Dr. Alison Ash
Dr. Aly is a trauma-informed intimacy coach & educator, Stanford Lecturer & founder of TurnON.love.
Dr. Alison Ash, aka Dr. Aly, is a trauma-informed intimacy coach and educator, Stanford University Lecturer, author, and founder of TurnON.love. As a sociologist with a PhD from Stanford, she has a comprehensive understanding of the complex societal challenges that often lead to unsatisfying and disempowering s*xual experiences. She designs workshops, courses, and retreats and offers individuals a
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๐ ๐๐ข๐๐ค๐๐ญ๐ฌ (๐ข๐ง๐๐ฅ๐ฎ๐๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ฌ๐ฅ๐ข๐๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ฌ๐๐๐ฅ๐ ๐จ๐ฉ๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐ฌ) ๐๐ง๐ ๐จ๐ง-๐๐๐ฆ๐๐ง๐ ๐ซ๐๐ง๐ญ๐๐ฅ ๐ข๐ง๐๐จ ๐๐๐ฅ๐จ๐ฐ ๐
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๐ฉโโค๏ธโ๐ฉ Join ๐๐๐ฉ๐๐ข๐ซ๐ข๐ง๐ ๐๐ฎ๐ฉ๐ญ๐ฎ๐ซ๐๐ฌ ๐ข๐ง ๐๐๐ฅ๐๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐ฌ๐ก๐ข๐ฉ๐ฌ in Oakland on May 29th! Miscommunications are common, boundaries get crossed, and hurt feelings happen - but they donโt have to end in disconnection. All relationships have their challenges, and repair work is essential for building trust, deepening intimacy, and maintaining thriving connections. Successful repair conversations allow for you to feel closer than ever before as you gain confidence in your ability to withstand inevitable relational challenges. In this experiential workshop, you'll learn the necessary skills and receive a clear formula that will teach you when and how to do repair ruptures effectively. ๐๐ข๐๐๐จ ๐จ๐ง ๐๐๐ฆ๐๐ง๐ ๐๐ฅ๐ฌ๐จ ๐๐ฏ๐๐ข๐ฅ๐๐๐ฅ๐!
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๐ซ๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ฎ๐๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง ๐๐ค๐ข๐ฅ๐ฅ๐ฌ in Oakland on June 12th! Has flirting always felt awkward and anxiety-provoking? Tired of letting opportunities pass you by because youโre afraid to make a move? Whether you want to learn how to create new romantic connections or improve your ability to seduce your current lover(s), this workshop will help you figure out how to get freaky without being creepy! Gain verbal and non-verbal skills for flirting and seduction and feel more confident initiating. Discover how to effectively escalate flirting and how to read body language to know if theyโre receptive to your advances. Learn how to recover from failed flirting attempts and how to recalibrate so you can stay in connection. ๐๐ข๐๐๐จ ๐จ๐ง ๐๐๐ฆ๐๐ง๐ ๐๐ฅ๐ฌ๐จ ๐๐ฏ๐๐ข๐ฅ๐๐๐ฅ๐!
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๐ฑ๐ Join ๐๐ฎ๐ฑ๐ฑ๐ฒ ๐๐๐๐๐ฅ๐๐ฌ ๐๐จ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐ซ๐-๐๐๐ซ๐ญ๐ฒ ๐ฐ๐ข๐ญ๐ก ๐๐ ๐๐๐ฌ๐๐๐ง๐ข๐ + ๐๐จ๐ฐ ๐ญ๐จ ๐๐๐ญ ๐๐ฎ๐ฑ๐ฑ๐ฒ ๐ฅ๐ข๐ค๐ ๐ ๐๐ก๐๐ฆ๐ฉ ๐ฐ๐จ๐ซ๐ค๐ฌ๐ก๐จ๐ฉ in Oakland on June 23rd! In celebration of National Eat Pu๐ฑ๐ฑy Day, we are excited to announce a special collaboration between Pu๐ฑ๐ฑy Waffles Coffee and How to Eat Pu๐ฑ๐ฑy Like a Champ! We are coming together to create a full day of pu๐ฑ๐ฑy adoration and skill up-leveling. We'll begin with the Pu๐ฑ๐ฑy Waffle Coffee brunch dance party to get your body moving and in the mood. Waffles will be served, the pu๐ฑ๐ฑy portal will be opened, and deep beats made for bumping and grinding. We are so excited to be having DJ Obscenic throwing down! Pu๐ฑ๐ฑy Waffles Coffee is a truly delicious dance party for femme-centered whimsical activism, radical pleasure, and our collective creativity!
