Soul Saturations
I help people deeply connect with soul centered sensuality and s*xuality.
I took this photo one year ago today, 16th July 2023. I was leaving Italy on my way to London for an immersion with John Wineland for The Teacher Training.
I had just had a conversation with my partner that our values were no longer aligned and we were going in different directions. We completed our five year partnership about a month later on our five year anniversary.
This past year was the deepest cauldron of alchemical transformation I have ever experienced.
And I’m so fu***ng proud of myself. 🙇♀️
I went into the depths of grief, rage, anguish and heartbreak. I honored the uncoupling process with so much love and respect and honored my humanness when s**t got real. I was devoted to a 9 month masculine cleanse.
And I showed the f**k up - even when it felt hard.
I lead coaching containers for my clients. I was lead assistant for 2 immersions with John Wineland, I taught practices that emerged from the depths of my soul.
I started an intentional pleasure product line 💦
I played all out.
Here I am in one year - living in a new city with a co-creative business partner that could not feel more aligned. My heart is full, my practice is deep, my life is ALIVE. 💫
I’m about to leave for Portugal for my 3rd year of my 3 year 1000 hour certification with John Wineland and I’m on the program team welcoming 60 amazing beings into another year of deep work in embodiment and s.xual polarity.
I am more aligned to my Purpose, Pleasure, and Possibilities than ever before… and the doors haven’t even opened yet. ✨
So remember, those moments of contraction open you into the wildest expansion of your dreams, when you hold true to your heart, align with your purpose and take radical action to create the life you were born to lead. ⚡️
Keep going, lovers, it’s so fu***ng worth it. 🫧🤸♀️
Perhaps the most wild and beautiful truth of our hearts is that at our core we are love.
Love emerges from us, as us, as something to then be given and receive.
Sometimes we believe that being loved is something that can be lost, yet love is never lost when we remember the love that we are.
The best love leaves indelible marks on our souls. It’s memories permeating our cells and filling our hearts.
Even amongst waves of grief and heartbreak the love is never truly lost, rather a reminder of the love that we are.
It is in being with all that is, the love, the grief, the despair and disbelief, and the resounding knowing of what’s true, that in letting go we open ourselves to let more love in.
What are you letting go of?
What love do you want to let in?
In partnership, are you letting go of the little moments of contraction and letting in more generosity?
I’m dating, are you letting go of your feelings of unworthiness to feel just how valuable you are?
In life, are you letting go of past expectations and opening to the juicy possibilities in front of you?
Wherever you are, whatever you’re letting go of, remember you ARE love, and in that space of radical compassion, only more love can be let in.
Be gentle with yourself.
And if you’re ready for a container to hold you, I have spaces for 1:1 and couples coaching so that you can let the love that you are spill over.
Intentional pleasure oil available as an anchor for your practice as well 💧
You have permission to spill over.
She’s coming ✨💦
Priority Partnership is a space to honor all the seasons of your partnership.
Partnerships move though transitions.
Priority: Partnership is first of all a community. A community of other human beings who know that prioritizing purpose - driven partnership is a transformational container for growth in all areas of your life.
We all know someone who is in partnership for convenience… it’s easy, sure they have fun, or maybe they don’t even connect deeply at all and stay together because that’s just what you do. This is not the space for that.
This isn’t where we just talk about what’s happening… we bring it into practice so we can embody the love we desire.
We all have priorities in life other than partnership, so let’s find a way to make space for love in partnership so we are more available to bring the full force of our love to the world.
Priority Partnership is for people who want deep love, deep s*x, deep connection, deep understanding and they want to feel free to be the best versions of themselves and support each other to do that.
The world needs more love. It starts with us.
Priority: Partnership is more than just a program to learn tools and practices to integrate this kind of partnership into your everyday life, it’s a space to hold the intention of your partnership for only the highest and greatest good.
We kick off Monday, September 18th and there is still time to join this beautiful community of humans who are a stand for love.
