The way around your partners body.

Comfortablity♤♡

Her.

Ladies and gentlemen
Do not I mean do not get too comfortable in a relationship. In terms of how often you are keeping your partner interested in you. The mistake we as women make is if we have been with a man for a few year we have less and less s*x with them believing that he won't leave. Let me break it to you a man is a predator and if his prey is caught and doesn't make him chase it anymore boredom sets in.

With that being said I want you all to understand that a relationship can become stronger by mixed signals. Extraordinarily decided to have s*x in the bushes and also paying and suggesting places to visit as a couple.

Remember this a man is a provider by nature but once in a while a man also wants you to pull your weight. I feel that in a relationship when your partner offers to buy food for a picnic you can say you'll buy the drinks. This is what we call team work and not sole owners.

Then this is when it gets tricky. Being together for 40 or 20 years and then the s*x just dies. Let me elaborate on something. When this happens your man or women take interest outside of your relationship. Because I they might be someone who loves physical touch which I did mention in my explanation about love language.

That is why being too comfortable will kill your relationship don't allow that to happen ever.

I want to start doing paid video calls where you ask me whatever and I'll advice you and possibly demonstrate to you what you should do.

Love language♡♤

Let's talk about love language and how to know what your partners love language is.

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What is love languages.

This is what makes your partner feel happy in your relationship. It is a way of communication without using words. It can differ from person to person but knowing your love language and your partner understanding this as well can change alot.

1|Act of service.
It is the action of keeping your promises or not turning against what you have said. If this your partners love language then you should not go against this knowing it will anger them. An example would be telling your partner you'll be going out at 11 am then arriving at 12:30 pm. Can cause a fight because you know that your partner dislikes that.

2|Physically touch.
This is self explanatory. But in depth would be if your partner likes to be touched most of the time that's their love language. It doesn't have to be s*x related all the time it could even be the holding of hands or the rubbing of ones neck or even cuddling. For some just physical activities can make them happy.

3|Quality time.
This is something some people take seriously in a relationship. Spending time together is important to some people as it is how they feel loved but others feel as if spending too much time together can be overwhelming and cause them to loose interest. In this case compromises are to be made and understanding is key. When I say understanding I mean you as a person must know that not everyone wants to see you every single moment of every day.

4|Bearing of gifts.
This one can be a bit of a pickle but I will say men and women can do this,it has never been gender based. In that case giving your partner gifts can make them happy in the case that it's their love language. Just receiving a bouquet of flowers or a necklace can make your partner happy. These don't even have to be expensive stuff but it should carry meaning. Bearing gifts can show your partner that you are trying to keep the spark alive and that in itself means alot.

5|Reassurance.
This is making sure that your partner knows that you are all in the relationship. This is the way of showing your partner that you are happy with them and that you see the relationship as more than just dating, letting them know you see a future together. When you reassure someone you make them remember that they are it for you and you kill all insecurities and doubts they may have concerning the relationship.

When we as people can learn our own and our partners love language then that when you can work on a successful relationship. Allow your partner to see that you take interest in how they feel about certain situations.

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Ladies and gentlemen

Her

This will be an insightful series where we will explore healthy ways to improve your s*x drive and make the s*x smell more s*xy.

By s*x smell I mean when the two bodies collide something happens and a aroma is formed. Sometimes it is a pleasant one other times it can be overwhelming and no longer set the mood.

1| There will always be a smell when having s*x but you can determine if that smell will be a turn on or turn off. You can even get scented candles to help set the mood of the whole situation.

2| All you have to do is eat right exercise and drink lots of fluids namely water and or 100% fruit juice. I would advice this more for women than men, but water can also reduce how your s***m tastes in the case of a blow job.

3| When you and your partner start to look after how you smell internally and externally then you'll want to have more s*x. It is s*xier and healthier.

4| Brushing of teeth is something we should be doing everyday but sometimes there can be an extra smell that isn't always pleasant. This can be a huge turn off as you are in each others faces, kissing to set the mood. But if you know that after a while your breath changes roll a piece of bubble gum in your mouth. If your kinky enough your partner might also steal it and that is a whole new set of pleasure.

