RED ROSE (URBAN MISSIONARY)

Blessed birthday Cliquerz Presido Arkmed Harawa🥰 my husby and I appreciate and celebrate you. We love you too ❤️

𝗠𝗲𝗻, 𝗱𝗼𝗻'𝘁 𝗹𝗲𝘁 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗺𝗮𝗻 𝗰𝗮𝘃𝗲 𝗯𝗲𝗰𝗼𝗺𝗲 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗴𝗿𝗮𝘃𝗲 🙇‍♀️💚

You cannot afford to miss this camp 🙆‍♀️ it’s not too late! Join us if you can … pay for someone if you are unable to attend 🙌 details on the poster 💃

You and me need capacity building for 2024… and this camp provides an excellent opportunity for that 🙌

Thank you Jesus 🙌

We showed up at Mom Rev Bernadette Imakando’s birthday dinner on a Monday night 🥰 May Yahweh satisfy our Mom with a long and fulfilling life❤️
We celebrate you mom 🥰🥰
Suit by: Mwayuma Kondowe 🥰
🎥 Gabriel Phiri

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About Blossom Damsel Conference in pictures 🥰🥰
It’s always at honor speaking at young women’s conferences. These young women meant business, they prepared questions on love relationships in advance for us to answer. The world is busy talking to young women and pushing them to reduce the standard. We shall partner with God to help these young women appreciate their true worth in God and live a purpose driven life ... We shall not be discouraged by what is happening in the world... with God all things are possible 🙌🙌

Join us tomorrow from 15-17 hrs… check poster for details. I will be sharing relationships nuggets that will position you to experience a fulfilling marriage when that time comes.
I’m in a season of pouring out unreservedly what GOD is instructing me to pour out 🙌
You shall marry well❤️
For God’s glory 🙌

Your body is the Lord’s temple so why are you stripping it? The views and the likes got you thinking like you killing it!

Doppest birthday to my Mom and former youth pastor Pastor Mervis Malambo. The first and Doppest female youth pastor I interacted with. Your commitment, humility and long suffering towards ministry for young people is so inspiring.
I remember how you made us realize that we were not too holy to fall into sexual sin. You admonished us to flee sexual sin🙌 That conversation was strange and uncomfortable by then but it preserved us and pushed us to pursue sexual purity in our relationship. Thank you for hosting me the times I visited Kabwe. Thank you for loving me and my husband consistently 🙇‍♀️ thank you for looking out for us. Thank you for connecting me to leadership training🙇‍♀️ thank you for providing leadership opportunities for me🙌
This girl right here will forever be grateful for all you did for her🙌 May Yahweh alone reward you. I love you ❤️❤️❤️

Ladies and Gentleman
Please show some love to my mummy and Matron Mwaka Mumba… this woman has a big heart 🙌🙌 thank you mummy for teaching this girl how to be a transformational matron among many other things 🙌🙌 I can not thank you enough but Yahweh alone will reward you 🙇‍♀️🙇‍♀️ I love you ❤️❤️❤️
Please share with us your fond memories with Mummy Mumba🥰

𝗘𝘅𝗮𝗰𝘁𝗹𝘆 6 𝘆𝗲𝗮𝗿𝘀 𝗮𝗽𝗮𝗿𝘁…
But…
Same pulpit
Same couple
Same passion
May Yahweh be glorified 💯🙌

Could this be a coincidence my husby Gabriel Phiri asked 🤔

2022 vs 2023 Couples Conference
In 2022 husby Gabriel Phiri and I were one of the couple’s conference speakers. Our daughter was only 5 weeks but we had to make time to speak and serve.
In 2023 our daughter was 1 year 1 week at the time of the conference and we had the opportunity to serve through out.
Moral of the story: prioritize your marriage by attending transformational couples conference 🙌