Go to www.prioritypartnership.com to apply or send me a DM to schedule a call.
Whatever season of partnership you’re in, you’re not alone.
This container is a place where I get to be a stand for the type of love I’m devoted to embodying, I am inviting you to go on the journey with me.
𝗙𝗥𝗘𝗘 𝗠𝗔𝗦𝗧𝗘𝗥𝗖𝗟𝗔𝗦𝗦: 𝗪𝗘 𝗪𝗔𝗡𝗧 𝗧𝗢 𝗟𝗢𝗩𝗘 𝗢𝗨𝗥 𝗣𝗔𝗥𝗧𝗡𝗘𝗥𝗦 𝗪𝗘𝗟𝗟 🍯
𝗪𝗘𝗗𝗡𝗘𝗦𝗗𝗔𝗬, 𝟵/𝟭𝟯/𝟮𝟯 𝗔𝗧 𝟰𝗣𝗠 𝗣𝗦𝗧
𝗗𝗠 𝗠𝗘 𝗙𝗢𝗥 𝗧𝗛𝗘 𝗟𝗜𝗡𝗞 😘❤️🔥
This masterclass is for you if you are single or in partnership, come as an individual or with your partner!
We will be dropping in and feeling what it means to want to love our partners well.
This will be a juicy practice followed by what it means to cultivate purpose driven partnership.
Bring your curiosity as we will have a space for questions and live coaching.
You will get a taste of the energy we will be playing with in Priority: Partnership and go over any questions you have if the container is right for you!
ALL are welcome!
DM me for the link!
The evolution is here ✨
Calling all couples and individuals who want to cultivate more purpose driven partnership in their lives ✨
I am deeply honored to bring this new evolution of the container, Priority: Partnership with the initiation starting on my birthday! September 18th ✨
Mark your calendars and find out more at the link in my bio or go to www.prioritypartnership.com
I want to close out august with a deep honoring of the partnership I have had over the past 5 years. This partnership has activated me to know my truest gifts, light, power, and purpose on the planet. I have experienced more growth, lessons, deaths and rebirths than I could have ever imagined from the first night I kissed him. I feel deeply honored that through this partnership we have been able to tap into the limitless power that exists within us to truly claim the big missions we are meant to have on the planet. We have loved fully and completely. The world is and will continue to be a better place because of our love. This partnership has showed me how to be a stand for the type of love I am devoted to embodying. This partnership has been an initiation to the full, wet, grounded aliveness of love and commitment.
There are limitless lessons that I could share from this partnership and my fierce devotion to being a stand for love…. Which I will be sharing as an honoring of my life’s work…. More coming soon 😉
We celebrated our 5 years together with a deep honoring of our love and partnership together and I want to share a few lessons that have resonated… sign up for my email to get all the juicy details 💦
Lesson 1… Love Generously.
Love is big. Love is limitless. Love is a running towards. What does love want?
Lesson 2… All In Commitment.
Allow your all in commitment to be a tether to serve love and bring more light onto the planet.
Lesson 3… Communication and Repair.
Honoring each other’s nervous system must be a foundation you build healthy communication on top of.
Lesson 4… Needs and Expectations.
Have clarity in your needs and your partner is a F**K YES to both wanting to meet those needs and has the capacity to do so.
Lesson 5… Individual growth and support of each other’s dreams.
Deeply commit to your own practice and the love you bring to the world to fully meet your partner with juicy aliveness.
