Love Heals

THE CALL OF THE SOUL DEEP WOMAN

Because I know the pain of struggling to stay true to who you are when doubt and feeling inauthentic keeps you feeling small inside.

But that’s what happens when early on in life you were forced to live other people’s truth. You forgot who you are. You forgot what you came here to do.

We’ve accept the limitations, the social conditioning, the cultural dogmas imposed on us by the domineering patriarchy that replaced the temples of the Goddess all over the ancient world.
What labels were imposed on you?

What kind of names your feelings were given? Do they call you "the moody, the eccentric, the anxious, the manic woman?

Did the labels box you? Bind you? Contain you, control you and make you feel small?

Soul Deep Woman…

Take a moment and rest. You must be so tired. Tired of being told how to feel. Tired of not being seen and heard.

And truly, you are tired of your own self-abandonment... That nagging voice, the self-doubt is just too much to bear, right?

You know that you want to live true to who you are… Live your truth and contribute with your gifts and talents to the ennobling of the humankind.

You want to feel in your heart of hearts the passion of standing in your power.

And the longer you wait to live true to who you are, the louder the inner critic becomes, reminding you that you are a fraud and an impostor’

Please, I beg you not to listen to this voice… It is just an old protective mechanism trying to keep you safe. But you are not looking for safety. You are willing to flow with uncertainty because you have a meaningful role to play in the creation of a world worthy of true Humanity.

So, isn’t it is time to forget the rubbish you’ve been told?

If not now, then when? If not you, then who?

There is only YOU that has YOUR World View.
There is only YOU that experienced adversity the way you did.
There is only YOU that feels the Wound of the World with your heart.
That is only YOU that knows the journey from Wounding to Wisdom.

You have been on the Heroine’s Journey and your tribe is waiting to hear your Voice of Truth.

Step into your Power and let the world know what you are made of. What you believe in. What you stand for.

Let’s re-imagine your life and contribution not limited by Labels, diagnoses and name calling. But by the wisdom you embody as a Soul Deep Woman.

A Rebel… A Nurturer… A Visionary… A Healer…
An Authentic… and Creative Soul Deep Woman...
A Seeker… Committed to Knowledge, Truth, Kindness and
Generosity of Spirit…
And so it is...
Now in 2023... and onward...

Yes, stand in your Power and be such a cool Soul today that your tribe craves your vibe. And everything starts with knowing who you are and what gives meaning to your life.

Essay by Archaeology for the Woman's Soul
~Corina Luna Dea

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🌀Nicole
Sacred Wild Woman Medicine

Gratitude to the Unknown Artist

For me, trees have always been the most penetrating preachers. I revere them when they live in tribes and families, in forests and groves. And even more I revere them when they stand alone. They are like lonely persons. Not like hermits who have stolen away out of some weakness, but like great, solitary men, like Beethoven and Nietzsche. In their highest boughs the world rustles, their roots rest in infinity; but they do not lose themselves there, they struggle with all the force of their lives for one thing only: to fulfil themselves according to their own laws, to build up their own form, to represent themselves. Nothing is holier, nothing is more exemplary than a beautiful, strong tree. When a tree is cut down and reveals its naked death-wound to the sun, one can read its whole history in the luminous, inscribed disk of its trunk: in the rings of its years, its scars, all the struggle, all the suffering, all the sickness, all the happiness and prosperity stand truly written, the narrow years and the luxurious years, the attacks withstood, the storms endured. And every young farmboy knows that the hardest and noblest wood has the narrowest rings, that high on the mountains and in continuing danger the most indestructible, the strongest, the ideal trees grow.

Trees are sanctuaries. Whoever knows how to speak to them, whoever knows how to listen to them, can learn the truth. They do not preach learning and precepts, they preach, undeterred by particulars, the ancient law of life.

A tree says: A kernel is hidden in me, a spark, a thought, I am life from eternal life. The attempt and the risk that the eternal mother took with me is unique, unique the form and veins of my skin, unique the smallest play of leaves in my branches and the smallest scar on my bark. I was made to form and reveal the eternal in my smallest special detail.

A tree says: My strength is trust. I know nothing about my fathers, I know nothing about the thousand children that every year spring out of me. I live out the secret of my seed to the very end, and I care for nothing else. I trust that God is in me. I trust that my labor is holy. Out of this trust I live.

