Arise & Thrive with Rebecca
Helping women of faith transform their lives from struggle to breakthrough
He is always better than we ever can ever imagine!
We are truly blessed and privileged to be called His own.
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The identity you focus on, the one you operate by, will impact your outcomes. This can your social identity, birth/ family name, qualifications, race or ethnicity etc. Or it can be your highest identity, your God given identity, who He says you are in Himβ¦ whichever identity you live by, you will experience the benefits, challenges and limitations that come with that identity. But your divine identity breaks-through limitations it transcends the challenges and limitations that come with any lower identity. ββββββββββ’βββββββββWho do you say that you are?
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πFertility is spiritual before it is physical! πβββββββββIf you can understand the spiritual nature of fertility, that conception happens in the spirit first, that anything you see in the physical started in the spirit, it is rooted in the spirit, if you can understand this, then you know, *you* can transform your fertility story. ββββββββββ’
You are spirit, soul and body. And every part of your being has a purpose, every part! BUT, we spend so much time focusing on the physical, forgetting the spirit and soul. And you can do all the physical things but if youβve had a challenging fertility journey, donβt sleep on the spiritual things. Because Iife begins in the spirit before it is manifested in the flesh. And so does deathβ¦ (see the fig tree story Mark 11:12β20)
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Fertility starts in the spirit before it is ever seen in the physical. This is why you have the ability to transform your story, no matter what it looks like, if you are facing it, you can transform it.
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The reason why God will never let you go through more than you can bear, is that He already went ahead and dealt with every issue and made a way for you to come out victorious. In every situation, you ALREADY have the victory! That is why, whatever you are facing, you can surpass (1 Corinthians 10:13).
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BUT as long as you remain focused only on what is happening in the physical, your hope will only lie in the physical and you might never see your story transformed.
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If youβre facing challenges in your fertility journey, DM to learn more about how YOU can transform your journey.
Becoming a reader incredibly transformed my life. But theβββββββββKey was getting hold of the right material for my breakthroughs. ββββββββββ’
When I recount some of my victories, I honestly take a step back and stand in awe of God, to the extent that I now journal my breakthroughs, great and small and am often amazed how much of my life has been marked by faith and miracles! I can honestly, only thank God for the insights that have seen me through many dark days.
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Some of these include, going from a completely hopeless situation in a warring home, going through divorce to rebuilding our home in a healthy and loving way, from years of praying and waiting for children to enjoying being a mum, pregnancy journeys that reflected the power of God throughout, seeing healing miracles in my life, financial breakthroughs, employment breakthroughs, job creation, relationship issues transformed, having to leave everything and successfully rebuild our lives from scratch and so so so much more. My life is truly a catalogue of favour, miracles and blessings and I have learned a lot along the way. ποΈ
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But there is nothing special about me in the sense that unimaginable blessings and victories are available to all of us EVERYDAY. And that is what Iβd like to share with you.
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Introducing my Life Transforming Bookclub where I will share some of the Bible teachings and books that changed my life. Per the majority response, it will include both Bookclub and Bible Study.
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For me, the content here is indispensable and I wouldnβt exchange it for the world. So Iβm inviting you to join this bookclub and allow yourself an opportunity to learn and apply proven life changing principles. This Bookclub will only be available for a limited time, so you donβt want to miss it.
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βοΈWhen the Israelites came to the Red Sea, they didnβt know a path already existed for them, for that very moment. βββββββββπβYour road led through the sea, your pathway through the mighty watersβ a pathway no one knew was there!β βββββββββPsalm 77:19 NLT
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βοΈA path already exists for you. Your miracle is not out of reach. Your breakthrough is already there. Only your cooperation is needed for you to release your breakthrough into existence. Itβs about youπ«
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βοΈYour miracle is within reach.βοΈββββββββββ’βββββββββWhy?
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Well, because God has placed everything in you to unlock your breakthrough. Christ finished His work.
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His promises tell you what is available to you, what is yours. For instance, the scriptures promise children. 2 Peter says by these promises we partake of the divine nature. Godβs promises are a part of how we come to know and experience Him. The enemy doesnβt want that. But God wants you to know Him and experience His favour and blessings, including a fruitful womb, because children are a gift from God and He gives freely and shows no favouritism.