I absolutely bow in deep reverence and gratitude for the last 5 years I have had in this partnership. It has saturated my soul and activated the light within me.
unexpected pleasure
without expectations
we had dinner and we’re cuddled up on the couch a dog on either side of us
I nestled into his chest and purred
mmmm
it just feels so good
he leans in to kiss me
I respond with moans and sounds of yes, more
[knowing I have an IN PERSON workshop: light up your lover on ☀️sunday, june 4]
I amplified my play with a few different textures all while tuning into my invitation, pleasure and desire…
*without expectations*
he said he was tired, I kept nuzzling with an open heart and slyly he opened as a YES
that didn’t take long 😉
unexpected pleasure 🫦🌀💦✨
How do you warm up for love? 🍯
How do you light up your lover? ✨
How do you turn on the world with your pleasure? ⚡️
connect with me and let’s play 😈⚡️🙇♀️
FREE LOVE WARM UP PARTY
meditation + embodiment + Q&A
men, women + couples who want purpose driven partnership
FRIDAY, MAY 12: 4-5pm pst
(no love warm up party may 19th)
AND DRUM ROLL 🥁
MARK YOUR CALENDAR
☀️ SUNDAY JUNE 4th
IN PERSON WORKSHOP, IN PHOENIX AZ
LIGHT UP YOUR LOVER
how to add a spark to your partnership & dating
more details dripping in soon 💦
𝗟𝗢𝗩𝗘 𝗪𝗔𝗥𝗠 𝗨𝗣 𝗣𝗔𝗥𝗧𝗬
𝘉𝘌𝘊𝘈𝘜𝘚𝘌 𝘠𝘖𝘜𝘙 𝘓𝘖𝘝𝘌 𝘐𝘚 𝘞𝘖𝘙𝘛𝘏 𝘊𝘌𝘓𝘌𝘉𝘙𝘈𝘛𝘐𝘕𝘎
The simple… 🫦🌀💦✨
𝗣𝘂𝗿𝗽𝗼𝘀𝗲: Activate the Light Within ✨
𝗜𝗻𝘁𝗲𝗻𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻𝘀: Connect you to the love that you are. Feel the fullness of your pleasure and presence.
Warm up to give love to your partner and / or the world. 🌀💦
𝗜𝗺𝗽𝗮𝗰𝘁: Turned on and ready to love the f**k out of your partner and / or the world. 🫦
✨✨✨FIRST CALL✨✨✨
𝗧𝗛𝗜𝗦 𝗙𝗥𝗜𝗗𝗔𝗬, 𝗔𝗣𝗥𝗜𝗟 𝟮𝟴𝗧𝗛 𝟰𝗣𝗠 - 𝟱𝗣𝗠 𝗣𝗦𝗧
** VERY SPECIAL ANNOUNCEMENT **
DM ME: 𝗪𝗔𝗥𝗠 𝗠𝗘 𝗨𝗣 FOR THE LINK TO REGISTER!
Every Month:
2 - 4 calls per month 💫💫💫💫
A generous hour ✨
Replay available
Practice, Celebration & Integration 🫦🌀💦
In partnership, Dating, Single
Men & Women
Couples - come together or separate
✨✨✨
Call 1:
THIS FRIDAY, APRIL 28TH 4PM - 5PM PST
** VERY SPECIAL ANNOUNCEMENT **
Call 2:
Friday, 5/5 12PM - 1PM PST
*cinco de mateo aka ’s bday so it will be a PARTY!
ENERGETIC EXCHANGE:
$44 PER MONTH TO ACCESS ALL CALLS
OR $33 PER CALL TO DROP IN
DM ME: 𝗪𝗔𝗥𝗠 𝗠𝗘 𝗨𝗣 FOR THE LINK TO REGISTER!
𝗟𝗢𝗩𝗘 𝗪𝗔𝗥𝗠 𝗨𝗣 𝗣𝗔𝗥𝗧𝗬
𝘉𝘌𝘊𝘈𝘜𝘚𝘌 𝘠𝘖𝘜𝘙 𝘓𝘖𝘝𝘌 𝘐𝘚 𝘞𝘖𝘙𝘛𝘏 𝘊𝘌𝘓𝘌𝘉𝘙𝘈𝘛𝘐𝘕𝘎
The simple… 🫦🌀💦✨
𝗣𝘂𝗿𝗽𝗼𝘀𝗲: Activate the Light Within by connecting to the love that you are. ✨
𝗜𝗻𝘁𝗲𝗻𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻𝘀: Connect you to the love that you are. Feel the fullness of your pleasure and presence.
