Sweet Ways To Stop Abuse

Wembley park killings: Danyal Hussein jailed for life for murdering sisters Danyal Hussein must serve a minimum of 35 years for murdering Nicole Smallman and Bibaa Henry.

Sad but true

~ Henk 💜

This really is important

Right six of the Victims’ Code is to be provided with information about the investigation and prosecution. We know this is so important to victims waiting for news about their case as they can feel that their lives are put on hold during this time.

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This is the real face of politics not the childish insults....May he RIP

Southend Soroptimists are devastated to learn of the death of Sir David Amess MP. He was a great friend and supporter of our club and will be sadly missed. Our thoughts are with his wife and family.

Violence against women and girls is an epidemic. The time for rhetoric is over, the time for action is now. Today we launched our campaign urging Priti Patel to explicitly include domestic abuse, s*xual violence and domestic homicide in the 'serious violence duty' as part of the Policing Bill. Priti Patel has said herself that but this must be backed up by action. Are you with us? Use your voice to call for change: https://bit.ly/3BoCnHV

THE FACTS: 81 women have been killed by men since the tragic death of Sarah Everard in March, including Sabina Nessa just a few weeks ago. Almost half of all female homicides are domestic homicides, with 2 women killed by a current or ex-partner every week in England and Wales. If violence against women and girls is as high a priority as terrorism, then we need to see action.

Join our campaign, there's no time to waste - this amendment is being debated now.

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I'm very pleased to tell you all that my student counsellors have passed the finish line congratulations & thanks to them both roll on Sept 2021 for my next mentees

I'm sharing this because this is what they call Peer on Peer abuse .....may this poor innocent young woman RIP 😪💔

RIP Semina

Absolutely heartbroken and enraged to read about her death from her mother.

Semina was 12 years old when she took her life last week after being r***d by a boy at school in the UK.

Her mother has posted that her daughter and her family were harassed and threatened when she disclosed the r**e. Her daughter died a slow death which took days. She had multiple heart attacks and was then placed in an induced coma.

Her mum, Rachel, has said that the last thing she said before being put into a coma at Alder Hey hospital is the name of the ra**st.

I’m absolutely devastated to read this.

I have reached out to her mum to see if there is anything I can do to help.

This is the best thing I've heard in a long time let's NOT have a could punish let's have a WILL punish https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-57095465

Courts could punish paedophiles on intent not harm Under the plans judges could treat offenders caught in stings the same as those who harm real children.

The Health Minister for Mental Health Nadine Dorries is enough to make me spontaneously combust ......talks like what's happening is plot from her next book 😡

About time ours were

Judges to be trained on domestic violence Federal family law judges are set to receive training on domestic violence issues — including on recognising coercive control — as part of a push by the courts to better protect the safety of children and families.

Sentences are NOT long enough ......stop the excuses, stop the r01lox about getting help & more importantly make it a statutory requirement for counsellors in PP to report disclosed intent, kids are being harmed time & time again & its wrong

Pa******le brought WKD and Mini Eggs to McDonald's meet up He took baby wipes and a gift wrapped necklace after calling her 's*xy'

Spot on 🤬

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MAGGIE OLIVER: Why this Rochdale s*x groomer is still not deported MAGGIE OLIVER: It has emerged that a key member of the Rochdale grooming gang, Abdul Rauf - who was convicted in 2012 of trafficking and s*x with a 15-year-old - is still at large in the town.

It would appear yet again that the only ones being protected are the perpetrators of the abuse that has ruined many lives ......hurry up round em up & send them on their way I say 🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬

Grooming ringleader still in UK 6yrs after he was due to be deported A CONVICTED grooming gang ringleader goes shopping in the town where he abused kids — despite being told he was going to be deported six years ago. Qari Abdul Rauf was warned he would be kicked out…

Couldn't make this stuff up eh?

