Vive & Inspire

THE IMPORTANCE OF BEING YOURSELF

For some, you will be a mystic.
For others, you will be crazy.
For some, you will be a sage.
For others, you will be misunderstood.
For a few, you will be a good example.
For others, you will be a danger.
For some people, you will be a good friend.
For others, you will be to blame for everything.
YOU REALIZE ?
YOU ARE JUST THE REFLECTION OF THE CONSCIOUSNESS OF OTHERS.
THEREFORE, ALWAYS BE YOURSELF,
without caring what others think of you, because there is no greater greatness in all of existence, than the freedom to express your essence.
And never forget that you are a wonderful Being of Light and Love !!! Please shine, increase your Light every moment

LOVE IS THE KEY

WHY HAS THAT PERSON APPEARED IN MY LIFE?

RELATIONSHIPS AS A REFLECTION OF OUR INSIDE

Sometimes we wonder: "Why has this person appeared in my life that makes me feel so bad?" or "Why am I living this painful experience?"

The answer is the following:
All our previous lives, lived experiences, known people, memories of joys and sufferings, pains that have not been healed, etc ... absolutely everything that we have experienced, is recorded in our subconscious mind.
The subconscious mind is the memory of all our experiences; it is the hard disk where they are registered.

When there is a situation or person in your life that makes you feel pain, that pain is not caused by the other person but is already within you, in your subconscious. And that specific person or situation is a projection of your own mind to help you heal that pain that was buried within you.
That person will be a mirror of yours in which those negative emotions that you have to resolve will be reflected.
With the help of that person, that pain that is in your subconscious will surface and in this way you will be able to know that it is there ... become aware that you have something that needs to be healed.

All people are mirrors that help us reflect those aspects of ourselves that we have not healed.
And these people are created by ourselves; They are projections of our mind, in order to reflect to us what needs to be resolved from within.

For example, when there is a member of our family, with whom we do not get along. That person makes us feel angry, angry, resentful, even hateful.
In reality, it is not the person who causes it, but the negative emotion (anger, anger, resentment, hatred) was already in our subconscious ... That person has only reflected it to us. It has helped us to be aware of that pain.
Therefore, we cannot blame anyone, since no one causes us suffering; they help us to bring out the negative aspects that we already have inside and that we must heal.
We have to be grateful for those people who make us feel "bad", because that "bad" we already had inside.

This happens a lot with relationships. It is usually, in the vast majority of cases, that couples are the people who reflect to us the pain that we have in our subconscious.
If there is no pain, whatever your partner does, it cannot affect you at all.

That is why Buddha said: "Everything that bothers you about other beings is only a projection of what you have not resolved about yourself."

When you ACCEPT that you have that pain or negative emotion, you are opening the doors to healing. Because acceptance implies healing.
When we recognize that we can see ourselves in others, each relationship becomes a tool for the evolution of our consciousness.

We would never know why things happen, may be to give us another chance to live. 🙏🌸🌅

"LET"
Let things break, stop trying to keep them together.
Let people get mad.
Let them criticize you, their reaction is not your problem.
Let it all fall apart, and don't worry about it afterwards.
Where will I go? What I am going to do?
No one has ever been lost along the way, no one was left without shelter.
What is destined to go will go anyway.
What has to stay, will remain.
Too much effort is never a good sign, too much effort is a sign of conflict with the universe.
Relationships, jobs, home
Friends and great loves.
Give everything to the creator, whenever you can, pray and dance, but then, let what must blossom and the dry leaves fall off by themselves.
What goes away always leaves room for something new, that is the universal law.
And never think that there is nothing good for you anymore, only that you have to stop containing what you have to let go.
Only when your journey is over, then will the possibilities end, but until then, let it all fall apart, let go, let it be.
Elizabeth Gilbert, "Eat, Pray and Love."

When we are in anger, hatred, etc... In your body, a substance called CORTISOL is activated, which is what sometimes causes irreparable damage to your body. In the same way when you are too worried about your job, economy or some other circumstance that affects your life.

If someone insult us, our first reaction is to defend ourselves, if they yell at us, we scream even louder, this only leads us to offend, hurt, hurt people and get away from them, it is this precise moment in which we must choose to STOP and practice silence.

We know that it is complicated but I assure you that with time you will achieve it, the insults that they say are not yours are from the person who emits them, observe behind each hurtful word how much pain or frustration there is in their life.

Maybe they want to get your attention and they can't find a way to do it, so they shout for you to turn to look at them, it doesn't matter if they say "you can't hear them", "that you leave them talking to themselfs", "that you answer them", focus on your silence and your breathing, do not allow anyone to alter your PEACE or remove you from the center of your BEING.

If you answer you can say very hurtful words that you may not feel, sometimes words said with the intention of hurting leave you marked for life in your soul, even knowing that they are not yours.

