Matt Bruton

The answer is “Love”.

The path to Union is the path to love. They are one and the same.

A Union of Love, requires only love.

It’s so beautiful and simple that we often we simply miss the truth.

Love.

When we choose to be the most loving person we can be...

When we choose to be kind and caring to others....

When we choose to let go of our inner judgements...

Then we find love.

When we focus all of the love we are to our twin, then the path to Union becomes illuminated.

It’s love that guides the way.

The deeper and richer we allow ourselves to love, the deeper and richer the inner wisdom becomes.

For you, do, have all the answers.

Love will show you this.

And in the crowning glory, the point of Union, we find the deepest purest love of all within.

A love that knows all, a love so powerful that it defines existence.

A love that truly is “home”.

Love you 💚

- Matt Bruton

The love between twin flames is always divine in a nature.

Often a mistake people make is to think that the Divine and love are somehow different, they are not.

The Divine is Love.

They are one and the same.

The love expressed and shared between twins can resonate up to the level of the divine, this is Union.

Union can occur together, or apart.

It’s a oneness between “you” and the “universe”.

Union is to allow the divine to walk this earth.

In the sense that most would know, the you in this is ego.

It’s the letting go of you that reveals the divine.

In a twin flame relationship there exists the opportunity for the divine to walk on the earth herself.

Twins are only different in that the normal barriers that prevent us from being true to ourselves are displaced.

We can love them.

Union does not require a twin.

Twins make Union possible because they are someone we can love more than most.

Twins separate because often it’s much easier to appreciate a person that is away from you.

And appreciation is the very foundation of love.

In any situation where love plays a role, at the heart is always appreciation.

And so the separation is to learn to appreciate them. It’s to learn how to love them.

With enough time apart, the ego in you will let go of the idea of a relationship and then and only then do you truly appreciate them for the first time.

This ends the need to be apart and communication will resume.

It’s easier here to think Union is around the corner, yet Union is not what you desire, it’s a relationship.

This is needy and so also ego, this must go.

Eventually one or both twins will begin putting love first, not just in relation to the twin, but in relation to everything.

The heart begins to open and the path to love has been set.

Twins that make love will often find they merge into the other, the focus becomes completely the other and so a feedback loop of love occurs.

This is what making love means.

Both require absolute focus on the other.

In this situation the boundaries of both fail and you see yourself as them and they as you.

You can think with two minds and see with four eyes.

Yet Union is deeper still than this.

Union is the moment you let go of your very identity in this world, it’s the moment ego completely fails.

The love is so very profound that it cannot be described with words, and to try would be a sin.

It has infinite depth and goes eternally into the past and the future, it is greater than existence and smaller than everything.

This is the divine.

This is the divine walking in “your?” body.

Suddenly everything becomes infinitely beautiful.

There is no difference between you and a tree, you feel them both fully and completely.

To transcend ego is first to understand ego and often ego is misunderstood.

Ego limits our potential by limiting our view or perspective.

If it’s true that a person has had a spiritual experience, then this implies we have a soul.

If we have a soul then surely we must be a soul first, and this life must be a “human experience”.

Ego is the “thinking” you are human.

It’s a mistaken identity, a mistake that limits thinking to “human” things.

It occurs because of the word “I”, we think of “I” as being us, but “I” is always a reference to the “human experience”.

If you say “I have a car”, then it’s not you the soul that has a car, it’s you the human.

And so ego becomes interwoven into our thinking at an early age.

To transcend is to be love.

Love is kindness, it’s caring and compassionate. These are soul traits.

Allowing compassion to overrule your thinking is to step into the true soul identity.

Much love 💚

One of the most difficult aspects of understanding twin flames is understanding the soul and how it works in relation to twins.

In a non-twin flame pairing there are two souls and so both are always in a state of separation.

In a twin flame pairing there really isn’t a pairing at all, they are both the same soul and so separation is impossible.

