Mych'Iayla Thewombkeeper Alexander

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I was led to post this here as well. It's a long one so Instagram wouldn't let me copy and paste the text. Swipe ⬅️ I pray this blesses YOU! 🙏🏾❤️🙏🏾

Got MY copy, did you GET yours? I'm SO proud of you sis 😘🤞🏾💪🏾🙏🏾❤️

HAPPY 21st BIRTHDAY SHAKA BABY! I literally can't believe it! I'm using this picture because when I see you this is what I see. I know, I know...you're grown but you will ALWAYS be MY baby sister 🧡🩷

Though I already text you this morning, I wanted to say publicly that I am SO proud of you and I am SO excited to SEE what God is going to do in this next season of your life! May your latter be greater!! 🙌🏾🙌🏾 I pray that GOD is the MOST impactful influence in your life AND that this next year around the SON be your GREATEST, MOST obedient AND PROSPEROUS year yet!

I ABSOLUTELY LOVE YOU SHAY SHAY! 🧡🧡🧡🧡🧡🧡🧡🧡🧡🧡🧡🧡🧡🧡🧡

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Good Morning!

In prayer time today, this is what Daddy God asked me to release.

"Tell My people that forgiveness is the secret sauce. Yes, the secret sauce. There are some who are wondering why they are not effective or lack power in the things I've called them to do. It is not because I have not shown up, in some cases their obedience to follow Me is not even the issue. The issue is one of the heart: FORGIVENESS. There, in their heart, lies a HEAP of "unforgiveness." There lies something that essentially does not exist, but they won't let it go. You have allowed it to corrupt your heart in such a way that it has taken on fiber within your being. Therefore, everything you do, touch, say, think --is from the lense of needing to forgive. Stop waiting for the apology, instead consider My forgiveness and grace for you and then forgive from that place. You don't have time in this season to TAKE offense. Forgive. FORGIVE. Once you forgive, don't go back to the place. Leave Egypt. Don't go back. Once you completely turn away and live a life of forgiveness, WATCH ME. WATCH ME WORK. You have felt that something has held you back, you're right. It was the inability and unwillingness to forgive. Remember forgiveness does not equal relationship. It equals freedom and activates, in a different way, your own forgiveness. My child, My children, don't be tormented by what they did or didn't do. JUST FORGIVE. That's the requirement of you. My grace is sufficient. You can do ALL things through AND with Me INFUSED within you. Obey."

I pray that you are OVERCOME with a SUPERNATURAL need AND ability to FORGIVE. I pray that from that place, you WALK OUT forgiveness. I pray that you no longer PICK UP or TAKE offense. I pray that you are no longer weighted down with offense and a lack of forgiveness in your life. I pray that you are OVERWHELMED with the LOVE, PEACE and JOY of the LORD. I pray that as a result of your obedience to forgive, you heal in EVERY of your life; even the places you didn't realize you needed healing. In Jesus name, Amen.

Be blessed, encouraged AND FORGIVE. 🙏🏾❤️

Jeremiah 1:5 ❤️🙏🏾
Ecclesiastes 3:1 ❤️🙏🏾
1 Peter 2:9 ❤️🙏🏾

And another ☝🏾!! 🤞🏾

“I will obey your decrees. Please don’t give up on me!”
‭‭Psalms‬ ‭119‬:‭8‬ ‭NLT‬‬

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So I finished a something BIG...

, THANK YOU! 🙏🏾🩷🎉

, THANK YOU! 🤞🏾💪🏾❤️😘

Mych'Iayla Alexander, MSPC, LAC, CBBC...thank YOU! 🙏🏾🙌🏾🎁

AND, Full Time at , LLC, I👏🏾AM👏🏾COMING👏🏾FOR👏🏾YOU!🤞🏾

LET'S GO!😏

Happy 17th Birthday to Samiyaa Jai! The oldest of the Alexander starting 5! 🤣The one who taught me about parenthood before I birthed any living children of my own. 😅I literally remember when you turned 8 and your Dad was so excited to celebrate with you. I remember when you turned 9 and I was excited to celebrate with you. Then there was 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15...and even 16 and each year I was in awe. As I watched you evolve. Now, 17. You're a Senior 😩😭 and on your way! I CANNOT wait to see ALL that you will accomplish. You're so smart, so brave, so caring, strategic, thoughtful, understanding, resilient, intuitive, honest (oooo Lord 😂 ), BEAUTIFUL, creative, a GREAT big sister and the list could literally go on!