About the just ended Couples Conference 🙌

It's always a blessing to be part of the team organizing the Couples Conference under Bread of Life Church International 🙌🙌
This year's conference is one of the best couple’s conferences I have ever attended in my life.
Apart from being in the Couples Conference organizing committee, we had the honor of serving through out the conference.
Being part of the organizing committee gives us a rare privilege of picking up so many wise marriage nuggets from couples that have gone ahead of us in marriage …

My take away ... marriages are under attack therefore service your marriage frequently by attending godly couples capacity building events.
Some of the marriage challenges you have right now are a capacity issue... therefore seek godly counsel and support from godly counselors 🙏

Please do not wait for your marriage to be on rocks for you to seek help... service your marriage frequently ❤️

With Gabriel Phiri ❤️❤️

Call us early birds💃💃
Catch us if you can.
Ready to learn and apply wisdom packed nuggets on how to make our marriage flourish 😊😊

I personally invite you to join us if you are married. It starts today. You can stream live on the church page if you can’t make it😊
Details on the poster.

A marriage needs to be sustained through honouring promises, commitment, respect, patience, prayer and belief. A marriage needs maintenance otherwise it will break down (Bishop Joe Imakando)

Join us for the 2023 Couple's Conference starting this evening at 17:30hrs. Encountering Open Doors through flourishing marriages.

It takes two to make it work 🥰
Blessed 3rd anniversary Danny TSG Humayne and beautiful
We celebrate your union🥰
Let’s show some love to this wonderful couple ❤️

Marry well by;
🎯 Choosing your spouse prayerfully (𝗔𝘃𝗼𝗶𝗱 𝗯𝗲𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗱𝗲𝘀𝗽𝗲𝗿𝗮𝘁𝗲 & 𝗶𝗺𝗽𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗲𝗻𝘁)
🎯 Doing your relationship/ courtship Gods's way (𝗔𝘃𝗼𝗶𝗱 𝘄𝗼𝗿𝗹𝗱𝗹𝘆 𝘀𝘁𝗮𝗻𝗱𝗮𝗿𝗱𝘀)
🎯 Pursuing mentorship and accountability as a couple (𝗗𝘂𝗿𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗰𝗼𝘂𝗿𝘁𝘀𝗵𝗶𝗽 & 𝗺𝗮𝗿𝗿𝗶𝗮𝗴𝗲)

𝗕𝗲𝗰𝗮𝘂𝘀𝗲 …𝗶𝘁 𝘁𝗮𝗸𝗲𝘀 TWO 𝘁𝗼 𝗺𝗮𝗸𝗲 𝗶𝘁 𝘄𝗼𝗿𝗸!

#𝟭𝟬𝘆𝗲𝗮𝗿𝘀𝗹𝗮𝘁𝗲𝗿
#𝗣𝗲𝗿𝗽𝗲𝘁𝘂𝗮𝗹𝗛𝗼𝗻𝗲𝘆𝗺𝗼𝗼𝗻
#𝗶𝘁𝘁𝗮𝗸𝗲𝘀𝘁𝘄𝗼𝘁𝗼𝗺𝗮𝗸𝗲𝗶𝘁𝘄𝗼𝗿𝗸
#𝗗𝗮𝘁𝗲𝗻𝗶𝗴𝗵𝘁𝗼𝗻𝗠𝗼𝗻𝗱𝗮𝘆𝗻𝗶𝗴𝗵𝘁

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WE ARE CELEBRATING 44 YEARS OF MARRIAGE TODAY AND GOD HAS BEEN GOOD TO US!

AM I MARRIED TO THE RIGHT PERSON!