Then we'll transition to the How to Eat Pu๐ฑ๐ฑy like a Champ workshop. Discover the nerve pathways involved with different kinds of org@sms and science-based techniques for how to explore them. Givers will learn how to explore what turns on their lover(s) and a wide range of techniques for maximizing pleasure. Receivers will learn how to take a more active role in co-creating their pleasure. A live demo will make these skills more accessible. Plus, get the Guide to My Pu๐ฑ๐ฑy instruction manual to share with lover(s). Both individuals and couples are welcome! ๐๐ข๐๐๐จ ๐จ๐ง ๐๐๐ฆ๐๐ง๐ ๐๐ฅ๐ฌ๐จ ๐๐ฏ๐๐ข๐ฅ๐๐๐ฅ๐!
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๐๐ง๐ญ๐๐ฌ๐ข๐๐ฌ in Oakland on June 26th! Donโt let inexperience, mental blocks, or shame prevent you from fulfilling your fantasies. Learning to cultivate a rich bank of fantasies will help you discover your desires, enliven your self-pleasure, and create more diverse s*xual experiences. Learn how to share your fantasies with lovers in ways that create safety and invites intimacy and discover how to explore elements of your fantasies even when your lover isnโt open to a particular fantasy. Free your fantasies to spice up your solo s*xy time and become a more creative and empowered lover! ๐๐ข๐๐๐จ ๐จ๐ง ๐๐๐ฆ๐๐ง๐ ๐๐ฅ๐ฌ๐จ ๐๐ฏ๐๐ข๐ฅ๐๐๐ฅ๐!
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๐ Join ๐๐๐ญ ๐๐ฎ๐ญ ๐จ๐ ๐๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐๐๐๐ ๐ข๐ง ๐๐๐ in Oakland on July 23rd! Do you get stuck in your head worrying about your appearance, performance, or**sm, or just your overwhelming to-do list? Do you find yourself performing s*x instead of experiencing it? Learning how to get out of your head and into your body is essential for reducing anxiety and maximizing pleasure in both solo and shared s*xual experiences! Discover how to immerse in the sensations in your body and reconnect with your body as an instrument of pleasure. You'll receive actionable tips and skills that will help you get out of your head and become a more skilled lover while increasing your own capacity for pleasure! ๐๐ข๐๐๐จ ๐จ๐ง ๐๐๐ฆ๐๐ง๐ ๐๐ฅ๐ฌ๐จ ๐๐ฏ๐๐ข๐ฅ๐๐๐ฅ๐!
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๐ ๐๐ข๐๐ค๐๐ญ๐ฌ (๐ข๐ง๐๐ฅ๐ฎ๐๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ฌ๐ฅ๐ข๐๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ฌ๐๐๐ฅ๐ ๐จ๐ฉ๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐ฌ) ๐๐ง๐ ๐จ๐ง-๐๐๐ฆ๐๐ง๐ ๐ซ๐๐ง๐ญ๐๐ฅ ๐ข๐ง๐๐จ ๐๐๐ฅ๐จ๐ฐ ๐
I received the following question:
"We want to learn how to have group s3x that has at least some of the love, attention to detail, and pleasure that we feel together."
I can relate. I have gone through phases where I've loved group s3x. I have found that it's through having experiences where we can be more emotionally naked and have emotional intimacy, even in a group encounter, that I personally feel the most nourished, safest, able to explore, and the most cared for during and after. Not everybody is like that. There's no one right way. And so it's important to suss out in advance, how do the other people want to relate to this group s3x experience?
Dating is tough, and it's never fun to when someone isn't interested in dating further. Shifting the ways we think about chemistry and compatibility can help soothe rejection sensitivity.
Want dating coaching? Reach out at www.TurnON.love/coaching
Vulnerability is crucial for creating and sustaining intimacy, but how do we know when it's safe to be vulnerable? Or how do we know how vulnerable should we be? The answer? Titrating! Watch to learn more.
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๐ ๐๐ข๐๐ค๐๐ญ๐ฌ (๐ข๐ง๐๐ฅ๐ฎ๐๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ฌ๐ฅ๐ข๐๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ฌ๐๐๐ฅ๐ ๐จ๐ฉ๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐ฌ) ๐๐ง๐ ๐จ๐ง-๐๐๐ฆ๐๐ง๐ ๐ซ๐๐ง๐ญ๐๐ฅ ๐ข๐ง๐๐จ ๐๐๐ฅ๐จ๐ฐ ๐
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๐ฃ Have some burning questions about s*xual and emotional intimacy? Join me for ๐๐๐ฌ๐ค ๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐๐๐ฑ๐ฉ๐๐ซ๐ญ๐ฌ: ๐ ๐
๐๐๐ ๐๐ฏ๐๐ง๐ญ online on Feb 26th, where you can get the answers you need to having hot s*x and thriving relationships!
