Free love

Dear DRUMMER,

* I want to be like you sir, * I want to play like you sir, * I want to tap from your Grace, I get this lines so often BUT here's my thought...
As you tap into people's grace, make sure you're also ready to tap their hard times and the suffering they went through to achieve what you see... Nothing comes for free, there’s always a heavy price for every success you wish for.


I am - Druminator

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You think you are matured enough to go into marriage, my dear age is not maturity, though age is part of it but maturity is how mentally, physically, emotionally, financially stable and able to fix and face challenges.

MARRIAGE IS GIVE AND TAKE

1. When a woman is humble, she becomes a natural charm to her husband
2. When a woman is submissive, she gets what she desires from her husband
3. When a woman is trustworthy, she can control her husband's finances
4. When a woman is hospitable, she can host her husband's meeting
5. When a woman is friendly, she becomes her husband's best friend
6. When a woman is jovial and playful, she can unlock her husband's sad mood
7. When a woman is appreciative, she receives unexpected gifts from her husband
8. When a woman is respectful, she can attend her husband's cultural meetings with him
9. When a woman is understandable, her husband feels free to tell her even the ugly
10. When a woman is peaceful, her husband comes rushing home each time
11. When a woman is tender hearted, she makes a great mother for her kids
12. When a woman is slow tempered, she knows when to approach her husband in times of misunderstandings and arguments
13. When a woman is not vulnerable, she is loved by her husband
14. When a woman does not keep secrets from her husband, her husband tells her all of his every moves
15. When a woman is prayerful, she becomes a powerful support system to her husband
16. When a woman is God fearing, she sets her home on the principles of God the Almighty
17. When a woman is selfless, her husband relies completely on her
18. When a woman is creative, she and the husband can figure out the future together
Unfortunately when you are not any of these, it becomes so hard for you to enjoy marriage.
Seek God's help to become any of the above, you can't do it on your own.

Greetings to all submissive Women

A GOOD WOMAN BUILDS HER OWN HOME love

MEN STOP DATING A LIABILITY!

1. A girl who doesn't have transport fare to visit someone that she claims she love.

2. A lady who can't get you birthday or valentine gift but expect you to bring down the world for her during her birthday.

3. Someone who can't comfortably call you on phone for 5 minutes.
Always flashing, complaining and requesting for data and airtime...

4. I wonder how some Men cope with ladies that think relationship is an occupation where she's supposed to be paid and taken care of??
(S*x is not a benefit to only men. She might enjoy it more than you do). She might not even allow you have the s*x, yet you keep spending on her like government, kwantinue MR FINISHED MAN!

5. Stop dating a liability no matter how beautiful she is. Beauty is a bonus, focus on her content!
Date a lady who can add something meaningful to your life.
Things like: financial intelligence, emotional intelligence, spiritual intelligence.

6. Date someone who's capable of managing multiplying whatever she has and the ones you give to her, your soul will be at peace!
Not someone that will always be at the receiving end.

7. I'm not saying she must be rich.
But let her have something doing no matter how little it is, because no matter how much money you make, she must be able to assist you during the rainy days...

Two good heads are better than one. I urge you to stop wasting your money on someone who is not serious about you.

Build your CGP.
Build your Faith
Build your Muscles
Build Houses
But in all, Building Relationships. Ones that can uphold you, when all these things that you've built go down.
✍️GelaScript


: remain inspired.

A MESSAGE TO MEN

When choosing a woman who works, you have to accept that she can't handle the house.
If you have chosen a housewife who can take care of you and fully manage your household, you have to accept that she is not earning money.
If you choose an obedient woman, you must accept that she depends on you and you must ensure her life.
If you decide to be with a strong woman, you have to accept that she is tough and she has her own opinion.
If you choose a beautiful woman, then you will have to accept big expenses.
If you decide to be with a successful woman, you must understand that she has character and has her own goals and ambitions.
There are no such things
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Brother, that your independent woman also needs to depend on the little you can provide from your end.

That your career woman also needs to be carried sometimes.

Your woman of purpose also needs money to attend courses and develop her experience.

That your "I am doing okay" woman will do better with some of your kindness.

That your "I'm taking care of myself" also needs to be taken care of by her man.

Your smart money woman also needs your smart money and smart ideas to remain smarter.

