MIND Design by Tea Motti

Someone looking for love?
Today we hear a lot of people talking about self love. Then some correct themselves and say: "a HEALTHY love for myself" (like love in general is unhealthy). It is funny to me how we can perceive love as something negative - defined as narcissism, egotism or possessiveness (even though those forms of lack have nothing to do with love). So why do we experience the lack of love at some point?

In NLP and psychotherapy we say that we perceive from others what we lack. When someone falls in love with us, we like it because we lack love for ourselves. So we work on getting rid of the lack by finding love within ourselves. It is sort of a common knowledge that we first have to love ourselves in order to enjoy a loving relationship. However, in my opinion, we can work all our lives to find love for ourselves and not really find it. The question is: what are we really searching for? What is love?

I recently read an interesting thought about love by a very wise person: "If you want to find love in another person and then after a while you feel deluded by the love of this same person, it is because the kind of love we strive for is divine, not human. It is found in something greater then us."

For me this means that the true love is everywhere - it is not a focused energy. It is not just in one person or in one tree, or... It is all of it together. It is in our collective consciousness, in everything that exists (good AND bad) and above. Try loving all of that (if you can even imagine it) and that's when you will find the true love you are looking for. Love is the highest emotional energy for a very good reason and we can not find its perfect counterpart in focusing on just one or a few things - that is just a possession.

We are here to be free, to learn and to experience. We are here to experience love that is everywhere and all the time. We are not here to try capturing it just for us.

Love is a free bird in the sky. If you try to catch it - it will fly away. Even if you do catch it, you won't really appreciate the love with the broken wings or the love in a cage. There is not much you can do about love but to FLY with it.

🍀 It is up to you. Everything. Don't give your power to others. Use it wisely. Your life is here and now. Here and now is where you can choose what will happen next. At any point in time, you are in control. Your mind is in control. Sculpt your mind for best results!

With love,
Tea ❤️

👉HOW THE RETREAT IS ORGANIZED

🍀The entire program of our BREAK-TRUE RETREAT, from the moment you settle in to the final goodbye, is filled with carefully selected experiences and techniques that will support your change on all levels – cognitive, emotional, spiritual, and physical.

🍃In group trainings, we will use indispensable techniques of neurolinguistic programming, soul-work, timeline and cognitive-behavioral therapy. All these group techniques are extremely powerful because they result in deep change on all neurological levels, so the changes are long-term and awareness-raising. In addition to therapy practices, we also use healing techniques of sacred geometry that will make changes on your spiritual level as well.

👊I have prepared 6 different group trainings, each dealing with a specific pattern that needs to be changed, resolved or replaced with a new, supportive pattern. You can then use the learned techniques privately for yourself even after the RETREAT ends.
Group coaching will last about 3 hours every day. It is highly interactive, simple and fun. No level of knowledge in psychotherapy and coaching is required, only the willingness to change.

❤️The afternoon is reserved for relaxation, research, massage, and private coaching with certified NLP Coach Tea Motti. You will have four one-on-one coaching sessions to personally clarify and resolve the details of your current struggle. The first and last one-on-one sessions with Tea Motti will be scheduled online before and after the RETREAT. These private sessions are designed to help you personally overcome and release whatever has been blocking you until now. We will instill inspiration, fulfillment, joy, and love at every level of your being with our powerful source of knowledge. For more information on private coaching, visit www.teamotti.com.

🍃The most important lesson I learned in my life is that you cannot do everything yourself, especially when you want to make a long-lasting change, that has to be created from within. It takes a team to unlock the deepest parts of your mind and re-design strategies that are not serving you anymore.

👊I started out as an Architect & Interior Designer, but my life wasn't at all what I wished for. I was struggling to make sense out of what I was doing and how my life turned out to be – I wasn't inspired, I was in constant stress and I had very little time for myself, let alone for anyone else. And even though I thought that's what life should be like because everybody I knew was living a similar reality, I decided to make a different design of my life. So I sat down and worked really hard to create a completely different blueprint – the blueprint of my life. What happened next was a pure miracle that changed my life around. I soon realized that I was designing wrong interiors.

❤️I'm on a mission to help as many people as I can to create a meaningful, successful and impactful life. It sometimes seems to people that we live in a system that holds our hands tight and eyes blinded... We might not see it because we are so used to living like that. However, a part of us knows we can lead a much more meaningful life. This is the part I want to talk to, and this is the part that will help you design the change you want to see in your life. I help individuals, groups, businesses & organizations that are ready to go on another level and create a successful lead.