βοΈGod wants you to have children, He promises so and He did all that there was to do, to ensure you can have those children if you desire to.βοΈ
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Whatever God promises, He has already supplied and made available to you.
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Yours is to receive and appropriate what He has done.
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Changing your thinking is a key step towards that.
Why? Because your thinking can actually stand in the way of receiving whatβs yoursπ₯. We see this with the Israelites outside the promised land, we see this with those who could not accept Jesus and so He couldnβt do miracles there- it stemmed from their thinking. We see this throughout the Bible. Your thinking is key to believing right, acting on your faith and bringing your vision to manifestation. This is why Romans 12:2 says be transformed by renewing your mindβ¦ and why Joshua 1:8 meditate on the Word day and nightβ¦ and tou will cause your way to prosperβ¦ your breakthrough starts with your thought life.
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You are promised children and yes, you can have children. This is one truth youβll have to embrace as you walk towards your victory.
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Self care must be physical, mental, emotional and spiritual. It is an essential part of your breakthrough. ββββββββββ’βββββββββThere are so so many amazing self care habits. Some of these include meditating on the Word, this is basic Biblical self-care, quiet time/ being still, that inner work, creating and maintaining healthy relationships (you always feel better after a good laugh, wise counsel, prayer etc), physical activity, gratitude etc and these are only a few of those powerful ways we can care for ourselves.
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What are some of your best self care practises?
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The key thing here is to know that when you allow circumstances to dictate to you whatβs possible and whatβs not, youβre actually relinquishing your authority to another and it will often be used against you. ββββββββ
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1. Ask yourself, What seems impossible? ββββββββ
2. Can you find a promise for it in the Word? Use it to build your faith. ββββββββ
3. What action is required for the dream/ for you to achieve the said goal? Do that!ββββββββ
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Remember that you are a key player in transforming your own life and in seeing your answered prayers. ββββββββ
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Itβs not God whoβs not answering, itβs a receiving issue. ββββββββ
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So how you move can either cooperate with God for your answers or cooperate with the problem.
How you show up, who you show up as will determine whether you see your breakthrough or not. Think about it, Christ always faced situations in His true IDENTITY, never actually bowing to troubling situations. The wrong identity will always bow to circumstances. How you show up, will determine the outcome. ββββββββββββββββ
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If you donβt know who you are or youβre not aware of your highest identity and what it means, youβll never walk in the AUTHORITY that comes with that identity. Authority is a requirement for your breakthrough. ββββββββββββββββ
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Having faith is pointless if you cannot act on it. If you cannot act on your belief, itβs not a belief at all. You must have corresponding ACTION. ββββββββββββββββ
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How you show up, who you show up as will determine whether you see your breakthrough or not. Think about it, Christ always faced situations in His true identity, never actually bowing to troubling situations. The wrong identity will always bow to circumstances. How you show up, will determine the outcome. ββββββββ
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If you donβt know who you are or youβre not aware of your highest identity and what it means, youβll never walk in the authority that comes with that identity. Authority is a requirement for your breakthrough. ββββββββ
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Having faith is pointless if you cannot act on it. If you cannot act on your belief, itβs not a belief at all. You must have corresponding action. ββββββββ
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When you learn to work the principles, youβll change your life.
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Learn and cooperate with Godβs principles and thereβll be no situation that will not ultimately work out for your good.
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Like gravity and other laws of nature, God set life principles that we all apply daily, knowingly or not and they govern our lives whether we know/ believe in them.
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Healing is a Biblical thing.
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Pursuing healing is a Biblical thing (as we see the people taking their sick to Jesus).
It is a Godly pursuit.
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Jesus wanted people to come to Him for their healing and when they did, He healed them.
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He healed them all. Every kind of sickness, disease or paralysis,
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HE HEALED THEM ALL.
Doubt can exist with faith. π
It can be subtle! It likes to subtly attach itself somewhere and go unnoticed.
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Someone put it this way, if a horse pulls something with great force, thereβll be movement. But if you attach another horse in the opposite direction, the force of the first horse will be impacted by that of the second.