Warm up to give love to your partner and / or the world. 🌀💦
𝗜𝗺𝗽𝗮𝗰𝘁: Turned on and ready to love the f**k out of your partner and / or the world. 🫦
✨✨✨FIRST CALL✨✨✨
𝗧𝗛𝗜𝗦 𝗙𝗥𝗜𝗗𝗔𝗬, 𝗔𝗣𝗥𝗜𝗟 𝟮𝟴𝗧𝗛 𝟰𝗣𝗠 - 𝟱𝗣𝗠 𝗣𝗦𝗧
** VERY SPECIAL ANNOUNCEMENT **
DM ME: 𝗪𝗔𝗥𝗠 𝗠𝗘 𝗨𝗣 FOR THE LINK TO REGISTER!
Every Month:
2 - 4 calls per month 💫💫💫💫
A generous hour ✨
Replay available
Practice, Celebration & Integration 🫦🌀💦
In partnership, Dating, Single
Men & Women
Couples - come together or separate
✨✨✨
Call 1:
THIS FRIDAY, APRIL 28TH 4PM - 5PM PST
** VERY SPECIAL ANNOUNCEMENT **
Call 2:
Friday, 5/5 12PM - 1PM PST
*cinco de mateo aka ’s bday so it will be a PARTY!
ENERGETIC EXCHANGE:
$44 PER MONTH TO ACCESS ALL CALLS
OR $33 PER CALL TO DROP IN
DM ME: 𝗪𝗔𝗥𝗠 𝗠𝗘 𝗨𝗣 FOR THE LINK TO REGISTER!
feel the ❤️🔥 fire ❤️🔥 of our embodied expression
I am honored to be a guest facilitator of and .me ‘s
sisterhood circle
embodying the wild woman
this sunday, April 16th, 5:45pm arrival ✨
DM those beauties for details to join us.
we will be exploring the textures and sensations of the wild woman and how to embody all parts that exist within us to honor our wholeness ❤️🔥
Last night I slept on my sheepskin in my office 𝘢𝘭𝘰𝘯𝘦…. Swipe through for the story 👉
𝗛𝗮𝘃𝗲 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗲𝘃𝗲𝗿 𝗵𝗮𝗱 𝗮 𝗱𝗶𝘀𝗮𝗴𝗿𝗲𝗲𝗺𝗲𝗻𝘁 𝘄𝗶𝘁𝗵 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗽𝗮𝗿𝘁𝗻𝗲𝗿 𝘁𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗹𝗲𝗳𝘁 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗮𝗰𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗹𝗼𝗻𝗴𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗳𝗼𝗿 𝗿𝗲𝗰𝗼𝗻𝗻𝗲𝗰𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻?
I’m sharing it because…
If you get so excited to see your partner that you can giddily jump up and down and squeal with excitement like a teenage fan girl… 💖
Or know that there is no where else that feels like home when you’re wrapped in your lovers arms… 🏡
Or want to go on adventures, travel the world, create a legacy, make babies and live on a farm full of pointers with this person… 💫
And you still 𝘯𝘦𝘦𝘥 more from them… 🙏
It’s okay to be in the uncertainty and groundlessness for a moment.
It’s okay to not have an answer and love anyway. ❤️🔥
Do you agree?? 👇✨
I love love love dressing up in costumes and I love love love that is up for anything…
(Also his body is 🔥👌 and I love to show it off!)
I asked Matt if he would be up to dress up in whatever I wanted and he trustingly said YES 😁🤩
I was feeling inspired by a practice I did with in our Teacher Training 🌱✨
So and I dressed up / embodied our Forest Godforms 🤤🤤🫠🫠🔥🔥🌱🌱✨✨⚡️⚡️👑👑💦💦💫💫🌠🌠
How do you think we did??
we’re going back to Italy 🇮🇹
In June 2019 and I went on a trip to Lonato Del Garda with the US Olympic Shooting team.
