The Kingdom Couple

Even in the next life, I would choose to marry you…

One different people…

The feel, the peace, the love, the longing… home is a person, and that person is my wife 💐

Pictures alone look dull… she’s now a part of the details in all my outfits 🤞🏿

Beholding in the mirror, we are becoming one❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥

Playing with other kids [activated]

…now we have come to mount Zion, the city of God 🤴a son given…

…married in community of purpose ❤️‍🔥

Don’t pretend what you have ability to become… we recommend Godly marriages

Happy 6th anniversary to us… we celebrate our commitment and love unfiltered, and so much growth.

A journey that started as two hearts beating as one is now four!

Young and free…

Kisses to life…

Forgiveness is about you…

“My marriage has helped me realize how things are grey in life. Now I understand why married people will seek to hear both sides of the story when a couple is in disarray. Marriage teaches you that you can be right and still be the problem. If you properly do marriage, I think that you’ll mature. Marriage helps you see everything life is beyond the conventional dual/binary mode. It’s not usually this or that. It can be this and that, and everything in-between.

Two people can be wrong. People can stay in wrong marriages for the right reasons. Children change the dynamic of marriage, and I see why many older people stayed because of their children. People can cheat on their partners even if they love them. Bad marriages can get better. Once a cheat is not always a cheat. Abuse is not the end of many marriages and etc. I’m not justifying any of these, but marriage will humble you in different ways. You may have more empathy towards people in some unfortunate circumstances.

Marriage makes you see nuance, and if you refuse to learn, you will perish. Marriage is so far from bare logic, and maybe that’s why very opinionated people may suffer or fail at it. Your theory is beautiful, your logic is fine, but application of theories teaches you much more. I’m not dissuading single people from being logical and adopting right theories about marriage. But marriage is a bit of logic, a bit of sentiment, a bit of faith, a bit of hope, and a huge dose of compromise. Anyone who thinks in an absolutist way, will struggle with it.

Maybe this explains why some of my hot headed folks mellowed after marriage. My rationale, I guess, for sharing this is to advise young unmarried people: marriage is already a battle, please don’t come into it with a combative spirit.

Everyday on the internet, we see gender squabbles that affect how people see marriage. And some of you have planned your marital wickedness in advance. You’ve predetermined your decisions in advance for difficult marital situations. You’re setting yourself up to perish. If someone hurt you, you don’t need to become a redpilled man, or a feminist witch. Go for therapy, forgive and heal. You need the most healed version of you to follow the unpopular dynamics of marriage. ‘Cos resentment will make you see things in black or white, which is sad.”

~ Solomon Buchi

Beautiful encounters… 👑

Bathe inner beauty won’t make her look this fine when pregnant 😜

“…and the man looked at the works of his strength, and he was in awe. For the woman received his seed and nurtured the seed carefully while looking exquisite and beautiful for up until the appointed time…”

Happy Father’s Day 👑

With baby Zoe 👑

When you are happy in marriage, even forever becomes short-lived… time flies when you are having a blast 💥

Pastor: Turn to your neighbor and introduce yourself

Her: “Hi, I’m the substance of things you are looking for”

Him: 😋😋😋

God did…

The FirstLady…

Greener pastures…

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A THREAD!!!

Wife’s are to be LOVED and not understood…

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We can only pray and hope that you had a renewed moment with your beloved on this day and that you have a new hope for the future with love, kindness and joy in your hearts.

Happy festivities and Merry Christmas to you and yours…



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1. Love covers a multitude of WRONGDOING

It is love that has the power to look at the sin of someone, get a beautiful wrapping paper and cover the shame and consequences that may have been…

2. Love compels you to GIVE

Love has a strong force within it that causes giving as a natural expression towards the beloved…

3. Love gives birth to LIFE!

Whether as a resurrection power or a seed of new life, love gives birth to ZOE…

To love decisively and intentionally... to pour out all abilities to love, care and intimately share ourselves to each other… to fight and forgive, to pray and worship God, to be “nasty” and naughty with each other, to aspire big and achieve goals, to bath and match outfits - this is OUR PL love language 👑

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Talking about MONOGAMY! See repeat on Thursday 10:30-11:30am

Your wife is a guest in your life and you remain her host for life... show her around, take her to the most inner parts of your life and show her the treasures of your heart... everyday is yet another day to be hospitable to her and affirm that she’s still welcome to enjoy the vineyard of your heart…

It’s a blessing when you have more beautiful memories in marriage than the years you’ve been together…

The goal is not to reach the finish line but to never wish we do… FOREVER IS A JOURNEY.

Our love, our fun, our misunderstandings, our drives together, our pillow talks, our public appearances, our parenting, our chase for a better life… OUR LOVE STORY!

Five years of grace and continuous FAITH.

“Wherever you are, I will call that my home”

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Happy five years wedding anniversary to us… The Lord has been merciful 🙏🏾

Here is to F O R E V E R 💃🏽🕺🏿

My current relationship problem is keeping up with my woman’s multiple shades of beauty…

For the idea of marriage to actualize, we are gonna need to intentionally decide to love vulnerably, forgive consistently and have a lot of funny impulsively…

Contrary to popular belief, GO FOR THE LOOKS! THEY NEVER LIE!

1. Look at how they treat the less fortunate… it reveals a lot about their heart… you need a KIND partner and not someone who’s just good TO YOU! Because not everyone GOOD TO YOU is GOOD FOR YOU.

2. Look at the early signs of disrespect and ungrateful-ness… nothing as beautiful as having a partner who makes a BIG DEAL out of your small gestures of love towards them right? You need someone who listens to your voice and respects your opinions…

3. Look for who they account to! That voice they follow when they can’t SEE clearly is the voice that will influence their behavior when they can’t see your point of view!

Look at the right THINGS that matter!

Marriage is just a container… we must decide, daily, to create the content we wish to experience through it… we work towards the beauty, fun and FOREVER of our marriages…

Lover 😍

This weather is on a mission, don’t allow it to trap you…😅

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