🌼Today I lead group trainings & do private coaching with my clients, I am the author of seven online courses on the topic of NLP and change, teach, lead the NLP Retreat for women, etc. In short - I do what I truly love - I help others and myself to grow and to understand that life can be designed in a more beautiful way.

👍If you have anv questions for me, don't hesitate to talk to me. You can choose how you would like to communicate with me: croatian, english, italian or german :)

Talk to you soon ❤️

Once upon a time there was a young farmer who once lived in the same village. The farmer, too, had struggled with impatience. He would plant seeds in the morning and impatiently await their growth by the afternoon. When the crops didn't yield results as quickly as he desired, he would grow frustrated and try to force the plants to grow faster.

One day, the farmer came across a wise elder who advised him, "My young friend, nature has its own rhythm, and everything happens in its time. Be patient and nurture your crops with care. With time and dedication, they will flourish and bear fruit.

The farmer heeded the elder's advice and learned to be patient. He watered the seeds, tended to the soil, and let nature take its course. In time, his farm blossomed with abundant crops, and he felt a deep sense of fulfillment.

🍀A LITTLE BIT ABOUT WHAT I DO
For a long time, I was unhappy with the path my life took: I didn't see myself in the career I studied for, I didn't know what I actually wanted to do, I wasn’t making enough money nor had time for myself, and I was far from my ideal figure. What had kept me in the vicious circle of "non-change" for so long was my positive thinking and believing that tomorrow was a new day and that this time I would be able to change everything. But those thoughts ebbed and flowed so many times that the only thing that remained in the end was the belief: "I’m never going to be able to do this."

🌱After I took my life into my own hands, things started to happen and little by little I brought faith, fulfillment, and joy back to my life. The very realization that such a change is possible and that there are wonderful people who will support you along the way completely changed my life. Soon I myself became a certified NLP Trainer & Coach and a Vibralite Healer, and now it's my turn to help and support others.

🌾I'm sure you too are doing the best you can at this moment, with whatever problem you're facing, and kudos to you for that. I know it's not easy, because most of the time it’s difficult to come up with new solutions on our own. Just like Henry Ford said long ago: "If you always do what you’ve always done, you'll always get what you always got.”

✨This is precisely where your life path and mine meet, as I have designed a program of profound change and support for anyone who feels they are not living the life they want. The purpose of the program is to solve the outdated patterns that limit you from moving forward, then clean and pave the way to the goal, incorporate all the necessary resources that will motivate and encourage you to achieve that goal through seven days of relaxation and fun. I called the program “BREAK-TRUE” because my goal is to help you BREAK through to the TRUE you. That's the only way you can attract everything that will ultimately make your life more fulfilling and happy.

🍀THIS RETREAT IS ONLY THE BEGINNING
🌾At the end of our seven-day BREAK-TRUE RETREAT, there may be some tears, but then you move on to new victories. You will feel full of energy, full of faith in yourself, determined because you clearly know what you want, motivated to take the necessary steps, and full of knowledge on how to take those steps. You will feel fulfilled and richer by one magical experience that will stay with you every step of the way.

🍃What exactly happens after you have enjoyed it for seven days is impossible to say. The experience is different for each individual. Some meet important people, some discover that their habits have changed, some find themselves in the right place at the right time, some take radical steps with great ease, some make decisions that are firm and consistent this time, and for others, things begin happening spontaneously by themselves...

✨In our business we say there’s no knowing how far the change is going to go. That's why we offer support in the form of additional private online coaching after the RETREAT, in order to be there for you even after you return to your daily routine. What will also last forever after the RETREAT are the deep friendships and mutual support with other participants. You will have lifelong access to our support group where we will continue to cheer you on and be there for you – if you so wish.

🌱The changes we have managed to make so far at BREAK-TRUE RETREAT have left a deep mark on the lives of everyone involved. We are eternally grateful to be able to witness your success, achievements, and joy. It is our greatest honor and privilege to be a part of your change.

