Chase No More
Tedx Speaker Author of A Life Of Kayos My Opioid Journey through Hell Hope and Healing
I will only have people clapping for me in my front rows who actually support me behind closed doors.π―
Curiosity brings clarity π‘
Thank you to all my people that hear me when I'm silent without judgment.ππΎ
As long as my life coming together in private I could care less how it look to the public.
I have been sowing seeds since 2020 for what's to come in 2023 !
So many people are randomly dying, and then you go to their social media page and see they just posted and had plans for the next day. Nothing is promised to none of us that is why for the past year I have been hunkering down. I haven't been anywhere and haven't been doing much in the open only behind the scenes. I have too much to offer the world so I stay out the way.
If it's the Lord's will
Huge moves in 2023 !!!!
Kay Ellis Chase No More
There are so many movies out I wanna see !!!
I was wide awake too excited to sleep !
I love the irony of my story ! How I turned my life around.
In 2019 I made the front page of 3 local newspapers in one week because of my story and being selected to attend Mobilize Recovery for the first time !
Last year I found out I was selected to attend virtually because of the shutdown. It was a memorable experience even not being in person.
And yesterday I was selected again to attend in person for September 2021.
I been kinda in reflection mode and I just want to humbly express sincere gratitude to Ryan Hampton Garrett Hade Sean Henry Odonnell and any other person who made this happen for me !π€ΈπΏββοΈπ§πΎββοΈ
Thank you for always believing in me !
So I will be in Vegas this September at a conference with individuals from all over the country !
This is not some average Vegas trip !
Trust and believe that !
This trip signifies my life's purpose !!!!!
Thanks for coming out, God bless you Goodnight... ππππ€£ππ
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Hyu dinner....
Grilled chicken Alfredo π
"Mark is only a year older than I am and so we were the closest. We were crazy kids tying green plastic trash bags around our necks and jumping from trees, thinking we could fly. I would try to pop wheelies on my bike like him and fall off scraping my knees. He loved WWE and Jimmy βSuperflyβ Snukaβand he did all his wrestling moves on me! The headlock, the figure 8, the sleeper hold, the backbreakerβall those wrestling moves from the β80s"
A Life Of Kayos My Opioid Journey Through Hell Hope and Healingπ
~Chapter 1~ Page 8
Iam my brothers keeperβ€
Kay Ellis
"During this time I felt powerful and invincible. But I knew som**hing was wrong when Iβd run out of pills. Feelings of desperation, fear and nervousness about running out affected my decisions. Before going out of town, I would count my pills and realize I was not going to have enough to make it through the weekend. About a year into the process, I realized I had a serious problem."
A Life Of Kayos
My Opioid Journey Through Hell Hope and Healing.ππͺπΎ
Chapter 6
Page 26
I still have to tap myself to make sure that I'm a author. I spent my whole morning autographing books π to ship out today !
I self published A Life Of Kayos over my year of being in quarantine. What a great accomplishment !
My goal for this book was never about money because I have donated many books.
I simply wanted this book in the hands of all Americans that have or had suffered from addiction or that has been affected in some kind of way. I want to let them know that addiction does not discriminate, but recovery is very possible.
And I'm living PROOF
what GOD is able to do.π€ΈπΏββοΈβ€πͺπΎππ
Book stores are purchasing my book in bulk directly from me because they want them autographed to sell !!!!!!!! I feel so important...πππ
THIS IS SO AMAZING !!!!!
For autographed copies you can purchase directly from my website.
http://chasenomore.org/book/
Or directly from Amazon...
Order the one with the 5 star review !
Kay Ellis
https://www.amazon.com/Life-Kayos-Journey-Through-Healing/dp/B08RC5RCV6/ref=mp_s_a_1_1?dchild=1&keywords=a+life+of+kayos+my+opioid+journey+through+hell&qid=1619794191&sprefix=A+lifr+of+kayos&sr=8-1
"If I SAID WHAT I SAID was a person"
Sometimes some of life's worst situations helps us to find our
Recovery Advocates of America
Steinert High virtual talk today with Hamilton Townships schools!
My dad is smiling down on me so I wore his favorite color... Royal blue.
He was a PIVOTAL part of my recovery.
I'm carrying his legacy ππ’πͺπΎβπΎππΎ
Proud tears..
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The name Chasenomore represents that there would be βno more chasingβ that life of addiction, and that a better life was possible. Dedicated to presenting hope and seeking help for people struggling with addiction.
