Nicole TheSoul Coach

You don't need to know what the next opportunity is.
You don't need to know when it's going to arrive.
You don't need to know how it's going to come together.

Repeat this affirmation 3x aloud in the mirror for maximum results:

I trust that the right doors are opening up for me at the right time, and I'll be ready to walk through with full faith.

And so it is. ✨

You know how to be sweet to others, but have you tried being sweet to yourself?

What are some ways that you could offer some tender sweet loving to yourself?

Some of the ways that I love on myself are:

Buying myself flowers
Getting a beautiful new outfit
Doing yoga
Taking a walk outside to connect with nature
Allowing myself to be treated by others
Acknowledging myself and my accomplishments
Doing Reiki on myself

Repeat this affirmation above while eye gazing at yourself in the mirror. Yes, it may feel uncomfortable at first but it is powerful. Give it a go!

I respond to all of life’s inconveniences in my highest vibration. I always expect an upside and am grateful for this knowingness and mindset.

Drop a heart emoji to claim this affirmation in your life. 💗

I offer coaching around forgiveness as I've been doing forgiveness work for over 18 years. I've forgiven a lot of past traumas and hurts and I know you can too, no matter what it is. 🙏

When you refuse to forgive it only ends up hurting you and keeping you from living your best life. You deserve to express creatively and be full of love. I can guide you through exercises, meditations & affirmation work.

DM me to setup a 30 min consultation and let's get started 💗

Today and everyday I show love. I open my heart and mind to give and receive love matter the circumstance. Every day is a day to practice being and giving love. 💗

Affirmation: I am in my perfect place right now. Life is for me. I am the light. I am leveling up. ✨🙌

Affirmation: I line up my actions with my heart and I outwardly express all the good that is within me. 🙌

Affirmation: God/Source has limitless possibilities for me. I don’t need to see the way or the how and I trust that the best outcome is always happening for me. ✨

Affirmation: I have a very important purpose and it is my duty to share my gifts with the world and inspire others. ✨

Affirmation: Today I celebrate my victories and I give praise to the Source. ✨

A closer look at distant Reiki healing sessions:

Distant Reiki works on the Law of Similarity, an ancient principle that states we are all connected and made of the same energy.

This is incredible, it means you can be anywhere in the world and still receive the potent healing energy as if you were on my table in LA.

Everything works the same as my in person sessions.

I was talking with a friend who said she was dealing with serious pain all over her body.

I did distant Reiki on her while in LA and she lives in the bay area.

Everyone I've worked on since becoming certified has given me rave reviews and felt immediate results. I love this type of healing.

I'm so in love with this gift and ability. 😍

👉🏽If you'd like to receive a Reiki session please send me a DM. I am available for in person or virtual sessions. You can choose from 30min to 60min sessions.

A closer look at in person Reiki healing sessions:

I absolutely love being able to connect with my clients and hold space for the transformation about to take place.

When you book an in person healing session with me I will walk you through everything.

You will notice I will gently place my hands on your body (or inches away if you prefer) wherever the energy blockage is located.

I am an intuitive so I get a deep knowing of where the healing energy is needed.

Often times I will feel a sensation in my body that gives me insight to what's going on in your body.

To this day, my intuitive abilities still amaze me. ✨

Swipe to see my prices and send me a DM to get started! 😍

Is Reiki religious? 🤔

No. Reiki is not associated with religion.

Whether you are religious or not, Reiki can provide healing.

I have clients with all kinds of belief systems and my healing hands do not discriminate!

How do Reiki sessions work?

First you'll want to get clear on what you want areas of the body or emotions you'd like to focus on. And you can also have a session not knowing what you want Reiki for and I will then let my intuition be the guide. The beautiful thing about Reiki healing is that your body and spirit knows where it needs healing and therefore the Reiki will go where it's needed.

As I've mentioned in previous posts, the potential of Reiki healing is limitless.

We can work on mental, physical, spiritual or emotional ailments.

You could have something very specific in mind or you may be desiring healing in a general sense.

Next, you'll want to choose whether you want to work with me in person (I'm located in LA) or virtually.