I had just left my corporate job and it was the first time I took to really sit with what I wanted to do, the light I wanted to bring onto the planet, and the impact I was ready to make.
I couldn’t even imagine where I would go over the next 3 years!
Now, we’re going back!
So grateful for all of ’s devotion to his purpose that brings us back in a different capacity… we have both grown so much over the last 3 years.
It’s going to be a beautiful full circle moment to anchor in a beautiful gift of contrast from then to now.
I am so ready to spend some time reflecting with deep gratitude and being immersed in inspiring creative Italian energy!
I’m so excited!
…. I can’t wait to love the f**k out of you with all my juicy Italian energy! ugh. I love you.
This poem was beautifully reflected to me by Tony Cuseo after a practice I did in ‘s Teacher Training Immersion.
It cracked my heart wide open and moved me to tears.
This is the gift of this work.
Embodiment.
Art.
Love.
Love is art.
We are all artists of Love.
Deep bow to as a friend, fellow practitioner, and artist of love.
“Ashes”
I am a warrior.
I am strong
I am solid.
I am fierce.
I am invincible.
I am
lying.
The truth is
you are so beautiful
that I feel frightened.
If you peek
beneath this rigid exterior,
if I let you in
behind my stoic facade,
you will see me
trembling.
Dark eyes, satin smile, luminous skin.
I am certain
you are some kind of angel.
You look so warm, so soft.
And yet,
you can cut me
deep.
With a passing glance,
you could pierce my heart
or
sever my spine.
You are in bloom, and I
am in love.
To rest in your glow
is transcendent.
To bask in your warmth
is bliss.
But in a careless moment,
when I am conquered by desire,
I could wander too close
to your flames.
Lay waste by your radiance,
consumed by your beauty,
I will become a pile
of quivering ashes
scattered
at your feet.
Thank you for reflecting the depth of practice of Love merging with Consciousness.
Stay tuned for a way to join me in deeply honoring this journey as artists of love.
This poem was beautifully reflected to me by Tony Cuseo after a practice I did in ’s Teacher Training Immersion.
It cracked my heart wide open and moved me to tears.
This is the gift of this work.
Embodiment.
Art.
Love.
Love is art.
We are all artists of Love.
Deep bow to as a friend, fellow practitioner, and artist of love.
“Ashes”
I am a warrior.
I am strong
I am solid.
I am fierce.
I am invincible.
I am
lying.
The truth is
you are so beautiful
that I feel frightened.
If you peek
beneath this rigid exterior,
if I let you in
behind my stoic facade,
you will see me
trembling.
Dark eyes, satin smile, luminous skin.
I am certain
you are some kind of angel.
You look so warm, so soft.
And yet,
you can cut me
deep.
With a passing glance,
you could pierce my heart
or
sever my spine.
You are in bloom, and I
am in love.
To rest in your glow
is transcendent.
To bask in your warmth
is bliss.
But in a careless moment,
when I am conquered by desire,
I could wander too close
to your flames.
Lay waste by your radiance,
consumed by your beauty,
I will become a pile
of quivering ashes
scattered
at your feet.
Thank you for reflecting the depth of practice of Love merging with Consciousness.
Stay tuned for a way to join me in deeply honoring this journey as artists of love.
This poem was beautifully reflected to me by Tony Cuseo after a practice I did in ’s Teacher Training Immersion.
It cracked my heart wide open and moved me to tears.
This is the gift of this work.
Embodiment.
Art.
Love.
Love is art.
We are all artists of Love.
Deep bow to as a friend, fellow practitioner, and artist of love.
Thank you for reflecting the depth of practice of Love merging with Consciousness.
