K Chase

I miss writing. I think it's time we got reacquainted.

I think I may be going about this book the wrong way 🍸😘

Few things give me greater pleasure than finding a track that speaks to my soul.

I thank you "This Time Is Different"

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So often, I hear our 🐱 challenged with achieving ecstasy and or**sm. Pleading for help.
And the solutions, vary from watch p**n to buy toys to mastur/bate more frequently, have more sx but rarely, is ever is it suggested that a relationship first to pleasure.

What is being suggested is performance based and will not sustain. It might yield a reaction...but what we are looking is a response.

O-gasm is a response. It is conscious and deliberate. It comes from intentional attention, effort and focus. The reaction...the spasm we call or**sm is different. It has become something we chase. We damn near burst blood vessels running after it. We grow frustrated as we leave others at the controls of our majick carpet ride through ecstasy and angry when they don’t steer in our direction.

But what if we stopped chasing, what if you could invite ogasm and ecstasy and develop an organic and natural relationship? In a safe environment to grow, free from the chaos of the chase in the juicy garden of your bodies?

Would you cųm? I mean come? Mmmm book me.

May is National Self Pleasure Month

Pleasure is safe. So many of us feel unsafe in our bodies. We don't give ourselves consent to experience. To experience what we are curious about on a path to learn what we like...

We hold shame. We hold judgment. We hold guilt. We hold stress. We hold fear.

This is not safe. And pleasure...including and especially self pleasure is safe.

Today's pleasure prayer is that you give yourself consent to be.

Repeat and complete: I give myself consent to...

Happy pleasure!!!!

Happy

There's this debate going on about man v bear...have you heard it?

Safety. Risk management.

This is extends beyond physical safety. Pleasure safety is too often overlooked.

This is violent. From more than one angle. This is not safe. From more than one aspect.

How often do you feel unsafe in your pleasure space? Unsafe to say no. Unsafe to advocate? Unsafe to enjoy?

You are not alone.

My sweet loves...

The oracle deck is cleared by the energy of the pink moon in Scorpio...

Come get your reading...the 🐱 is waiting

DM me via IG (*xcoachkchase) for yours.

I hate to be the one to break it to you...

Well that's false. I love this s**t.

Do you want to know why you or your partner is struggling to achieve the O? I'll tell you...

It's a cycle. Many of us do not realize that. Before glorious 30 second climax the body has to achieve some things.
Desire.
Arousal.

Here's where many of us get stuck in the cycle. Can't get to that climactic finish unless you get out of the loop...

Want to learn how? DM me Pūssy Spectrum and let's get started....

**ralife **ra

There was a post about women falling asleep after promising s*x...and per usual her counterpart was furious about it...

And a man asked: well just explain why yall say no often because I don't understand...we work...we work out...

And as petty as it may seem....that's it?!

This is not a competition...you listing all the things you do presents it like it is one...

No one asked why she was so damn tired. And it sure as hell didn't seem to matter much. In fact there were a lot of tips about how to get around her being sleep

How telling...

**ralife **ra

We don't limit pleasure.
Focusing on a spot when there's an entire world to explore...does just that.

**ralife **ra

It is National Kink Month.

Curiosity is how we develop in kink. There are some kinks you may never get into...and it is okay! lt is more than okay...it is your pleasure.

I often hear participants from the left side of the right side of the slash trying to "level up" in kink in an effort to "be of service" and not because they are genuinely curious. That isn't kinky and it isn't pleasure. It is placating and it is built from trauma.

Not kinky!

Be curious! Be kinky! Be pleasure! Be.

Have you booked with Coach K Chase yet?

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