Aunty "Heaven is the goal" also needs money to buy Bible and give better tithe.

Your spiritual fiancée also needs money to buy suya when she comes out of the spirit.

That woman that Is always fasting also needs money to fasten her stomach when she come out of fasting.

That sister that is also on retreat also needs a baby girl treatment once in a while.

Send something to your Prayer coordinator sweetheart to buy some new dresses and nice shoes, we don't wear Rhema.

That your woman that has her own ride would also appreciate something for fuel once in a while, if you can't fuel her car send something to buy plug or wiper.

That your babe that calls you often also needs to be sent airtime as a thank you for her sacrifices.

After saying "Your hair looks nice" also send her something to support her next hair style. She cannot do Ghana weaving with compliments, one attachment is now 3500.

Aunty wife material also needs money to sew the material.

That Proverbs 31 woman does not forbid Dominion pizza and chill Overcomers yoghurt.

Investing in the right woman Increases the favour on any man.

Don't wait to be told or forced before you identify the little needs of your woman and cover for them.

Especially those ones that don't ask you for anything, they deserve the most.

Dear Brother Prayer

You collected Sis Esther's number, but the only thing you send her on whatsapp is Open Heavens, Daily Manna and scripture for the day

You'll never ask her how her day went.

Well done Sir

Every time you see Sis Ngozi, it is "God bless you Sister, more fire Sister, keep pressing in prayer till Jesus comes Sister"

She should keep pressing till Jesus comes abi, Sir if you continue like this, singlehood will keep pressing you till Jesus comes

Sis Ann told you you're looking good, your reply was "God bless you Sister, don't forget bible study on Tuesday"

You can't even compliment a sister correctly

One single romantic line laidis isn't in your head.

It is your type that will end up proposing with "thus saith the Lord, you're my wife, marry me"

You're chatting with your fiancee and all you can talk about with her is prayer power, prayer fire, portals, dimensions, alignment, fasting....

Uncle, you'll soon be aligned back to rhe dimension of singleness.

This is how you'll marry, and be struggling to compliment your wife because you're not used to it.

Single romantic, you're not

Dear Brother Prayer

Loosen Up.

Being boring isn't how you'll carry fire.

You can be Romantic and highly Anointed

Dear single men,

If you see a girl you would like to marry, don’t be shy. Chat her up. If you are too shy to get to know her, shift the ball to her court. Just ask for her account number. Send her something. If she likes you back, she WILL definitely remember you when the money finishes. And that way the ice will be broken. And you can get to know each other better. It is better to be bold and approach her. Do not use money. But if you are not bold enough, remember that Scripture says “money answers everything”-Ecclesiastes 10:19. Don’t see a girl you like and let her go because you are too shy!

WHEN SHE JUST WANTS ATTENTION

Bro, sometimes she'll just pick a fight with you on purpose to get your attention, especially when she's feeling bored; but you’ll be too angry and too serious over nothing to notice that all she's trying to get is your attention.
.. Most times she'll fake a mood swing and act like something is wrong with her just so you can be caring enough to get pass her resistance by looking for ways to make her happy.

Bae: Babe how are you?
Boo: I'm not fine.
Bae: okay. You'll be alright dear... Then he starts minding other business.

He doesn't notice the craving in her voice.

He doesn't see it in her expressions.

He doesn't feel it in her attitude.

He just doesn't care to knock on her door and give her the attention she seeks.

He soaks it in and cares in his heart, unfortunately, assumption is not a love language that everyone speaks.
.. Other times she just calls and calls a hundred times within minutes for no reason, even after she knows you're working. But you cannot see the fact that she needs you. You do not understand her love codes, because you are already feeling irritated by her calls.

Every woman has a love code. One or more tricks she uses to get your attention, learn it, understand it, play along with it, and pretend like you don't know what she's trying to do.

Don't go getting angry over some attention seeking trick that's supposed to keep your relationship going.

Any woman who is not an attention seeker with you probably doesn't enjoy your company as much, or keeping to yourself has taught her to enjoy her own company.

#💯❤❤❤
# TAKE NOTE

As a young person who desires to live a happy, fulfilling and longer life, you need to hear this…

If you find yourself in a neighborhood where it seems like you’re the only one doing well... Please MOVE OUT!