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๐ญ๐ฌ Join ๐๐๐ฏ๐ข๐ ๐๐ญ๐ข๐ง๐ ๐๐จ๐ง-๐๐จ๐ง๐จ๐ ๐๐ฆ๐ฒ: ๐๐๐ฏ๐๐ฅ ๐ on Zoom on Feb 29th to get the ENM support you need! Exploring non-monogamy can feel overwhelming and downright terrifying, but with the proper support and tools it can be exciting and empowering! Examine how your values and needs influence which relationship styles will work best for you. Explore how to open up and find poly people to date. Examine the most common pitfalls and how to avoid them and gain concrete tips that will help your relationship(s) survive and thrive. With these resources, suggestions, and tools youโll receive the support you need to explore ethical non-monogamy with greater clarity and ease! Also available as an on-demand rental.
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๐ฑ๐ Want to become a champ-quality giver or receiver of pu๐ฑ๐ฑy pleasure? In ๐๐จ๐ฐ ๐ญ๐จ ๐๐๐ญ ๐๐ฎ๐ฑ๐ฑ๐ฒ ๐ฅ๐ข๐ค๐ ๐ ๐๐ก๐๐ฆ๐ฉ givers will learn how to discover what turns their lover(s) on and explore a wide range of techniques for maximizing pleasure. Receivers will learn how to surrender into sensation while also taking a more active role in cultivating their own pleasure. You also get a Guide to My Pu๐ฑ๐ฑy instruction manual to share with lover(s). And youโll discover all the nerve pathways involved so you can understand the different kinds of org*sms possible as well as science-based techniques for how to explore them. Plus, there's a thorough live demo so you can see all the skills put into action. Both individuals and couples are welcome! Both individuals and couples are welcome! Join in Oakland on March 10th or watch on-demand from home anytime!
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๐ฌ๐ญ Join ๐๐๐ฌ๐ญ๐๐ซ๐ข๐ง๐ ๐๐จ๐ง-๐๐จ๐ง๐จ๐ ๐๐ฆ๐ฒ: ๐๐๐ฏ๐๐ฅ ๐ on Zoom on March 14th to up level your ENM skills. Empower yourself with the know-how and tools you need to have happy, secure, and fulfilling non-monogamous relationships. Discover tools for navigating jealousy and how to support a partner when they're feeling jealous. Examine power dynamics in and across various types of relationship structures, and learn how to empower all participants. Explore techniques for discussing fears and needs and negotiating agreements with lovers and partners. Gain tips for having healthy dynamics with metamours (your partnersโ partners). Also available as an on-demand rental.
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โค๏ธโ๐ฅ Join ๐๐ก๐ ๐๐๐๐ซ๐๐ญ๐ฌ ๐จ๐ ๐๐๐ฌ๐ฌ๐ข๐จ๐ง, ๐๐จ๐ฆ๐๐ง๐๐, ๐๐ง๐ ๐๐จ๐ฆ๐ข๐ง๐๐ง๐๐ in Oakland on April 2nd to discover how to use both words and touch to create passionate, romantic, and dominant s*xual encounters! Master romantic affirmations, passionate dirty talk, and dominant commands. Explore how to seduce with a wide array of tantalizing and exhilarating touch techniques. Learn how to make your lover surrender by spanking, hair pulling, and pinning them against the wall. You'll leave feeling more confident how fulfilling it can be to have more variety in your s*x life and make their fantasies come true!
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๐ฉโโค๏ธโ๐ฉStruggling with different libidos, relating to s*x like itโs a chore, and feeling rejection and resentment are just some of the challenges couples in long-term relationships face. When intimacy gets stagnant it can be hard to find ways to reconnect s*xually that feel genuine and pleasurable. On April 21st and 28th join ๐๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ญ๐๐ข๐ง๐๐๐ฅ๐ ๐๐ง๐ญ๐ข๐ฆ๐๐๐ฒ: ๐๐๐ข๐ ๐ง๐ข๐ญ๐ ๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐
๐ฅ๐๐ฆ๐ ๐๐จ๐ซ ๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐๐จ๐ง๐ ๐๐๐ฆ๐, a 2 day course for couples in Oakland. Uncover the various libido blockers that get in the way of your turn on, pleasure, and intimacy and receive the tools and skills that will help you overcome them together. Learn how to get out of the anxious-avoidant dynamic, cohabitator-coparent roles, and the pressure-rejection cycle and effectively explore feelings, needs, and desires. Explore how to make tailor-made verbal, physical, and romantic bids for intimacy that will allow you to successfully woo your partner. Discover how to create fun and exciting intimacy dates with a menu of ways to connect authentically and without pressure by attuning to the rightness of the moment. Acquire an array of practices that will support you to rediscover your desire and increase your capacity for giving and receiving pleasure. You'll receive the 35 page Sustainable Intimacy booklet that will enable you to identify your specific intimacy blockers, engage in self-reflection exercises, and record the specific practices that will empower you to continue to nurture your intimacy. Rather than giving you a momentary boost of passion, we will provide you all the tools you need to create a sustainable and personalized path to lasting intimacy for the long run. Also available as an on-demand rental.