For a decade I struggled with an addiction that I didnβt know that I had and in 2010 after finding my pathway to recovery, I use to always say "I lost all these years because I chased and chased and chased pills till I almost died". I vowed to not stay silent about all I went through.
My new logo represents me a trapped bird π¦
in a cage who found freedom and took her life back after a 9 year addiction to prescription painkillers. πͺπΎβπΎππΎ
I DID THE WORK !!!!!!!!
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At midnight tune into YouTube and search for "Barbershop Conversations" to watch my interview at 9pm PST and 12 AM here on the East Coast. If you are on my East Coast side it's at midnight.
If you are not able to watch I'll post the link after...
I'm going to be live on this page called What's In It For the Black People? Media
I'm going live at 6pm EST is our time here on the East Coast. With my girly Chicago Doctor Audrey Tanksley π
I'm going to talk about my book ! A Life Of Kayos MY Opioid Journey Through Hell Hope and Healing and the opioid crisis in our brown and black communities.πͺπΏπ€
Good πmorning
βAny strategy that doesnβt see people of color as essential to the fight also guarantees that even when there is a win - people of color will continue to lose.β
Iam honored to know her, we met in Vegas and instantly clicked. She is a Chicago doctor. Even though we come from different backgrounds. We still found common ground. I'm a person in recovery and she's a doctor.
Join us on this Sunday afternoon as we have a conversation about opioids in the black community.
As you all know my talks are very candid and in layman's terms very easy for people to understand. A teen, a elderly person, or a college student.
I will continue to share my story. Addiction absolutely does not discriminate.
π₯ΊDmx overdosed and suffered from a massive heart attack. He is in grave condition. He is in a vegetative state and it is said he may not make it.
I sware I hope he makes it out and gets the proper care. He has struggled with addiction his entire career.
DMX Suffers OD, Hospitalized in Grave Condition DMX suffered a drug overdose Friday night and is currently in the hospital ... and the prognosis is not good.
And without further adoπ¨π’
I been in quarantine for over a year and my time has been spent well !
I wrote a mini memoir while in quarantine !
Thank you to everyone who has purchased and read it ! β€
I've worked hard and I'm reaping the fruits of my labor !
I just signed a contract at Moorestown mall for my first official book signing !
Stayed tuned for more details !
It will be at Moorestown mall on
SATURDAY APRIL 17, 2021
A LIFE OF KAYOS {MY OPIOID JOURNEY THROUGH HELL HOPE AND HEALING}
I want all my peoples to come meet me there. I'll post more in the upcoming weeks !
Check me out on Shatterproof website, and this challenge I did for Partnership for DrugFree NJ.
Changing the language that we use when referring to people with addiction can save lives.This is everyone's responsibility.
I have spoken at about 50 or 60 times with many schools, colleges, organizations and Podcast and many media platforms.
And this is just MY OPINION. I don't refer to myself as an addict or anyone in ACTIVE addiction as a ju**ie, pillhead, drunk, m**h head, dope fiend, crack head or any of this stigmatizing language. I have been working with organizations like Shatterproof and Partnership for DrugFree NJ to educate communities on how to address people with "SUBSTANCE USE DISORDER" These are your 3 words for homework.
From my own personal experience when I was addicted to opioids I was called a pillhead and a ju**ie. This terminology was traumatizing to me AND MADE ME STRUGGLE FOR LONGER THAN I COULD HAVE BECAUSE I THOUGHT IT WAS MY FAULT. When later learning that "Addiction is a brain disease."
I was ashamed and embarrassed.
I remember being treated like s**t everytime I had a doctors appointment or had to go to the ER because of severe withdrawal.
I was treated like an animal at a detox in North NJ one time I voluntarily went in because I knew I was going to die, and these people treated me like a wet foodstamp.
Doctors who tacitly see a patientβs drug problem as their own fault leads to substandard care or even to rejecting individuals seeking treatment.
I know there are many people who have been in recovery since the 80s and 90s and back then this was the terminology used. You a drunk, you a addict !
People with addiction internalize these stigmas, feeling shame and refusing to seek treatment as a result.
That language was OK 30 years ago. Now it's not. IJSπ€·πΎββοΈ
I know that alleviating stigma is not easy, but we can start by how we refer to ourselves in active addiction and in recovery, not as a drunk or an addict but someone who suffers with SUD aka Substance use disorder. ππΎββοΈ
You will never hear me refer to someone in this manner.
