Enchanté Collective

One moment in time.

Doing whatever I can to cheer on my loves.

We're all living life the best we know how. Who are we to judge? However, we can pick our battles.

Fresh faced and back at it. Happy New Year!

My cozy sweater dress and slippers were a big hit with my clients and I today.

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It's the small gestures for me...

Recall the or one of the happiest moments of your life? What made that moment happy?
Do you know you have the power to make that happen now?

An artist and her art.

The best part of Chicago coldness. Cozy sweater time!

I love how sincerely vocal he is.

So many are walking around not realizing how much weight (shadow) you're carrying and how that weight interferes with your important relationships, including your relationship with yourself. I ask you this question: What are you willing to do to learn how to walk in harmony with your shadow?

A bit of morning inspiration...

👏🏾 and vice versa for women

Dear men,
✍🏾 If you choose a working woman, you have to accept that she can't take care of the house full time.

If you choose a housewife who can take care of you and handle the apartment fully, you have to accept that she doesn't make money.

If you choose a humble woman, you must accept that it is up to you.
When you're with a brave woman, you have to accept that she's independent according to her own views.

Those who choose a beautiful woman must accept that jealousy must be controlled.

If you're with a strong woman, it's worth accepting that she's gentle and fragile at a glance, but solid as steel.

If you choose an emotional, insecure woman, you must step up to make her feel safe and loved.

No woman is perfect and doesn't have to be. Every woman has her own personality and values that determine who she is and that make her special.

Keep moving forward...

****Trigger warning****

Professionals use your PTO/ATO, take trips, sleep, read... be proactive in taking care of yourself in whatever way you can. Work will always be there. This is your time to reset and shine 💜💫

RULES FOR COUPLES FOR BEING MAD...✍🏾

1. Be mad at me, but don't insult me. Anger is not a ticket to speak carelessly.

2. Be mad at me, but tell me why you are mad. Don't assume I know.

3. Be mad at me, but don't broadcast it to others. Cover me.

4. Be mad at me, but don't forget the many good things about me. Be objective and fair.

5. Be mad at me, but also remember the many other times I have forgiven you.

6. Be mad at me, but don't give me silent treatment. Keep the communication lines open.

7. Be mad at me, but don't use it as an excuse to cheat on me.

8. Be mad at me, but don't hurt me to even the score. Love doesn't revenge.

9. Be mad at me, but don't stay mad for long. Let's sort this out quickly.

10. Be mad at me, but don't stop praying for me. I still need your prayers.

11. Be mad at me, but don't threaten to quit what we have. Ending it is not the solution.

12. Be mad at me, but don't punish me using s*x. Let's keep intimacy special, don't weaponize it.

13. Be mad at me, but don't keep reminding me of things you said you forgave me for.

14. Be mad at me, but don't develop a bad attitude or view of yourself. I take responsibility for offending you, let's make us work.

Let go of whatever isn't in alignment with what's valuable and serving you.

My girlfriends and I made a pack to go somewhere every year around this time because seasonal depression is real! We all are extremely blessed but struggling in different ways so it was wonderful sharing this experience with women who all share similar values, believe in reciprocity and transparency, are dependable, show their love, and are fun AF!!! Get you some!

One of the very few things that has stayed the same price after all these years.

I've been getting mammograms since I was 35 years old. The physical experience seems easier now but the mental experience I never take lightly.