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๐ ๐๐ข๐๐ค๐๐ญ๐ฌ (๐ข๐ง๐๐ฅ๐ฎ๐๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ฌ๐ฅ๐ข๐๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ฌ๐๐๐ฅ๐ ๐จ๐ฉ๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐ฌ) ๐๐ง๐ ๐จ๐ง-๐๐๐ฆ๐๐ง๐ ๐ซ๐๐ง๐ญ๐๐ฅ ๐ข๐ง๐๐จ ๐๐๐ฅ๐จ๐ฐ ๐
๐โค๏ธ๐ Do you value experiences over things? Want to nourish someone's heart and brain? Give this gift of love with TurnON.love! During this holiday season, if you purchase a gift certificate for an on-demand workshop for someone else and get one for yourself for FREE! Details
There are so many workshops to choose from, including:
* Cultivating Your Pleasure
* Feel Your Way To Yes
* Free Your Fantasies
* From Pressure to Pleasure: Reclaim Your Desires
* Get Out of Your Head In Bed
* How to Be a Feminist in the Bedroom
* How to Pick Your Person(s)
* Navigating Non-Monogamy Level 1
* Mastering Non-Monogamy Level 2
* Refining Your Sexual Intuition
* Repairing Ruptures in Relationships
* Sleaze-Free Seduction Skills
* The Ins and Outs of Play Parties
More details ๐
๐ ๐ง๐ถ๐ฐ๐ธ๐ฒ๐๐ (๐ถ๐ป๐ฐ๐น๐๐ฑ๐ถ๐ป๐ด ๐๐น๐ถ๐ฑ๐ถ๐ป๐ด ๐๐ฐ๐ฎ๐น๐ฒ ๐ผ๐ฝ๐๐ถ๐ผ๐ป๐) ๐ฎ๐ป๐ฑ ๐ผ๐ป-๐ฑ๐ฒ๐บ๐ฎ๐ป๐ฑ ๐ถ๐ป๐ณ๐ผ ๐ฏ๐ฒ๐น๐ผ๐ ๐
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โค๏ธโ๐ฉน Want to know how to resolve conflict and feel closer after? Miscommunications are common, boundaries get crossed, and hurt feelings happen - but they donโt have to end in disconnection. All relationships have their challenges, and repair work is essential for building trust, deepening intimacy, and maintaining thriving connections.
Come to ๐ฅ๐ฒ๐ฝ๐ฎ๐ฟ๐ถ๐ป๐ด ๐ฅ๐๐ฝ๐๐๐ฟ๐ฒ๐ ๐ถ๐ป ๐ฅ๐ฒ๐น๐ฎ๐๐ถ๐ผ๐ป๐๐ต๐ถ๐ฝ๐, a virtual workshop on Dec 5th (or watch on-demand anytime!) and discover how successful repair conversations allow for you to feel closer than ever before as you gain confidence in your ability to withstand inevitable relational challenges.
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๐ฃ Have some burning questions about s*xual and emotional intimacy? Join me for ๐๐๐ธ ๐๐ต๐ฒ ๐ฆ๐ฒ๐
๐ฝ๐ฒ๐ฟ๐ (๐ฎ ๐๐ฅ๐๐ ๐ฒ๐๐ฒ๐ป๐!) online on Dec 15th, where you can get the answers you need to having hot s*x and thriving relationships!
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๐ Do you get stuck in your head worrying about your appearance, performance, or**sm, or just your overwhelming to-do list? Do you find yourself performing s*x instead of experiencing it? Learning how to get out of your head and into your body is essential for reducing anxiety and maximizing pleasure in both solo and shared s*xual experiences!
Join me for ๐๐ฒ๐ ๐ข๐๐ ๐ผ๐ณ ๐ฌ๐ผ๐๐ฟ ๐๐ฒ๐ฎ๐ฑ ๐ถ๐ป ๐๐ฒ๐ฑ, an in-person workshop in Oakland on Jan 9th (or watch on-demand anytime!) and discover actionable tips and skills that will help you get out of your head and become a more skilled lover while increasing your own capacity for pleasure!
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๐ There are many reasons it can be hard to create a pleasure-filled s*x life and emotionally-secure relationships. We all receive messages about who we are supposed to be, how we ought to feel, and how we should express ourselves - often enforced through shame, silence, and disconnection. Plus, inadequate s*x and intimacy education means we are deprived of essential intimacy skills, often causing hesitation and guesswork.