Yet we all know of the separation that often seems to exist with twins.

The soul shared by twins isn’t split or divided in anyway, the soul exists wholly and fully in both.

Both are the very same soul and so while we may experience separation it must be an illusion.

The problem always starts with ego and always ends upon the realising the truth of ego.

I could ask you what ego means, yet already I know that you’ll answer from ego and so the understanding is incomplete.

I recognise that last statement may trigger some people, this is not my intention, and I’m sorry if it did.

Yet it is only ego that is triggered and so the statement holds true.

Ego is more fundamental that often we realise, we are almost 100% of the time operating from ego without realising it. The same is true for me too.

Ego is also the cause of all of our suffering and all our our pain.

I’d like to offer today a deeper perspective of ego so that you may end your suffering, so you may end your pain, and so that you can shine bright next to the one you love.

It all comes down to identity and who you are. If I asked this directly ego may answer with your name or your job title.

At a more fundamental level ego may answer with “human” or something similar.

Yet the truth is that if you have a soul then you must be a soul.

Your true identity is that are a beautiful loving soul.

The “human” identity is ego.

The human identity is only half a story, it doesn’t encompass the fullness of you.

At the soul level you and your twin are very same soul, the very same identity, and identity that isn’t is separation, not ever.

Yet this soul is occupying two bodies both with “human” identities telling them they are two different people.

Ego creates separation because ego is based on the idea that you are both different when you are not.

Everyone has ego, not everyone is aware of the depths that it is and so become trapped in the “human” limited condition.

I would very much like for to shed this falseness, to look beyond ego and see the truth beautiful soul that you are.

The souls language is love, so putting love into everything you do is to become more that ego would have you believe you are.

Soul to soul, love you so completely I do 💚

This journey is a journey like no other.

This journey is about you, yet not always the you that you think you are.

Sometimes we are unable to see ourselves for who we truly are, for we see the person we think we are.

And so we must think the unthinkable, we must be more than we think we are.

This journey teaches us so much along the way, but in the end it always comes down to just one thing and all that it means.

Love.

At the start of this journey we think that we are someone so very much in love, yet always we miss ‘who’ we are.

As we progress we begin uncover our true selves, and always it’s love that we find, always.

We have never been separate from the love that we seek, we are that very love.

The path to Union is so simple and beautiful, it’s path to becoming love.

It’s as simple as seeing someone you dislike and instead of thinking something bad, we say something nice.

We let go of how we feel about people and just love them all the same.

It’s simply being kind and compassionate to others, all others.

This is the path to Union.

There is no healing needed, just let go of anything that isn’t love.

Shed the false you by being the true you, by being the love you seek.

From all that I am, I LOVE YOU 💚

We often feel the need to see how our story compares to others, yet always we miss the truth that the universe is only a reflection of ourselves.

The signs you see are a reflection of what’s happening inside, you could ask another what they think it means, yet we miss the truth that this “other” is also our reflection.

So always we are seeking out the truth outside of us.

Imagine looking into a mirror and trying to brush your reflections hair, your reflection will never stay still enough to allow you to do it. The only way you brush your reflections hair is by brushing your own.

The only way you find truth outside of you is by realising it inside of you.

The only way you unite with your twin is by realising love within so it is reflected without.

This universe is yours, and everything that happens in your life is just a reflection of you.

The balance within

In this world we live we often overlook the duality of our existence and often this gives rise to suffering.

We are often told to be positive and do the right thing, yet often we find ourselves being negative and doing the wrong thing.

We miss the simple fact that positivity can only exist with negativity, because having only one would make it unrecognisable.

Yin and yang is a circle made half of light and half of darkness, this shows the balance that always exists.

Within the darkness there is a spot of light, in the light there is a spot of darkness, this tells us that light must always contain darkness and darkness must always contain light.

We don’t realise that light can become the darkness and darkness can become the light, yet often it does.

