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Before you call yourself a prophet do you know that the prophet Isaiah was cut in half for the GOSPEL we are enjoying today...

Before you call yourself a apostle, do you know that Apostles John was thrown into a pot of boiling oil, for the same GOSPEL Apostle Peter was crucified upside down and that is how the early Christian had died...

They died without building a big church but they won souls for JESUS...

Today there are many who make themselves apostles, prophet, bishop, pastor but do not know the value of that name.

Nobody wants to die for the GOSPEL today. I keep asking, are these people really servants of God or of themselves?

So never think your calling is a way to make money. Remember your calling is for GOD is winning souls, not just making money or to get wealth that many people do nowadays!!!

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Happy new month
Acts 2:17-18
May you receive the fire.
May all your dreams come to pass
May your visions be establish.
In Jesus' name.
Amen

AN ‘ENDURING MARRIAGE’ IS A TOXIC RELATIONSHIP
Written by Counselor Adofoli

The culture of telling people every marriage or relationship has problems so one should endure is not healthy advice. Such counsel is toxic to marriage and we need to change that. Enduring marital problem means, living with pains or hurt. you don't expect couples who are hurt to be nice to each other when the hurt is caused by themselves. They will rather continue to hurt each other. The hurt becomes cyclical.

Its undeniable fact that every marriage or relationship has problem, this is because every human being has problems. No one is perfect. we all have our own weakness or illness and we go into marriage with that. It wrong for anybody to tell you to live with your illness or endure your illness because everyone has illness. The good advice will, work on your illness, get solution to it, so you can become better.

Enduring marital problems does not solve them, problems in a relationship or marriage are just sign or symptoms that show, somethings needs to work on, and it will need collectively effort and commitment to work on that. No matter how small the issues is, resolving it is a blessing to the marriage. You don’t ignore issue because you think it’s small. Small illness has power to kill after long period of time.

Having more problems in your relationship or marriage does not mean you are with the wrong person or in a wrong relationship. The problem is when you two or a party refuse to admit, there is a problem and commit to working to resolve it, then you have a wrong partner.

We have mistaken marriage or relationship to what our spouse can do for us or give to us instead of what we are committed to building together. If you sow love in your marriage, you reap love, you will feel loved, if you invest time into your relationship, you enjoy time together.

Marriage is a lifelong journey; you cannot endure a problem or issue in your marriage for a lifetime. You cannot endure pain for life, you cannot endure hurt for life, you cannot endure immaturity for life, you cannot endure disrespect for life, you cannot endure no communication for life. You will break down, you will get tired, you will die if you don't change for the worst. There will be a time you can’t endure it any longer.

Let's teach marriage couples or encourage them to work on their marital problems together as couple or seek for help as a unit, they should be open, sincere and honest to each other. voice out their thoughts, feelings. talk about everything, be there for each other. help and support each other in every way they can.

One of the mistake singles make when it comes to marriage, is that they try to marry someone who is like their parent, if they grow up with their parent and they happened to have a successful marriage. They want ideal husband or wife to be like their father or mother. They want to have their parent’s kind of marriage. They try to solve issues like how their parent did. They fall on their parent for every issue in their marriage.

You cannot marry someone who is like your father or mother. So, introducing them to your parent, trying so hard for your parent to like them won’t change them to be like your parent. Even if your parent like your spouse so much, don't expect your spouse to grow up to be your parent in your marriage.

There is no one like your parent, you are married to entirely different person. Your goal is to study your spouse, get to know them and relate to them. you also have the duty to teach your spouse about you, what work for you and what does not work for you. Don't assume they should know everything about you.

If you are single, dating or in any relationship in which you can't resolve issues or conflict in the relationship, please don't promote such relationship into marriage. If you cannot resolve issue, you cannot live together in marriage. Your feelings will only get worse with time. It will change from sweet to bittersweet to bitter eventually. You might end up hurting the one you love or being hurt by the one who loved you.

In conclusion, 'Be kind and helpful to one another, tender-hearted [compassionate, understanding], forgiving one another [readily and freely], just as God in Christ also forgave [a]you" - Ephesians 4:32 (AMP).