Life is like a garden you tend with care, where planting a tiny seed symbolizes the birth of your journey. As you nurture it with love, courage, and resilience, it begins to grow, mirroring the many experiences and challenges that shape who you are. Just as harvest time arrives, you reap the fruits of your labor, savoring the sweetness of success and the lessons learned from the bitter moments. Each seed sown and harvested becomes a treasured chapter in the ever-growing story of your life's garden.

A coach is like a skilled farmer, and you are the fertile soil in which potential lies dormant, like a tiny seed. With their nurturing guidance, they sow the seeds of knowledge, inspiration, and motivation into your life. Just as a farmer tends to the crops, the coach cultivates your talents, encouraging growth and development. As the seasons pass, you witness the bountiful harvest of your efforts, reaping the rewards of hard work and dedication, all under the watchful eye of your coach. Their wisdom and encouragement ensure that your harvest is plentiful, and your potential blossoms into a thriving field of achievements. Without a coach, your potential may remain untapped, like a seed left unattended in the barren ground. Embrace the support of a coach, and together, you'll cultivate a flourishing garden of success and fulfillment.

There are some important learnings I would like to share from my trip to Napoli, Italy. Napoli is a city of extremes - on one side you have breathtaking history and artistry, on the other side you have complete neglect of the city image - garbage, dirt and facades ruined by inappropriate inscriptions...

Napoli, this ancient city teaches us that individuality and authenticity are products of our heritage. They are our genetic, social and geographical blueprint.

There are some magnificent parts of us cladded in Carrara marble and gold, and there are unattended, dirty and completely neglected parts of us.

No person and no story is exception.

Only if we are able to fall in love in all our parts - the dirty and the pretty ones - we can truly enjoy life, because it is in those deepest extremes that we can truly find ourselves.

Once we find our true self, we can experience the best of what life has to offer.

Don't wait, my friend. Time is fleeting, and it's precious. Embrace the urgency of the present moment and prioritize self-care now. Invest in your well-being, nurture your dreams, and let your authentic self flourish. The time is now—seize it and create a life that is fulfilling, purposeful, and true to who you are.

Time is not waiting for anybody to wake up.

Finding your authentic self is a beautiful journey of self-discovery and self-acceptance. Here are some tips to guide you on this path:

1. Take time for introspection and self-reflection. Set aside moments of solitude to explore your thoughts, emotions, and desires. Ask yourself meaningful questions about your values, passions, strengths, and aspirations. Journaling can be a powerful tool for self-reflection.

2. Engage in activities that ignite a sense of joy and fulfillment within you. Follow your passions and explore new interests. Allow yourself the freedom to pursue what truly brings you alive. Your passions often provide clues to your authentic self.

3. Pay attention to your intuition—the quiet voice within you that guides you towards what feels right and authentic. Practice tuning in to your gut feelings and learn to trust your instincts. Your intuition can provide valuable insights and lead you towards alignment with your authentic self.

4. Release the need to meet others' expectations or conform to societal norms. Authenticity requires breaking free from the constraints of others' opinions and embracing your true self. Focus on living in alignment with your own truth and what feels genuine to you.

5. Understand that your authentic self is not fixed but evolves over time. Embrace growth and change as natural aspects of your journey. Allow yourself the space to evolve, learn, and adapt as you discover new aspects of your authentic self.

6. Finding your authentic self is a lifelong journey. Embrace the process with patience, kindness, and curiosity. Be open to new experiences, insights, and self-discoveries along the way. Trust that as you continue to explore and honor your true self, you will uncover the beauty of your authenticity.

Remember, authenticity is a gift you give yourself and the world. Embrace the journey, embrace your true self, and let your authentic light shine brightly.

Welcome, ladies, to a sanctuary designed to ignite the flames of empowerment and celebrate the beauty and strength within each of you. This retreat is your sacred place to rejuvenate, reconnect, and embrace the extraordinary women you are.

Within these tranquil surroundings, let go of the burdens and pressures that weigh you down in the outside world. Allow yourself the gift of self-reflection and introspection. This retreat is an opportunity to delve into the depths of your soul, to reignite the spark that sets your spirit ablaze.

Embrace the company of like-minded women who share similar journeys and aspirations. Together, we will form an unbreakable sisterhood—a collective of support, encouragement, and inspiration.

During this retreat, seize the chance to nourish your mind, body, and soul. Engage in activities that replenish your energy and restore your vitality. From invigorating yoga sessions to soul-stirring workshops, each moment is designed to honor your uniqueness and celebrate your authenticity.

