Arielle Brown - Intimacy Catalyst

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The new paradigm is here.

Where we get to be free…

…and truly, deeply, alive.

Are you willing to stay present, engaged, and at choice in your body…

…in the places where it previously hasn’t felt or been safe to do so?

The choice is ours, in every moment, to stay present in our body, and redefine and embrace who we truly are.

I am here.
I am here.
I am here.

Will you be HERE with me?

May we all remember who we truly are. ❤️

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May we be the women who embody such deep trust in ourselves and our inner knowing, that we can invite men back into their hearts, even when we are afraid.




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If you value pleasure in your life, one of the best practices you can commit to is consistently speaking your truth in relationships ~ even when it's uncomfortable.

Truth and authenticity creates expansiveness in the body, and true embodied pleasure can only be felt in a state of unguarded expansion, not contraction.

If you want to set yourself up for a consistent and authentic experience of pleasure in your life, create circumstances (and relationships) where you don't feel the need to hide who you are, what you want, or what you need.

You'll be amazed at the return on investment.

The truth is often not found in radicalism, but instead somewhere on the spectrum between any two seemingly counter polarities.

The truth is rarely a fixed target, but rather an ever moving pendulum along a gradient scale, asking us to stay present to the heart of the situation in every moment—asking us to understand that matters of importance are rarely ever black or white.

It is an uncomfortable truth to realize sometimes finding our way means being willing to walk through the fog, trusting the wisdom of our own footing without grasping for reassurance or (the idea of) safety from either side.

Sometimes truth cannot be “proven”, but instead only felt and known from within.

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If you truly felt settled in your opinion, it’s likely you wouldn’t feel the compulsion to defend and project it into the world from a place of rigidity and reactivity.

My experience is that the more settled in who we are and what we believe, the less we need to shove our opinions down other people’s throats.

My experience is that when we feel peace in our belief systems and the way we discern truth, we feel less compelled to rally people onto our side and our ride.

Reactivity and defensiveness are signals from the body that something within is wanting to settle into deeper trust and discernment within the Self.

When we are at peace with our own hearts, we release the need to convince other people that who we are and what we believe is “right”.

I am less interested in what you believe, and more interested in how you convey your truth and honor the truth in others while still honoring yourself.

I’m interested in the art of holding paradox, not the bludgeoning force with which one can convey black or white perspectives.

Check yourself. Who are you trying to convince, and why?

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If you truly felt settled in your opinion, it’s likely you wouldn’t feel the compulsion to defend and project it into the world from a place of rigidity and reactivity.

My experience is that the more settled in who we are and what we believe, the less we need to shove our opinions down other people’s throats.

My experience is that when we feel peace in our belief systems and the way we discern truth, we feel less compelled to rally people onto our side and our ride.

Reactivity and defensiveness are signals from the body that something within is wanting to settle into deeper trust and discernment within the Self.

When we are at peace with our own hearts, we release the need to convince other people that who we are and what we believe is “right”.

I am less interested in what you believe, and more interested in how you convey your truth and honor the truth in others while still honoring yourself.

I’m interested in the art of holding paradox, not the bludgeoning force with which one can convey black or white perspectives.

Check yourself. Who are you trying to convince, and why?

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his one may get me in trouble... 💋

Hey love. ✨

I want to invite you to consider the potential that your s*x appeal has little to do with the shape of your body or the look of your face.

It has little to do with the clothes that you wear or the color of your skin.

I’d love to invite you to consider that your s*x appeal has to do with the way that you EMBODY yourself.

The way you walk through the world owning who you are, your emotions, your desires, your truths, your visions, even if it seems like you're tapping into something that no one else gets (yet).

Your s*x appeal is about your willingness to stay present and engaged in your body when the stakes, feelings, and sensations get high—willing to speak up even when it’s uncomfortable, even when it may rock the boat.

Your truth is s*xy. ✨

And the thing is, in the beginning, when you start *really* owning yourself, your body, your truths, your desires, you may meet resistance. You may experience rejection.