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๐๐ฎ๐น ๐ฎ๐ป๐ฑ ๐๐บ๐ผ๐๐ถ๐ผ๐ป๐ฎ๐น ๐๐ป๐๐ถ๐บ๐ฎ๐ฐ๐ ๐ฆ๐ธ๐ถ๐น๐น๐ ๐ ๐ฎ๐๐๐ฒ๐ฟ๐ฐ๐ผ๐๐ฟ๐๐ฒ features 8 live virtual classes designed to support you in creating, deepening, and sustaining s*xual and emotional intimacy in your relationship(s). All classes weave together science-based data, embodied exploration, and skills development and combine lecture with optional breakout room discussions and experiential exercises. Plus receive supplemental materials including handouts, readings, and videos and extra time for Q&A after each class. All classes are recorded for those who canโt attend live or want additional review. Tuesdays Jan 23rd-March 12th online.
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๐ ๐ง๐ถ๐ฐ๐ธ๐ฒ๐๐ (๐ถ๐ป๐ฐ๐น๐๐ฑ๐ถ๐ป๐ด ๐๐น๐ถ๐ฑ๐ถ๐ป๐ด ๐๐ฐ๐ฎ๐น๐ฒ ๐ผ๐ฝ๐๐ถ๐ผ๐ป๐) ๐ฎ๐ป๐ฑ ๐ผ๐ป-๐ฑ๐ฒ๐บ๐ฎ๐ป๐ฑ ๐ถ๐ป๐ณ๐ผ ๐ฏ๐ฒ๐น๐ผ๐ ๐
Very excited for Sustainable Intimacy: Reignite the Flame for the Long Game, our month-long course for couples to start tomorrow!
Check out the description plus links ๐ for my recent guest appearances on two podcasts that will give you a sneak peak on our content. Classes are recorded for those who can't attend live.
Struggling with different libidos, relating to s*x like itโs a chore, and feeling rejection and resentment are just some of the challenges couples in long-term relationships face. When intimacy gets stagnant it can be hard to find ways to reconnect s*xually that feel genuine and pleasurable.
Rather than giving you a momentary boost of passion, we will provide you all the tools you need to create a sustainable and personalized path to lasting intimacy for the long run.
* Gain insights into how emotional and physical intimacy intertwine, and how to create a harmonious blend of both in your relationship.
* Learn how to create a safe space to explore your feelings, needs, and desires with clear communication, vulnerability, and empathy.
* Discover how to create fun and exciting intimacy dates with a menu of ways to connect authentically and without pressure.
*Acquire an array of practices that will support you to rediscover your turn on and increase your capacity for giving and receiving pleasure.
* Receive the 35 page Sustainable Intimacy booklet that will enable you to identify your specific intimacy blockers, engage in self-reflection exercises, and record the specific practices that will empower you to continue to nurture your intimacy
Feeling pressure can transform an opportunity for connection and pleasure into a daunting and stress-inducing ordeal.
Navigating performance anxiety, differences in libido or desires, and expectations that you should feel differently than you do can make enjoying intimacy feel inaccessible if not impossible.
Whether you're navigating a new romance or in a long-term relationship, addressing and alleviating this pressure is a crucial step toward feeling more connected with your body and your lover.
Join intimacy coaches and educators Dr. Alison Ash and Sebastian Clarke of TurnON.love for From Pressure to Pleasure: Reclaim Your Desire and gain the knowledge and tools to reclaim your authentic desires, bridge the gap between pressure and pleasure, and experience more nourishing and empowering intimate experiences.
Join Sept 20th for this virtual event or watch the recording after. Check out the comment ๐ for tickets and additional info.
Do you and your partner miss that old feeling of excitement and passion that has faded into complacency and predictability?
Struggling with different libidos, relating to s*x like itโs a chore, and feeling rejection and resentment are just some of the challenges couples in long-term relationships face. When intimacy gets stagnant it can be hard to find ways to reconnect s*xually that feel genuine and pleasurable.
Join intimacy coaches and educators Dr. Alison Ash and Sebastian Clarke of TurnON.love for Sustainable Intimacy: Reignite the Flame for the Long Game for a month-long online course for couples in October. Rather than giving you a momentary boost of passion, we will provide you all the tools you need to create a sustainable and personalized path to lasting intimacy for the long run.
* Gain insights into how emotional and physical intimacy intertwine, and how to create a harmonious blend of both in your relationship.
* Learn how to create a safe space to explore your feelings, needs, and desires with clear communication, vulnerability, and empathy.
* Discover how to create fun and exciting intimacy dates with a menu of ways to connect authentically and without pressure.
* Acquire an array of practices that will support you to rediscover your turn on and increase your capacity for giving and receiving pleasure.