This was said all whilst ignoring the child’s real fears and worries after s*xual abuse disclosures 💔

☆☆☆☆Trigger warning☆☆☆☆I wrote about "Peer on Peer" abuse in 2019 .......I wrote about the young girl of 5 years old who was abused by more than one fellow classmate & will more than likely be in & out of therapy for a lifetime having had her innocence quite literally ripped from her......now that s*xual abuse has hit the headlines again the "what can we do" question is being bandied about again.....there is even an article in one of todays newspapers saying "Now primary schools tell of s*xual assaults" Primary schools have had this issue for sometime I've counselled adult survivors of assault in primary, as I said earlier I've been writing about this very issue since 2019.....when I was at primary school the boys would lift our skirts up .....two prolific offenders only did it to me twice because the 2nd time they both got a black eye.....yet it was ME who was in trouble......53 years later the world is still the same because its not taken seriously ...but a big BIG difference is what children now do to one another .........and what adults do to perpetuate the myths, that its "banter" that female artist singing song lyrics, which it would seem were penned to empower women.......but all too often, are actually about men having an upper hand ....for example when Rihanna released a single titled S*M with the words " Now the pain is for pleasure & sticks & stones may break my bones but chains & whips excite me" those supposedly in "the know" claimed it was in reference to the Domestic Abuse she'd previously been subjected to, sadly though having an army of young male & female fans the lines get blurred.....Cardi B has won a people's choice award for her song WAP.......she claims to be owning her s*xuality but do wonder if it is necessary to pen lyrics whose title is a very degrading acronym of female genitalia when aroused. Some professionals feel some of her lyrics encourage and normalise po*******hy depicting violent s*x acts .....having read "spit in my mouth, tie me up like I'm surprised & I wanna choke" I have to agree.

What consenting adults do is no ones business but their own, let them crack on, however these lyrics & the pictures promoting them are are aimed at young people and they're getting younger.

Just recently it has been deemed necessary to make enquiries as to whether or not a young person found hanged might have been involved in a s*xual experiment which then went wrong because there is big money in p**n of this type.

I regularly hear male students refer to female students as hoe's......I regularly hear # # is only good for hook ups.......and these two particular sentences have come from 11-13 Yr old, some of it is quite obviously the need to "fit in" but there is an awful lot that is not.

Peer on peer abuse is what s*xual assault in schools is referred to....partly because " it sounds better" which really means we need to fire fight this issue.......but to fight the fire you need to know exactly you're dealing with.

Not admitting to what is happening is a form of collusion because by not being honest & forthright we are telling those children & young people they are doing nothing wrong.......Sadly as a Psychothera**st whose specialism is domestic & s*xual violence I have to disagree.

Abusers of any kind rely on silence so you need to be shouting from the rooftops & sharing the hell out of this.

Jacqui

I've heard this so many times from the learned people who are trusted by us to put it right but don't

Mandatory judicial training is a MUST in abuse cases!
In the family court, they deal with cases of violence and abuse. They put (predominantly) women & children in harms way, regularly.
This judge clearly needs some training to identify it.

Judges need training - domestic abuse is domestic abuse

I've had to share this

Women after my own heart

On this day 16 March 1974, 50 feminists in Sydney broke into two abandoned houses in Glebe and opened them as the Elsie Women's Refuge, Australia's first refuge for women escaping domestic abuse. Within a few years, hundreds of independently-run refuges had opened across the country.

Some good news

Former police officer has manslaughter sentence for killing married lover increased Former police officer Timothy Brehmer has had his sentence for the manslaughter of long-term lover Claire Parry increased to 13-and-a-half years by the Court of Appeal.

This is enough to make your hair frizz, not bloody curl.....I really do despair of these judges....the message they all give our future generations is that its perfectly OK to be abusive & to even potentially seriously injure or kill someone because the likelihood is that you'll get a "very understanding judge" 😡💩🤬angry doesn't cut it

Donald McPherson cleared of murder despite judge’s doubts over Paula Leeson death A judge has cleared a property developer of murdering his wife despite conceding that it was “clearly more likely” than an alternative explanation.Donald McPherson, 47, was accused of drowning Paula

Day in day out this goes on.....more training required

Consent to have s*x via app......?????
Totally ignores a person's right to withdraw consent at ANYTIME...whatever next? "Your honour my client had consent so it cannot be r**e"
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CONTRIBUTION DETAILS Why oh why do those that have the money and the power to change things choose not to listen to those of us who work on the frontline of Childrens Mental Health?
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