Yelp for Help Child Sexual Abuse Prevention

FREE Protective & Preventive Education!

Attention Parents and Educators! 📢

The Yelp for Help Foundation, in partnership with Yelp for Help Child S*xual Abuse Prevention , is excited to bring FREE S*x Education for High Schools and Body Safety & Awareness Workshops to primary schools across the areas covered in our A clusters !

Our mission is simple: to empower children and teens with the knowledge and confidence to protect themselves from body abuse.

✨ What we cover:

Teaching kids and teens to protect and stand up for their bodies !

Helping kids recognize safe and unsafe touches to prevent s*xual abuse.

Helping teens make responsible choices about their bodies while also looking forward to a purposeful future.

Speaking up and knowing who to talk to if something feels wrong.

…and so much more, all in a way that’s fun, age-appropriate, and interactive! 🎉

Let’s create a safe, supportive space for every child and teen to grow up confident and secure. 🌟

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+234 807 266 4330

Is your school area not covered yet ? You can wait till we get to your clusters or contact us TODAY to find out how you can bring Yelp for Help to your school.

Together, we’re building a safer world for our children. 🌍


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Lead educator Blessing Israel

Meet Sarah's mom: first-time mom to 5-year-old Sarah.

One day, Sarah suddenly asked: 'Why does Dad have a bulge in his trousers?'

Surprised, Ann snapped at the child.
' You shouldn't ask that; it's private. We don't talk about it.'

Ann was troubled. She knew She hadn't responded well, but she didn't know what to do. She had to speak to a friend about it.

'Why did you act that way?'

'She's too young to ask that'

'Haven't you been s*x-educating her? She's 5'

'No!'

'Why?'

'That will be corrupting her.'

'Well, that hasn't worked, because she now seems to notice a bulge '

'Shunning her will make her keep quiet and you may never know what else she's noticed. This is one of the reasons why most parents are in the dark and may never know if their child is being abused right under their nose."

'What do I do now?'

Well, you can still talk it over with her. Apologize, and help her know why dad is different because boys' and men's private areas are different from girls and women's

'That's a hard job, how can I start explaining that? '

Many parents are like Sarah's mum, who would rather dance on a coal of fire than have a s*x talk with their child.

S*x education for children is often a delicate topic, but when done thoughtfully, it doesn’t have to feel overwhelming. The goal isn’t to overload them with information they’re not ready for but to provide the right level of knowledge at each stage of their development.

Here’s how you can talk without 'corrupting'

1. Begin by teaching children as early as 2 years old the basics of their bodies. Use correct names for body parts, not pet names.
Help them understand the difference between boys and girls.
You don’t need to dive into complex details; instead, keep it simple, ensuring they understand their body is different from the opposite s*x.

2. Ann should have used her daughter’s question as an opening, to begin the talk she ought to have had before then.

Look for natural opportunities to introduce topics related to s*x education. These moments—whether during bath time, changing underwear, or a visit to a doctor’s introduce topics about the body in a natural way, giving room for the child to ask questions.

3. S*x education isn’t just about biology— It is the time when you instil values. Teach responsibility, self-worth and value for their body and others.

4. S*x education is not a one-time conversation. Keep the conversation ongoing. As your child matures, they will have more questions and encounter new situations. Maintaining an open line of communication ensures they’ll come to you for answers rather than seeking out less reliable sources.

I am Blessing Israel Child s*xual abuse preventive educator, Lead Teacher for Yelp for Help Child S*xual Abuse Prevention
I work with Schools, NGOs, religious centres & other childcare facilities to help children, parents and educators recognize, resist and report s*xual abuse.

I also help teens STAND up for their body and own their story proudly.

Have you started s*x educating your child, or like Sarah's mum, you also think s*x education corrupts kids ?
True, giving too much can corrupt; balance is the key. I will talk about methodology this week, but first let's see why we must s*x educate kids early.