My prayer for you is that as you embark on the next 365 days as a "minor" you will find an assurance of yourself that you've never found before. That you will love like you've never loved before. That you'll thrive like you never have before. That you'll live like you never have before. That your relationship with God will grow like it never has before. That you'll be braver than you've ever been before (this one might be hard because kicking Cancer's butt is pretty dang on brave 😉👗🤞🏾). That you will have the best relationships in your life than you've ever had before.

My My, I love you more than you'll ever know. Thank you for teaching me before I ever got the chance to teach you! Have an AMAZING day AND take MORE PICTURES 🙄😏😂

💜M&M

😭💚🙏🏾 Up Next...

You are your only competition boo!
Yeah, I said it. It has taken me a LONG time to understand, receive, and walk in this idea. The idea that I don’t need to compare myself to anyone because there is no one to compare myself to. 🤷🏽‍♀️ It is not me being cocky or arrogant but I realized God only made ☝🏾 me and that NO ONE else could beat me at being me, and I couldn’t beat them at being them.
This was a struggle as I watched countless women post positive tests, beautiful pregnancy announcements, suspenseful gender reveals, over the top baby showers, and strategically, heartfelt “birth of baby” posts. I would compare how I should be her. Why not me? What is it about her that I don’t have, that causes her to be granted the desires of her heart...or just simply granted this blessing in general? I’ve been begging God to see the natural manifestation of my blessing and...well I just saw another white space where there should have been a blue/pink line. 🤔
Then one day, I thought long and hard. I changed the narrative. I started saying why not her? She’s on her path, and I’m on mine. It’s not my time yet and I need to focus on being the best Mommy I can be...when my time comes. Easier said than done. I know. But I managed to succeed in it...I think 😊
Hear me and hear me good! 🗣Sis, the only person you should compete with is the person you were earlier this morning🅿️
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Besitos,

Psalm 61:4 🙏🏾

Lamentations 3:26 🙏🏾

I deserve to be present for me; void of having to earn this presence on the merit of expectations...of ANY kind.

They say when a woman cuts her hair, she's about to CHANGE her life. 😉

I suggest you fasten your seatbelt.

IT'S. ABOUT. TO. GO. DOWN. 🤞🏾

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Time for some REAL life transparency.

Yes, this is a smile. Yes, it is mostly real. Yes, my edges are edgin' (gray and all).

However, even with all that... take notice that my the majority of my hair is covered. 🤔

Having 4 babies, 1 born into Heaven, in 5 years, has bout taken my hair OUT...and has made every attempt to drag my confidence with it. As someone who has ALWAYS had a head full of hair, thick and down my back AND edges, this is extremely difficult. I look in the mirror to do my hair and get frustrated when it's straight because of how much it's thinned. I get annoyed waiting for it to dry (for a wash and go) because you can see through the curls...because it's thin. Ive bought the products, tried the routines, asked to be referred to a dermatologist(still waiting for that referral 🤔) and even cried the tears but stil no progress. I've managed to make it, mostly, past the clumps of hair coming out stage and my edges are filling back in...mostly 🥴but my texture has changed (not that upset about this part), it's breaking at the top and I'm trying to learn to manage it all over again AND embrace where I'm at. I want it braided but I'm nervous. Definitely no crochets. Wigs aren't necessarily my thing. And even a silk press is a struggle. Oooo chiiile, the stress 🥴

At this point, I am about ready to take my husband's clippers and shave my hair BUT I want to consider that he may not be as ready as I am...if I'm really ready at all. Yes, he would get on board (that's just the kind of man I married 😉) but since I liked to be considered, I'm considering him.

