Life’s Evening Sun Doulagiver

As I was processing the end of life experience with my husband , I became aware of the need to improve the quality of his remaining year on earth. This led me to the valuable training and practice of becoming a Death Doulagiver. A Death Doulagiver is a non medical approach to caring for terminally I’ll loved ones by providing quality fulfillment for client and family until passing. This picture is a calm beautiful approach to life till sunset completes their journey on earth.

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The Path Of Grief Feelings like depression can set in through your whole being stealing your energy and make the future seem insecure. Tears come to your eyes and you try so hard to hide them. The harder you try to hide them, the harder they burst forth. Accept the flow because they are a process of submitting to a higher power, acknowledging vulnerability, and helplessness in the healing process....

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Emotions In Grief The Path Of Grief Feelings like depression can set in through your whole being stealing your energy and make the future seem insecure. Tears come to your eyes and you try so hard to hide them. The …

The Path of Grief You are not alone in Your loss bereavement adjustments. You are alone in your new experience. Many people around you are married, have not lost their partners of love. True, you are not separated due to divorce (rejection), but that does not soften the blow of losing the One you love. During this time, it is very essential to stabilize your emptiness....

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Path Of Grief A number of people I know are going through, have gone, and are sharing in the process of grieving. Actually, grieving starts long before death. It starts when there is a change and the prognoses is terminal. Going through grief myself, includes death of my loved ones, and death of greatly valued dreams. I had the privilege of attending Hospice grieving sessions and studied deeper on the subject in college and through self help resources....

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Dealing With Loss Path Of Grief A number of people I know are going through,  have gone, and are sharing in the process of grieving. Actually, grieving starts long before death. It starts when there is a c…

July 3, 2020 by Marian | Edit Grief #3. Share with your children Keep your home routine Take about parent memories Stress can cause illness, tell child this is not their death No one can ever take you deceased parents place. The new person will be different. You can choose what to call the new partner. By name, step – or the miracle of healing, mom or dad....

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You are not alone in your loss experiencing many upcoming adjustments. You are alone in your new experience. Many people around you are married, have not lost their partners of love. True, you are not separated due to divorce (rejection), but that does not soften the blow of losing the One You love. You are going places with others as couples and you are one....

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The Path Of Grief Share with your children Keep your home routine Take about parent memories Stress can cause illness, tell child this is not their death No one can ever take you deceased parents place. The new person will be different. You can choose what to call the new partner. By name, step - or the miracle of healing, mom or dad....

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The Paths of Grief A number of people I know are going through, have gone, and are sharing in the process of grieving. Actually, grieving starts long before death. It starts when there is a change and the prognoses is terminal. Going through grief myself, includes death of my loved ones, and death of greatly valued dreams. I had the privilege of attending Hospice grieving sessions and studied deeper on the subject in college and through self help resources....

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Children are sensitive beings. They can feel the parents atmosphere. They can feel gratitude, discord, insecurities, and stress. Join them in the life’s events. Keeping children in on life’s events within your family, this includes cancer, eventually dying and death. Keep information basic and inform them of stages in treatments and what to expect so they are not surprised. This does not mean they can get it....

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Sitting outside in the evening on my back patio, my heart cried as I was under conviction regarding this subject I am about to write. I am going to inquire when this person is working and apologize for not showing a caring love in a situation I was mad about. This person does not have to forgive me, but I will be relieved of my guilt and I will ask for forgiveness for the pain I caused....

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Life is a mixture of good times and bad experiences. We love the good times. We laugh, tell stories, say jokes, worship God, and have friends. In the bad times, we turn sour. Our attitudes turn south. We are miserable, curse everyone else out, blame others, and try to fine comfort where there is no comfort. False comfort becomes our bad eating habits, becomes our smoking addiction, becomes our social drinking into alcoholic syndrome, becomes drug dependency, and everyone else as our enemies....

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Forgiveness: Letting go of grudges and bitterness
When someone you care about hurts you, you can hold on to anger, resentment and thoughts of revenge — or embrace forgiveness and move forward.

By Mayo Clinic Staff
Who hasn't been hurt by the actions or words of another? Perhaps a parent constantly criticized you growing up, a colleague sabotaged a project or your partner had an affair. Or maybe you've had a traumatic experience, such as being physically or emotionally abused by someone close to you.

These wounds can leave you with lasting feelings of anger and bitterness — even vengeance.

But if you don't practice forgiveness, you might be the one who pays most dearly. By embracing forgiveness, you can also embrace peace, hope, gratitude and joy. Consider how forgiveness can lead you down the path of physical, emotional and spiritual well-being.