When we are stricken and cannot bear our lives any longer, then a tree has something to say to us: Be still! Be still! Look at me! Life is not easy, life is not difficult. Those are childish thoughts. Let God speak within you, and your thoughts will grow silent. You are anxious because your path leads away from mother and home. But every step and every day lead you back again to the mother. Home is neither here nor there. Home is within you, or home is nowhere at all.

A longing to wander tears my heart when I hear trees rustling in the wind at evening. If one listens to them silently for a long time, this longing reveals its kernel, its meaning. It is not so much a matter of escaping from one's suffering, though it may seem to be so. It is a longing for home, for a memory of the mother, for new metaphors for life. It leads home. Every path leads homeward, every step is birth, every step is death, every grave is mother.

So the tree rustles in the evening, when we stand uneasy before our own childish thoughts: Trees have long thoughts, long-breathing and restful, just as they have longer lives than ours. They are wiser than we are, as long as we do not listen to them. But when we have learned how to listen to trees, then the brevity and the quickness and the childlike hastiness of our thoughts achieve an incomparable joy. Whoever has learned how to listen to trees no longer wants to be a tree. He wants to be nothing except what he is. That is home. That is happiness.

Herman Hesse

Top 100 lesson learned from book". 101 SIMPLE TRUTHS FOR A BETTER LIFE"

1. Be humble, you don't know everything.

2. Lift weights often.

3. Take walks in nature.

4. Seek discomfort often.

5. Think progress, not perfection.

6. Harness your ego
7. Don't sell out for a quick buck.

8. If you can do it now, don't wait until tomorrow.

9. Do deep work daily.
10. Only expend energy on the controllable.

11. Laugh at yourself. Chill.

12. Stop doing things you don't like.
13. “Whenever you are offended, understand that you are complicit in taking offense.” — Epictetus

14. Find a hobby that has no financial goal.

15. Limit your inner circle.

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16. Train yourself to view obstacles as opportunities.

17. Don't talk about what you're going to do. Talk about what you did.

18. Read books to learn, not to brag you read books.
19. Do something hard every day.

20. People are not worried about you, they're worried about themself. Take solace in that.

21. Think deeply before making a decision.
22. Get sunlight exposure daily.

23. “Associate with people who are likely to improve you. Welcome those who you are capable of improving.”

24. Invest in one piece of art you find beautiful and put it in your home.
25. Get a loving pet and your joy will rise.

26. Set personal deadlines for increased productivity.

27. Brag on others, not on yourself.
28. Go to bed on time.

29. Don't take your phone to bed.

30. “Always say less than necessary.” — Robert Greene
31. Remember "well done" is better than "well said".

32. Realize you can learn from everyone you meet.

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33. Don't compare yourself to others.
34. Pray when things are bad, pray when things are good.

35. Value your marriage more than your career.

36. Internalize the truth that hate won't heal you.
37. Read the classics. They're timeless for a reason.

38. Choose to be powerful, not pitiful.

39. Your temper is a liability, not an asset.
40. Self-affirmations are overrated, generate evidence.

41. Pay it forward often.

42. Don't worry about the price of a book, just buy it if you will read it.
43. To see wrong, and do nothing, is wrong.

44. Be a student until the day you die.

45. Work to owe no one anything.
46. Consider the cost before moving forward.

47. Be known as a giver, not a taker.

48. Every time you are blessed, try to be a blessing.
49. Value solitude

50. Lean into challenges.

51. Pursue experiences, not things.
52. Cut toxic people from your life.

53. Visualize success habitually.

54. Stop wasting energy trying to impress people on socials with fakery.
55. Have a good "why" for everything you do. If you don't, stop doing it.