Growing up , no one talked to me about s*x. ( did anyone with you ? I bet no one )
We talked about other things in the home but not s*x .
Unfortunately, many of the things I would come to know, were from my friends.
Sure, 80% of what they know are wrong and misleading. So, I couldn't make healthy choices about my own s*xual life as a teenager.

Early s*x education for kids, both boys and girl is paramount. And I do not mean the old wives' methods of teaching it .

' Don't go near a man or you will get pregnant.'

This old wives' methods won't work with the Gen-Z . They are smarter!

As Africans , we are conservative, and still grappling with being comfortable to talk about s*x, let alone talk about it with our kids.

However, it is an important conversation we must have , so we can help them make healthy choices about their body now and in the future.

Why s*x educate? :

1. S*x education helps children recognize that their bodies belong to them, and understand that they have control over who touches them and how.

2. When you s*x educate your child , you will help them learn the difference between safe and unsafe touch, which empowers them to identify potentially harmful situations and avoid or report them. This understanding reduces the risk of abuse and encourages them to seek help when needed.

3. Helping kids learn about their bodies in a positive, respectful way, help them develop confidence and self-respect. They are less likely to be influenced by peer pressure or harmful media messages because they understand the value of making healthy choices that are right for them.

4. When kids are taught about their bodies in a safe and supportive environment, they feel more comfortable asking questions and discussing sensitive topics. This openness reduces shame and secrecy, making it easier for them to speak up when something feels wrong.

5. S*x education empowers kids to respect themselves and other's body boundaries.

These amongst many others are reasons why we must s*x educate our kids like a professional.

Before you go, I'll like to know , do you agree with Sarah's mum?

I am Blessing Israel M. the founder of Yelp for Help Child S*xual Abuse Prevention . Using innovative curriculum from Yelp for Help Books I empower parents to help their children learn about their body and help them make healthy choices now and in the future.

Working with schools, NGOS childcare and religious centers, I empower kids and teens to recognize, resist and report unsafe situations through preventive & protective education.

Want to bring Yelp for Help to your schools, church, NGOS, parents workshop, teens' conference . Slide into our Dm or call +234 807 266 4330

Together, let's build a generation of resilient children who own their body-story .

We wish Nigeria Happy Independence , from all of us Yelp for Help Child S*xual Abuse Prevention
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We love Nigeria for her ability to remain STANDING against the storms.
What do you love most about Nigeria?

Do you agree that when we talk 🦜 about topics as sensitive and culturally overwhelming as CSA with kids we are corrupting them ?

We started of with the story of Charles. A 9- year- old who came in contact with inappropriate videos for the first time at a friend's place. 6 years later, his curiousity led him back to see similar videos and he got into a cycle of addiction that he continued to struggle with in his adulthood. While his father could have nibbed the bud before it blossomed, he dismissed his child's worries as another 'worry-day' in a child's life .

find link to story here .

when CSA (Child S*xual Abuse) is been talked about , what comes to most people's mind is the presence of physical touch.

As parents, educators and caregivers, if your sole tell-tale sign of CSA is the presence of physical touch then you might just as well have a bad smell right under your nose and not notice it.

While the signs of physical touch such as bruises in private areas are major red flags, there are other types of CSA with no obvious tell-signs that can have the same or more traumatic effect on a child . (read Charles' story )

CSA can be categorized into two
broad types: intrusive and non-intrusive. Both forms are harmful and violate the child’s physical and emotional boundaries, but they differ in manners but do not limit it's effects.

1. Intrusive CSA

This involves direct physical contact with a child and typically includes:

• Touching or fondling the child’s private areas .

• The child is coerced into engaging in s*xual acts with the abuser.

• Making the child touch the abuser’s private areas.

2. Non-Intrusive CSA

Non-intrusive do not involve direct physical contact but still harm the child by violating their emotional and psychological safety.

• Exposing the child to inappropriate content, such as explicit videos or conversations.

