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Sometimes I ask myself why I should advice an adult to get off something that isn't working. I no longer do that! If ur marriage or relationship is giving u shege, please stay with ur dear husband or wife, don't leave inugo? But lemme remind, if u die, there is no law that ur ki.ller would have to face and reason being that we are in a terrible society.

Truth is: anyone who understands and values peace of mind, and knows what it means to live regardless of what anyone has to say, won't want to be in the place of vawulence and shege.

I no longer get upset over those that di.ed as a result of domestic violence, because they chose to die. So, I can't get upset over the choices of an adult, and this is based on my convictions that one can only choose to do what's best for one. I have been involved in campaigns against domestic violence. In all the campaigns I was involved in, we preached against domestic violence and also encouraged men and women who are directly or indirectly involved in any form of abuse to speak out and to walk away to live.

But I am so surprised that after several campaigns and all of that, I still see women and men who sit tight and comfortably in a grave driven marriages.

Understand that marriage does not change a rougue. And prayer answered is when u park ur things and walk away.

Don't forget that once u are dead, the society that u stayed back to impress in an abusive relationship or marriage would blame ur lifeless body and even fight over what to eat and drink on the day u will be buried.

Enjoy ur shege sha!

1. You need to recognise the fact that getting a woman has to be a strategic thing if you want it to be beautiful. Even if God has ordained it, how you take it matters.

2. If you want to excel with her, first be her student. Study and understand her emotions, strengths and pursuits. She is tired of men who can't read her and weary to hand her life over to the one who doesn't even understand her emotion and logic.

3. Don't treat her like "every girl is the same", they are not! Money won't always do the magic, many girls play the money game but when they meet a man who appreciates their own code in particular, he got her!

4. Again, you need to really study her!

5. What's your general reputation, especially amongst the girls? Unfortunately, "the one" won't judge you just on her own thinking, she is bothered about how others see you. She is concerned if she accepts you, your popular tag becomes her "ID card". If your reputation is poor, your journey to getting her to be your wife may be harder. Every woman is glad to marry a man whose reputation speaks peace.

6. Don't carelessly ask her out. If you do it right, it won't be a thing of chance when you ask, it would be confirming what you have worked on. Don't try to sell a product you have not well advertised. In friendship, give value, be valuable, reasonable and irreplaceable. Give your best so that she cannot imagine someone else fits the place.

7. You need to stop being careless and use your conduct to assure her that you aren't "an error" before you ask her out. Stop being flirty with girls, your dp, status updates and all your media response should speak honour not "randy"
I am not asking you to pretend, be actually disciplined.

8. Don't be arrogant and cocky, it is not romantic. Be firm but let even your firmness be laced with thoughtfulness and care.

9. Don't approach everything with rigid logic, learn to appreciate and value her emotional response to things. She cannot stand a man who undermines her feelings and no matter how strong she is, she wants you to be her strength. Don't mock her weakness, be her might.

If we can't unify PDP, there is no guarantee Atiku will unite Nigeria- Bode George.

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