I said ALL of this to say, postpartum challenges don't stop 3 months, 6 months, 9 months, a year, after you have a baby but can last beyond that. It's important to be honest, reflective, mindful and aware of where you are on that journey...EVEN if it means you've changed. Remember to extend yourself grace and to be kind to YOU. It literally costs you nothing but there are MANY gains. 🤎

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Thankful for my Husby, ! He definitely came through! Also, thank you, for the opportunity to share with with others as well as meet and greet with other authors. I appreciate you for creating this space! 💗🖤🤍

Get your book today! I have some on hand, ready to be signed and delivered. There are two people I owe books to, I DID NOT forget you 😉

Today, 2 years ago, you were born into heaven. You would be about 18 months. Laughing. Playing. Eating everything. Maybe walking. Who knows...

When I watch your brother play, many times, I feel like I can see you. His smile and personality help to heal my heart over and over again. Boy, what a pair you two would be.

One day, I pray to see a glimpse of what you may have looked like but for now I'm comforted by knowing you had so many welcome you to play in the streets "paved with gold."

I'm thankful for the time we had together, even if short.

You and your Grandmother Janette be sure to send Daddy some hugs and kisses. Between yesterday and today, he sure could use them. 🥺❤️🙏🏾

May you continue to sing with the angels and seat at the feet of God. You truly had the perfect way to start.

I love you, Jéan Amos. 💙👼🏾

Introducing...
Mych'Iayla Alexander, MSPC, CSC, CAS 🧩❤️💛💙💚🙌🏾🙏🏾

This has been a little rough 2.5 weeks of parenting. I understand my role as a parent and the weight of trying to get tiny and not so tiny humans to their God given purpose, in all aspects. Sometimes, it can be trying. But GOD...

Today, I received testimony number 2( for the week) about the impact of the book that I wrote and published in 2019 as well as my VERY personal journey (some pages of the book are my actual journal entries 😩). When God called me , I NEVER imagined it would be like this. Putting my name in places I've never walked. Allowing my story, journey and Holy Spirit inspired words to touch the lives of SO many women...many I've never met! You will be able to "lay hands on the ladies and they SHALL have babies" hits differently when you see those babies manifest right before your eyes. 😭😭🙌🏾🙌🏾 y'all really just don't know how purposeful pain has been...But GOD!

With all that said, I was quickly reminded of all the tears, sweat, pain, prayers, warfare and FAITH it took to get my babies HERE...the ones I carried and those I did not. And I can use those same tools in tough parenting moments. 🙏🏾

So, if you know a woman who is struggling with infertility and/or loss...here's the link to my book.

Let it bless you AND your wombs! 🙌🏾



: A 40 Day Devotional Through the Wilderness of Infertility

#TheWombKeeper: A 40 Day Devotional Through the Wilderness of Infertility "I'm coming for EVERYTHING "they" said we couldn't have!" - purpose of this book is to assist, support, and encourage each woman, and men, being tormented by infertility. It is written with the overall purpose of Brand in mind. 's mission is based on ...

Between turning 35 and moving into the New Year, I have come to a very hard realization/lesson. I have to be sure to unapologetically make a commitment to myself to care more for me, and my well-being, than for saving and pleasing others as well as the relationships I may have with those same (or other) individuals. It is okay to set boundaries and to take care of ME. Let's not only normalize it, but practice it. After all, I have to put on my oxygen mask before I can put on someone else's. Self love is not selfish. It's totally okay to make YOU a priority. ❤️
This is normally VERY hard for me because at my core I am a lover, a healer, a bridge-er and a giver...it's the me who I've come to be grateful for and proud of because life be lifing, has lifed, and attempted to turn me cold. My desire, a new part of my mission, is to not allow ANYONE or ANYTHING to turn me from that which I have been purposed and designed to be, to cold and bitter. I WILL NOT allow it.
The second part of my prayer...
God allow me not to overplay my position, to be comfortable in whatever position You've chosen for me to play and to not allow pride and the opinions of others to dictate how I serve and find myself in relationship with others. Abba, allow me to stay humble, generous, loving and kind. Help me to keep my heart guarded as I navigate my new normal of prioritizing those in my life, those I'll encounter...all while remaining open and vulnerable when appropriate. Send me people who mean me well and help me use discernment to recognize, quickly, those who don't. Don't let me pass up someone I am to be divinely connected to, whether I see the benefit or not. Help me to forgive expeditiously and to leave offense at its conception, detached from me. I know You can. ONLY You can.
En el nombre de Jesus Christo (in the name of Jesus Christ), Amen 🙏🏾