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So, you can have faith but if doubt exists, it will serve to counteract faith. So, get rid of the doubt and faith will operate freely.
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Comment below or DM to know more about how you can detect doubt even when itβs subtle.
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Thoughts are so powerful that they can determine the direction of your life. ββββββββ
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But hereβs the thing, not every thought that lands in your mind is for you, from you or for your good. Thoughts are inspired and can be accepted or rejected. Jesus said βTake no thought sayingβ¦β because the worries/ fears/ anxiety/ what ifs etc will come but you can CHOOSE to take the thought or not. Some thoughts simply need to be rejected.ββββββββ
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Because thoughts can direct the course of your life, itβs so important to guard your heart ie, donβt allow every thought that comes, to stay. Guarding your heart includes your mind, will and emotions and you are to guard them with all diligence because the issues of life flow from the heart.ββββββββ
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Not every thought that comes is for you to receive and hold. No, some thoughts simply need to be cast down, rejected and replaced. ββββββββ
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Itβs been said: many people die at 25 but arenβt buried until theyβre 75! ββββββββ
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This ladies, is what my heart for Arise and Thrive is about! Somehow, through lifeβs challenges and struggles, we learn to let go and give up on who and what we truly are inside. We learn to let go of pursuing our purpose and true call. We stop dreaming, itβs like something inside has died. Were tempted to give up those hopes and dreams we have, perhaps because it got too tough or took too long. ββββββββ
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I was in that place for a long time. But what changed for me, was accepting the truth of Christβs words, no matter how painful... βin this world you will have many troubles...β. Those words were hard to swallow. And often I wanted to give up because I was just tired of fighting, of battling. I just wanted a normal, trouble free life... as if that even exists! πββββββββ
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Thank God for His grace because He didnβt stop there. He continues β... but be of good cheer, I have overcome the world.β He has overcome and in Him, we share that victory because He always leads us to triumph. (2 Cori. 2:14). So although troubles come, we are led by the One who has never lost a battle. And it is for that reason that we can get up and take the next step... βfor though the righteous fall seven times, they rise again...β Prov. (24:16).ββββββββ
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And so ladies, take courage, victory is yours! Whether it looks like it or not, itβs is yours! ββββββββ
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So, begin to dream again, begin to hope and believe again and remain open to God working out those dreams for you, in and through you. Never ever give up, breakthrough is in the air!
Love is the catalyst for making faith work. Regardless of your breakthrough need, love is essential to faith.
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If our past was held against us, not one person would qualify for a single blessing.
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It is by grace that we are blessed, not because we are deserving. So let grace cover you.
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And when we turn from our wrong doing, in Godβs eyes, itβs passed, forgotten, forever forgiven and removed from you as far as the east is from the west.
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So, letβs demolish those doubts that have taken root in you and are keeping you from receiving your miracle.
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Regardless of what your body is telling you or what your circumstances say, for your faith to work, youβve got to have assurance of your God given rights. When you do, you can firmly stand and wait with unwavering faith and expectation. ββββββββ
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Scripture says children are a gift from the Lord and that He is not a respecter of persons, therefore, you have a right to children. God has blessed your womb. This is a truth you can be assured of. ββββββββ
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He takes pleasure in your prosperity, your well being. Therefore, be assured that He made provision for your needs and your well being. ββββββββ
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Your faith works when you stand assured and unwavering. ββββββββ
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If it does NOT align with the vision/ promise/ Word/ desire God gave you, be prepared to part with it, for your own good.ββββββββ
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βProsperityβ, means so much more than simply wealth. Here it includes welfare, well-being, health, completeness, safety etc.ββββββββ
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God delights in your prosperity including, in your health and well being. He wants you to grow, your family to grow. His original command to mankind was fruitfulness in every way, He wants you to prosper and multiply. After all, when the righteous prosper, it is for the good of others too. We were never meant to hold on to everything. ββββββββ
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βοΈChanging your mind about how God views your having good in your life is key to receiving the good He has in store for you. π₯If you believe He does not want you to have children, be in health, in peace, completeness etc, you will not be able to receive what He already has for you. He withholds nothing good from us and we are blessed to be blessings. ββββββββ
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If I had never come to this revelation in my own lifeβs journey, Iβd never have been able to see the victories Iβve seen or to now help other women in their difficult seasons. My own victories can now be a blessing to others. ββββββββ
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βοΈβοΈβοΈThis is a mindset shift you MUST make in order to receive your breakthroughπ Praying with uncertainty of whether He wants something for you, is double mindedness and will yield no results. The book of James says such a person will not receive anything from God.βοΈβοΈβοΈββββββββ
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Be clear on what you want and get clear on what God says about it so that you can hold unswervingly.ββββββββ
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Sometimes we are comforted by a wrong belief because itβs all we ever hear from others, even within the church. Sometimes those beliefs help us make sense of some of our unfavourable or unexpected outcomes. So they become a comfort to us.