If you live in a neighborhood where it appears that the basic things of life is seen as luxury, please MOVE OUT!

If you live in a neighborhood where people suspect your source of income because you “him too dey on gen, which work him dey do”... please MOVE OUT!

If you live in a neighborhood where they call you all sorts of name because you’re doing well as a young lady... please MOVE OUT!

Go to a neighborhood that appreciates the standard you have set for yourself.

Go live in a neighborhood where people would hardly notice your lifestyle.

Go live in a neighborhood where people are busy improving their lives and making big moves, hence they don’t have time for daily gossips.

Move away from environments where hate, jealousy and joblessness makes people notice who bought a new set of shoes and who turns on gen everyday.

Move to a neighborhood that accommodates your standard.

If you build an intimidating mansion in the midst of squalor, you’re setting yourself up to be a prey. You will become an easy target.

Go and live among your kind.

Some of you ladies will be doing if you no get money hide your face,and some of these nice Brothers who are not yet there, would be hiding their faces.
Then those other guys who are very proud and pompous with their money and cars are the ones you will be with.
Guys who can't pray or even say the Lords prayer.you know he is not the kind of man you want but money would not allow you make the right choice.

He smokes and drinks like mad,he has even slapped you before, yet you are telling your friends love is blind all because of money.
Even when there are no reason to say yes to him,money becomes the reason.
In fact, you are so sure he would change when you guys get married abi you are the holy spirit that changes people.
When you were young you said you would marry a God fearing man,who would help you serve the lord More, yet as an adult you lost that passion because of money.

Sis, there is no where it is written that a man who uses leg today would not buy his own car tomorrow.
That a guy staying in one room today would not own a big house tomorrow.
That a guy who has two jeans today would not own a clothing company tomorrow.
All it require is time and hard work with fervent prayers.
Many of this Ladies has dumped their serious relationships because of these guys with cars and money who in return turn them into s*x slaves and other stupid things.sis,if your date or husband is not yet there,find out his visions and plans,find out his passions for God, don't just seat and listen, but encourage and constantly pray for him.
Remember, behind any successful man there is a meaningful Lady.

Don't judge him with other people's past,that if he makes it tomorrow he would leave you for another Lady, only men who are not passionate for God can do that.
That is why before you say yes to relationship or marriage make sure he truly is passionate about God, don't ask him, find out by yourself.

# freelove

Be wise,
One love.

# freelove
MEN AND S*X.

Medically, men lose 12% of their blood sugar during every round of s*x, they also lose 10% of their protein level and also lose 10% of their calorie level. Worse still is, you also lose 15% of your natural energy.

What do ladies lose?
Only 5% of their water level.......

So If you hear FASTER or HARDER or GIVE IT TO ME, my brother just runaway.

However, for every round of s*x you also loose MONEY, either through POSTPAID or PREPAID.

I also recall that a Pharmacist friend of mine who told me some years ago that with every round of good s*x A man looses food values of nutrients equivalent to his monthly nutrient build up from daily balanced diet of 30 days.

WHAT A SACRIFICE?
And yet they act like they are doing you a favour... It is time we start demanding for maintenance fees from ladies, please.

MEN LIFE MATTERS

👀FACTS ABOUT WOMEN.

1- When a woman is angry, over half of what she says-she doesn't mean...

2- The most difficult time for a woman is when she is away from the man she truly loves.

3- A woman is not like 'detol advert', if you don't take care of her... Others will.

4- It takes time for a woman to trust a man, its hard to change when she does, but if you mess-up, you might just forget it.

5- A woman is such a school you will never graduate from.

6- Your wedding certificate with her is not a "driving licence", its just a "Learners permit"

7- She can be very bitter now, and a very sweet angel later on, it all lies in your approach.

8- A woman hardly forget things, she remembers hurts more, avoid making her hurt.

9- A woman can be highly secretive... Most times when they prove hard to men, they go to their closet and friends to cry.

10- All women Love to be begged. men often miss out on this........

11- All women have a unique character like salt, their presence might not be noticed but their absence makes all things tasteless.

12-if she loves u she can do everything u ask of her as far as it makes u happy,so never force her to love u.