Genesis 2:24 NLT

These days many divorces are based on grounds of incompatibility. For example, the husband says, "We have nothing in common." Or the wife says, "We're as different as chalk and cheese." Of course you are! If you were exactly the same, one of you would be unnecessary! The very reason you need each other is because you're different! One likes coffee; the other, tea. One goes to bed early; the other is a night owl. One is quiet; the other is an extrovert. Can this cause friction? Absolutely! That's where love, kindness, and patience come into the picture.
The real issue isn't your differences - it's making those God-given differences work for you instead of against you. The sad fact is that we have lost our understanding of how to make our differences dovetail and complement one another. The day you start looking for what God is trying to teach you through your mate, you stop griping and start growing.
Maybe in your heart of hearts you're thinking, "But I don't believe God gave me my mate." Maybe not, but if you let Him, He will teach you how to love and learn from him or her anyway. As a couple, there are no problems stemming from your differences that can't be solved by applying a healthy dose of God's grace and following the guidelines He established for building a happy relationship. But you have to build it. And it takes work. Two imperfect people don't make one perfect marriage. But two imperfect people committed to loving one another and following God's guidelines can come as close to Eden's bliss as it gets this side of heaven.
Soul food: Rev 5-9; Matt 15:29-39; Ps 16; Prov 13:1
❤️‍🩹
By Pastor Gisela Neil

Join us this Saturday for Wisdom for Young Couples Retreat. Details on the poster.
It takes two to make it work 🥰
Prioritize your marriage 🥰

What you prioritize, you will find time and resources for.
It’s not too late to register. Husby Gabriel Phiri and I will be there ❤️

A Birthday Breakfast Date with My Daddy❤️❤️
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Husby and I normally visit dad on his birthday. Dad’s 75th birthday fell on a day when we were unable to visit him. Husby ended up sponsoring a daughter and dad birthday date 🥰
It was such a blessing for Dad to allow me to pick him up and drop him off after our date. I let him speak more as usual so I could be baptized in his Well of wisdom 🙌 and I of course sneaked in a few questions. I felt a deeper level of gratitude just being in his presence and hearing him speak. Dad’s love and sacrifice towards his family is unmatched…loving and raising 9 children is not easy. I lost my mom 16 years ago but I’m so grateful I still have the Doppest dad on the planet 🥰
Dad is my Hero!
And I choose to celebrate him publicly today!

Next up… Son and Mom’s date

Blessed 75th birthday my Daddy… I’m forever grateful for you. May Yahweh satisfy you with long and fulfilling life🙌 I love you so much ❤️

𝗧𝗛𝗔𝗡𝗞 𝗬𝗢𝗨
I've just reached 18K followers! Thank you for continuing support. I could never have made it without each and every one of you. 🙏🤗🎉

MUA:Karin Shawa
Personal Stylist: VQ's Closet
Suit plug: Mwayuma Kondowe
Manager: Gabriel Phiri

2022 vs 2023 Gospel Hip Hop Fest in pictures🙌
I had a 2 weeks old baby during the 2022 Gospel Hip Hop Fest ☺️ my girl is now a year and 2 weeks 🙌
All glory to God🙌

NEW MUSIC ALERT:
Will be dropping my new single “STAY WOKE” on your streaming platforms very very soon but for now…Let’s do a premiere performance at the Gospel Hip-Hop Fest this Saturday.
I’m ministering alongside some amazing and talented rappers in the game…it’s going down like your favourite dish😅. Make sure you secure your ticket. See you at Northmead Assembly on Saturday 21 October from 9 to 17. Tickets are only K120 per head. For details call 0973028991.

📸 YEKEN PIX Photography
🎤🎼🎧 Production: SuperRhymer
Artwork: Nebert D-ray Chipasha

About yesterday’s Set Apart International Mentorship Forum in pictures ☺️☺️☺️ I am privileged to mentor powerful, confident yet accountable and down to earth young ladies 🙌🙌
Yesterday my mentees and I took a snap😅 with my Coach Pastor Gladys Paswani 💃💃

It was so fulfilling seeing one of my mentees lead prayer during the forum 🙌🙌

The teaching from Coach was 🙆‍♀️🙆‍♀️🙆‍♀️

The 2nd Gen put together an excellent mentorship forum 👌👌👌 more grace

Set Apart International mentorship class with Pastor Gladys Paswani and Gabriel Phiri💃💃