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But the truth is, some of those beliefs that we hold about God are just wrong. We never check them against His Word or even speak to Him about them. They seem right, they sound good, everyone else says the same thingβ¦ so we assume itβs true. We attribute certain outcomes to God/ Godβs will, when in truth, we havenβt taken time to find out what His will is and whether that outcome was truly His will.
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π₯Honestly, this here is one of the enemyβs greatest tactics that keeps the church from moving as Christ did. And it is one of the greatest ways we do God and ourselves a disservice.
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There is an ongoing process of unlearning that has to happen, because guess whatβ¦
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πππBelieving right about God is a key part of receiving from Him.πππ
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Your self talk is a gateway to understanding your beliefs about yourself and your situation. You have to listen to how you speak to yourself, how you speak about yourself or your situation to yourself. ββββββββ
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We all have a basic understanding that what we keep telling ourselves shapes how we see the world and ultimately our life experiences (Think of the 10 spies vs the 2 spies in numbers 14). The woman with the issue of blood is a great example of this principle. ββββββββ
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If you keep telling yourself βI will never be/ haveβ¦β, that chatter is powerful! It changes you, whether for good or otherwise. It increases your believing, whether good or bad because that is what you keep hearing. It changes you and ultimately changes what you see in life. Even science now confirms this. ββββββββ
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Sometimes the only reason you havenβt seen your breakthrough is that although you belief youβre in faith, deep down inside, your self chatter tells you you breakthrough will never happen for you. Deep inside you see it as impossible. That self chatter, that image that is within, is undermining your faith. ββββββββ
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Ask yourself, what do I really believe about my situation? ββββββββ
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Asking these questions will help you unveil what you truly believe and once you know that, you can identify one of the things thatβve been hindering your faith and you can start addressing that.
When praying for a breakthrough, we can often overlook the importance of LOVE. We think it only relevant in relationships. However, love is the catalyst for making faith work. Regardless of your breakthrough need, love is essential to faith. ββββββββ
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Being in strife, disharmony, quarrelling, complaining, gossiping etc is not an expression of love and certainly isnβt healthy ground for the seed of faith to grow. Faith grows and operates where you understand you are loved and then you live life expressing that love. This is where faith moves. ββββββββ
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God is love and He has given each of us the measure of His faith and that Faith works by love, it expresses itself through Love - agape love. In Him (Christ who is Love) all things were created. That is, all things were created through Love and in Him (Love), all things hold together. Everything He does is motivated by Love. Therefore, if youβre not moving in Love, you canβt operate in faith. ββββββββ
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Sometimes the WAIT season trains us to avoid raising our hopes, keep our hearts safe from more bad news. Yet actually thatβs completely wrong! That actually trains us to cast off the true power.
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The power is in the strength of raised hopes, itβs in your unrelenting belief that regardless of how long the journeyβs been, you will see what you have hoped for. It is that hope, that expectation that will cause you to do the necessary work to change even the seemingly impossible circumstances.
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And yes, the power to change things is in you. And even when the circumstances call for a miracle, understand this, God works through you. You are an essential part of your breakthrough.
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So of course thereβs a work to be done because truly things wonβt just unfold out of belief. But itβs not as complicated as your situation would lead you to believe. More on that laterβ¦
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For now, what are you telling yourself about the wait? Are you anticipating your victory?