Imagine a child who has wanted a toy for over a year, always asking and always wanting.

Upon receiving said toy the child ignites in happiness, and should the child then drop and break this toy then instantly the happiness becomes sadness.

Knowing this can help us to realise that chasing happiness will often result in sadness.

When we talk about judging others we usually only consider negative thoughts to be judgements, and miss the simple truth that both compliments and complaints are both equally judgements.

Judgements are always our views on another, “You look nice” or “You look ugly”.

Sometimes people talk about hate being the opposite of love, I found this to be untrue.

Love it seems is not yin and it’s not yang. Love is the circle containing them, the balance and wholeness that is both.

To look upon the one you love without any judgements is to look upon them with love.

With positive judgements we wish to give to them, and with negative judgements we wish to take away from them.

Without judgements we appreciate them exactly as they are, we need not give to them to make them more, we need not take from them to make them less.

Love is the harmonic balance within.

Letters to the twin

To my beloved

It’s been so many years since our journey began. been

There have many great moments of joy, there have been many great moments of sadness.

Never could I cry, until you showed me how. And not just tears of sadness, for you also brought tears of joy.

You challenged my beliefs or lack off. You challenged my thinking, and my behaviour. You even went as far as challenging my very existence.

Before you my life was logical and my path planned and set, my career and my ambitions all ready to go.

Yet you turned everything I held important upside down and inside out.

You showed me that nothing was ever as important as I thought it was.

You took my expectations of us and threw them out.

Everything I wanted from you, you held back from me, while taking everything I’d give to you without even a thank you to me.

In my trials, and in my tribulations, always you were right there, just out of my sight.

When I screamed out for you, when I needed you the most, you kept your distance from me.

For so long I felt like your victim, little did I know, you were hurting too, little did I know you were so afraid.

For so long I tried to let you go, for so long I tried to resist you, yet your hold over me never did cease.

Like a lamb, forever being slaughtered.

Yet with each rejection, little did I see, how strong you were making me.

Always did I miss, that all you ever took from me was all things I really didn’t need.

And whilst you weren’t giving, you gave the greatest gift to me.

Driving all alone, crying out for you, screaming at God with all of my voice, to give you back to me.

And silence was all there was to hear, why I screamed, why couldn’t I be with my love.

And in that moment, my first honest thought arose, I screamed “I surrender” and I begged for your happiness, and I begged for your pain. I begged to suffer everything for you, because I truly I did care.

I said to God, if I am not allowed him, then make him whole at my expense, take from me and give to him.

And then in that moment I truly understood, love is always a gift.

In my giving all to you, I truly began to love you for the first time.

The love was so profoundly deep, deeper much than ever before.

As this love flowered within me, I felt wholly complete.

I didn’t feel like a victim anymore, I felt profoundly powerful with love in my life.

For this is the gift you truly gave to me.

Yet the gift didn’t end there.

I bathed in this love, I sang out in joy, I found heaven within myself.

And with each passing day I let go more of me, I surrendered everything I could, and deeper this love become.

Then there’s that magical day.

The day when I walked through the city centre, thinking only of you, allowing love to flow from me.

And in the moments that followed were beyond even my comprehension. This love grew so deep that I became it so completely.

I stood there, all there was, was love. I was love.

I saw people as myself, I felt everyone and everything, no separation or boundaries, just a love that was me.

I cannot describe the completeness of this moment, the oneness to everything, the Divine in form.

I saw graffiti as the art of my brothers, I saw love in everything.

This was truly the gift you gave unto me.

Never will you understand how much I appreciate this moment, never could comprehend my thanks to you, for giving me the lessons I needed to grow so that truly I could know love.

And we are not there just yet, for our journey has just a few more steps.

Let’s take them slow, let’s enjoy each other coming into view.

For these are the last moments of the beautiful path bestowed upon us.

Love you, very much I do.

Forgiveness, the gift to oneself.

