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When you are truly inspired, you don't give up.

Dr John Demartini

"Seek what is BEST in those you meet every day. LIVE peace and harmony within, and you will bring peace and harmony to those you meet."

Edgar Cayce

"Until you value yourself, no one else will. The outer world is a reflection of your inner world."

Dr John Demartini

Einstein, “You cannot solve a problem at the level it was created”.

You can't see something in others you don't have within yourself. The things you see in others, you like, are the same things you have within yourself. The things you see in others you don't like are the same things you have within you.

We create our realities by our perceptions when we change our perceptions, we change our lives.

The things we like in others are the things we like about ourselves.
The things we dislike in others are the things we dislike about ourselves.

"There is so much good in the worst of us, and so much bad in the best of us, it doesn't behoove us to speak evil of the rest of us."

Edgar Cayce reading 3063-1

John has been my teacher since 1990. He changed my outlook on life completely. I recommend signing up for his e-mails. They are full of wisdom.

I made a decision that my family, minus my granddaughter, thinks I am nuts because I have chosen not to put poison (chemo and radiation) into my body. I plan to heal with logic.

I have lung cancer. No wonder! I have smoked since I was five. The only time I quit was the day I found out I was pregnant and did not smoke again until he was a year old.

A neighbor referred me to a grocery store in Mexico. I have been on this diet for 2 weeks and have more energy than I have had in many months. I plan to be cancer-free on my 80th birthday, three months from now.

PS: My cancer was small and in only one lung.

I have chosen the natural, non-toxic mushroom and herb diet. It was difficult to find.
It is a pain in my patience since it takes an average of 30 min to complete the first morning doses. Then I repeat some of them as many as 3 times a day. I take Collagen 3 times a day. Maybe I even look younger for my birthday. LOL

Although I have smoked for so many years, I have always chosen the lightest ni****ne to smoke. I realized I was not addicted to the ni****ne but to the habit of lighting one. So I bought one more pack and put 4 holes in the filter with a medium-sized needle. I have not coughed one time since doing it. I get virtually no ni****ne because of the holes in the filter.

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EVERYTHING YOU NEED TO KNOW ABOUT RELATIONSHIPS
By Merry Mount

CHAPTER 1

WHO ARE YOU…..REALLY?
How did you become the person you are today?
Why am I different?

I was born in a small Texas town with one hospital, which was Catholic. I was the second born that day. Unfortunately, immediately after his birth, my mother was rolled out into the hallway because they only had one delivery room for the other mother about to deliver in.
So in the hallway was where I was born only seven minutes later.

After my mother was moved to a room, the Nun asked her mother if she could go tell the new Grandma. Mother about her new granddaughter. Mother thought that was a very good idea. That way, she would not have to.

A few minutes later she returned, her stiff skirts rustling loudly as she stomped into the room. She was about as mad as a nun could be. She asked do you know what that old woman said? No was her response.

She said, “We can keep the boy, but you had better put the girl right back where you got her”. For years someone told that story to almost every family visitor.

At the age of five years old we were left alone all summer and after school with my eight-year-old brother in charge were left alone because we were so bad, that they could not find anyone who would take care of us.

Finally, one day at church she told Grandma that she would take care of us. She lasted one whole day. She told Grandma, after one day that we were too bad.

Your connection to your mother begins 3 weeks into pregnancy when your umbilical cord develops from your mother to your father.

The three of you will become one in seven weeks.

The Blood flows back and forth between you, bringing nutrients and oxygen to your body. Any substance they send will be absorbed into your body.

But what does that blood contain that is being absorbed by your body, and what effect does it have on your life today?

Oxytocin, known as the love hormone, provokes feelings of contentment, calmness, and security.

What was your mother’s emotional state during the three tri-semesters?

Was she:
Happy?
U***d?
Stressed?
Afraid?
Unwanted?
Poor?
Abused?
Nervous?
Problem relationship parents?
Drinking?
Drugs? What type?

What chemicals do each of the above generate that pertain to your mother's and father’s mental and physical
health health? Please look them up for yourselves because you will remember them longer.

You are just now beginning to understand more about yourself and why you are the person you were “when”.

Chapter Two
Guided Wisdom

Issac Newton proved in his third law of motion:

For every action, there is an EQUAL but opposite REACTION.

Exercise 1 Discover Your Voids and Values.

Think back to your earliest memories as a child. Remember your home, your family, your pets, and your friends.

What were the earliest memories of your home?
What did you feel was most missing?
What were they?
Which one brought back sad feelings?
Are you feeling the pain in your solar plexus? (It is the soft spot just above your stomach). This is where we hide all our painful childhood memories.

We talk of broken hearts, but it is not the heart that hurts when we have a break in a relationship. It is your solar plexus that hurts.

Exercise 2
Pretend you are in this huge airplane hanger filled with everyone you ever knew in your entire life, and they are all talking about you.

What you are most proud to hear them say about you?

Whatever we perceive as most missing in your childhood, creates the person you are most proud of today.

Everything has a balance: Only our perceptions are out of balance.