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Thank you for reading. © Frank Edem Adofoli

A MESSAGE TO MEN

When choosing a woman who works, you have to accept that she can't handle the house.
If you have chosen a housewife who can take care of you and fully manage your household, you have to accept that she is not earning money.
If you choose an obedient woman, you must accept that she depends on you and you must ensure her life.
If you decide to be with a strong woman, you have to accept that she is tough and she has her own opinion.
If you choose a beautiful woman, then you will have to accept big expenses.
If you decide to be with a successful woman, you must understand that she has character and has her own goals and ambitions.
There are no such things as perfect. Everyone has their own riddle, which makes us unique.

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GROW BEYOND BLOCKING CONTACTS ON YOUR PARTNER'S PHONE
Written by Counselor Adofoli

There are people who believe once they are in a relationship with you, they own you, you are their invention, you are a piece of property they own. They want to dictate how to live your life instead of offering you lovely advice a friend or a lover will do.

Before they came into your life, you had people you talked to, people you hang around with. People you entertained. Besides that, you were not in a love relationship or intimate with those people, neither were you messing around with them. You had your boundaries and knew what you were doing as an adult and mature person.

But once your partner proposed to you and you accepted their proposal, they begun to order you around, dictate to you to the extent of telling you who to talk to and who not to. They treated you like you didn't know your right from left. They treated you as a child all in the name of relationship. And when you complain, they think you have something to hide that is why you are fighting back.

Relationship is not for kids, or the immature so if you find someone to be immature don't approach them with dating or marriage. If you don't like the way they live their life, the kind of people they hang around with then don't propose to them. If you do, you've got to understand the person's life does not revolve around you alone. Allow them to live so they can share their life with you. Don’t isolate them from people, that is how you kill them. If you believe you are a good person in their life, let your fruit speak for you.

It is immature to suggest to them not to talk to some people because you are afraid you might lose them to such a person. You are free to voice out how you feel about their relationship or friendship with others but you don't have any authority to order them to put a stop to such relationships. If you don't feel comfortable about their relationship with others and after voicing your feelings, nothing changes, you are free to end the relationship you have with your partner.

It is immature to take their phone and block some contacts on their phone. You are over stepping your boundaries. Such decisions are not yours to make, you can only advice. People do that for the fear that the person they are blocking on the partner's phone will have something to do with their partner. If your partner is a cheat and wants to cheat on you, blocking contacts on their phone won't stop that. If you don't trust them, do the honourable thing by ending the relationship.

It is immature to delete the contacts, image, video from your partner's phone because you don't like the people whose data remains on the phone. Be it their Ex or someone who showed interest in them, give the final decision to your partner. Don't treat them like they are kids who don't know what they are doing. If they being with you cannot take care of your insecurity then you need to see a Counselor as soon as possible.

When your partner agreed to your proposal, he or she knew what they were doing with you. If you believe she is too beautiful for you and you have to fight other men to keep her, without allowing her to make a decision on who she wants to be with, then I am sorry to tell you, you are with the wrong person. If you believe he is too handsome to be your man and the best way to keep him is by sacking all ladies around him without letting him choose who he wants to be with, then you are with the wrong man. Let him go so you can have your peace.

The foundation of a relationship and love is Trust. If you don’t trust your partner, you will find it hard to love them. You won’t accept them for who they are. You end up rejecting them and their love on a daily basis. Your partner will be happier to know you trust them than you love them, for when you have trust in the relationship, love can grow but love cannot grow without trust.

"Finally, all of you be like-minded [united in spirit], sympathetic, brotherly, kindhearted [courteous and compassionate toward each other as members of one household], and humble in spirit;" - 1 Peter 3:8 (AMP).

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Looking for a professional Counselor to help you with your relationship or marriage, a Mediator to help resolve your disputes, Looking for a life partner or a Speaker for your seminar or conference, please call or WhatsApp +233201435300. E-mail: [email protected]

LIKE my page; Facebook.com/frankedemadofoli and invite your friends and family to be part.

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Thank you for reading. © Frank Edem Adofoli

THE WOMAN WHO HAS YOUR P***S HAS YOUR BRAIN
Written by Counselor Adofoli

The open secret is, s*x has become a lucrative business with high demands. Some ladies are just cashing in. They are service providers selling the s*x to the men who have lost total control over their p***s. What seems to be private is now public. People are having s*x in all kinds of places, corners, holes, various washrooms at malls and workplaces, movie houses, inside cars, etc.