• Voyeurism, where the abuser watches the child in private settings (e.g., un******ng, bathing)

• Verbal harassment, such as making inappropriate s*xual comments, jokes, or suggestions to a child.

• Grooming behaviors, where the abuser builds a relationship of trust with the child and the family to manipulate and exploit them s*xually later on.
(I will be discussing this tomorrow)

• Exposing private areas or performing s*xual acts in front of the child.

Whether the abuse is intrusive or non-intrusive, both forms can have long-lasting effects on a child’s emotional, psychological, and physical well-being.

While we can't control what a potential abuser can attempt on a child , we can empower our children to Recognize, Resist & Report CSA.

I am Blessing Israel a preventive educator. Working with Yelp for Help Child S*xual Abuse Prevention ,and using innovative resources from Yelp for Help Books I empower children, parents, educators and caregivers Recognize, Resist & Report CSA .

Life is already a hard nut to crack, protect your own from life trauma of CSA. It can happen to any child with anybody been the abuser .

Does it make you uncomfortable 😣? I know right yewh! It gets me uncomfortable too. But we have to talk about it . I didn't think it was possible until I had a first- hand experience. And till today, I struggle with the guilt of not been able to do anything at that time .

If it happened now, I would have given my blood to get justice for that little banny. I wonder where she is now, how life is with her and if she remembers. If she remembers how I couldn't defend her but watch her bullied to keep quiet 🤐. I'm sure she hates me .

it's been over 8 years. She should be about 12 or 13 now. She was just 4 when it happened.

You may begin to wonder what exactly I'm I talking about .
8 years ago, I was teaching in a school . I was the teacher to grade 5.
One afternoon, after the break hour, the grand-daughter to the owner of the school, who happened to be in my class brought a girl of about 4 years to me, she was in pains .

'What happened'I queried?

'I have blood in my pants 🩳 and it's painful'

Blood ke? How ? Did you sit on a sharp object ?

'No, uncle .... Puts his hands there , now it hurts '

Egbami ke, okay let's go see'

True to her words, she had blood stains on her un**es and she was in pains.
I took the case to the owner's daughter whose son is the uncle... Who put his hands there.

Oh, how she bullied us to keep quiet. She spoke endlessly about how the girl was a serial liar who likes to get attention.

'But she has blood in her un**es.' I said

'Really, maybe she sat somewhere you know these kids' She said .

I have never seen someone dismissed such weighty matter the way she did .

She sent me back to my class and offer to handle the matter.
Not quiet long the owner of the school died , and the school was shut down.

Everything happened so fast . I don't remember seeing the little banny again after that incident . But my heart bleeds each time I remember I did nothing .

I thought this matter ended there until when God begin to point me back to it. Lord, you said I am teacher to young people , why are you asking me to go talk about s*x ?

I have struggle with accepting this call, even bigger struggle when he says start from the cradle . It's been over 2 years now I did nothing about it .

Like Jonah, I am undertaking this mission to bring to light this hideous matter that we all love to pretend it doesn't happen , it rarely happens. And we watch our young ones grow up to become wild and traumatized from childhood hurts .

Through Yelp for Help Child S*xual Abuse Prevention with innovative resources from Yelp for Help Books working with schools, religious centers, NGO and other children, outlets, I now empower children to Recognize, Resist and Report CSA.

Why wait till it happens when we can empower them to resist it ?

I am Blessing Israel join me as we unveil up-to-date- methods for empowering our kids to recognize, resist and report unsafe situation.
Prevention is better than healing .

How Do We Raise Children Who Are Resilient and Speak Up When in Danger?

When 9-year-old Charles was at a friend's house, something didn’t feel right. An older kid, his friend's sibling was showing him inappropriate videos and telling him not to tell anyone.

Charles sat down there, consuming every details of what he was watching .
More alarming to Charles was how ease his friend was with the whole scene.
He knew this wasn't okay for kids their age, however, he wasn't sure of what to do or say.

That evening when his father came to pick him, Charles wasn't cheerful as he was when he was been dropped off in the morning.