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Goodness itβs been a while!
Hopefully your yearβs off to a good start, I know for some it has already been filled with challenges. πBut the same God who was faithful in times past, remains faithful now.
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I took time out to move in obedience. So much valuable time is wasted and many wins are lost when we fail to walk in obedience to the Spirit. So, this is how my year began, prioritising obedience. And the peace in this place is completely worth it. π
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Howβs your start been?
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Hopefully your yearβs off to a good start, I know for some it has already been filled with challenges. But the same God who was faithful in times past, remains faithful now.
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I took time out to move in obedience. So much valuable time is wasted and many wins are lost when we donβt walk in obedience to the Spirit. So, this is how my year began, prioritising obedience. And the peace in this place is completely worth it. π
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You will have what you believe you can have. Be it unto you as you have believed. Matthew 8:13 ββββββββ
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We change our lives by keeping our eyes on what we see within, not what we see physically. You focus will always take you to the thing youβre focused on. β’ββββββββ
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Throw back! Taken in celebration of a victory I had not yet seen. But, Iβd made a decision. I was moving in a different kind of faith and authority than I had done in the years before. π I was about to find out that that decision, a decision Iβd made only a few days before, had changed my life FOREVER & in EVERY WAY! ππ½ββββββββ
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I firmly believed in the decision Iβd made. I realised God had already given me all Iβd asked for including the pregnancy Iβd been praying for. BUT my body was telling me the opposite. Iβd been experiencing, for days, a world of symptoms that told me I was wrong, my faith was misplaced, symptoms that told me I was fooling myself and I would soon find out and be devastated. Once again, I decided to stay in the place of faith, regardless of what I saw in the flesh so that, even if the monthly visitor came that month, I would remain in my position of faith that this was a done deal in the spirit and that in the end, I would experience it in the flesh. The symptoms persisted but I became unyielding in my stance. ββββββββ
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Faith will demand that you go further than reason. Like Gideon had to when he reduced his army. Like Joshua had to when he marched round the wall. Like Moses had to, before he knew he could part the Red Sea. Like Noah and the ark. Like Mary had to when the angel said she would have a child. Like Esther had to, to save a nation, likewise Deborah. Like Ruth who gave up everything and left her people, in faith. Like Rahab whoβs faith caused her to help the men of God risking treason, for a people who, by reason seemed weaker but by God were more powerful. Etc ββββββββ
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What demand has faith placed on you? Are you willing to step out, no matter what it looks like? β’ββββββββ
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This is one of the ways I kept faith in my fertility journey. ββββββββ
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I took every opportunity to remind myself I could fall pregnant, no matter what! ββββββββ
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On this day, I was meeting up with a close friend for a coffee. We started the TTC journey at the same time. Sheβs fallen pregnant immediately. (I share the funny story on βmy storyβ video). My journey didnβt go quite so easy. ββββββββ
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This was the 1st/2nd time Iβd seen her since she gave birth. She was enjoying a dream Iβd had for years. ββββββββ
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A world of emotions threatened to overcome me. But I decided I wasnβt going to go that way. Iβd worked on managing my emotions in a healthy way, for a long time, so when they came, I tapped into His grace and wisdom for dealing with them. This was my dear friend, whom I love dearly. Her celebration was my celebration! I wasnβt going to let my story steal that from us. I decided I didnβt want to miss the beauty of our reunion or to step into doubt for myself either. If I truly believed Iβd have children, then surely, I had no reason to be sad, in fact, I could celebrate with her all the more. And I DID. Tbh, I had also planned, years before, that I celebrate with those who are celebrating because their victories are testimonies that God answers prayers. Having made that decision long before, meant the choice was easy when I faced situations like these. ββββββββ
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It is human to face those emotions, to feel like βwhy meβ, βwhat about meβ etc. It happens to us all. But the key thing is to work through them. Work through them so they donβt derail your faith. If you lean into them, donβt worry, you can choose to get back up, address them and keep moving forward. But donβt allow yourself to stay with emotions that will lead to your heartbreak and giving up.ββββββββ
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