). Fake news? Couldn’t be on our devices. Calmer news stories: https://bit.ly/3N61lER

“...I approach entertaining people as a holistic experience. I think hard about how I can deliver a lifestyle—meaning I am delighting all your senses. Flavors are meant to be layered like clothing; they have to have balance…” More wisdom du jour from Chef David Welch: https://bit.ly/41yw4PJ

“Spring is far more than just a changing of the seasons; it’s a rebirth of the spirit.” -Toni Sorenson

I think we're learning Japanese—or at least leaning hard into this Made in Japan moment from a 20th century sportswear legend. Available at The Reverse: https://bit.ly/3Ju6UdD

“...Instead of feeling helpless, you can seize the opportunity to make a difference during the time that you’re here, even if you won’t be able to witness the fruits of your labours. You can reflect on all the ways your life mattered and will continue to matter. Think ripples, not waves…”

More from Psychology Today: https://bit.ly/3wym4ef

Justine Triet is a French film director, screenwriter, and editor. In 2023, Triet won the Palme d'Or at the 76th Cannes Film Festival for the courtroom thriller Anatomy of a Fall, becoming the third female director to win the award. Watch her acceptance speech: https://bit.ly/496fARr

Spring break but make it “grown up”. Here are our top 3️⃣ tips for drama-free and joy-filled travel: 1. Meticulous planning ensures seamless experiences. Spare no expense when it comes to making things easier. Book that airport shuttle instead of grabbing an Uber, request late checkout ahead of time and opt for extra legroom on long flights. 2. You’re a grown-up so choose sophisticated accommodations to elevate your stay. 3. Curate activities tailored for adults, from wine tasting to cultural exploration and don’t forget to try things you might not at home. Adventure is how next verses are written, after all.

Have more travel tips for grown-ups? Drop them in the comments.

This one had us at 'hey.' Whether you use it to stash your cash or tote your travel essentials, it's a clutch accessory with a nod to 90s cool. Available at The ReVerse: https://bit.ly/3VzIsMJ

“...In the context of the workplace, high EQ leaders are adept at creating an atmosphere that fosters performance optimization, talent retention, and effective conflict resolution. They understand that criticism, when navigated with emotional intelligence, can serve as a potent tool for personal and professional growth rather than a blow to self-esteem…” For more reasons: https://bit.ly/49k2mRJ

“I have always loved music—more particularly, the way it makes me and others feel. I was that friend—the one always making mixtapes for everyone. In college, I was a DJ for the school’s radio station—it was just me in a basement, playing music, talking to myself and telling jokes. Even then, I went by Mad Marj. I definitely did not have a clear vision of what my career would be, but I never would have said DJ. DJ was a fun hobby—not something that sounded realistic or accomplished…”

Spinning the truth with DJ Mad Marj : https://bit.ly/3Si2cCC

“...Economist Noreena Hertz points out in The Lonely Century various societal and cultural changes are linked to these statistics: the rise of social media that diminishes our number of face-to-face interactions, the rise of individualism over profound connections with those around us, remote work, changes to the family structure, geographic dispersion, the increase in the number of people who live on their own, lack of commitment to community activities, and the loss of social ritual…”

More on loneliness at midlife: https://bit.ly/42zrUI9

Your late winter reminder that midlife doesn’t have to sound boring. The playlist for your next verse is a click away: https://spoti.fi/3OzLTjY

“...I was home full-time with my three- and one-year-old daughters, and I knew that I needed to go back to work. I started interviewing for jobs, but faced the dilemma so many women have: Would I be making enough to cover full-time childcare, and would it be worth it? The short answer is that when I started crunching numbers, I figured out that I could probably make just as much by creating an online store where I could sell gifts made by me….” Upside potential and learning to pivot with Marion Greely, founder of Cece DuPraz: https://bit.ly/3xrFHBB

“When I was young, there were lots of things I wanted to be when I grew up, none of which I became. I wanted to be an actor. I wanted to be a fashion designer and have my own brand. All of these are sort of just fantasy things of mine. Things have happened that are similar, but much more in a non-linear trajectory.” A sartorial sign of the times with Cameron Silver: https://bit.ly/3zHcMtJ

This is a valentine to our personal style, Thanks for always bringing out the best in us throughout every chapter and verse of life. (Yes, even in those especially trendy moments that didn’t quite stand the test of time like we thought they would.) Love you, mean it.

“...We live in a society that celebrates youth, yet celebrates wisdom with age, but the transition from one to the other gets faded in the background...” Read the full story on Psychology Today: https://bit.ly/47YUjZ0

The party line has spoken: No Benetton-era wardrobe could possibly be complete without a rugby stripe. This one gives the nod without the collar, in slouchy sweatshirt form: https://bit.ly/3OuBndZ