Isaac Newton proved the theory of motion:

For every action, there is an
“Equal yet Opposite Reaction”.



Albert Einstein said, “You cannot solve a problem with the same mind that created it.” So, let us see if we can find a way to do that.

Think you are in Love?

Einstein has the answer. He says “You cannot solve a problem at the level it was created”.

You have been so focused so much on “how perfect they are.” Let’s look at it from a different perspective.

Find a quiet place with plenty of “me time” before you start work.

Make a list of the good and bad traits of this person. The two sides should tell a lot about the person you have in your life.

Jealousy: That just means they think you are better than they are. It’s called insecurity.
Telling Lies: Fear of being not being:
good enough,
Smart enough,
Pretty enough,
Thin enough,
Rich enough, and all the other “not enoughs”

Chapter Three
Relationships

Why is it important to get your relationship balanced?

“Because anything we are infatuated with, we will be resentful, to the same degree”.

Once we create infatuation, we are doomed to a very nasty departure. We don’t want that to happen! (review Newton’s third law of motion)

Do you remember your first used car? How proud of it you were? How long before you became resentful of it when it continued to break down and cost money to repair?

Anything we are infatuated with, we will learn to resent to the same degree.

Exercise 3: How to balance your relationships.

What or whom are you infatuated with?
Job?
Car?
Education?
House?
Marriage?
Boyfriend/Girlfriend?
Money?

Sit down and make a list of the good things you like most about them.

For every good thing on your list, find a bad thing you don’t like. Try to keep the list balanced between the good and the bad.

You will be able to find balance!

Start with 10 answers. Keep thinking of your memories and emotions as you experience them.

Are you feeling more sure of your relationship because of this exercise? More unsure?

Were there any negatives you think you can change?
Think again because you will not change him until you get the last exercises completed in the end book. At least that is what happened to me after many hours of working. It was the best hours I ever spent because, when the end finally came, I experienced unconditional love for the first time in my life.
Only then did the man I had once hated changed!

Before the first Dr. John DeMartini seminar I hated every fiber in my husband’s body. I wished him broke and dead, in that order and the feeling was mutual.

We were divorced for 18 years when he died and left me his estate. We both had changed. Our love was good again.

They tell me the answer is in quantum physics. When something is emotional, it is replicated somewhere in the Universe.

Only then did he change. Eighteen years after we divorced, he left me his entire estate.

Socrates said: “To know yourself is the beginning of wisdom”.

I was 46 when I first discovered who I was, through this work. I took Dr. John Demartinis's beginning class twelve times. Each time I understood what I had not comprehended the first time.

As I progressed, I took several other accelerated classes from him.

Chapter Four
Learning to See Yourself

This is, by far my favorite exercise, and it may be yours too.

Think of a person you most admire and list the best trait you believe them to have. On a scale of 1-10 give them a rating (with 1 being the best) on how much this person personifies this trait.

Let’s just say her score on this trait will be an 8.

Next, ask yourself who thinks you have this same trait and give them a rating as to how they may feel about you.

You may need two people to find your matching number, or it could take 8 people with 1 each. Do not give up!

Please complete at least 3 of the exercises before I give you the reason this works so easily.

“You can’t see something in someone else that you do not have within yourself. They are the things you are most proud of within you.

It’s also fun to find the things you dislike in other people.

You will find the things you most dislike about them are the same things you struggle with, within yourself.

Please feel free to share and give feedback.

More to come soon.

“Ditto” 😂

I did all the things to my son that a mother should not have done. I yelled at him and said damaging things to him and spanked him. After all that, he still became a son to be proud of. (no thanks to me)
I write this blog because of the things I did not know. My knowledge finally began at the age of 46.
It was then I met Dr. John Demartini. He is an international human behavior specialist and an inspiration to all who hear him speak.
I would like this blog to help you understand how the true wisdom of the Universe works in a way that anyone can understand it and everyone can afford it.
(I took John's beginning class 12 times and 12 times I discovered something new about myself.
By the time we are 3 years old, we have created 78% of everything we believe about ourselves and others.
The following is a 2-part exercise to demonstrate the balance in our lives.
First, close your eyes and visualize your earliest memories of your childhood home. Remember your family. Remember each one of them. Take your time. What did your home feel like? What did you think was MOST missing in your early childhood?
Now visualize yourself in a huge room. EVERYONE you have ever known in that room, and they are all talking about you. What would you be MOST happy to hear them say about you?
You will probably see that:
Whatever you perceived as most missing became the thing you were most happy to hear someone say about you.
Example: Love was missing. You became a loving and caring person to all you meet.
If attention was missing, you excelled in something to get attention.
If a parent was most missing, you dated, based on how good they would be as a parent.
Issac Newton proved the third law of motion: For every action, there is an equal, but opposite reaction.
Einstein said: You cannot solve a problem at the level it was created.
When you become angry, just know that anger is nothing but unresolved fear. Ask yourself "What am I afraid of" Your anger will dissipate by at least 50% just by asking the question. You will find your answer easily.
You will know all the answers. It is just asking the right questions is all it takes to you understand yourself and the other person as well.
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