56. Don't try to beat others, beat who you were yesterday.

57. Be strict on you, lenient with others.
58. Become a master of negotiation.

59. Read biographies of the greats that went before you. Study them.

60. Have kids. There is no greater joy.
61. Forgive, even if they don't deserve it. It's not for them, it's for you.

62. Spend time with older people.

63. There is no shortcut. Learn and get to work.
64. Build discipline, don't rely on motivation.

65. Don't shun cliches. Their wisdom is timeless.

66. Read to learn, don't read to read.
67. Read philosophy.

68. Determine your philosophy.

69. Fuel the habit bonfire.
70. Life in the present, forget the past.

71. Walk everyday.

72. Tell the truth all the time.
73. No job is beneath you.

74. Make a habit of hand writing "thank-you" notes.

75. Memento Mori - think about your death. Let it change you positively.
76. Gain wealth for freedom, not status.

77. Always be the hardest workers in the room.

78. Never be the most successful person in the room.
79. Process over destination.

80. Never walk past trash and ignore it.

81. Play chess.
82. Talk to strangers, it will teach you a lot.

83. Don't dogmatize routines.

84. Learn to succeed in subpar conditions.
85. Practice the law of action, not attraction.

86. Fail often, just don't quit.

87. When you fall, get up quickly.
88. Journal

89. Stop watching the news.

90. Audit your time every quarter. Where are the time-vampires?
91. Don't be jealous of those ahead of you, learn from them.

92. Your character is more important than your bank account.

93. Say no (a lot).
94. Success is more than wealth.

95. Don't judge others.

96. "Do to others, what you would have them do to you" - Jesus Christ
97. Wake up early.

98. Cut out alcohol.

99. Love your neighbor.

100. Live an interesting life.

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Still True:

It’s been a strange time. If you are on planet earth, it’s probably fair to say that you have been on quite a journey. And that journey may have amped up in the last year, or the last several years. You may not be who you were and you may not even know who you are becoming. You may have thought you knew but you may have lost all that you thought was true.

How many skins have been shed? How many masks have been removed? How many times have you been turned upside down and inside out?

It’s been a strange time. The liminal lines between fact and fiction have blurred and switched places.

Some of you are naked and raw and some of you are exhausted and some of you are celebrating transformation and some of you are coming undone and wondering when will it end.

Healing is not an A to Z journey. Becoming human has many different maps and we may not agree on those maps. I think we can agree that it’s a strange time and there has been more division than ever before and also, the masks have eroded more than ever before.

Perhaps you don’t feel like you belong or perhaps you feel like an orphan to the system or to the construct.

Sometimes it’s good to crawl underneath the skin of a story and listen to with a mythopoetic ear.

It’s going to get stranger and more difficult and ask everything of you. Don’t lose heart. Even when the skins are ripped away by the tide. Don’t lose heart. Remember the soul cannot ever die, even when the masks have dissolved.

Sometimes the ego is a little bit of a chicken Little, running around thinking that the sky is falling, screaming and screaming. I think the hardest thing for the ego in these times, is not that it is here to die, but that it is here to enter into partnership with soul; it shouldn’t be the only driver of the bus. And soul shouldn’t be way back in the backseat. Soul shouldn’t be the only one driving though either, it’s hard to stay grounded. The divine marriage is not an easy feat to weave in this lifetime. Don’t lose heart. You were made for these times.

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You are not here to find love, nor to be greeted by happiness at every turn, nor to be showered with kindness, nor to be celebrated by all, to forever remain a child.

No. You came here to create love out of war.

Your soul willingly left its blissful place beyond all troubles to descend into a stifling frame of bone, blood and flesh. Why? Because only here can inner strength be forged by pain, can wisdom be nurtured by failure, can love be the reward of those who choose to give love. Your soul came here to struggle with the bitter things of life and squeeze out of them a syrup of sweet, inner joy.

And as there is no sweetness as succulent as bittersweet, so there is no river of love that runs as deep as the love forged through a battle of the heart, no strength as powerful as that wrestled from the hands of an enemy through stubborn, defiant resolve, no wisdom as the wisdom gained by stumbling in darkness, standing up again, stumbling and walking again, and again.

All that is good, all that has meaning, all is up to you alone."

Rabbi Tzvi Freeman

You work 8 hours to live 4.
You work 6 days to enjoy 1.
You work 8 hours to eat in 15 minutes.
You work 8 hours to sleep 5.
You work all year just to take a week or two vacation.
You work all your life to retire in old age,
And contemplate only your last breaths.
Eventually you realize that life is nothing but a parody of yourself practicing for your own oblivion.
We have become so accustomed to material and social slavery that we no longer see the chains.
Life is a short journey, live it! Collect memories, not material things!

Love heals...if you let it.