Khayelihle Gwala Public Speaking Notes

You cannot be wealthy if you are spending more than you earn. We have to get our thinking straight. You cannot be wealthy when you are dependent on a single income, you cannot be wealthy if you are really living way beyond your means.
Can you ask yourself a question and ask yourself " what is my relationship with wealth?" If you can't answer this question, i'm sorry but you will have to take a 9-5 job and do what everybody is doing.

Are you waiting for an opportunity? or are you creating an opportunity for yourself to get where you want to be?

Destroy the word patience on your mind because it is an illusionary word that we display in our mind and use it the wrong way. You can't be patience when you haven't started walking the path or journey of success🤞🏿. We misuse the word "patience". You can't be patience when you are busy lazying around and sitting waiting for the opportunity that will come and meet you halfway just like that. No!!!! Being patience is the virtue to walk in a journey of success while battling and fighting for the freedom of being mentally free and in the long run to be successful. Same goes when people are waiting for an opportunity to be successful when they are not walking the path or taking action to be what they want to be. "They are patience".

Break out of the loose and go out and create and opportunity for yourself.

These country has to many protestations but it is not helping. Instead of protesting there is a way to utilise the mind for fundamental purposes. No one is willing to stand up and prioritize with the government and not even on capitalism nor communism cause less investments are made.

But let us live it all hanging right there, the main reason why i wrote about the economy is because i want you to forget about how the system works and do all your things privately.
I know some of you are confused about these privacy i'm talking about but to be specific, let me set up an example. If you unemployed try to look for a job in a private company or any organizations. Even if it is being a janitor you can take it. But your main plan is to learn how everything is controlled in that company you working for. If you do not want to work for somebody else for the rest of your life you will learn how everything is controlled and remember to ask questions to your boss. Some of the people want to own their company but they don't know where to start and in terms of capital.

If you really want to be wealthy you have to learn how to use your money wisely especially when you are paid.
Actually the job you have right now serves as funding for your own business. Good people if you want to own an enterprise or huge market invest invest invest.

I really don't understand how people who have jobs and earns a good salary but end up being broke in the mid-month. Another reason why people become more poorer is because their are on debt or loans are one of the factors. Thats what makes them poor. Don't get me wrong i'm not saying a taking a loan or a mortgage is wrong but make sure you take a loan that will make you more richer.
What delibrately can happen to the economy if 75% of the people who are skilled and own their businesses or some of the sectors in South Africa?

Compensation Of Economical Issues

We live in a multi-diverse universe where economy is essential and part of life. What departures is the origin of where you stay, because some of the origins economy are well-developed, and some are still developing and some are not well developed like S.A etc. What determines an economic state of a country is an astral plane/Graph.
But i will tell you how does the economy differs thus it differs in to three main categories.
●Recession
●Trough
●Depression

☆Recession
When the economy is at recession there is a fluctuation of an economy that begins to rise at a steeper motion. These kind of economy rises due to the fact of steeper rate of employment in an origin. The government produces a little bit or invest in a fragile conductivity of prolific work for people, who can be able to increase the economy. But due to the fact intermediate skilled people exist in that origin and that is why the economy resist as in recession.

☆Trough
When the economy is at trough, it is on a higher state of the peak in a graph whereby the country's government invest more in schools, colleges,universities,hospitals,level of education and skill practices and road infastructure etc. Thus there is a higher rate of employment, at this amount of peak the government enrolls a higher level of educators and most highly skilled labourers. More investments produces the best interest and that is what the government is doing in another countries where the economy is at trough.

☆Depression
What happens to depression?😢
As the graph state at the lowest peak which is a long-term economic state that is characterized by unemployment and lower levels of trade and investments. This economic state leads to the word "Poverty" as the country is not really developed and not even trying. Some people ask why are we depresssed in terms of the economy in our country?
Everyone knows the answer but no one is willing to take action by using a secret weapon known as the "brain".

☆ Interpersonal Relationship
Interpersonal relationships are social associations,connections or affiliations between two or more people. These type of relationship can be very contrasting and alternating because it is used by common business corporations,investors and the communions. To increase this relationship you have to use communication and listening skills. It is used profusely by entrepreneurs who want to start up a business or who own multidiversified businesses.
Communication is the secret key to interpersonal relationship because when you communicate more passively and positively, you gain some intetests and come up with specialised ideas. That is where ideas resonates and also problem solving comes from. The stability of interpersonal relationship brings innovative strategies to be open minded and also open your heart so you can spread love amongst everyone.
Even our role models who are well known such as Bill Gates and Warren Buffet are incorporate and work with each other. Either other entrepreneurs use this form of relationship.