See you tomorrow ❤️

MY MOTHERHOOD EXPERIENCE PART 2
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𝗦𝗲𝗰𝗼𝗻𝗱 𝗣𝗿𝗲𝗴𝗻𝗮𝗻𝗰𝘆 𝗝𝗼𝘂𝗿𝗻𝗲𝘆 𝗘𝘅𝗽𝗲𝗿𝗶𝗲𝗻𝗰𝗲

After the mission was accomplished in my first pregnancy; bringing hope to the fearful and discouraged mothers and mothers-to-be, God saw it fit that I should be exposed to another type of pregnancy.
He entrusted me with a difficult pregnancy journey. God wanted me to help and relate with people that had very difficult pregnancy journeys. In fact, God knew how passionate I am about mental health, and he saw it fit to expose me to the things that often lead people into postpartum depression and baby blues.

In my second pregnancy I found myself struggling physically, I was unwell almost the whole pregnancy period. But even in that season, it was clear to me that my pregnancy journey was not the worst, because in my exposure to public health work/ counselling and mentorship I had already been exposed to various stories of different women and their pregnancy journeys and some way much more difficult than mine. No doubt, mine was difficult but definitely not the worst.

𝗟𝗲𝘀𝘀𝗼𝗻𝘀 𝗟𝗲𝗮𝗿𝗻𝘁:

One of the things I learnt during this journey was the need to understand that nothing hard is uncommon to man but it is important to desire wisdom and to seek help when you need it.
The interesting thing about my second pregnancy is that people said that I was not as big as the first time and I was not as transformed physically as I was in the first pregnancy. I however did feel heavier than I felt in the first one.
Even when you have a difficult ride, God does have a way out. I learnt that I was possibly going to slip into depression if I had not been well invested in my mental health and my ability to handle stress.
I learnt that doing one’s home work before falling pregnant helps a whole lot. I learnt that had I carried my insecurities with me, my past fears and hurt, I would have made my journey unbearable.
I also learnt to trust God through out the journey. Sometimes God allows certain experiences not just to learn, so we can be a great asset in helping his children but to also test how strong our foundation is. It is easy to give up when you lose sight of God’s grace and love.
Through this journey I learnt that it is easy to lose yourself and self-worth if your foundation is shaky. Your foundation will surely be tested. God was so strategic that he granted me the fruit of the womb when I was wrapping a work contract meaning I had no work related pressure at the time; I do not like to be associated with laziness. Moreso, my second delivery experience was much quicker by God’s grace.
My word of advise is that it pays to invest in building your mental health muscle and nurture your relationship with God. It also helps to deal with insecurities , expectations and pride/self dependency. God cannot introduce you to the better version of you if you still hold on to your past hurts, failures, achievements etc.

Always remember that nothing defines you neither failure nor success, beauty nor good figure. You are way more than that.
Remember to seek help or support if the stress is too much for you to handle. Feed your mind on things that are good, noble, anything that has a good report.
Too much to say but I will end here and leave you one scriptures to reflect on.

“Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus. Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things.”
‭‭Philippians‬ ‭4‬:‭6‬-‭8‬ ‭N𝗜𝗩

𝗔𝗻𝗱 𝗿𝗲𝗺𝗲𝗺𝗯𝗲𝗿 𝘁𝗼 𝘀𝗵𝗮𝗿𝗲 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗽𝗿𝗲𝗴𝗻𝗮𝗻𝗰𝘆 𝗝𝗼𝘂𝗿𝗻𝗲𝘆 𝗲𝘅𝗽𝗲𝗿𝗶𝗲𝗻𝗰𝗲. ❤️💚❤️ ❤️💚❤️

MY MOTHERHOOD EXPERIENCE PART 1
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𝗙𝗶𝗿𝘀𝘁 𝗣𝗿𝗲𝗴𝗻𝗮𝗻𝗰𝘆 𝗝𝗼𝘂𝗿𝗻𝗲𝘆 𝗘𝘅𝗽𝗲𝗿𝗶𝗲𝗻𝗰𝗲:

Most women I encountered and observed often had negative things to say about their pregnancy journeys. I am not downplaying experiences because I have observed some women genuinely struggle through their pregnancies till delivery. However, I still felt that the messaging around peoples’ experiences could have highlighted more of the lessons learnt; both the good and the unpleasant than the common outright negative conclusions.