It's obvious our men are sick and are on a break. This is alarming and no one sees anything wrong with it any longer because the majority are into this business. There are “s*xpreneurs” called slay queens who are experts in taking care of loose husbands' s*xual needs in return for favours.

How will these men react to their children one day, when they aspire to be “s*xpreneurs”, as a future career in the making, since demand is high and has become number one source of income for others. Until the consumers or customers stop patronising, until the men stop buying s*x, it won’t stop. God created marriage because s*x has never been a business in his books and laws.

S*x will soon become a currency, a preferable mode of payment for bills such as accommodation, electronic gadgets, transportation, tickets to shows, payment for food as common as noodles, buying airtimes and data, and for even settlement of debts. It has become a powerful tool for corruption. Where people use s*x to get some position or job in politics and government.

We are dangerously getting to the place that, there won't be the need for marriage, ushering us into an era of broken homes. Since people are accepting s*x as source of income, broken heart or 'use and dump' have become bad debt for unsmarts s*xpreneurs.

Our society is getting deadly each day especially with the kind of commercials which play on our airwaves. Alcoholic beverages preaching s*x. The more our men especially consume these substances, the higher their appetite for s*x goes. These substances help them to lose their central control system that is in charge of their p***s, they therefore end up in bed with any woman they come across who is ready to sell her va**na for some cash.

Many of the relationships are just cheaper subscription to s*x and won't end up in marriage. How can this society which is making men lose their sanity fight s*xual crime in the future?

Ignorance is gradually killing us, The p***s is a symbol of power to the man, just as in spirituality, the blood of Jesus Christ equals the power of Jesus. Some deity get their power through sacrificing blood periodically. With no blood, such deity become impotent and its worshipers turn their back on it.

Same with the p***s, it is just like a rubber hole, the brain pumps blood into it to become powerful. And once the brain is not able to pump blood into it, it becomes impotent. Meaning the man has become powerless. Just as a deity loses it worshipers because it has become powerless, such men lose their wives. In some cultures such man lose respect too, he cannot take any leadership role. Where elders are together brainstorming, he is not allowed to be part. This is how powerful the p***s is.

Again, one easy way of killing the man is by having access to his manhood. This organ is so important that God in His own wisdom has placed it beneath the stomach protected by two strong walls called the thighs.

A man giving his manhood to any woman whom he has not studied, trusted and married is like signing his death warrant. A woman who has control of your manhood does not only have power over you, he also has the power over your brain. This is why lots of women have high influenced on men they sleep with.

To some kings and Presidents, it is their wives who tell them what to do. It's the wives who rule. Have you asked yourself how come some side chicks dictate to the man what to do. She has the power to tell the man to get her anything she wants which the man fulfils without thinking twice because he has lost his brain to the woman through s*x.

For those who have been s*xual addict to ladies, what it means is the lady controls their bank account too. She tells him what to do and he has no choice than to obey. This is why men have to be very careful who they have s*x with.

It is so dangerous for men to drive to strange places in the city in the night, get a strange woman they don't know, take her to the hotel or home, have s*x with, and think he is enjoying life. No, he is just giving his power and brain to a strange woman with whom other people sleep with including spirits. And the man who does that is a sick man, a man who is intoxicated with alcohol or substance. "Alcohol is for people who are dying, for those who are in misery" - Proverbs 31:6 (GNT).

Men find any sort of woman in the street, night clubs, have s*x with her, loses their brain and power to her, and she tells him to marry her which he obeys because he has lost his brain and power to her. Live with her for years just to find out the children he thought they had together were not his. We are getting to a place that requesting DNA will be a first step for men like that who are trying to regain their brain and power back.

"Don't spend all your energy on s*x and all your money on women; they have destroyed kings" - Proverbs 31:3 (GNT).

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Looking for a professional Counselor to help you with your relationship or marriage, a Mediator to help resolve your disputes, Looking for a life partner or a Speaker for your seminar or conference, please call or WhatsApp +233201435300. E-mail: [email protected]

LIKE my page; Facebook.com/frankedemadofoli and invite your friends and family to be part.

SUBSCRIBE to my Channel on YouTube http://youtube.com/c/counselorAdofoli
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Thank you for reading. © Frank Edem Adofoli