Once the storm has passed and you have stood firm in your silence, be thankful for having achieved it, you will feel satisfied not to answer an aggression that is not for you. Each one gives to the others what he has inside him and you have LIGHT, COMPASSION AND UNCONDITIONAL LOVE.

You are made in the likeness of the Creator, consequently you are the Creator of your Universe, your heaven or your hell. IT'S UP TO YOU.🙏🪔☯️☮️💌🤍

When you wish to move on, you must first try and understand what it is you are moving on from and why you no longer need it in your life.

The essential guide to winning the heart of an independent woman

Most men often avoid dating an independent woman because they have the belief that women who are independent do not like the old school of romance and are unwilling to settle down. But this is not true. An independent woman is like anyone else, loves to be loved, loves to go on a date, wants to be cared for and needs a partner to share her life with her.

She may not seem too excited about the idea of falling in love and may not settle for someone who doesn't meet her standards, but when she gets her ideal man, she's the happiest.

So, if you really like that woman, don't believe the myths. It's not hard to win. All you need to do is figure out what to do to get it.

#1 respect her beliefs and principles
If you want to conquer her heart, respect her as a person, but also respect her beliefs and choices. You have to understand that before you're her romantic partner, she's an independent woman with a mind of her own. She has a set of principles and believes, and you have to let her be like that.

#2 Let her have space
An independent woman loves her personal space and looks for a partner who's fine with that. She is someone who prioritizes her career as much as her relationship, and needs time and space for personal growth. Make sure you give her room to do so. If she thinks you're too intrusive, she'll cancel out any sign of union with you.

#3 Be a Gentleman
Being an independent woman, she may not like to be pampered with gifts frequently. But she'll definitely like you to be a gentleman to her. Treat her with respect and the more gentlemanly acts you show, you will certainly make her feel special and allow you to win her heart.

#4 Never try to make decisions for her
Both are part of the relationship, so don't try to make life-changing decisions. The best thing you can do is discuss important things with her at every stage before making any decisions.

#5 You have to be independent too
An emotionally strong and independent woman wants someone who is as independent and intelligent as she is. She needs someone who has his own goals and works hard to achieve them. She doesn't appreciate someone who asks for her approval in every thing in her life and can't think for himself.

Winning the heart of an independent woman is not a difficult riddle to solve, and if you follow these tips, rest a doubt you will have a successful relationship with her.

We Don't See Things As They Are. We See Things As We Are. If We Can Change Our Paradigm, We Will Be Able To See Reality... Interpret, Perceive and Understand The World and People Around us In a Better Way,
Everything has a Why, a Reason, a Motive... Empathy is a Beautiful Virtue and So It Is a Open Mind.X🌸

WHAT IS SPIRITUAL MATURITY?
☮️☯️🧘😌💗

1. It is when we stop trying to change others and we focus on changing ourselves.
2. It is when we accept people as they are.
3. It is when we understand that everyone is correct according to their own perspective.
4. It is when you learn to let go.
5. It is when you are able to have no expectations in a relationship, and we give ourselves for the pleasure of giving.
6. It is when we understand that what we do, we do for our own peace.
7. It's when you stop showing the world how smart you are.
8. It is when we stop seeking approval from others.
9. It is when we stop comparing ourselves to others.
10. It is when you are at peace with yourself.
11. It is when we are able to distinguish between “need” and “want”.
Lastly, and most importantly:
12. Spiritual maturity is gained when we stop attaching "happiness" to material things.

Your mind believes what you tell it:

Tell your mind it will be a great day ☀️.
Tell yourself that you are wonderful 🥰.
Tell your mind that everything will be alright 💪.
Tell yourself that you are unique and valuable 💎.
Tell your mind that the best is yet to come🌈

HAPPY MONDAY EVERYONE
KEEP SMILING 😊💌

When you complain, you make yourself a Victim. Leave the situation, change the situation, or accept it. All else is madness. X🌸

Basically, find out your real worth and don't accept discounts.
A diamond can NOT be valued by a street merchant. 💎💠💍💪X

SELF ACCEPTANCE

You don't need anyone's affection or approval in order to be good enough. When someone rejects or abandons or judges you, it isn't actually about you. It's about them and their own insecurities, limitations, and needs, and you don't have to internalize that. You worth isn't contingent upon other people's acceptance of you - it is something inherent.
You exist, and therefore, you matter.
You are allowed to voice your thoughts and feelings.
You are allowed to assert your needs and take up space. You are allowed to hold on to the truth that who you are is exactly enough.
And you are allowed to remove anyone from your life who makes you feel otherwise.

My babies.

Until men and women start having honest conversation about who they truly are, what demon's they battle with, where they lack and what they truly want, love will be continue to be a temporary emotion. Honesty and Communication are key, stop being afraid to speak on where you are.

Maybe the journey isn't so much about BECOMING anything.
Maybe it's about UN-BECOMING everything that isn't really you, so you can be who you were meant to be in the first place.