Stay tuned for a way to join me in deeply honoring this journey as artists of love.
This month on Make That Ish Beautiful podcast, Kendall Merritt shares a meditation and questions for self reflection centering on how to access limitless power from within ourselves to create the life we want. Settle in for some inspiration as the Soul Saturations founder shares actionable steps to restore inner radiance through intention and purpose.
Listen to our latest podcast episode at the link in our bio.
Podcast featuring:
Photography:
In this co-creative episode for catiemenke.com and the podcast Make that Ish Beautiful with Catie Menke, we talk all about POWER.
Power is something that exists within us.
We do not need to look for power outside of us.
Where are we giving our power or energy away?
Where are we looking for “clarity” “solutions” and “strategy” outside of us?
The Intentionality Framework can bring clarity for why, how and what you want from connecting to Power.
Purpose - WHY
Intentions - HOW
Impact - WHAT
Shifting the perspective around how you’re giving your power away from what do you NEED to do to what do you WANT to do can bring a different energy and source more power and creativity from within.
When we express with our full POWER we also want to make sure that others can receive it… expressing wide and modulating when we need to won’t actually dim our light, rather it makes us that much more magnetic.
✨ Happy September ✨
✨Happy birthday month to me! ✨
(( When my baby sister was born the same day, the same hour, and even the same weight and same length with different dads… 8 years younger than me…. I declared I got the whole month to celebrate 🎉
I now love sharing our birthday, our birthday month, and our celebrations 🎊
cheers to our birthday month 🥂 ))
And in the essence of it being my birthday month, I am so stoked to celebrate this beautiful life I have.
When I drop in to connect to where I am right now, WOW. Just so. much. wow. So much to be in absolute awe over.
I feel this deep gratitude that is weaving through the fibers in my being that are strengthening my capacity to hold even more. I’m being expanded in such a powerful way. It feels completely appropriate to just pause for a moment to say, thank you.
The depth. The expression. The opening. The practice. The progress. The creations. The love. The partnership. The polarity. The impact. The clients. The projects. The trust. The safety. The home. The dogs. The family. The friends. The containers. The adventures. The experiences. The longing. The desires. The embodiment.
I have been deepening in integrity, intentionality, and capacity.
I am here. Right here, right now.
I am in deep gratitude for the present moment.
Here is the update:
✨ I decided to press pause on until I have some more capacity
✨ I’m birthing some really incredible creations with that I want to fully honor & be present with
✨ I am choosing to prioritize my energy, my practice, and my partnership over feeling stretched too thin!
✨ STAY TUNED: We will be offering some priority:partnership masterclasses to play with the energy in an intimate and intentional space for purpose driven couples (I can’t wait!)
Thank you for being on this wild ride with me and thank you for celebrating birthday month! 🥳
Cheers to the acceleration and expansion of 33 ✨
And always deep gratitude to for the incredible photos for
In our Teacher Training call with and this week we explored what we are devotional to in our practice and our businesses…
The texture of “devotional ease” is something I have been working with since our intensive in Santa Monica. It is really providing me a beautiful doorway of exploration.
My practice has been a slowing down. So much so that my movements are almost indistinguishable…
And in that slowing down, I have found the most delicious nourishment and deep awareness of just how much capacity my body holds for pleasure.
How do I embody more devotional ease?
What is the entry point for what I am devotional to in my own practice?
The exploration has required an incredible amount of slow, steady, opening.
In contrast to the expansion and intensity of the energy I have been pouring into We have been creating some POTENT AF containers for my consulting clients and this practice of what am I devotional to in my business has been such a deep remembering of why I am on the planet…
For me to show up as grounded, present, and available for my client’s transformation, I also need the same devotion in my personal practice.
Which has felt like a lot of “effort” to prioritize my pleasure and my partnership while also focusing on my clients.
