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Recognize that this world's remarkable achievements stem not from extraordinary individuals, but from ordinary people rising to meet extraordinary challenges.

Every obstacle succumbs to unwavering determination; your aspirations define your potential; and your inherent capabilities have been tailored for success since birth.

Awaken to your possibilities! All the necessary tools for success reside within you; you simply need to discover how to harness them. I challenge you today to uncover your true potential.

Note that the only genuine constraints on your accomplishments are those you impose upon yourself! Wishing you a fulfilling day!

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Surround yourself mainly with like-minded individuals who share your vision, and seek guidance from those who have already attained success in the field you aspire to enter.

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Enhance your mental and physical well-being by dedicating time to read one chapter of any book today...

Excerpt from the book "HOW SUCCESSFUL PEOPLE GROW" By John C. Maxwell
Become an intentional learner;
1. Ask the big question
2. Do it now
3. Face the fear factor
4. Change from incidental to intentional growth
5. Know that there is no perfect time to start but start now.
6.Be your own inspiration
7. Don't Ever compare yourself with others, rather be inspired by their growth
8. You don't know the best way to do it until you start
9. Start learning, you can do do at your own pace.
10. Mistakes are inevitable, make them, learn from them and move on...

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Shift from 'I wish' to 'I will' and tap into your inner strength. You can revolutionize your world, ignite positive change, and amaze yourself. Take a deep breath, step into your truth, and make today the day your dreams unfold. Your beliefs have the power to shape your destiny, so act now.

Achieving success necessitates taking calculated risks. Without taking risks, how can you determine the right course? Knowing and intending are insufficient; you must apply and take action. Every accomplishment starts with a willingness to try. Procrastination, the opposite of decision-making, is a common obstacle that must be overcome. Your personal power lies in your ability to act. If you fail to take risks, your dreams will remain unrealized.
Take action to unlock your full potential.

Good morning, respected associate. Get set for your significant breakthrough; in these times of opportunities and preparation, put forth your best effort in every aspect of your life. Think big; prepare to excel. Life rewards you with interest on your deposits; invest wisely. Give your best to every task, surpassing previous ones. Feed your mind with positive, exciting mental pictures. Your imagination is a sneak peek into life's upcoming attractions. You can accomplish the impossible!

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Greetings Fobas audience, in our previous discussions we were able to define Emotional intimacy 👇👇

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In this episode we will be talking about how to build Emotional intimacy in our marriage;

Building emotional intimacy in a marriage requires effort, patience, and communication from both partners. Here are some steps that can help:

1. **Open Communication**: Make time for honest, open conversations. Share your feelings, thoughts, and concerns without judgment.

2. **Active Listening**: Truly listen to your partner without interrupting or planning your response. Show empathy and understanding.

3. **Quality Time**: Spend meaningful time together. Engage in activities you both enjoy, and make an effort to be fully present.

4. **Express Appreciation**: Regularly express gratitude and appreciation for your partner. Acknowledge the little things they do.

5. **Physical Affection**: Non-sexual physical touch like holding hands, hugging, and cuddling can strengthen your bond.

6. **Vulnerability**: Share your fears, dreams, and insecurities. Being vulnerable can deepen your connection.

7. **Seek Professional Help**: A marriage counselor or therapist can provide guidance and tools to improve emotional intimacy.

8. **Set Goals Together**: Work on common goals and support each other's individual aspirations. This creates a sense of teamwork and unity.

9. **Resolve Conflicts Respectfully**: Address conflicts calmly and respectfully. Avoid blame and focus on finding solutions.

10. **Revisit Happy Memories**: Reminisce about the good times you've shared. This can rekindle positive feelings and strengthen your bond.

11. **Practice Patience and Forgiveness**: Be patient with each other and practice forgiveness. Holding onto grudges can erode emotional intimacy.

August will favour you in Jesus name Amen

In need of a counsellor, send a WhatsApp message and by the grace of God you will be glad you did

LESSONS TO LEARN FROM THIS BOOK
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8 lessons from Clay Scroggins' book "How to Lead When You're Not in Charge: Leveraging Influence When You Lack Authority":

1. Leadership is About Influence, Not Authority: The book challenges the traditional view that leadership requires a formal position of authority. It argues that true leadership is about influencing others for a positive purpose, regardless of your title.

2. Lead Yourself Well First: Effective leadership starts with self-leadership. The book emphasizes the importance of self-awareness, strong values, and emotional intelligence to manage yourself and inspire others.

3. Develop a Servant Mentality: Great leaders prioritize serving others and helping them succeed. This involves putting the team's needs before your own and fostering a collaborative environment.

4. Become an Expert in Your Area: Earning respect and influence requires expertise. Focus on continuously learning and developing your skills in your specific area of responsibility.

5. Communicate Clearly and Persuasively: Effective communication is essential for influencing others. The book highlights the importance of clear, concise messaging tailored to your audience.

6. Build Trust and Credibility: People are more likely to follow those they trust. Demonstrate integrity, keep your promises, and follow through on commitments to build trust and credibility.

7. Embrace Positive Influence: Focus on influencing others in a positive way. Use your influence to motivate, inspire, and empower those around you.

8. Challenge Upward Constructively: Even without formal authority, you can still contribute to positive change within an organization. The book offers strategies to challenge the status quo respectfully and constructively.

10 benefits of reading

Gain valuable knowledge

Exercise your brain

Improve your focus

Improve your memory

Enjoy entertainment

Improve your ability to empathize

Improve your communication skills

Reduce stress

Improve your mental health

Live longer

*Benefits of Reading Inspirational Books*

Motivation plays an important role in helping you achieve your biggest goals.

Inspirational books create optimism and positivity in your life.

They boost confidence and enable you to develop a positive outlook.

Reading books will help you realize how powerful you are.

Education is the best gift you can give a child...

Don't starve them of it ..
Don't discourage them out of it...
Don't show them bad examples
Don't forget, train a child and you will be investing in your future and that of the country....





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The ROLE OF COUNSELING AND GUIDANCE is in dispensable, without counsellors the world will be full of persons with so much emotional and mental baggages, leading to ineffectiveness, unproductive, unachieved goals, dead dreams, depression etc... the list goes on, in this GenZ world where our children are misled, we all have a role to play, hence this event, where various areas will be critically looked at to deal with the issues facing our educational system...

You all are invited to the 2nd edition of School is not a Scam

As I and other great Men and women will be talking with our teenagers, teachers, school owners, parents and other stakeholders on how to standout in times like this...

See you there:
June 12th 2024
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10am