Everything is energy, so my clients do not need to be with me in person to receive the Reiki healing.

➡️ Swipe to see my prices.

💗 Send me a DM to get started!

✨ Affirmation:

I get out of my own way. I see my shadows and embrace them with love and compassion knowing that healing and change is always possible.

The first step to healing or change is believing it is possible.

Questions to ask yourself:

Do I believe it is possible for others to heal or change?
Do I believe it is possible for ME to heal or change?
If I believe it is possible for others, what would it take for me to believe it is possible for me?

Meditate on it, journal about it, get clear.

You'll know when you're ready.

For those that are ready for healing, I am here to help you along the way.

✨ Book a coaching session or reiki healing session with me to experience massive transformation.
👉 Send me a DM to get started!

Reiki works with the life force energy that runs through everything.

This energy is often referred to as "ki."

This life force energy should be free flowing and strong.

When energy is not free flowing and strong it creates dis-ease in the body.

Because everything is energy, Reiki can help to heal on a physical, emotional, spiritual or mental level.

Literally, y'all it can help with a n y t h i n g

Relaxation?
Worry?
Tension?
Pain?
Stress?
Fear?
Injury?

The answer is yes, yes and YES!

I offer in person and distant (virtual) Reiki healing sessions.

➡️ Swipe to see my prices.

It's easy to get started, just send me a DM! 💗

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Everyday of your life is a new day of limitless possibilities and experiences. ✨

And all of your experiences are happening based on how you see the world, the lens you look through, your daily mental thoughts (quiet & loud ones), the thoughts and words you express and more.

Some of your experiences feel good and some don't feel so good and even our judgment of those experiences will either create more of the same experience or we change it.

But whether your daily life experiences feel good or not, have you ever considered that all of your experiences are there to help you become the person you truly desire?

What if you took each experience and immediately said to yourself this is happening for a reason and I am grateful for this experience knowing there is a lesson, a benefit, or a redirection happening for me?

You can do this for the good moments and the moments that don't feel so good. But at the end of the day, all of it is good, it's just how you judge it or not judge it. 💗

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FORGIVING is (giving forth) the power that some past event has over you in your present moments and your future.

Forgiving is not saying that what you did or the other person is okay. It doesn't justify the issue. It keeps it from ruining your future life.

We have to leave the past in the past and until we do we'll be forever haunted by it causing our health to decline, decreasing our energy and losing our zest for life.

You forgive to be a powerful force in your life and others, to increase your energy, creativity and ability to love yourself and others.

It's all for you.

And it helps the other person heal as well so that you both heal.

I offer Coaching around forgiveness. I've been doing forgiveness work for over 17 years and I've forgiven a lot of past traumas and hurts. You can too, no matter what it is. You deserve to express creatively and be full of love. I can guide on you through exercises, meditations & affirmation work. 💗

✨ Book a coaching session or reiki healing session with me to experience massive transformation.
👉 Send me a DM to get started!

What people are you focusing on?

Focus not on the people who don't like you, don't love you or don't f**k with you.

That number is minuscule in comparison to the amount of people who truly do like you, love you and f**k with you on a regular basis.

The people who love and support you are the only ones who matter and the only ones you should be giving attention to.

If you focus on the ones who don't like you then you feed them and your belief in them which gives them power over you and you don't even realize it.

I see a lot of people online entertaining their enemies in negative exchanges of energy.

You think you're putting them in their place but you really aren't.

You're really putting yourself in their vibration and dirtying up your pool of energy. 🥴

Stop feeding them and they'll die off. Give them attention and they continue to live on like a dirty bacteria.

The only people who matter are the ones who are down with you. 💯

Focus on them and they will help you grow and you will help them grow.

So today and everyday, make sure you're only giving energy and attention to the people who f**k with you hard.

That's your people whether they're related, friends, near by, far away, or brand new.

Focus on your tribe only, not the enemies who don't see their worth or yours. ❤️

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Comment Yes if this is for you!

Read this affirmation aloud 3x and save it if it resonates with you.

Remember that whatever you speak into existence sends energy to that thing.