And being a professional in the recovery field it's only right !!!
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Today from 5 to 6 pm EST.
Which is PA, NJ, NY east coast.
I'm speaking on behalf of The Mental Health Association in NJ Inc. With director Lynette Sheard
Join Zoom Meeting
https://us02web.zoom.us/j/84594634675?pwd=Wi9HdWVBYnBaRXdtanZBZFMxN0VIUT09
Meeting ID: 845 9463 4675
Passcode: 959767
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BECOME YOUR DREAM !!!!!!!πͺπΎ
DONT LET PEOPLE TRY TO DOWNGRADE YOUR ACCOMPLISHMENTS !!!!!! ESPECIALLY WHEN YOU KNOW HOW FAR YOU'VE COME !
There are people out here looking at your post like this π "I already did that, or I already did this, or she all hype over this or that. They be forgetting how far they came, and that they crossed a bridge to get to where they are too.
And let me tell you summ them tables always turn ! In my 10 almost 11 years of recovery it's been rough ! But I never had the desire to go back to pills ! You always here things like "oh I got clean now I'm living this lovely life of recovery, people don't talk about the real things they go through in ACTIVE recovery ! These stories need to be told too !!!!
In my early years I would say 4 years into my recovery all I wanted to do is share my story to help others. I didn't want people to go through what I went through ! I had organizations turn me down because I cold turkeyed, and I didn't 12 step it ! I reached out to 40 schools in NJ and none of them wanted to bring me in. I spoke at a venue in my own Township of Willingboro and they acted like my story wasn't valuable to the community and kind of rushed me off the mic.
But as I said before them tables turned !
I have been featured in Burlington County times, The Bucks County Courier Times, The Intelligencer, Jerseys Best Magazine, The Star Ledger, Recovery Today Magazine 2 times !!!
Global Podcast ! The Numinous, Sober Curious, Sober Mom, and many more !
GOOGLE ME !!!ππͺπΎππΎπ
I spoke at a school Monday and Tuesday last week in Princeton NJ, and next week we speaking at Hamilton Township schools ! I'm also speaking at Bucks County schools this Spring !
I get so hype about my life, I'm representing organizations all over the country. I'm in school to become a CPRS, Peer coach.
I'm excited about my life ! I have my own 501 C 3 and a newly established Coalition ! I have a bank account in my business name it's only 50 bucks in there, π but it's a start !
I'm a successful author, and "it's not about how many books you sell ! It's about the people's lives you touch !" My story is not like nobody's !π€·πΎββοΈππΎββοΈ
I'm preparing for my first book signing at Moorestown mall in APRIL !!!!!!!!!!!
I WENT FROM OVERLOOKED TO BOOKED !!!πͺπΎππ€π
I'm successfully building my brand !
I just received my first Square card reader that is connected to my business account now at my book signings and pop up shops I can accept debit or credit for my books !!!
I'm living the life I dreamed of while I fought for my life spending over $20,000 on doctors appointments, and prescriptions. Every dollar I got I found a doctor and pharmacy to fill it. Then being sought after by the DEA because they thought I was running a prescription drug ring because I had a 35 pill a day habbit but the pills was all for me !
I CAME FROM ALL THIS TO BEING THIS STRONG BLACK WARRIOR WOMAN !!!!!π¦ΈββοΈπͺπΎππΎπ
God will strip you of everything !!!!!!!
So that, that purpose he had for you, when he restores you that he'll make you see THAT NOBODY ELSE COULD TAKE THE CREDIT BUT HIM !!!
Let me tell you som**hing GET UP GET OUT AND GET SUM... PUSH PUSH PUSH PUSH !!!!
DONT LET NOBODY TELL YOU NO ! DONT ALLOW ANY DISTRACTIONS !
SPEAK IT INTO EXISTENCE ! IM GOING TO BE A πWORLD RENOWNED PUBLIC SPEAKER !
THE WORLD WILL KNOW MY STORY !
HI IM CHEKESHA KAY ELLIS !!!!! πππͺπΎπΊπππΎββοΈππΎββοΈππΎββοΈππΎββοΈππΎββοΈ
YOU GOTTA BE HUNGRYYYYYY AND THIRSTYYYY !!!!
YOU GOTTA BE SO FOCUSED ON YOUR GOALS THAT PEOPLE THINK YOU ARE CRAZY !!!!!!!!!!
PUSHHHHHH !!!!!!