What is forgiveness?

Forgiveness means different things to different people. Generally, however, it involves a decision to let go of resentment and thoughts of revenge.

The act that hurt or offended you might always be with you, but forgiveness can lessen its grip on you and help free you from the control of the person who harmed you. Forgiveness can even lead to feelings of understanding, empathy and compassion for the one who hurt you.

Forgiveness doesn't mean forgetting or excusing the harm done to you or making up with the person who caused the harm. Forgiveness brings a kind of peace that helps you go on with life.

What are the benefits of forgiving someone?

Letting go of grudges and bitterness can make way for improved health and peace of mind. Forgiveness can lead to:

Healthier relationships
Improved mental health
Less anxiety, stress and hostility
Lower blood pressure
Fewer symptoms of depression
A stronger immune system
Improved heart health
Improved self-esteem
Why is it so easy to hold a grudge?

Being hurt by someone, particularly someone you love and trust, can cause anger, sadness and confusion. If you dwell on hurtful events or situations, grudges filled with resentment, vengeance and hostility can take root. If you allow negative feelings to crowd out positive feelings, you might find yourself swallowed up by your own bitterness or sense of injustice.

Some people are naturally more forgiving than others. But even if you're a grudge holder, almost anyone can learn to be more forgiving.

What are the effects of holding a grudge?

If you're unforgiving, you might:

Bring anger and bitterness into every relationship and new experience
Become so wrapped up in the wrong that you can't enjoy the present
Become depressed or anxious
Feel that your life lacks meaning or purpose, or that you're at odds with your spiritual beliefs
Lose valuable and enriching connectedness with others
How do I reach a state of forgiveness?

Forgiveness is a commitment to a personalized process of change. To move from suffering to forgiveness, you might:

Recognize the value of forgiveness and how it can improve your life
Identify what needs healing and who needs to be forgiven and for what
Consider joining a support group or seeing a counselor
Acknowledge your emotions about the harm done to you and how they affect your behavior, and work to release them
Choose to forgive the person who's offended you
Move away from your role as victim and release the control and power the offending person and situation have had in your life
As you let go of grudges, you'll no longer define your life by how you've been hurt. You might even find compassion and understanding.

What happens if I can't forgive someone?

Forgiveness can be challenging, especially if the person who's hurt you doesn't admit wrong. If you find yourself stuck:

Practice empathy. Try seeing the situation from the other person's point of view.
Ask yourself why he or she would behave in such a way. Perhaps you would have reacted similarly if you faced the same situation.
Reflect on times you've hurt others and on those who've forgiven you.
Write in a journal, pray or use guided meditation — or talk with a person you've found to be wise and compassionate, such as a spiritual leader, a mental health provider, or an impartial loved one or friend.
Be aware that forgiveness is a process, and even small hurts may need to be revisited and forgiven over and over again.
Does forgiveness guarantee reconciliation?

If the hurtful event involved someone whose relationship you otherwise value, forgiveness can lead to reconciliation. This isn't always the case, however.

Reconciliation might be impossible if the offender has died or is unwilling to communicate with you. In other cases, reconciliation might not be appropriate. Still, forgiveness is possible — even if reconciliation isn't.

What if the person I'm forgiving doesn't change?

Getting another person to change his or her actions, behavior or words isn't the point of forgiveness. Think of forgiveness more about how it can change your life — by bringing you peace, happiness, and emotional and spiritual healing. Forgiveness can take away the power the other person continues to wield in your life.

What if I'm the one who needs forgiveness?

The first step is to honestly assess and acknowledge the wrongs you've done and how they have affected others. Avoid judging yourself too harshly.

If you're truly sorry for something you've said or done, consider admitting it to those you've harmed. Speak of your sincere sorrow or regret, and ask for forgiveness — without making excuses.

Remember, however, you can't force someone to forgive you. Others need to move to forgiveness in their own time. Whatever happens, commit to treating others with compassion, empathy and respect.

Welcome to my page! I am Marian Sensenig and working on my certification as a Doulagiver. In my past, I helped walk with a number of loved one and enjoy enhancing quality life during the last months of your loved ones and families. When you need someone to support you in your walk of end of life experience, please contact me and I will start right where you are at. I will be a support to you as you experience this normal end of life journey minimizing anxieties and fears. There is work to be done. Please message me or text or call me at 717-405-7770. I will be in touch shortly after your sent message. Have a blessed day.

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You are such a blessing in my life. I am grateful for you being there. Hope this finds you well. I have been getting much needed rest and I am feeling good . Blessings to you and hubby. Lisa from Tasmania.