'Is anything the matter are you alright ?' The father asked.
Charles mumbled, and nodded that he was fine.

The dad dismissed it and concluded that he was probably tired for staying out of the home longer than they had originally intended.

For weeks, and even years, Charles continued to struggle with what he had seen at his friend's.

On his 15th birthday, Charles got his own private computer , curious to understand what he had seen 6 years ago, he got into a cycle of addiction that he would continue to struggle with many years after.

Raising children who are resilient and can speak up when in danger requires more than just teaching them rules.It’s about instilling confidence, awareness, and the ability to act when it matters most.

Here's how we can raise children who are resilient and can speak 🗣️ up when in an unsafe situation

1. Create awareness around what is appropriate to consume on the screen and what isn't .
Teach them to trust their instincts.

Children have natural instincts that often tell them when something doesn’t feel right. Teach them to recognize and trust those feelings. Whether it’s an unsafe situation at school, a friend's place , with a peer, or in another environment, help them understand that if it feels wrong, it probably is.

2. Teach them to walk away from unsafe situations .
Teach children that while it's important to be kind, and respectful, it's also okay to stand up for themselves and say “No,” “Stop,” or “I don’t like that” when necessary.

Assertiveness helps them protect their boundaries and signals to others that they won't tolerate unsafe or inappropriate behaviours .

3. Create an Open Environment for Communication
Children need to know that they can talk without fear of punishment.

Encourage regular conversations about their day, feelings, and experiences. Engage in long conversation and ask questions that require details for answers.

4. Identify Trusted Adults
they can talk to other than their biological parents. The list may include a family, teachers, or a family friend.

I am Blessing Israel a preventive educator. Through Yelp for Help Child S*xual Abuse Prevention I help schools NGOS, religious & childcare centers create awareness about s*x , and child s*xual abuse prevention using innovative resources from Yelp for Help Books .

Contact at : [email protected]

Why it is important for Kids to know they have control over their own body :

A mother was worried about her daughter. At 6 years old, she had already started to notice that her daughter would hesitate when someone, even family members, wanted a hug.
Her daughter would simply say 'no' and maintained her stance , even when the mother nudge her to obliged.

“I don’t want her to be rude, but I also don’t want to force her,” the mother said .

What this mom realized is something every parent should understand: children need to know they have control over their own bodies.

Teaching kids that they are in charge of their bodies is essential for their safety, confidence, and emotional health. When children understand body autonomy which is the right to decides what is okay or not okay with one's body , they learn the power of saying no to anything that makes them uncomfortable—whether it’s a hug from a relative or a situation that feels unsafe.

Knowing they have control over their bodies helps children develop healthy boundaries, and it protects them from potential harm.

When we empower kids with this knowledge, we’re teaching them to recognize unsafe situations and to speak up confidently when they feel something isn't right.

As parents and caregivers, it’s our responsibility to make sure they know that their body is their own, and no one has the right to touch it without their permission. This is the foundation of s*xual abuse prevention and a key life skill every child deserves to have.

How can parents help their child exercise their body autonomy ?

First, understand everyone , including a child has the right to make decisions about their own body. Therefore, encourage them to make decisions about their body, such as saying 'no' to a hug even if the person is a family.

Second, start having these conversations early and often. Let your child know that it is alright to say no to any kind of touch whether safe or unsafe . If they don't want a touch, they can simply say 'no.'

Growing up, most of us were told it was rude to say 'no' especially to an adult who is a family. Not surprising ,over 90% of the time , the perpetrators of CSA are adults well known by the child and the parents .(source : RAINN)

Teaching body autonomy to kids early is not just about safety; it’s about giving your child the power to protect themselves and grow into confident, self-assured individuals who can find their own place in the society without having to deal with the trauma of CSA.
Life is already a hard nut to crack.

*xualAbusePrevention

I am Blessing Israel a CSA Preventive educator. I help children recognize and report what's unsafe and empower parents, educators and caregivers to prevent CSA because prevention is better than healing .