Hell, I still do.

AND, there is something powerful that happens over time when we choose to opt into the trust and belief in who we are, what we desire, and why we are here.

Our magnetism amplifies. ✨

There is a juiciness and vitality that begins to percolate and emanate from within that is beyond what we “look like”.

I am not a “thin” woman. I have thick curves, a big b***y, small breasts, don’t wear makeup, definitely rock a bit of a muffin top—and what I find more and more is that the men who are truly attracted to what I’m throwing down are not attracted to my looks—

—but more so attracted to the permission I embody to live fully aroused, fully alive, fully activated and integrated in my truth and pleasure—and how that radiates out from every cell of my being when I smile.

This is not forcing my opinions and truths down people’s throats—this is just embodying myself in such a way that my presence becomes an inherent value-added of the collective field—it complements the space, without trying to dominate it.

There is so much shame, guilt, and trauma in the world around s*xuality, that I’ve just made it my devotion to liberate myself from those things because I want to live a life that is fully ALIVE and connected to the Divine.

And the more I opt into that belief system, that way of perceiving the world, where my s*xiness is rooted in my authenticity and embodiment, the more life and men and women reflect that truth to me.

Remember who you are. ✨

With Love,

Arielle Brown

http://www.ariellebrown.com/blog-entries/2018/11/21/on-boundaries-and-receiving

On Boundaries and Receiving — Arielle Brown It may seem counter-intuitive, but if you find yourself struggling with receiving in your life — in the forms of receiving love, pleasure, or money, for example — it often means you need to instill stronger boundaries in your life. Ironic, right? So many of us fear that in setting bounda...

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Yesterday morning in ritual space I invited connection and support from the Divine Masculine, and I cried.

I cried for how much it means to receive from the Divine Him and how much grief and fear has been associated with receiving it up until this point.

Grief rising through my energetic system and emotional body.

Alive. Alive. Alive.

Is it safe to receive you--father, brother, lover?

Is it safe to let you in?

Will you care for me and my heart in the process?

Will you attune to me?

Will you feel your impact upon me--the good and the bad? The beauty and the breakdown? The pleasure and the grief?

Will you be a part of my awakening, allowing your own awakening in turn?

Will you be my catalyst?

Will you remember who you are?

Will you meet me on the primordial playground of love and human connection?

I will meet you there.

With Love & Devotion to the Process,

Arielle

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As women, it's essential that we stop shutting down our power and life force in order to make our male lovers, boyfriends or partners feel "more secure".

Women walking around on egg shells to preserve the old paradigm male ego won't serve anyone as we embrace a new sovereign way of relating.

Instead, we need to learn how to maintain our own center of gravity while existing in deep intimate connection with men, and stop energetically care-taking and coddling their societally conditioned Ego.

If we learn how to be in our own center of gravity, we can learn how to hold a space for our men to face their own fears and insecurities, rather than shutting ourselves down to avoid allowing them to do the work to become the type of men we truly want them to be.

Men can only meet us to the extent that we have truly met ourselves, and if we are shutting ourselves down in order to make our male partners more "comfortable", we will continue to attract men into our lives that requires to be less than who we truly are. As within so without, as above so below.

Intimacy is an inside game. It's time to start living as the people we want our brothers to meet us as.

With Love,


*xcoach

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"Until you make the unconscious conscious, it will direct your life and you will call it fate". — Carl Jung

For the past few years, I've only worked with private clients who are committed to long-term coaching or consulting containers. Going deep over time with just a few individuals or couples wanting deep and lasting transformation.

It's been powerful. And, it is time for a shift into something new.

After spending 12 years living in the Bay Area of California, I've decided it's time to move to the Big Island of Hawaii, and with that, changes in every area of my life are being called for to create space for the new life that wants to emerge.

Within the context of my business, this change translates into opening up my practice to those who desire to engage in single session work with me.

