The Fail-Forward Initiative

Confronting trauma is not easy. It requires courage, vulnerability, and a willingness to delve into the darkest corners of our minds. However, by shining a light on our pain and allowing ourselves to feel, process, and release it, we can ultimately free ourselves from its grip.

In life, we all face moments of trauma that can leave deep scars on our hearts and minds. While it may seem easier to bury these painful experiences and pretend they never happened, true healing can only come from confronting them head-on.

"You escape trauma by confronting it." These words hold a profound truth that speaks to the power of facing our inner demons and past wounds. By acknowledging our pain, accepting it, and working through it, we can begin the journey towards healing and reclaiming our sense of self.

Confronting trauma is not easy. It requires courage, vulnerability, and a willingness to delve into the darkest corners of our minds. However, by shining a light on our pain and allowing ourselves to feel, process, and release it, we can ultimately free ourselves from its grip.

Avoiding trauma only perpetuates its hold on us, leading to ongoing suffering and emotional distress. But by bravely confronting it, we take the first step towards breaking free from its chains and finding peace within ourselves.

So, let us not shy away from our trauma, but instead, let us embrace it with compassion and courage. For in confronting our pain, we pave the way for a brighter, more hopeful future filled with healing, growth, and resilience.

“Leave it alone!! Don't try and solve the problems that others have made for themselves. Don't even give them a chance to talk their way out of what they've acted themselves into. Allow them to learn the lesson of the consequences of their choices. Don't throw hard earned money away trying to bail someone out of a situation that they created. Muster up the courage to say "no".

The best thing you can do for them is to let them take responsibility for their own actions. Make up your mind not to be a rescuer or an enabler. Let them figure it out and handle it. The sooner you do this, the sooner they will learn their lessons. They have their own journey. Keep your money in your pocket and keep the drama and stress out of your life. Resist the guilt trip!! Don't give it any more energy and protect your peace of mind. You deserve to be happy! Because, you have something special. You have GREATNESS within you.”
Credit: Les Brown

It is almost second nature to think of the "not so great" qualities when we think about ourselves. We remain humble about the amazing aspects about ourselves - but not today! It is important to stop and remember all the positive attributes about yourself because you deserve to feel confident.

Comment below the top three personality traits that best describe who you are! If you believe a trait that is not listed above describes you well then let us know - perhaps others feel that way as well.

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KEEP GOING.

There is a force in you that is more powerful than the negative people, circumstances or environment where you find yourself. Make a conscious, deliberate effort to keep your mind above all the toxic conversations, attitudes and stresses surrounding you. Guard your mind by immersing yourself in positive words, scriptures, music; as well as self-affirming healing conversations that will drown out the negative voices within your own mind.

Create a ritual of prayer, meditation, exercise, yoga, Tai Chi. Volunteer your time. Use whatever method you can to protect yourself from the drama, emotional vampires and energy drainers that will try to rob you of your peace.

There is a Presence within you where you can find joy, comfort and inner strength to give you the capacity to handle whatever you are facing. You have something special. You have GREATNESS within you!! ~Les Brown

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It's important to remember that expressing pain and hurt is a healthy way to address abusive behavior and protect yourself. Don't be afraid to communicate your emotions and set boundaries to ensure your physical and mental well-being and health. You deserve to be heard and respected.

"If you are silent about your pain, they'll kill you and say you enjoyed it." —Zora Neale Hurston

I've come to understand that people don't have to do a single thing to you to break your heart, it can also be done by the things they don't do.
Let it never can be said of you that you had the opportunity to help, or love, or fight for, or stand-up for, and chose instead to do nothing.

We’re often so hard on ourselves, by having unrealistic expectations, impossible timelines, and perfectionistic tendencies.

So we have a difficult time acknowledging all the incredible, magical progress we make daily, in the simplest, most meaningful ways.

Tuck yourself into bed tonight and before falling asleep, reflect on all the beautiful ways you have made your life and the lives of your family, friends, and the strangers you meet along the way, more joyful and rewarding.

Remember this has been a challenging time for everyone, in varying degrees, so be proud of yourself for being here today.
-Barb Schmidt

IT IS TIME!!! Walk into your purpose! Live your potential!

Do your very best for YOURSELF!!!!

Empower yourself by choosing the people and surroundings that align with your aspirations.

Don’t stand in the way of your own self!!

Stop blocking your own growth, progress, & opportunities because the work is challenging and/or exhausting. Stretch yourself towards success. Explore your potential!!

THIRTEEN!!!!! Be INSPIRED!!!

Truths can hurt but most importantly they help. If facing truths hinder your growth, it’s therapy time.

Developing good habits can be challenging, but the long-term benefits they bring are invaluable. Here are 7 habits that may be difficult to adopt at first, but will pay off in the long run:

This is a 1000 gram iron bar. It’s raw value is around $100.

If you decide to make horseshoes, its value would increase to $250.

If, instead, you decided to make sewing needles, the value would increase to about $70,000.

If you decided to produce watch springs and gears, the value would increase to about $6 Million.

However still, if you decided to manufacture precision laser components out of it like ones used in lithography, it’ll be worth $15 Million.

Your value is not just what you are made of but rather how you make the best of WHO you are!

Begin Again. Today is the day. Seize the opportunity.

No risk. No reward.

Tell me your goals for 2024!

I want to know them to cheer you on! help you win! and admire you 😍😍😍!

Cmon! This is something I really enjoy!

Make 2024 the year you become unreasonable, unstoppable, and unwilling to accept and/or settle for less.
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I come to far for mediocre. What about it friends? You ready to live the great life? #2024

No matter what life throws your way, always remember to focus on the good over the bad. There’s so much beauty and positivity to be found in every moment, and it’s up to us to embrace it. Let’s choose gratitude, kindness, and optimism, and watch how it transforms our world. ”

Success knows no excuses. Embrace the challenges, stay focused, and let your determination shine brighter than any excuse.

Ready to make 2024 your best year yet? 🌟 It’s time to set powerful goals and turn your dreams into reality! Join me in a goal-setting and let’s make the year ahead a winner together. Drop a 🎯 in the comments if you’re in, and let’s inspire each other to reach new heights! ”

Show up for yourself. Be your own drill sergeant-cheerleader!