So when you vocally say positive affirmations like this you are literally bringing abundance to you and making the planet line up for you to live you've been speaking into. ✨

It's okay if it doesn't look like that right now because it can all change in an instant. 💗

Be the light you were put on this earth to be. ✨

And if someone does something to p**s you off today just blow them a kiss and give yourself a hug because you both need it. 😘🤗

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⚠️ WARNING: Tough love coming at ya...

Its time to stop pretending that you're happy when you aren't.

It's not helping anyone, especially you.

You can't keep putting bandaids on open wounds (your problems) and expecting them to be healed and go away.

They will keep coming back and they will come back bigger and more painful then before because you aren't working on the core issue.

When are you going to stop blaming him/her and them for what's happening in your life?

You know damn well if they were gone you'd be facing the same s**t with someone else and somewhere else.

Stop lying to yourself and everyone else.

Go do the work on yourself and focus on you so you can start showing up in a new transformed way for yourself and the people in your life.

No more bandaids, no more depression and no more feeling sorry for myself stories over here.

It's time to invest in yourself instead of material things that you use to cover up the pain.

Spend some money on you to be a healed person for you and your family.

Spend money to heal your hurt and pains with your mother and father from your childhood.

Otherwise you gonna keep showing up the same way everyday trying to put on bandaids on your open wounds.

You can do it, you are so much better than you know my dear. 💗

You have so much power that's been hidden and forgotten. ✨

It's okay to be hurting and now you can take the reigns and do something about it today.

✨ Book a coaching session or reiki healing session with me to experience massive transformation.
👉 Send me a DM to get started!

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I know you've heard this before, but you can't pour from an empty cup. ☕

Consider this your permission slip to do whatever you need to do to love and take care of yourself first. 😘

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I forgive my parents because they were exactly who they needed to be for me to be a better version of them.

Our parents can be the most difficult people to forgive.

I've personally done a lot of forgiveness work around my mother, dozens of courses and self development programs to come to terms with my childhood and upbringing.

There's been so many layers of forgiveness.

I thought the first time I forgave her, it was all done and over and I'd be happy and have these loving feelings for her.

Nope, there continued to be more things to forgive. It’s seemed to be a never ending process. LOL

What I've learned after doing over a decade of self development work is that I don't need to forgive my mom, I need to forgive the expectations I've put on her to be perfect or to have it all together.

I don't have it all together and I'm in my 40s now so why should she or anyone else have this thing called life perfected.

One of the biggest aha moments I had around my mother is that she was literally everything I needed her to be to be the wonderful amazing person I am today.

Had I not gone through all the things I thought were so bad, then I wouldn't be the person who creates so much good in others lives and my own.

I want to help people heal and transform because of everything I went through.
I want to help people forgive so they can free themselves up to love and be compassionate.

I am talented, creative, fun, full of energy and spirited because of my mother.

I am Me because of all the good things I got from my mother and because of all the bad experiences as well.

Forgiving our parents is letting go of the past that we keep them imprisoned to and realizing they did for us better than what they received themselves from their parents.

We get to improve upon what they didn’t provide and provide that to our children and to the kids that we will be cousins, aunts, uncles, and god parents to. 💗

It's acceptance of what is your present reality.

I surrendered the idea that I wasn't supposed to be dealing with depression.

Surrender is giving up, but it's not giving up on yourself, it's giving up the negative thoughts and it's giving up the idea that I know it all.

I had to give up the idea that I was in control of everything.

I needed to give up my idea of perfection and being an unstoppable robot.

I was going through this experience to finally realize my true humanness.

Had I never surrendered I'd still be in my s**t, stuck in that damn dark hole and invisible prison.

Surrender for me meant embracing that I was gonna get through this moment and I had to believe and have faith that it would end and I would come back to myself again.

I also had to lean in to my friends in a way that I never had before.

Going through that depression finally made me ask for help, it made me vulnerable, it allowed my friends to help me finally. I was so used to being the one that helped others, that I was embarrassed to ask for help.

I thought I would look bad or that they wouldn't feel like they could confide in me anymore. I thought who would want to work with me if I was going through this?

The friend who told me to surrender told me it felt so good to be able to give back to me the very thing I always gave her which was love, support, an ear, a voice.