My commitment has been to recognize the effort-ing and open through it…
Whether that be with clients, my personal practice, or my partnership
When I notice myself effort-ing, I can hear ‘s voice dancing in my ear saying how can you move with out so much effort-ing?
𝘛𝘩𝘢𝘵 is the opening.
𝗠𝗼𝗿𝗲 𝗼𝗽𝗲𝗻𝗶𝗻𝗴, 𝗹𝗲𝘀𝘀 𝗲𝗳𝗳𝗼𝗿𝘁-𝗶𝗻𝗴.
The more I open to love, to light, to beauty, to pleasure, to DEVOTION - the more impact I have in alignment with my purpose.
When partnership feels like effort-ing, how can you open to the pulse of love moving through you?
As for priority: partnership, this is such a beautiful reminder… the opening can come in moment to moment responsiveness. its when you choose to open the moment you feel the effort-ing weighing down. 9/3/22 💫
Your partner will thank you.
Sometimes the most beautiful part of the journey of partnership is the tussle
The play
The dance of discomfort in a way that liberates love.
To think that love is easy, smooth sailing, free flowing, happy all the time,
is not true love.
Deep partnership is created on the journey
of learning and growing together,
of evolving,
And also in recognizing that love is a foundation to build commitment on.
Deep partnership requires intentionality
and awareness
In how we honor the habits and patterns that brought us to this point.
Partnership is a spiritual journey should we choose to create that. We can choose to bring love and awareness to the things we don’t know we don’t know. To make the subconscious, conscious and to fiercely commit to liberate love - to the best of our ability - moment to moment.
Knowing, we will fail, f**k up, and have to recommit again and again to liberate more love in the moment.
Partnership requires ALL IN intentionality,
And a hell of a lot of compassion,
And even more generosity.
What else can you activate in your partnership?
Ready to honor your partnership journey? Join us for priority: partnership beginning September 3rd.
Inviting purpose driven couples ✨
Receiving love is not just receiving love from one human.
Giving love is not just giving love to another human.
Love is divine.
When you deeply love your partner in both giving and receiving, you can tap into the limitless flow of love in all, the divine pulse of love.
You may think, “How is it possible to love someone this much?”
Or perhaps you may think, “How could I ever love this person?”
Love is bigger than us.
Love is divine.
When we can be generous with our love, we expand our capacity to both give and receive.
You can give the nutrient that someone has been longing for their entire life with a simple smile.
Or you can open completely in ecstatic surrender to your partner, not just because you trust the human, but you also trust the divine within the human.
𝗟𝗼𝘃𝗲 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗰𝗼𝗻𝘀𝗰𝗶𝗼𝘂𝘀𝗻𝗲𝘀𝘀 𝗶𝗻 𝗱𝗶𝘃𝗶𝗻𝗲 𝘂𝗻𝗶𝗼𝗻 𝗵𝗲𝗮𝗹𝘀 𝘄𝗼𝘂𝗻𝗱𝘀, 𝗺𝗲𝗲𝘁𝘀 𝗻𝗲𝗲𝗱𝘀, 𝘂𝗻𝗹𝗲𝗮𝘀𝗵𝗲𝘀 𝗱𝗲𝘀𝗶𝗿𝗲𝘀, 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝘀𝗲𝗿𝘃𝗲𝘀 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝘄𝗼𝗿𝗹𝗱.
How can you connect with the pulse of love?
Where can the pulse of love serve your life?
Is it breathing into the sweet divinity as your partner looks into your eyes as he oh so slowly dances his fingers across your skin and a tear gently rolls down your cheek in the beauty of it all?
Is it being wide enough to love your partner through the differences of opinions and priorities to see that both of you are doing your best?
Is it the opening in love when you are exhausted and you don’t think you have the energy, when really, opening to the pulse of love will enliven both of you?