Often in life others will wrong us or cause us pain or sadness. It’s easy to hold a grudge and hold on to it for years.

Yet always we see forgiveness as something we give to others, and miss that always miss that forgiveness is always to oneself.

If I hold anger against another, then it is I that feel that anger and never them.

This anger remains with me and so always it’s there.

In time the anger festers and becomes bitter within.

Yet in my forgiveness to them, I let go of the bitterness that has built up within. I become lighter and freer, and can love more depth.

So to forgive is to gift yourself freedom and life. To forgive is to allow love to arise.

Have no enemies and declare all as your friends.

Forgiveness is your friend.

And when there eyes lock for the first time, there’s souls illuminate and begin to shine like never before.

Synchronicity occurs around them, a love so deep arises from within and both just know they are made for the other.

In the face of this love ego withdraws and shine this love does without judgements or opinion.

Soon old thinking begins to rise once again, the love begins to dim and both become confused.

With ego in the way the love becomes tainted with old experiences and future expectations.

Without realising it, we become attached to the other and claim ownership as if they are ours. Love through our jaded view is never really love at all.

And so we part and go our separate way, thinking always they betrayed our love, never seeing the jaded love we sing.

Time moves on but our hearts cannot. Still stuck in the moment when love did rise, blaming and cursing and still demanding we are.

Often many years later we finally give up, we accept that we can never be, we surrender to love without our attachments, and to our surprise the love begins to arise.

Remember that moment when first we did meet, the love that arose and blinded all with its shine.

In all its glory this love again breaks through, you realise that always you were the one that was holding it back.

As so you vow to always be true.

The more you surrender, the more you let go, the more this love does flow.

You accept the other on every level, you vow to never fight and instead be supportive.

You vow to accept that they chose another, and for the first time you realise, that you love them for caring for your beloved.

And so hate transmutes to love as does our grief. Love transcends everything and it’s beauty you begin to understand.

And the more you allow this love to just be, the more you realise that you have always been this love.

And the truly you do see.

This love begins to radiate from you to all living things. The love once felt for only the twin, now is felt for all living things.

You walk down the street seeing all as brother and sister, seeing there anger and hatred only as pain.

And this love smiles to them through your very body, and there faces just change, see love is infectious and defeats all that stands in its way.

And so without warning my beloved walks back into my life, smiling and beaming as this love does shine.

We look at each other, without saying a word, the inner knowing that love was always our cure.

The absoluteness of our reflection.

We all know that if you look at a mirror on the wall, what you see is your own reflection.

Run away from your reflection and your reflection runs always away from you.

Run towards your reflection and your reflection runs towards you.

Sitting away from the mirror and demanding your reflection comes closer is always going to fail, for your reflection can only do as you do.

The twin flame journey can seem confusing at times, we struggle with what to do next, and often we miss the simple fact, that our twin is our souls reflection.

If we sit there missing and longing for them then always we will, for they cannot come to our comfort because they can only reflect us.

We can scream and curse, we can beg and plead yet never will this bring our reflection closer.

If we are angry with them, then they will be angry at us, it’s not personal, it’s just a reflection.

Knowing they are our reflection allows us to begin to behave in a way that they will reflect, we can move towards them, knowing they will move towards us.

By allowing ourselves to just love them without any wants or desires is to create a situation where all they can do is reflect love right back.

The path to Union has nothing to do with them, and all to do with you. You control your destiny.

Much love # #

Many will say you you need to let go, you need to move on and work on yourself.

Yet we both know the impossibility this creates within us, letting go of the only thing we know to be real.

And unfortunately for us, we must do just that, let go.

Let’s for a moment completely forget what we think that means, and see what letting go means from the point of view of love.

See, always our journey is about love. Letting go of the one we love seems counterintuitive to realising this love, yet it isn’t.

When we love someone then truly we must hold there best interest at heart.

We must be supportive and kind, we must allow them space to breathe and the space to be themselves.