An invitation into new life and a fresh perspective on what is possible. ✨

A single coaching session with me is a deep dive video call where we'll explore the underlying energetics, emotions, and belief systems connected to a pattern, challenge, or relationship dynamic you want to shift or transform in your life.

Making the unconscious conscious by identifying underlying blocks or resistances that impede the flow of aligned abundance and pleasurable fulfillment into your life.

We'll navigate to the heart of where key shifts in your awareness can liberate you from patterns of relating with Self or other rooted in shame, trauma, or some form of self-abandonment that aren’t aligned with your highest truth and expression.

At the end of your session, you'll receive a combination of written, energetic, inter-relational practices to support you in integrating the session and making tangible shifts in your life and relationships.

Does this sound like something meant for you?

If so, copy and paste the link in your browser to learn more & book a session:

http://www.ariellebrown.com/work-with-me-privately

Beneath every action, every communication, every truth, every emotion, every desire, every boundary, every feeling…there is an energy…

…a vibrational frequency being transmitted that shapes the fabric of our reality and every relationship we attract and co-create within it.

Everything is energy. ✨

The question is:

What is the energy you are embodying and transmitting in life, in love, in relationship?

I recently began working with a new male client.

A beautiful man, inside and out, who reached out a month or so ago, expressing a desire to have a conversation about working together in an intimacy container.

In our Exploratory Call, he shared some awarenesses and insights he'd come to about himself after ending a romantic relationship with a woman in his life.

The places he hadn't been fully grounded and clear in his own boundaries, or fully expressed in his own truth, desires, and power in the relationship.

The places where his distrust of women (and the Feminine within himself and others) impacted his ability to show up authentically in the relationship.

Our exploratory call together in itself was a gorgeous dance of intimacy.

A blueprint of what is possible when we cultivate and align our awareness with the underlying energetics of intimacy, emotion, and erotic connection .

In his follow up email to me, which led into the intimacy container we're now engaging in together, he sent me these words:

“Your presence is helping me pay closer attention to my life force energy & how I’m engaging in all areas of my life. It’s already happening.

Your presence is also inspiring me to up level what I want/attract in intimate relationship.

Your presence is helping me access and stay connected to a higher frequency.

It would be great to keep this flow going...to have an energetic connection / to be in your field in any way that feels appropriate for you.”

This is the art of intimacy and energetic alignment...

…of clarifying and committing ourselves to the truth of our own authentic needs, emotions, and desires, and then bringing those truths, needs, and desires into our intimate relationships in a conscious and intentional way.

It is alchemy. It is magic. It is true intimacy.

I am currently have space to receive one new client (or couple) into my world who feels ready to engage in a transformative intimacy container.

An individual or couple who has a desire to deepen, expand, and transform their experience of intimacy, authenticity, and erotic connection in relationship.

Each intimacy container is unique, and designed in service to the needs, desires, and physical location of the person(s) engaging in the container.

The time investment of an intimacy container can range anywhere between 6 weeks and 6 months. The financial investment ranges from $5000 to $30,000.

The container is highly intuitive, working on the emotional, energetic, and somatic levels of awareness, while up-leveling your ability to communicate truths, boundaries, and desires in ways that foster deeper intimacy and trust.

How to Apply for an Intimacy Container:

If this sounds and feels like something you as an individual, or you within partnership is ready for, send me an email at [email protected] and tell me a bit about your situation and relational reality.

From there, if it feels aligned, we'll schedule an Exploratory Video Call where you'll have space to share more deeply about who you are and what your desires are for engaging in an intimacy container.

An Exploratory Video Call is a 60-minutes long, and is an investment of $333.

In my email response, I'll include a few possible days/times for our Exploratory Call, and a link to pay the $333, which is due in advance to confirm your spot.

If you have any questions, you're welcome to email me at [email protected] and I'll happily reply.

It's a pleasure to be in service to your expansion.

With Love,

Arielle

Writings from the Big Island ❤️