This retreat is not just a momentary escape—it is an investment in your long-term well-being. Take the wisdom and tools you acquire here and integrate them into your daily life.

As you leave this retreat, carry with you the transformative energy that has been ignited within. Let it be the fuel that propels you forward on your journey. Embrace the challenges, knowing that you have the strength to overcome them. Embrace your dreams, knowing that they are within reach.

You are a force to be reckoned with—a woman of resilience, compassion, and unwavering determination. Your light has the power to illuminate the world around you.

This retreat is just the beginning—an oasis of inspiration that will forever reside within you. Carry its essence in your heart and let it guide you on the path to greatness. Remember, you are capable of creating a life that exceeds your wildest dreams.

Welcome to a journey of self-discovery, empowerment, and celebration. Welcome to a retreat designed exclusively for extraordinary women like you.

In the chaos of our fast-paced lives, it's easy to forget the most important person in our journey: ourselves. Today, I want to remind you of the immeasurable importance of finding time for yourself. Amidst the demands of work, relationships, and responsibilities, carving out moments of solitude and self-care becomes a necessity, not a luxury. It seems that most people live for Holidays and they forget to cherish the rest of the days on planet Earth.

Finding time for yourself is not selfish; it's an act of self-preservation. In the quiet moments of solitude, you can escape the noise of the world and listen to the whispers of your own heart. It's within these moments that you gain clarity, introspection, and self-awareness. You reconnect with your dreams, aspirations, and desires that may have been buried beneath the weight of daily responsibilities.

Self-care is not a one-size-fits-all concept. It's about identifying what truly brings you joy and fulfillment. It could be indulging in a favorite hobby, spending time in nature, reading a book, practicing mindfulness, or simply enjoying moments of stillness. Whatever form it takes, make it a priority, and let it be a sanctuary where you find solace and rediscover your true self.

When you prioritize self-care, you become an inspiration to others. By demonstrating self-love and self-worth, you set an example that encourages those around you to do the same. Your loved ones, colleagues, and friends benefit from your radiance, positivity, and authenticity.

So, my friend, in the midst of your busy schedule, pause and reflect on the importance of finding time for yourself. Create moments of stillness, indulge in self-care, and embrace the beauty of solitude. In these precious moments, you'll rediscover your true essence and unlock the limitless potential that resides within you.

Take that time, and let it be a gift you give to yourself. Your LIFE needs it.

It's time to take control of your life and steer it towards the destination of your dreams. 👉

Life is a canvas waiting to be painted with the vibrant colors of your choices and actions. It's easy to get caught up in the currents of circumstance, allowing external forces to dictate our path. But you can rise above the tides, to take hold of the helm, and become the captain of your own ship.

Taking control is not about conquering the world or bending it to your will. It's about embracing your innate abilities, recognizing your potential, and making conscious choices that align with your values and aspirations. It's about living a life that is true to who you are and honoring your authentic self.

You have the power to shape your thoughts, your actions, and ultimately your destiny. Each decision you make, no matter how small, has the potential to create a ripple effect that can transform your life. Embrace the responsibility that comes with this power and seize the opportunities that lie before you.

Remember, challenges are not roadblocks; they are stepping stones. Embrace them as opportunities for growth and learning. Let resilience and determination be your companions on this journey. When faced with obstacles, muster the strength within you, and find creative solutions. Take control by adapting, by pushing beyond your comfort zone, and by embracing the unknown.

You are the author of your own story. Write it with purpose, passion, and unwavering belief. Embrace failure as a valuable teacher and use it to refine your path. Trust in your abilities and let self-doubt be overshadowed by self-belief. The road to success may be paved with setbacks, but with perseverance, you will prevail.

Many people think that they can achieve what they want just by praying or meditating or desiring. Some people think they can achieve their goals by just doing and taking action.

The sweet spot lies in between. We align our goal in our mind and then we put in energy or action. Without first aligning where we want to go, we won't have a clear direction. Without taking the steps everything we create in our mind stays in our mind.

For manifestation to occur, we have to give energy to our thoughts and desires. This energy comes in form of emotions - it is our emotional state. Some of the emotions that are quite resourceful for this process are: trust that it can happen for us, confidence and gratitude.

It seems like a very small and insignificant step - but it is here where magic happens. God is in the details.