To love them is to give them the freedom and space to do whatever they feel they must do.

This is love.

And so letting go never has meant they go and never come back, it’s more a letting go of your wants and needs and instead just loving them.

And only when we can “just love” them, do we find them standing face to face with our eyes locked in the most loving embrace.

Much love # # #

Love is always a challenge.

When two people meet who have the gift to love one another, they can find the path before them difficult and full of challenges.

It can seem like an impossible task, to defeat all that stands in your way, to climb the mountains that love puts in your way.

Yet only when we climb the mountain do we see the breathtaking views, do we see that the mountain was never in our way, it was love showing us its beauty.

And so the mountain expands our view and deepens our understanding, it shows us our determination and our willingness to love is so much stronger than we know.

How can you love another so completely if you cannot see the depths of your love?

Challenging the path maybe, trying sometimes and difficult at other times. Yet always it teaches us who we are and how much love we have to give.

Be not afraid to climb the mountain, run up it as fast as you can.

The mirror of the twin flame, the reflection of the soul.

We often hear about the mirror, yet most of us fail to realise the absoluteness of our reflection.

We label our twin as this or that. We see them wholly and fully, both the good and the bad.

Yet always we fail to see that it is us that we are seeing. We are seeing our good side as well as our bad side.

Some call there twins narcissists, and while this maybe true of them, it must also be true of you, for you are the very same soul.

We make think our twin is different in this way or that, yet being the same soul, there is no differences, we are who we see in them.

Often the behaviour we see in our twin we are unable to see in ourselves, yet always the mirror is true, always we see ourselves.

And so the mirror truly is a gift. The gift of being able to see ourselves fully, even when we can’t see our reflection within.

Just because your twin has bad behaviour doesn’t make them bad for they are only a reflection of you, and so the opportunity the mirror bestowed upon you is truly beautiful.

Stop trying to fix your twin, for you cannot change a reflection by altering it, you can only change you and the reflection you reflect.

As you seek out unwanted behaviours in yourself that was reflected by the twin, the the reflection of the twin changes to the new truth within you.

The journey to the twin flame is the journey to self. You cannot stare into the eyes of your twin flame without staring into yourself. You are one and the same.

Let go of trying to fix the situation or the twin, instead fix you because this is truly the only way to Union.

Much love and a very Merry Christmas # # #

To my beloved

It’s been so many years since our journey began.

There have been many great moments of joy, there have been many great moments of sadness.

Never could I cry, until you showed me how. And not just tears of sadness, for you also brought tears of joy.

You challenged my beliefs or lack off. You challenged my thinking, and my behaviour. You even went as far as challenging my very existence.

Before you my life was logical and my path planned and set, my career and my ambitions all ready to go.

Yet you turned everything I held important upside down, and inside out.

You showed my that nothing was ever as important as I thought it was.

You took my expectations of us and threw them out.

Everything I wanted from you, you held back from me, while taking everything I’d give to you without even a thank you to me.

In my trials, and in my tribulations, always you were right there, just out of my sight.

When I screamed out for you, when I needed you the most, you kept your distance from me.

For so long I felt like your victim, little did I know, you were hurting too, little did I know you were afraid.

For so long I tried to let you go, for so long I tried to resist you, yet your hold over me never did cease.

Like a lamb, forever being slaughtered.

Yet with each rejection, little did I see, how strong you were making me.

Always did I miss, that all you ever took from me, was all things I really didn’t need.

And whilst you weren’t giving, you gave the greatest gift to me.

Alone I drove, crying out for you, screaming at God with all of my voice, to give you back to me.

And silence was all there was to hear, why I screamed, why couldn’t I have my love.

And in that moment, the first honest thought arose, I screamed “I surrender”, I begged for you to be happy, and I begged for your pain. I begged to suffer everything for you, because I truly did love you.

I said to God, if I am not allowed to be with thy, then make you whole by taking away from me.