13-if a woman truly loves u,even to ask money from u she will be shy and most especially if she loves u she can never leave u to spend"""unnecessarily!...that's what makes them special....☺

Take Note

⚠️🛑STAY AWAY FROM HOME BREAKERS!!!⚠️⚠️⚠️

🚩My husband gives me everything I want...Aunty, run from them!!!⚠️🏃🏃

🚩My husband gives me #10,000 everyday for feeding... Please my dear run!!!🏃🏃⚠️

🚩You are trying ooo; I can't tolerate that from my husband..... Aunty, what did I say? Run for your life!⚠️🏃🏃

🚩My husband bought me this and that... My dear Lady Please run...⚠️⚠️🏃🏃🏃

🚩My husband cannot try that nonsense.... Aunty, could you please run??⚠️⚠️🏃🏃🏃

🚩Stop listening to what people say; they might have the worst happenings around them and in their homes and relationships yet they paint the pictures to look interesting and attractive.

🌹If you want your husband to behave like Mr. A or Mr. B, you will end up having lots of problem in your home or relationship. The N1,000 or N500 he gives you, use it wisely; cook what you can, eat very well, take your bath, sleep and pray for increment.✅

✅Don't mind the 'pretenders,' if they tell you what they go through you will kill better chicken for your husband to appreciate his big efforts.🌹

🚩Every day my husband gives me Five Million Naira for upkeep...all na wash! ⚠️⚠️⚠️

✅Appreciate your spouse's little effort and stay blessed!🙏 🙏🙏🙏
Love you all...

Yeshua

Noted

When Arthur Ashe, the legendary American tennis player, was dying of AIDS contracted through infected blood administered during heart surgery in 1983, he received letters from his fans, one of which asked:

"Why did God have to choose you for such a horrible illness?"

Arthur Ashe replied:

Many years ago about 50 million children started playing tennis, and one of them was me.
-5 Million really learned to play tennis,
-500,000 Learned Professional Tennis,
-50 thousand arrived at the circuit,
-5k reached the grand slam
-50 arrived at Wimbledon,
-4 reached the semi-final,
-2 They reached the final and again one of them was me.

When I was celebrating the victory with the cup in my hand, it never crossed my mind to ask God
"Why me? ".
So now that I'm in pain how can I ask God, "Why me"?

Happiness keeps you Sweet!!
Trials keep you strong!!
Pain keeps you Human!!
Failure keeps you humble!!
Success keeps you glowing !!
But, only faith keeps you going.

Sometimes you are not satisfied with your life, while many people in this world dream to have your life.
A kid on a farm sees a plane flying over him and dreams of flying.


But, the pilot of that plane, flies over the farm and dreams of coming home.

Such is the life!! Enjoy yours...

*If wealth was the secret to happiness, the rich should be dancing in the streets*
*But only poor kids do that.*

*If power ensured security, important people should walk without bodyguards.*

But only those who live humbly, dream quietly.
If beauty and fame attracted the ideal relationships,
celebrities should have the best marriages and it’s not.
Believe in yourself !
Live humbly. Walk humbly and love with your heart. 🙏🏻🌷🌷

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WHY I STOPPED COLLECTING MONEY AS AN INSTRUMENTALIST. (~Pst. Larry Praise)

PLS READ WITH UNDERSTANDING.
I grew up from a home where we were taught to work for God freely.
I remember my kid brother once received a call to come and collect his own share of money late Evangelist Reinhard B shared for all the instrumentalists that functioned at his crusade.

My late mum asked my junior brother you mean they paid you people for working for God?

She told my brother never to collect the money and allow God to reward him.

NOW THIS IS MY STORY-
Several years ago I was been paid as a church pianist.
When you missed a service or rehearsal, a particular amount will be deducted from your allowance.

So I became so committed not because of service but I wouldn't want to loose a penny from my allowance.

Sometimes our pastor removed our tithe before handling over the allowance to us because he certainly knew we won't pay the tithe.

We hardly give offering not to talk of paying tithe. For me I was happy because he was really helping me to pay tithe..lol

One FAITHFUL day a guest preacher was invited to the church and he preached on TRUE SERVICE.

I will never forget that message..IT IS MORE BLESSED TO GIVE THAN TO RECEIVE.

WOW! I went home sad, couldn't sleep at night...his words kept ringing in my ears throughout the night.