* Receive the 35 page Sustainable Intimacy booklet that will enable you to identify your specific intimacy blockers, engage in self-reflection exercises, and record the specific practices that will empower you to continue to nurture your intimacy
$100 EARLY BIRD DISCOUNT THRU AUG 31st!
Check out the comment ๐ for tickets and additional info.
In Ask the Sexperts: a free event!, intimacy coaches and educators Dr. Alison Ash and Sebastian Clarke of TurnON.love will answer your questions about cultivating and sustaining nourishing s*xual and emotional intimacy in your relationship(s).
Possible topics can include, but are not limited to:
* Getting the romantic and s*xual spark back in long-term relationships
* Creating more emotional intimacy and closeness
* Mitigating differences in libido or desire
* Figuring out how to reduce pressure and increase pleasure
* Dealing with anxieties, shame, and other sources of getting stuck in your head during s*x
* Navigating the stress of work and parenting on relationships
* Addressing conflict, bickering, and fighting
* Clarifying and sharing wants, needs, and boundaries
* Cultivating more teasing, anticipation, and foreplay
* Exploring new desires, fantasies, and toys
* Figuring out how to more easily receive pleasure and enjoy giving more fully
* Getting more comfortable ending s*xual encounters when you feel complete
Join Sept 13th for Ask the Sexperts: a free event!. This is a free introductory event for Sustainable Intimacy: Reignite the Flame for the Long Game, a month-long online course for couples in October.
Has flirting always felt awkward and the idea of making the first move anxiety-provoking? Have you felt tired of letting opportunities pass you by because youโre afraid to make a move?
Discover how to feel confident flirting and seducing in ways that are inviting, attuned, and effective. Join intimacy coach and educator Dr. Alison Ash of TurnON.love for Sleaze-Free Seduction Skills on Aug 8th in Oakland!
Canโt make it live? Watch it on-demand. Check out the comment ๐ for more info
Looking forward to being on The Kingdom tomorrow with Justin Michael Williams to talk about how to expand intimacy! Join us to get a bunch of practical and actionable practices and strategies you can implement right away to create more connection and pleasure with your partner!
And join me for my upcoming 4 week course Sustainable Intimacy: Reignite the Flame for the Long Game in October for a deeper dive in this important topic. So many couples in long-term relationships have a difficult time maintaining intimacy, discover your personalized pathway back to the connection and closeness you crave.
Links below.
Want to be able to maintain multiple healthy relationships? Do you feel challenged by jealousy or unsure how to support your partner when theyโre feeling jealous? Do you feel confident naming needs and negotiating agreements?
Empower yourself with the know-how and tools you need to have happy, secure, and fulfilling non-monogamous relationships.
Join intimacy coach and educator Dr. Alison Ash of TurnON.love for Mastering Non-Monogamy: Level 2 on July 25th in Oakland. Canโt make it live? Watch it on-demand. Check out the comment ๐ for more info
Exploring non-monogamy can feel overwhelming and downright terrifying, but with the proper preparation and support it can be exciting and empowering! You donโt have to navigate this tricky terrain alone.
Join intimacy coach and educator Dr. Alison Ash of TurnON.love for Navigating Non-Monogamy: Level 1 on June 21st to examine how your values and needs influence which relationship styles will work best, explore how to open up and find poly people to date, and learn how to avoid the most common ENM pitfalls.
Also check out Mastering Non-Monogamy: Level 2 on July 25th to learn how to navigate jealousy, negotiate agreements, and have healthy interactions with metamours.
Canโt make it live? Watch them on-demand. Check out the comment ๐ for more info
Do you and your partner crave that old feeling of excitement and passion that has faded into comfort and predictability? Losing the s*xual spark is a challenge so many couples in long-term relationships face. Itโs not uncommon to have different libidos, which can make s*x feel like a chore and lead to resentment.
Receive a comprehensive roadmap of ways to explore your connection with genuine excitement, turned on desire, and nourishing pleasure. Rather than giving you a momentary boost of passion, we will provide you all the tools you need to create a sustainable and personalized path to lasting intimacy for the long run.
Join intimacy coaches and educators Dr. Alison Ash and Sebastian Clarke of TurnON.love for Sustainable Intimacy: Reignite the Flame for the Long Game on May 21st in Oakland.
Do you and your partner crave that old feeling of excitement and passion that has faded into comfort and predictability? Losing the s*xual spark is a challenge so many couples in long-term relationships face. Itโs not uncommon to have different libidos, which can make s*x feel like a chore and lead to resentment.
Receive a comprehensive roadmap of ways to explore your connection with genuine excitement, turned on desire, and nourishing pleasure. Rather than giving you a momentary boost of passion, we will provide you all the tools you need to create a sustainable and personalized path to lasting intimacy for the long run.
