Swinging Surprise
Swinging advice and tips by sw***ers for sw***ers!
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And, the rest of the story :)
45. The S*x Party! – What Happened Upstairs “This is delicious!” Courtney raved over some concoction of cheese and mushrooms which were one of the many tapas-like dishes on the table. “We figured something lite for now and then we have a fairly extensive cheeseboard for… after,” Brandon said with a smile. “To the host and hostess,...
https://www.swingingsurprise.com/post/44-the-sex-party
The start of a perfect night... I wish I had written this and not Alex :)
44. The S*x Party! A few weeks passed after our country pub group social and as usual everyone’s real lives were getting in the way of adult play. Courtney and I chalked the entire event up as just a good time out that probably wouldn’t lead to any significant future interaction. That was ok as the night had been ...
https://www.swingingsurprise.com/post/12-it-started-with-a-dry-spell
Here we go again :)
43. It Started with a Dry Spell Well, it was a time of great sexual drought when all our close friends were out of action for the foreseeable future. Courtney much prefers the company of a select group of friends to random encounters and, to be honest, so do I. Our fantasy ideal was a long weekend retreat in a sumptuous country ho...
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Nothing funnier than a 50 year old mother of four playing Daisy Duke! 😆☺😇
Hope this advice is helpful! Know that most of us don't have to think about swinging parties for a while... 😌
https://www.swingingsurprise.com/post/advice-beat-the-house-party-anxiety
Advice - Beat the House Party Anxiety! The time will come in your swinging career when, out of the blue, you’ll get an invite to a house party. What’s a house party you ask? A house party is where a couple, in their own home, hosts multiple swinging couples and/or singles. That definition leaves you with lots of questions, doesn’t ...
Added another post to our silly little blog. Hope you enjoy :)
https://www.swingingsurprise.com/post/42-sally-takes-charge
42. Sally Takes Charge! 11. Sally takes charge! Well, to talk about Sally from my viewpoint (Courtney here) is incredibly hard. First off, I’m really not bi-sexual. When I see a good-looking woman, I admire her looks but it doesn’t give me tingles or open the floodgates. Further, I was raised in a household that looked...
Haven't posted anything for a bit due to lockdown blues. However, it's freaking good to have a h***y hubby! Just spent a long afternoon grooming, taking sexy pictures, and then boinking like bunnies 😊
Sometimes your sweet little friend needs a lift 😆
Back before covid, nerves jangling, butterflies doing loops in my tummy, our dates are almost here!
Guess who's legs I'm holding (name from our blog/books not real life name of course!) and we will send you a sexy photo 😍 (picture taken before lockdown)
Howdy all! Really looking forward to a vaccine and a chance to get to physically meet you all again!
Advice – Those S*xy Black Stripes! We don’t show our faces to just anyone who claims to be a sw***er. We find that the pressure is high to show faces early in an online exchange and is growing over time. Further, there seems to be less tolerance and even hurt feelings when you quickly delete a face picture you’ve sent someone. Wh...
And, as a counterpoint to the last post, some encouragement for single guys!
Advice – Single Guy? Get your message above the cut line! In our last advice post, in which I discussed how swinging women were like and unlike their vanilla counterparts, we covered how, counterintuitively, swinging women are harder to get into bed. So, what’s a single guy supposed to do to increase their odds of success? I’m glad you asked! Let me, C...
We will be doing a book signing at a local swinging club post Covid! Let us know if you want to join us. Also, will be releasing our third book in time for Christmas! What more could you grandmother want than a set of our swinging books?
My husband Alex says he created a monster when he turned over writing some of the posts to me!
Cruel myth busting...
Advice – Single Guys and S*xy Hot Wives! It's a almost a myth. As a single guy you usually have one thing on your mind, how to get laid! You want it as soon as possible, as often as possible and are willing to bend your standards just a tad to make it happen if needs require. Down at the local pub you see the same handful of single ladies....