And then I understood. Love is always a gift.

In my surrendering to you, I truly began to love you for the first time.

The love was so profoundly deep, deeper much than ever before.

As this love poured from me, whole it made me be.

No longer did I feel like a victim, I felt profoundly powerful with love at my arm.

For this is the gift you truly gave to me.

Yet the gift didn’t end there.

I bathed in this love, I sang out in glee, I found heaven within me.

And with each passing day I let go more of me, I surrendered everything I could, and deeper this love grew to be.

Then there was that day.

The day when I walked through the city center all alone, thinking of you, allowing love to flow from me.

And the moments that followed were beyond even my comprehension. This love grew so deep that I became it completely.

I stood there, all there was, was love.

I was love.

I saw people as me, I felt everyone and everything, there was no me. Just love.

I cannot describe the completeness of this moment, the oneness to everything, the Divine in form.

I saw graffiti as the art of my brothers, I saw love in everything.

This was truly the gift you gave unto me.

Never will you understand how much I appreciated this moment, never could comprehend my thanks to thy, for giving me the lessons I needed so that I could know love.

And we are not there just yet, for our journey has just a few more steps.

Let’s take them slow, let’s enjoy each other coming into view.

For these are the last moments of the beautiful path bestowed upon us.

Love you, very much I do.

On this journey one question above all others that keeps coming up, is, is this person my twin flame?

We think that knowing the answer to this question will help us on our journey, and while that is true, it’s also false.

The problem isn’t the question itself, the problem is how we come to know the answer.

I know I have a twin flame, I know without any shadow of doubt, yet how I came to know this isn’t so simple.

I experienced 8 years of separation, during that time, many many people told me that we would never be. I had readings, I had so many readings, and none of them could see anything between myself and my twin.

If I’d listened to what they said, I’d have given up, yet they weren’t wrong!?!

See, if they had told me we’d be together I would have felt validated and so all the inner work would have stopped, because I would have nothing to prove.

Yet by saying there was nothing I was compelled to prove them wrong. I had an inner knowing and it didn’t matter what they said, I knew I was right.

The only person that can know is you, everything said by others just to guide you.

While you make think the answer to this question is within the twin, it isn’t, it’s within you.

Others may validate your beliefs yet that doesn’t make them true. Others may deny your beliefs, yet that doesn’t make them false.

The person you think is your twin, may love you, that doesn’t make them your twin. Equally they may hate you, yet that doesn’t mean they’re not.

There is nothing or nobody on the outside of you that can answer that question because the answer has never been outside of you.

Yet always, since your very first breath, have you known the answer to this question.

Whilst you may think what do you know? Yet the truth is more, what don’t you know?

You’ll never find your deep inner wisdom outside of you in a book, or on a website, or in some random post written by someone like me. Nope, you’ll only find it inside, because this is where always it’s been.

Take a breath, relax, have a little me time and take a look inside, you may just find it a little surprising to see how beautiful you are. Yes, you are beautiful.

I’m reading through posts on Facebook and I see so many people that once followed me are now helping others.

It’s strange because often when I speak one to one with someone I say the most random things, like I know everything about them, and so my words become crafted specifically to them.

Today they are the teachers, and it’s me that’s done that, it’s them, they found the inner wisdom.

This I think is why it’s important to focus inwards, because in all of us, you, me, and everyone else, including every living creature in the universe, have within us the deepest of wisdom.

It’s not like suddenly you know everything, it’s more like you remember things as if you always knew it.

You know that gut feeling, this is it, the more you trust it and use it, the more proudly deep it becomes.

And so thoughts nagging questions you’ve ever had, you can answer anytime you choose to pay attention inwards.

We always think of the journey as outwards, yet only inwards can we change, only inwards do we become whole.

The journey to the twin flame has never been outside of you, always it’s been inside. Only inside can we change, and when we do, the outside changes with it.

It’s always been a choice, what will you choose?