Join intimacy coaches and educators Dr. Alison Ash and Sebastian Clarke of TurnON.love for Sustainable Intimacy: Reignite the Flame for the Long Game on May 21st in Oakland. Want a sneak pease, check out Ask the Sexperts: A Free Event for Couples on May 9th. Check out the comment ๐ for more info
Join intimacy coaches and educators Dr. Alison Ash and Sebastian Clarke of TurnON.love for this free virtual event and get answers to your questions about cultivating and sustaining nourishing s*xual and emotional intimacy in your relationship(s).
* Possible topics can include, but are not limited to:
* Getting the spark back in long-term relationships
* C๏ปฟreating more emotional intimacy and closeness
* Mitigating differences in libido or desire
* Dealing with anxieties, shame, and other sources of getting stuck in your head during s*x
* Navigating the stress of work and parenting on relationships
* A๏ปฟddressing conflict, bickering, and fighting
* Structuring intimacy dates to create more easeful connection
* Figuring out how to more easily receive pleasure
* E๏ปฟnjoying giving pleasure more
* E๏ปฟnding s*xual encounters when you feel full
Ask the Sexperts: A Free Event for Couples is an introductory event for Dr. Alison Ash and Sebastian's upcoming daylong offering Sustainable Intimacy: Reignite the Flame for the Long Game8 on May 21st. Check out the comment ๐ for more info on both events.
Want to know how to resolve conflict and feel closer after? Miscommunications are common, boundaries get crossed, and hurt feelings happen - but they donโt have to end in disconnection.
All relationships have their challenges, and repair work is essential for building trust, deepening intimacy, and maintaining thriving connections.
Join intimacy coach and educator Dr. Alison Ash of TurnON.love for Repairing Ruptures in Relationships on May 2nd in Oakland. Canโt make it live? Watch it on-demand. Check out the comment ๐ for more info
Become an intimacy pro with Sexual and Emotional Intimacy Skills: An 8 Week Mastercourse, starting this January. This course features 8 live virtual classes that:
โญ๏ธ weave together science-based data, embodied exploration, and skills development
โญ๏ธ feature lectures and optional breakout room discussions and exercises
โญ๏ธ include extra time for Q&A after
โญ๏ธ offer supplemental materials including handouts, readings, and videos
โญ๏ธ are recorded for those who canโt attend live or want additional review
โฉ ๐๐ฎ๐๐ฌ๐๐๐ฒ๐ฌ, ๐๐๐ง๐ฎ๐๐ซ๐ฒ ๐๐๐ญ๐ก - ๐๐๐ซ๐๐ก ๐๐๐ญ๐ก ๐๐๐3 โฉ
Individuals, couples, and groups are invited to participate. Course content applicable to both monogamous and non-monogamous dynamics.
โฉ ๐พ๐ช๐ง๐ง๐๐๐ช๐ก๐ช๐ข โฉ
Class 1: The Nuances of Consent and Boundaries
Class 2: Embodiment and Nervous System Care
Class 3: Skills for Emotional Depth and Safety
Class 4: Flirting, Seduction, and Expressing Desire
Class 5: Skills for Maximizing Pleasure
Class 6: Erotica, Fantasies, and Unpacking Shame
Class 7: Conflict and Repairing Relationships
Class 8: Picking Partners and Ending Relationships
Dr. Alison Ash, aka Dr. Aly, a trauma-informed s*x and intimacy coach and educator, Stanford Lecturer, and the founder of TurnON.love.
๐Check out the link in the comments below for:
โญ๏ธ a complete bio
โญ๏ธ detailed curriculum
โญ๏ธ sneak peak at course content
โญ๏ธ reviews
โญ๏ธ ticket info
โญ๏ธ low income ticket application
Have some burning questions about s*xual and emotional intimacy?
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Check out Ask a Sexpert: a free event with Dr. Alison Ash of TurnON.love where you can get the answers you need to having hot s*x and thriving relationships!
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โฉ Thursday, Jan 19th 6:30-7:30pm PST โฉ
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Possible topics can include (but not limited to):
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โฉ The Nuances of Consent and Boundaries
โฉ Embodiment and Nervous System Care
โฉ Skills for Emotional Depth and Safety
โฉ Flirting, Seduction, and Expressing Desire
โฉ Skills for Maximizing Pleasure
โฉ Erotica, Fantasies, and Unpacking Shame
โฉ Conflict and Repairing Relationships
โฉ Picking Partners and Ending Relationships
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These are all topics Dr. Aly will also address in her upcoming Sexual and Emotional Intimacy Skills: An 8 Week Mastercourse, an 8 week live virtual course starting January 24th.
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๐Check out the link in the comments below for more info!