𝗠𝗮𝘆 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗰𝘂𝗹𝘁𝗶𝘃𝗮𝘁𝗲 𝗺𝗼𝗿𝗲 𝗼𝗳 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗺𝗼𝗺𝗲𝗻𝘁𝘀 𝘁𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗰𝗿𝗮𝗰𝗸 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗵𝗲𝗮𝗿𝘁 𝗼𝗽𝗲𝗻 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝘀𝘁𝗿𝗲𝗮𝗺 𝘁𝗲𝗮𝗿𝘀 𝗱𝗼𝘄𝗻 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗳𝗮𝗰𝗲 𝘄𝗶𝘁𝗵 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗽𝘂𝗹𝘀𝗲 𝗼𝗳 𝗹𝗼𝘃𝗲.
In monsoons and new moons ✨
I’m in awe with Priority: Partnership 🤍 sometimes I can’t believe I get to do this…
and I am intentionally cultivating community for people who believe in deep partnership. I’m inviting purpose driven couples that are a full bodied f**k yes to this journey… dm or www.prioritypartnership.com for more.
We dive in Sept 3rd🌀💦
Oh the reintegration is so sweet… nurturing the stillness, honoring the energy.
Full As F**k with gratitude.
mmm. This 3 year journey of the 1000 hour teacher training with is deep and divine.
I am so honored to be in a container with the incredible souls that are so devoted to the essence of love and consciousness.
Wow. This work. This devotion. This love.
I am in awe at the beauty and magic that comes through this work. I have such deep respect for the couples who are bravely doing the work to honor polarity and partnership. I do believe that prioritizing partnership is not for the faint of heart and I am so devoted to those that truly want to be ALL IN and commit on a deep level to the constantly evolving and growth of partnership.
Also, a deep bow of love and gratitude to for his unconditional love and support of me - and us - doing this work. I’m so grateful I get to do life with him, and share our journey with you!
I am trusting the pulse of love and the responsiveness of my body. I feel so much wider and open to announce that I have pushed back Priority: Partnership until September 3rd!
We are gonna get WET 💦
👋 Hello, Saturated Saturdays 🌀💦
Priority: Partnership Group Calls will be updated to Saturdays from 4pm - 6pm pst.
Calling purpose driven couples, we have a few more spaces within this updated time frame.
If you’re feeling the full-bodied f**k yes call… DM me and let’s chat!
For all of us in partnership, I want us to feel safe, connected, happy, supported, turned on, seen, heard, understood, satiated, and totally soul saturated.
And I also believe that no matter how juicy and delicious your partnership may be, there will ALWAYS be opportunities to grow deeper in connection, to expand our awareness, and to grow as a being.
The reason we choose our partners is because they shine a spotlight on our opportunities for growth. (AKA: we do the exact thing that will trigger the F out of the other.) 😇
These opportunities for growth have lovingly been grooving their way into our neural pathways and nervous system… for our WHOLE LIVES. (Yup, even if you’ve done a 💩ton of therapy or coaching, you will still have these patterns… you may just have more awareness for WHEN they show up.)
From the time we were little, we would have feelings or experiences that we would believe were not valid, or safe to express fully, based on real or perceived situations with our caretakers. In turn we created our acceptable “ideal”reality… further grooving those neural pathways and habitual patterns.
Our (mostly subconscious) view of the world… our “self-serving illusion,” as harville hendrix and helen la kelly hunt reference… is what we refer our reality back to, especially with our partners, when we want them to fit perfectly into our puzzle. 🧩
So what does that mean?
Well… when our partner reacts or responds in a way that is different from what we want them to… that subconscious idea of how we think our perfect partner should act… sometimes, we do more harm then good. We add fuel to the fire 🔥 and our “we’re in a really good place” turns into a place that feels like rocky seas 🌊
Those patterns that we learned growing up come out as weapons in our friendly fire against our partner - who’s ON OUR SIDE.
We condemn, educate, threaten, ignore, or analyze our partner’s feelings and response… in turn, belittling their sense of self to fit our own self-serving illusion.
All those responses:
“you are so insensitive….”
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