2 OF THE KEYS TO π MY SUCCESS IS SIMPLE...
I NEVER GIVE UP ! I DON'T CHASE PEOPLE OR OPPORTUNITIES !!!
And anything meant for you, you will have...
LASTLY KNOW THIS IS π NUMBER 2...
AS YOU ELEVATE YOUR TRIBE WILL CHANGE... AND THAT'S OKAY !!!
EVERYBODY CANT GO ON YOUR JOURNEY, SOME PEOPLE YOU GOTTA PART WAYS WITH !!! GOD IS MAKING ROOM FOR MY GIFTS ! I CAN SEE IT !
GOD MAKES ALL THINGS POSSIBLE...
Nobody gets the credit but him...πͺπΎπππΎπ
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Join me and Lynette Sheard and the Mental Health Association in NJ, Inc. tomorrow at 5 pm...
Zoom link and Zoom ID and it will be live streamed on Fb live.
Empowering people to take control of their wellness.
My talks be in layman's terms, no corner cutting, uncut, gritty and real.
I tell it how it is.
Anybody can relate.ππΎββοΈ Kay Ellis
Talking about purpose with your high schoolers πͺπΎ "Finding your purpose will not come until you learn who you are. You may have to go through a lot to figure out, who you want to be in this life"
-Chekesha Kay Ellis
Thank you Recovery Advocates Of America Stacey Ross and West Windsor High School !ππ€π«
My split screens is playing in the background πͺπΎ
97 lbs in active addiction... 140 healthy pounds today !
Rockin my
Kay Ellis
Good morning you are the only person that can change your life. If you or someone you know is suffering with addiction or "SUD" aka "Substance use Disorder" if you are silently suffering(you don't have to) or even if you don't know if you are addicted to a opioid (because I didn't know I was)
Reach out to me and let's talk. I'm not a medical professional but I have successfully helped others. Everything is kept 100% confidential.
Make the first step and let's talk about what options may be available to you.
Have a great day.
Purple signifies recovery... π€ΈπΏββοΈπ
In 3 hours I will be on this virtual chat called {Virtual Queens Chat} "The Power of the mind.
This chat is hosted by Sharee Harrison and Treasure's Island Promotion LLC.
IT WILL BE ON ZOOM AT 6:30 PM TODAY...EST
If you haven't purchased a Life Of Kayos yet come on here and 2 lucky people will have a chance to win a free copy.π€ΈπΏββοΈππ€ΈπΏββοΈπ
ZOOM MEETING ID IS - (898 2222 4336)
PW IS -QUEENSCHAT
Kay Ellis
Woke up like this.πΌπ΅π all natur'ell...
Thanking God for keeping me through this storm.
Meanwhile today I'll be honored if you would all join me on a
{Virtual Queens Chat} titled "The Power of the mind"π§πΎββοΈπ§πΏββοΈ
This chat is hosted by Sharee Harrison and Treasure's Island Promotion LLC.
IT WILL BE ON ZOOM AT 6:30 PM TODAY.
ZOOM MEETING ID IS - (898 2222 4336)
PW IS -QUEENSCHAT
Thank you.
Good morning since being in recovery I have met some of the most wonderful people and this is one of them. This woman I adore for she is the developmental editor that made my book come to life.
I met her on a business site last year. We scheduled a phone consultation, it was supposed to be for 30 minutes, it turned into hours. We bonded from the start ! She's from Tennessee and is a English teacher and professional editor.
I already had a manuscript but I was so lost on what to do. She asked me who did I want to read this book ???
I told her I wanted to put out a book trailer a short version of my book, a easy read before the year's end because so many lives were lost from addiction from the quarantine.
I wanted to give people hope.
I wanted to prepare people for my BIG BOOK. This book is an introduction. I wanted a book that any kid from age 14 and up could read and understand. I wanted a book a Grandparent could read easily, nothing technical or difficult.
And we worked some long days and long nights, and early mornings but got it done. In the process we became close friends.
I love her kids, she love my son.
You know if I love you, you get a nickname. I call her Ashbugggggg....
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She brought my story to life and was meant to be a part of my journey.
She was one of the many supportive people in my life.
Her whole family purchased A Life Of Kayos {My Opioid journey through Hell Hope and Healing}
I love her β€
The moral of me sharing this... You have to trust the process, don't chase people for opportunities or support, don't force connections because every person meant to be in your life for this season, will be there.
They will respect you, support your aspirations and help you. It's all about, putting your faith up, trusting the process, and the timing...
Have a great day.