I realized this experience was teaching me to receive all the good I had put out.

And just to think I had been blocking that the whole time.

The best gift of all was learning to Surrender.

When I surrendered control I was then able to process my emotions with more compassion plus connect to my friends in a deeper way than ever before.

And the best part is being a better coach for all my future clients also dealing with these same beautiful life moments.

If you're feeling the pull to reach out, send me a DM! Let's book a consultation call or a Reiki Energy Healing Session.

I look forward to working with you. ✨

Drop a 🙌🏽 if you know there is a blessing and growth on the other side of those hard times.

I created this affirmation to remind us all that the low points in life always lead to a high.

Every valley will create a rise back to a mountain top.

Ups and downs are a part of life no matter how amazing of a person you are.

You must have faith and believe that on the other side of those difficult times that there is abundance of blessings, gifts and rewards. 💗

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Today I was on a call with one of my coaching clients and we explored why she wasn't getting the things done that she said she wanted to do.

Who can relate?

How many times have you set this amazing to-do list and at the end of week you look back at that list and haven't done a damn thing or you've only knocked off a few items but they were the most meaningless items on the list and the most important stuff is still hanging over you like a dark cloud? ☁️

Are you really giving your best effort on all the things you say you're gonna do and are you keeping your word with yourself and others?

If not, it's likely life is looking a bit messy for you.

I know it does for me when I don't have integrity with my word with myself.

So today I reminded my client and also myself that you have to plan actionable steps for the things on your to do list.

When we broke it all down she realized everything was so much simpler than she was making it in her head. A task that seemed so arduous literally now only took less than 5 minutes to complete.

The most important step is to create accountability to make sure the tasks get done, which means scheduling it in your phone calendar, setting an alarm for yourself and also letting another person know what you have to complete and asking them to send you a text 15 min prior to remind you of your commitment.

What areas of life are lacking effort? Who can you ask for support and accountability?

If you don't currently have anyone or unsure where to start then maybe it's a good time to consider coaching.

Send me a DM and let's set up a consultation call on how coaching can benefit you in all areas of your life. 💗

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Our purpose isn't always clear

If you are feeling unmotivated, uninspired or lacking purpose IT'S 👏 OKAY👏

We all go through these phases.

I created this affirmation to anchor you back into your truth.

Your purpose.

Your gift to the world.

If you need support uncovering your purpose, send me a DM. 😘

Its time to take a deep breath. In just a moment you're gonna put your phone down and take 3 deep breaths. Inhale and hold the breath at the top for 4 seconds and then blow out slowly and fully till all your breath is gone and then hold for another 4 seconds and then feel the oxygen rushing back in.

The purpose of these breaths is to make you present and bring you into the Now. It's also a way to connect to your higher self and to remind yourself in this moment that everything is okay and you are safe. You are supported. And you can now change anything that is not working for you. Take an action towards something you want to transform or take a healthy action like drinking some water, taking a walk or Journaling.

Do you need help creating some balance in your life and getting back to what's important? If so, message me to book a consultation call for coaching. 😘

Before I got certified to be a life coach one of my intentions was to transform and inspire millions of lives.

I wanted to help others go through life easier and the only way to truly do that is to be experienced in life.

That means experiencing the good and not so good.

If you've been reading my recent posts, you know my journey has not been easy. Millions of people are struggling with all the things I had and instead of feeling sad for myself that I was experiencing those things and questioning God "Why Me?" now I truly know deep within that the Why was to help others.

I got what I asked for and that was the ability to be more compassionate for others no matter what they were dealing with. Because being a judgmental life coach, healer and instructor wouldn't make for me helping many people. But being a compassionate and understanding coach, means I can help millions of people just like me, Real Human Beings going through real human experiences.

Are you ready to become aware of your blocks and blindspots? Are you ready to get the support of someone who actually cares and wants to see you win? Are you ready to get unstuck, transform your inner talk, and recognize your true inner light? Want to talk with someone who actually understands what you're going through?

Send me a DM and let's do a consultation call or book a Reiki Energy Healing Session.

I look forward to working with you. 💗