Empower your kids and yourself with Yelp for Help Books

Why it is important for Kids to know they have control over their own body :

A mother was worried about her daughter. At 6 years old, she had already started to notice that her daughter would hesitate when someone, even family members, wanted a hug.
Her daughter would simply say 'no' and maintained her stance , even when the mother nudge her to obliged.

“I don’t want her to be rude, but I also don’t want to force her,” the mother said .

What this mom realized is something every parent should understand: children need to know they have control over their own bodies.

Teaching kids that they are in charge of their bodies is essential for their safety, confidence, and emotional health. When children understand body autonomy which is the right to decides what is okay or not okay with one's body , they learn the power of saying no to anything that makes them uncomfortable—whether it’s a hug from a relative or a situation that feels unsafe.

Knowing they have control over their bodies helps children develop healthy boundaries, and it protects them from potential harm.

When we empower kids with this knowledge, we’re teaching them to recognize unsafe situations and to speak up confidently when they feel something isn't right.

As parents and caregivers, it’s our responsibility to make sure they know that their body is their own, and no one has the right to touch it without their permission. This is the foundation of s*xual abuse prevention and a key life skill every child deserves to have.

How can parents help their child exercise their body autonomy ?

First, understand everyone , including a child has the right to make decisions about their own body. Therefore, encourage them to make decisions about their body, such as saying 'no' to a hug even if the person is a family.

Second, start having these conversations early and often. Let your child know that it is alright to say no to any kind of touch whether safe or unsafe . If they don't want a touch, they can simply say 'no.'

Growing up, most of us were told it was rude to say 'no' especially to an adult who is a family. Not surprising ,over 90% of the time , the perpetrators of CSA are adults well known by the child and the parents .(source : RAINN)

Teaching body autonomy to kids early is not just about safety; it’s about giving your child the power to protect themselves and grow into confident, self-assured individuals who can find their own place in the society without having to deal with the trauma of CSA.
Life is already a hard nut to crack.

*xualAbusePrevention

I am Blessing Israel a CSA Preventive educator. I help children recognize and report what's unsafe and empower parents, educators and caregivers to prevent CSA because prevention is better than healing .

Empower your kids and yourself with Yelp for Help Books

Every child deserves the freedom to feel safe. When we show them how to stand up for their body and their heart, we’re equipping them with a future of possibility and peace.

What would you do if your child showed one of these signs?

CSA can be difficult to detect, especially in younger children who can't speak up .

However, it’s important that parents and caregivers recognize the warning signs of CSA early to nib the bud. Empowerment begins with awareness

Here are some common physical, emotional, and behavioral signs of CSA you should be aware of:

🔵 Physical Signs:

Unexplained bruises, bleeding, or swelling in private areas

Frequent complain of pains or discomfort when washing private areas.

Difficulty walking or sitting

Torn, stained, or bloody underclothing

🔵 Emotional Signs:

Sudden mood swings (anger, fear, or withdrawal)

Unusual anxiety or fear of certain people or places

Nightmares or bedwetting

🔵 Behavioral Signs:

Knowledge of s*xual acts inappropriate for their age

Regression to earlier childhood behaviors (thumb-sucking, clinging)

Avoiding certain people without explanation

While these signs are possible tell-tale signs of CSA, they are not automatic for measuring the presence of CSA. Hence, the need to involve professionals for proper analysis if any or a cumulative of these signs continued over a certain period of time .

What can parents do to prevent CSA from happening ?

🔵Start the conversation with your kids today. Empower them to understand their right to their body and the power of saying no and speaking up when something doesn't feel right .

🔵Create a safe space for them to share, and let them know you are always there to listen. 💬

So we ask again, what would you do if your child suddenly showed one of these signs over a period of time ?

Ignore, respond , assume it will go away, or Yelp for help ?

We like to read your thoughts

Who we are ...