Then suddenly I remembered my mom words again " never you get paid for working for God"

This was my personal encounter pls note that. I went to my then pastor and begged him never to pay me again.

He actually thought I was angry or a church has offered me a higher pay.
I told him no I'll be fine.

I remembered his PA once ran after me with my allowance but I refused then he insisted that pastor said is just a gift from him.

I collected the money and dropped in the offering box quietly.

I didn't tell my other instrumentalists my decision.

One day i sat on my Piano playing for a guest speaker from the US, suddenly the man called me up and gave me some pounds from his pocket.

A month later someone gave me a car gift and free accommodation.

In another program a prophet called me up, empty a bottle of water on my head with heavy prophetic word that leads to what I'm doing today.

One day a woman called me after service to her car and opened the boot ,I almost fainted when I saw the foodstuffs she brought for me.

My guys started asking me Larry why are you the only person receiving all these blessings.

I later opened up to them how I stopped collecting the monthly allowance.
Then some of them took the same decision and also began to see changes.

For the past 15 years have never been paid for any service render to God but God has proven Himself FAITHFUL.

I ordered all my sons and daughters to pay their tithe to their local churches.

I have used up to 4cars I didn't buy with my money in the place of service.

I have given instrumentalists money severally and they refused.

Some musicians play for us and sow instead of collecting from me.

One pastor once asked me my secret.

All could say is We have also sowed the seed of service so I'm not surprise.

EVERYTHING ABOUT THIS KINGDOM IS BASED ON PERSONAL CONVICTION.

I'm not against any pastor paying their workers neither against people under a pay role in their churches.

There's nothing wrong encouraging people but at the same time let's be sure our service to God is genuine and not monetized.

MY TAKE.
I HOPE THIS WILL BLESS SOMEONE.🌍

LADIES DON'T MARRY A MAN'S TODAY BUT MARRY HIS TOMORROW
Don't just marry a man's today, marry his tomorrow.
If he is lazy today, you will both live in poverty tomorrow.
If he can't control his er****on today, you will live with the pain of his adultery tomorrow. Worst still, you may murder him and face the wrath of the law.
If he is hardworking today, with God's help and wisdom, you
will both live in prosperity tomorrow.

If he pursues God and his vision, your tomorrow together shall be greater than today. If he is rich through rituals today, you will not live to see your
tomorrow.
If he is GODLY and lives in purity, you will both spend eternity in
paradise.
Think about it and thank me later.

🦅 THE 5-FOLD SECTOR IN MINISTRY
1.Apostle - _Governs.
2. Prophet - _Guides.
3. Evangelist - _Gathers.
4. Pastor - _Guards.
5. Teacher - _Grounds.
Our Society now needs the full function and operations of this five Agencies in every affairs invading with the Word; telling others that God was in Christ reconciling the world to Himself, He no longer considers/remember their sins and this, word of reconciliation He commissioned us, believers... That's all He did on the cross-He paid for their sins & they need not be under the captivity of guilt 4there's no more sacrifice to be done.
The world is to only believe in His sacrifice then Salvation s yours.
Romans 10:14; 2Corinthians 5:18, 19
Find your location and explore your space.

Min. Theophilus Sunday - Sow Me A mandate to make man one with God in marriage as man is the church and Christ the husband man.To bring the church into a deep fellowship with the Holy spiri...

Five fold

THE FIVE FOLD MINISTRY

1. Apostle - Governs
2. Prophet - Guides
3. Evangelist - Gathers
4. Pastor - Guards
5. Teacher - Grounds

The Church NOW and Today needs the full function and operation of the full fivefold in accordance with the WORD.
May We identify and encourage those whom God has given the grace and anointing for such.

THE FIVE FOLD MINISTRY
The Apostle - Leads
The Prophet - Speaks
The Teacher - Equips
The Evangelist - Proclaims
The Pastor - Cares

We need all for our time like never before. Divinely called,appointed and anointed fivefold Ministers.

THE FIVE FOLD MINISTRY
1. Apostle - Visionary Strategist
2. Prophet - Spiritual Advisor
3. Teacher - Logical Thinker/Implementer
4. Evangelist - Persuasive Communicator
5. Pastor - Human Resource Counselor

The Gifts and ministry of the Holy Spirit work in manifold ways and is not limited to a one approach. The Bible talks about the seven spirits yet refers to one and the same Spirit manifesting His completeness in different ways.
Some are open to revelation but not learning or teaching. The humble is open to learning, education and revelation.