I am grateful to God that through my first experience God taught me to be a voice that would encourage those that dreaded motherhood as a result of what they heard from other people’s experiences. What was also interesting for me is that, I had never been exposed to mothers that had an easy pregnancy journey or at least never got to hear their story.
I am still wondering why because till date I am convinced that there are many of them out there.

I must confess that I felt inadequate to encourage most expecting mothers and those that were aspiring to have children because I had not had a biological child by then. I felt it was going to be ineffective to encourage expecting women and inspiring mothers because the usual sentiments I got were that, only someone who had walked that kind of journey was qualified to say something.

𝗟𝗲𝘀𝘀𝗼𝗻𝘀 𝗟𝗲𝗮𝗿𝗻𝘁💚
I am so convinced beyond any reasonable doubt that God deliberately raised me to bring the story of positivity and hope when it comes to motherhood, especially to people that look up to me. I felt led to be the voice that would give people hope that they could also experience a joyful and pleasant pregnancy journey.

I felt led to dispel the myth that all pregnancies were difficult because not all of them are difficult. Social media made it worse, its like the internet had the ability to confirm your fears and flood your feeds with things that would feed your insecurities.

I have come to the conclusion that not all pregnancies are difficult; others are pleasant and only God knows which one will be your portion and why. Therefore, do not make conclusions over people’s experiences but ask God to cover you during your pregnancy journey.

I would like to add also that some of the things that would impact the pregnancy journey include; hidden insecurities that have not been dealt with, unrealistic expectations from baby daddy, wrong preconceived ideas about pregnancy, lack of self-awareness and self-esteem, inadequate preparation for the pregnancy season.

𝗟𝗼𝗼𝗸 𝗼𝘂𝘁 𝗳𝗼𝗿 𝗣𝗮𝗿𝘁 𝟮

𝗔𝗻𝗱 𝗿𝗲𝗺𝗲𝗺𝗯𝗲𝗿 𝘁𝗼 𝘀𝗵𝗮𝗿𝗲 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗽𝗿𝗲𝗴𝗻𝗮𝗻𝗰𝘆 𝗝𝗼𝘂𝗿𝗻𝗲𝘆 𝗲𝘅𝗽𝗲𝗿𝗶𝗲𝗻𝗰𝗲. ❤️💚❤️

Birthday shout out to my big sister Sipiwe Ncube ❤️❤️
She identified me and supported me to serve in church. She asked me to help with giving church notices during services while at Kabwe Chapel. She also ensured that I was well supported. It was such a great blessing working with her😊 I was always inspired by your availability and consistently in serving God.
May Yahweh reward and refresh you.
I love and celebrate you ❤️

It takes two to make it work!
Blessed anniversary ❤️ I celebrate you ❤️

Navigating Trauma Book Launch and Lubuto Mental Health Hub in pictures 💚💚 Well done Patience Mupemo once again … excited about how God will use the book and mental health hub to transform lives❤️

Let’s show some love to one of our BBC COORDINATOR Jane Grace Mwamba . We love and appreciate you BBC Influencer🥰

💚Navigating Trauma Book launch 💚

Navigating Trauma’ a book on mental health was finally launched yesterday. I was honored to have done the foreword. It was an honour to give insights on trauma, postpartum depression and other general mental health issues during yesterday’s launch.

What a beautiful and transformational book launch it was. Lubuto Mental Health Hub was also launched in the same meeting.
Massive congratulations to the author of the book and visionary of Lubuto’s Diary, Patience Mupemo. Super proud of you ❤️

Looking for a speaker for your mental health related events? Look no further ☺️

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