Sometimes you just hang out looking sexy by the barn ☺️
Mask up so we can get back to swinging! 😜
So, if there was no pandemic and you lived close enough, would you try? 😉
So when Alex surprised me with the idea of swinging, I had no idea what to expect! I did a bit of research and found nothing but negative and nasty stereotypes. Thankfully, for Swinging Curious people nowadays there are lots more balanced resources available! Swinging isn't for everyone but it has been awesome for us!
We have a couple of free (with Amazon Prime) books that are the true chronicle of our swinging journey. Please take a look, pass them on to others and help us help other sw***ers and swinging curious folks!
https://www.amazon.co.uk/gp/product/B08L2DQJ7V?ref_=dbs_dp_rwt_sb_tkin&binding=kindle_edition
Lockdown is a bear! My libido has jumped into hyper-drive knowing that we can't play for another month or two. Alex is going to have to step up his game! 🥰
Oh no! Here we go revealing the crazy crap we do... 😊
Advice – Spaghetti S*xual Courtney here again… hope you guys don’t mind. There’s lots of talk about sexuality in the swinging community nowadays, especially in this time of increasing acceptance of fluidity. We’ve found that the incidence of completely straight ladies on swinging dating sites is quite low. There are ...
We're a real swinging couple! I know, that's hard to process for lots of folks. Yes, we are happily married, have a full fun life, and have a secret hobby 😉
When we started swinging there weren't a lot of resources to help swinging curious folks. So, we decided to help by writing a free blog detailing our experiences from day one and providing hard won advice! Hope it helps someone 😊
Swingingsurprise.com
Hey Team Swing! We have two books on swinging that cover our experiences during the first couple of years swinging. They are free with Kindle Unlimited and cheap if you don't have that. We aren't trying to make any money, just like with our free blog, we are trying to be helpful to the swinging and swinging curious community! Would love your feed back!
Book 1 - Swinging Surprise (180+pages)
https://www.amazon.co.uk/Swinging-Surprise-swinging-Courtney-Adventures-ebook/dp/B08BW5JDDV/ref=sr_1_1?dchild=1&keywords=swinging+surprise&qid=1603548221&sr=8-1
Book 2 - Shocking Swapping (180+pages)
https://www.amazon.co.uk/Shocking-Swapping-Adventures-Alex-Courtney-ebook/dp/B08D3R6MKF/ref=sr_1_1?dchild=1&keywords=shocking+swapping&qid=1603548450&sr=8-1
Well, we finaly added another post! It's about an experience of which we aren't super proud. Please don't judge us too harshly, we were under the influence of being horney! 😇
Advice for our single guy friends! It isn't easy!
Advice – Single Guys and the Swinging Website As a single guy cruising on swinging websites, you really have the cards stacked against you. Swinging sites are not dating sites. Single guys face stiff (pun intended) competition on swinging websites. In fact, the typically lazy impatient single male (I was one once) needs extreme patience and eff...
Advice – Playing With The Swinging Fantasy You have this fantasy about swinging. Maybe it’s about meeting other couples for blistering hot play or it might be about adding a single to make up a steamy ménage à trois. Whatever the case, you have the fantasy and would like to play around with it for a bit Playing around with the fantasy mi...
It's been busy on swinging surprise lately! You can still be one of the first to get our forum going 😉
https://www.swingingsurprise.com/post/advice-the-big-insertion
Advice – The Big Insertion The first time a couple sees each other playing is memorable in both exciting and nerve-wracking ways. First off, on the good side, seeing your partner having pleasure can be extremely pleasurable. On the other hand, there are natural jealousies that can crop up and distract from what should be an a...
Advice – It’s a Sporting Event! Join the Wix app to read this blog and stay updated on the go.
Survey- What should we name our third book?
We are thinking Delicious Dalliances or L***y Liaisons. If you have a preference or a suggestion please let us know!!!
Note that our blog site is free and we've kept the books prices as low as possible - they are free with Kindle Unlimited! We aren't in it for the money. We really think we could help folks who are swinging curious. 😊
Hope you guys are enjoying the posts that Courtney has written (dictated to Alex). Alex has been working hard on several new posts as well. Look for a drop of new material soon!
Also, thanks for putting up with our clunky site... it's a mom and pop production and we are discovery learning as we go!
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