THE FIVE FOLD MINISTRY
Apostle - Long-Sight
Prophet - Foresight
Evangelist - Hindsight
Teacher - Insight
Pastor - Oversight

VISION means to SEE. All those in the fivefold ministry must have a vision or see something in the area of their ministries. Spiritual sight is the ability to see by revelation what needs to be done when and how. We all need vision to do His work effectively.

THE FIVE FOLD MINISTRY
Apostle - Mission
Prophet - Vision
Evangelist - Commission
Pastor - Compassion
Teacher - Passion

We need a sense of Mission and Commission. We need a sense of vision andi passion with Compassion to do effectively the task before us.

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I Will Manage Him

That was exactly what she said because she could no longer bear the frustration that comes with waiting for the right person and the feeling of loneliness that upsets singles.

Meanwhile, little did she know that it's not in all cases that a bird at hand is worth more than two in the bush. But something kept whispering to her that the devil you know is better than the angel you don't know.

Have you found yourself in this kind of situation that you're presently managing your partner while considering him or her for marriage?

Then, you need to read this carefully.

1. Marriage is a journey.

It would be frustrating when you embark on a lifelong journey with what seems to be "good" because you can't wait for the best. Don't settle for the less when you can patiently and prayerfully pay the price to get the best.

I hope you know that who accompanies you in your marital journey determines your experience in it. Marriage is not what many of you think it is. Sooner or later, when you have pitched your tent with the wrong person, you'd regret the decision you make.

You should do your assignment carefully, patiently, and prayerfully before you undertake this journey of marriage, especially with the wrong person. Don't allow the emotional gush of excitement or the feeling of negligence all enhanced by ignorance to make you settle for the less.

There's more to marriage than to settle for the less when the best is near.

2. Who you marry is like a shoe.

Have you ever walked in an undersized shoe or an oversized one?

I believe the proverbial saying, "He who wears the shoe knows where it pinches" came from the experience of those who wore an undersized shoe.

A marital partner can either be a mismatch or a suitable spouse if you settle for anyone without getting the best from God. There are some shoes you would outgrow and there are some that would never fit you till you discard them, while some fit you as you grow in capacity - size, weight, and height.

Don't think everyone that comes your way with the attire of a potential spouse would surely be the right person. Just like a shoe, a wrong spouse is a misfit and the right one is best suited.

If you marry the wrong spouse, you alone would bear the trauma and it wouldn't be long that you'd discover that. The best way to get the right partner is to allow God to guide you because the best of your knowledge can't lead you to the person He has prepared for you.

The right person God leads you to, provided you allow Him, would grow with you as you advance in life, career and ministry. But if you manage the wrong person, you'd do twice as much to make them the right person, and that's impossible, except for the divine intervention.

3. Marriage is not to be endured but enjoyed

Why would you sacrifice your happiness in life for frustration and regret when you could have paid the price to get the best?

See, the journey of marriage, like they say, "...till death do us part," is not a one-month, one-year, or five-year adventure. It's a lifelong journey that if you manage the wrong person, you'd be miserable and your experience would be lamentable.

To enjoy marriage, allow God to guide. You can't compare the kind of marriage you'd have when God guides you with the one you'd experience when you lead yourself.

This is why those who are wise in their eyes don't depend on God for guidance as touching their marital lives, but those who are called "fools" according to the wisdom of this world leaves everything to God despite their education, exposure, and experience.

A little bit of patience would prevent you from marrying the wrong person. When you trust God some more, you'd escape a bad marriage even if everything glitters today.

Don't manage a potential spouse because time isn't on your side when you can get the best from God.

Don't allow pressure - both within and without - to push you into the marriage you'd endure when you can patiently allow God to lead you into the one you'd enjoy.

Don't be talked into a wrong partner when you can talk to God to lead you to the right one.

Never allow impatience to lead you into a wrong marriage because it's better to be late and marry the right person than to be early and marry the wrong person.

Remember, marriage is to be enjoyed, it's not a necessary evil or a thing of regret. Do your assignment properly in the place of prayer, patience, and carefulness so you can marry the right person, and not manage the wrong person.