Become an intimacy pro with Sexual and Emotional Intimacy Skills: An 8 Week Mastercourse, starting this January. This course features 8 live virtual classes that:
โญ๏ธ weave together science-based data, embodied exploration, and skills development
โญ๏ธ feature lectures and optional breakout room discussions and exercises
โญ๏ธ include extra time for Q&A after
โญ๏ธ offer supplemental materials including handouts, readings, and videos
โญ๏ธ are recorded for those who canโt attend live or want additional review
โฉ ๐๐ฎ๐๐ฌ๐๐๐ฒ๐ฌ, ๐๐๐ง๐ฎ๐๐ซ๐ฒ ๐๐๐ญ๐ก - ๐๐๐ซ๐๐ก ๐๐๐ญ๐ก ๐๐๐3 โฉ
Individuals, couples, and groups are invited to participate. Course content applicable to both monogamous and non-monogamous dynamics.
โฉ ๐พ๐ช๐ง๐ง๐๐๐ช๐ก๐ช๐ข โฉ
Class 1: The Nuances of Consent and Boundaries
Class 2: Embodiment and Nervous System Care
Class 3: Skills for Emotional Depth and Safety
Class 4: Flirting, Seduction, and Expressing Desire
Class 5: Skills for Maximizing Pleasure
Class 6: Erotica, Fantasies, and Unpacking Shame
Class 7: Conflict and Repairing Relationships
Class 8: Picking Partners and Ending Relationships
Dr. Alison Ash, aka Dr. Aly, a trauma-informed s*x and intimacy coach and educator, Stanford Lecturer, and the founder of TurnON.love.
๐Check out the link in the comments below for:
โญ๏ธ a complete bio
โญ๏ธ detailed curriculum
โญ๏ธ sneak peak at course content
โญ๏ธ reviews
โญ๏ธ ticket info
โญ๏ธ low income ticket application
Dr. Alison Ash on Instagram: "Why is repairing ruptures in relationships important? Conflict is an inevitable part of relationships because intimacy means we are opening ourselves up to being vulnerable, which increases the potential for conflict... Dr. Alison Ash shared a post on Instagram: "Why is repairing ruptures in relationships important? Conflict is an inevitable part of relationships because intimacy means we are opening ourselves up to being vulnerable, which increases the potential for conflict and the need for repair. Watch the full...
Become an intimacy pro with Sexual and Emotional Intimacy Skills: An 8 Week Mastercourse, starting this January. This course features 8 live virtual classes that:
โญ๏ธ weave together science-based data, embodied exploration, and skills development
โญ๏ธ feature lectures and optional breakout room discussions and exercises
โญ๏ธ include extra time for Q&A after
โญ๏ธ offer supplemental materials including handouts, readings, and videos
โญ๏ธ are recorded for those who canโt attend live or want additional review
โฉ ๐๐ฎ๐๐ฌ๐๐๐ฒ๐ฌ, ๐๐๐ง๐ฎ๐๐ซ๐ฒ ๐๐๐ญ๐ก - ๐๐๐ซ๐๐ก ๐๐๐ญ๐ก ๐๐๐3 โฉ
โฉ ๐๐๐ซ๐ฅ๐ฒ ๐๐ข๐ซ๐ ๐ญ๐ข๐ฑ ๐๐ฏ๐๐ข๐ฅ๐๐๐ฅ๐ ๐ญ๐ก๐ซ๐ฎ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐ญ๐กโ โฉ
Individuals, couples, and groups are invited to participate. Course content applicable to both monogamous and non-monogamous dynamics.
โฉ ๐พ๐ช๐ง๐ง๐๐๐ช๐ก๐ช๐ข โฉ
Class 1: The Nuances of Consent and Boundaries
Class 2: Embodiment and Nervous System Care
Class 3: Skills for Emotional Depth and Safety
Class 4: Flirting, Seduction, and Expressing Desire
Class 5: Skills for Maximizing Pleasure
Class 6: Erotica, Fantasies, and Unpacking Shame
Class 7: Conflict and Repairing Relationships
Class 8: Picking Partners and Ending Relationships
Dr. Alison Ash, aka Dr. Aly, a trauma-informed s*x and intimacy coach and educator, Stanford Lecturer, and the founder of TurnON.love.
๐Check out the link in the comments below for:
โญ๏ธ a complete bio
โญ๏ธ detailed curriculum
โญ๏ธ sneak peak at course content
โญ๏ธ reviews
โญ๏ธ ticket info
โญ๏ธ low income ticket application
Dr. Alison Ash on Instagram: "Humans are interdependent beings, we cannot survive alone. We all have needs and it's okay to have them, even if others cannot meet them. Part of adulting is learning to identify your needs and express them in a way... Dr. Alison Ash shared a post on Instagram: "Humans are interdependent beings, we cannot survive alone. We all have needs and it's okay to have them, even if others cannot meet them. Part of adulting is learning to identify your needs and express them in a way that makes it easier to meet for others....