Yelp for Help Child S*xual Abuse Prevention empowers children , parents, caregivers and teachers to recognize , resist and report cases of child s*xual abuse . With our foundation Yelp For Help Foundation we take our 'gospel' to inner-city children, empowering with life essential skills to recognize, resist and report unsafe situations.

We used books and resources from Yelp for Help Books to facilitate most of our programs and empower those we serve.

Join us in this great mission of light , giving voice to the voiceless .

Your child's safety starts with awareness.

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Know the Truth:

Myth: Child s*xual abuse leaves obvious physical signs.

Fact: Many victims of child s*xual abuse show no physical signs, but the emotional scars can be deep.
Rather than look for physical sign, parents can be more vigilant by paying attention to kids' emotions.

Things no one told you about child s*xual abuse:

The trauma can lead to long-lasting psychological effects, including anxiety, depression,PTSD, & difficulties in forming healthy relationships in adulthood.
Parents can be a step 🪜 ahead by empowering their kids to recognize, resit , and report unsafe situations.
In partnership with
Yelp For Help Foundation and Yelp for Help Books we are shedding light to this hideous , yet sensitive topic to help families raise children who are confident to STAND and SPEAK up 🗣️ for their own safety .

Protect Our Children, Protect Their Future: The Devastating Impact of Child S*xual Abuse

Child s*xual abuse (CSA) has a devastating and lasting effect on school-age children, affecting their mental health, academic performance, and overall well-being. It destroys their sense of safety and self-worth, leaving emotional scars that can last a lifetime. Now more than ever, we need to take action to safeguard our children from this silent epidemic.

Yelp for Help Child S*xual Abuse Prevention we offer tailored Body Safety Programs designed to empower children from preschool to high school. These programs teach children about body autonomy, personal boundaries, and how to speak up when something isn't right. Our curriculum is age-appropriate, interactive, and designed to equip students with the tools they need to defend themselves against s*xual abuse.

Let’s break the silence and protect the next generation.

Join the movement today! Together, we can make schools a safe place for every child.

Enroll in our body safety programs. Let's build a safer future for our kids!

As a new school year draws near, it's important to ask: What measures is your school taking to protect students, especially when it comes to preventing child s*xual abuse?

Child s*xual abuse is a serious issue that impacts students of all ages. Schools have a unique responsibility to provide a safe environment where children and teens can learn, grow, and feel secure. Implementing a child safety program, particularly one that focuses on s*xual abuse prevention, is essential to safeguarding your students' well-being.

Yelp for Help CSAP is dedicated to supporting schools in this mission. We offer comprehensive child s*xual abuse prevention programs that are tailored to different age groups, from young children to high school teens. Our programs are designed to be engaging, age-appropriate, and empowering, giving students the tools they need to protect themselves and know when to seek help.

As you finalize your school’s program calendar for the upcoming year, we encourage you to include a focused child safety initiative.

Partnering with Yelp for Help CSAP will ensure that your school is equipped with the resources and expertise needed to create a safe learning environment for every student.

Reach out to us today to discuss how we can collaborate to bring these compulsory programs to your school.
Together, we can make child safety a top priority in our educational community.

Things no one told you about CSA:

The majority of cases occur within trusted relationships, not from strangers. Abusers are often family members, friends, or people close to the child.
Parents can do more by empowering their children to STAND up & SPEAK up. Prevention is better than healing.

It is never safe to assume all is safe. Abuse can go on for years right under your roof with people whom you trust or hold in high esteem. Help spread the word. Yelp For Help Foundation is bringing to light again a taboo topic that has been shelved under darkness but has continued to ravage the lives of our children.
Join the movement, and spread our message.

Know the Truth: Myth vs Fact

Myth: Child s*xual abuse is only committed by strangers.

Fact: Most child s*xual abuse is committed by someone the child knows and trusts.

Over 80% of the time, the abuse happens in the victims' homes.

Empower your own to STAND UP for themselves. Equip your child with the soon-to-be lunch Yelp4HelpBooks