If these type of relationship is lacking, there would be no corporative investors in the stock market or in a market. No diversification of enterprises will grow and there could be a crash among the economy. There are certain ways to increase this type of relationship which are:
●Listen attentively
●Use your gestures to assure a person that you are listening.
There are many things you can think of to increase this type of relationship.

Remember to bring purpose and hapiness into your life is to balance these type of relationships.

Reason why some of the relationships overlapse is because iy lacks of intimacy because not only intimacy brings emotional attachments but it also brings trust, purpose and happiness.
70% of relationships lack these intimacy foundation and that is why other people prefer to look and find another partner just because of misunderstanding the desires they both intended and wanted. The word used is " cheating". To avoid cheating or breaking up with your partner you have to:
●Find his/her interest
●Take her/him on a date
●Take him/her for shopping
●Teach her/him to be adventurous
●Do adventurous things she or he never done before.
●Be there for each other in bad and good times.
There are many ways you can also think of to remove the toxity of cheating if you really love your partner.

Currently for the past few decadesor centuries from the millennium there were different kinds of various relationship devotions between two particular people [Male and Female]

Before we get to the concept, let us define the word relationship since people have this misunderstanding or comprehending the word.

What is a relationship?
It is a state of connectedness between people especially an emotional connection between the main agendas that could lead to a subjective happily living in the future.
Relationship holds the mutual unusual feelings that people can compensate and to sustain a positive life. One of the main reason why i write this persuasive essay is because since from the centuries, there is no balance or what you may call it stability due to the lack of perfection. Don't get me wrong no one is perfect but what we utter in our words is what makes us perfect. To sustain a positive relationship with your partner, there are ways to affiliate a sustainable aspects between you and your partner.
People fail to utilise the the word "relationship" due to the fact that they lack of finding the right incretes of their partners. That is why most of the relationships fail and flunk due to the fact.

There are two types of relationships
● Intimate Relationship
● Interpersonal Relationship
There must be a stable act between these two relationships and there should be happiness when balancing or enriching the two.

☆Intimate Relationship
Intimate relationship is a relationship that involves physical or emotional intimacy.
Physical intimacy is characterized by romantic or passionate attachment or sexual activity. This involves the feelings and inconditional desire spree between you and your partner. To form a strong emotional attachment between you and your partner, you first have to generate both of your desires. Do not be afraid to ask your partner during sexual in*******se, whether how do you like him/her to give it to you, just to concile both of your desires.
There are certain skills that you have to apply during the process in order to increase the intimacy. For instance if your partner persist you to kiss her during sexual in*******se, don't do it her/his way
Just do it with impursuit and in a more affirmative skilled action, from there you are increasing intimacy and emotional attachment between you and your partner
Which can be 97% capability of making him/her yours only cause you are satisfying your partner in each and every way.

It worries me a lot when i smell the concussion of struggle based on these human agendas :

Judgementalism

People judge more frequently that judgying thyself.
If you judge a person or biased due to the imminently judhement based on their wrong or right doings you are despicably resonating hate to another person.
Hate comes from judgement based on wrong or right doings of an individual.

Hate/Hatred

Hating/Hatred comes from the disbelief of lacking a vision,confidentiality and integrity.
A person of hatred do not have the same qualitative self display like you.
A person of hatred has the following:
☆ when you do good, they judge or shows the sign of pretetendence.

☆ when you do bad, they still judge and just hate for no reason at all.

When you mix these two critical speculative prospectus into a single recipe, what do you think the ingredient will be? A very detrimental explosive right?

Some people do not become successful because they dwell on other people's business without minding their own business. What do you think will happpen if we tend to mind our own business? Why don't you do you and let people other people do thyself? Stop possessing yourself with all the toxity into your mind and mingling in to other people's business. When i reminisce of where does all the mentality comes from, the actuality of these mentalism comes from the people we surround ourselves with.
Our human race is suffocating from these two agendas which are the two diseases synthetically and approximately 78%of people when they communicate confilidate these two agendas. And quitely it destroys the nation.
So coherently jugementalism and hatred are considered to be contagious if you surround yourself with those who are contaminated by them. People can normalize their energy through the transmutation of vibrations when you are surrounded by these toxic people.

Vibrations are transmuted from the part of the brain that is called " the pineal gland" known as the third eye.