5| If you are with someone you feel free to do certain things with and your body responds well to the person then try to feel free on telling them when there is a smell that doesn't sit well with you. It will help you both and you'll soon find the issue and fix it.

These are just a few ways to change how your s*xy time turn out. More will be coming on how to set the mood and enjoy pleasure.

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How to m**f your girl properly♤♡

Disclaimer ladies you need to wash the coochie give her water and drink cranberry juice. Now males m**fing isn't as bad as it has been put to be, you can't expect a bl***ob when you refuse to m**f your girl.

So when you want to m**f a girl remember not to pull on the c**t it's not a cigarette or a lollipop it's quite sensitive.

Proper ways to m**f your lady would be to:

● It is always appropriate to start by kissing her inner thighs and possibly lightly biting them. This will send a sensation up her inner thigh, to the her lady parts.

● While you are slowly moving upward place soft kisses on her va**na through the panty, and you can even suck her through it. You can start with a slick lick. Downward or upward it doesn't really matter. Make sure to give attention to the c**t. You can even use your fingers to gently rub in a circular motion.

● You can slip in two fingers in as you are licking and gently sucking the c**t. You do this till you have a steady rythm going.

●Allow her to ride your face this will cause her to cm all you need to do is offer up your tongue, then she will move on your face at a pace she is comfortable with.

● if you not really the m**fing type then doing the six nine position will also feel pleasurable to you ,it might take your mind off what you are up too.

Muffing your girl should not feel like a punishment, I love when we cm together. So let's be fair and do the most.

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Exploring places to have s*x.♤♡

Ladies and gentlemen we all know the classic having s*x on the bed. But what if I tell you that it can happen anywhere at anytime.

Let me explain s*x is a very private event that happens between two people. You wouldn't necessarily want people watching you do it or you being put on social platforms. But don't let this stop you. From exploring the different places you can have s*x.

1. Public places
Having s*x in a public place can be exciting especially if you know you could get caught,you will have some type of adrenaline rush. For example if you are in a dark club sitting in the corner where the light doesn't quite reach it would be easy to slip your partner on your lap and have a few rounds. Or even in the bathroom at the mall just imagine having to silence your partners moans as you lead them to ecstacy. Doing this in a restaurant will only be successful if your booth is not quite easy to see and you would need your partner to wear easy accessible clothing.

2. Outdoor activities
Have you thought of how exotic it would be to have s*x in a tent with your partner and there are people around in their own tents. Or even out in the moonlight where your only source of light is the stars and the moon, just think how your partners body would look adorned by such lighting. Or even during the day under a tree where you would have to look around to make sure no one is watching.

3. Transport
Somewhere in our life time we have all had s*x in a car. But what If I told you that you can even have s*x on a plane in one of the bathrooms. Or even on the bus at the back where your only outlet is hand action.

4. Public shows
This would most likely include B**M a term used in a world of dominating and submission. You would need to perform certain s*x positions and do certain things in from of an audience this is of course not forced but is welcomed by some. So it could also bring a new spark to a relationship but if don't wrong it can even break the relationship.

These are just brief examples of place you are able to release stress and have a great time. Remember the s*x positions you would need for each place will differ depending on the circumstances. Enjoy

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The way around your partners body. updated their phone number.

A**l s*x♤♡

Disclaimer this topic isn't to encourage anyone to do this. But it's more for the different ways that s*x can be done.

A**l is the art of penetrating the tightest hole on any human body. Now before I go further before doing it remember that precum alone isn't enough to pe*****te safely, I do recommend a lubricant. That's to say if you plan on doing it raw.

● A**l s*x is a very painful thing at first but quite enjoyable when your butt hole is used to the stretch. It makes you cm on a whole new level.

●A**l s*x should be done with someone who isn't going to just pe*****te dryly and f**k you hard, no if it is done wrong you could be left with damage that is unlikely repairable.

● Remember that when your ready to do this you'll need to have perfected how to relax muscles in this area, because it is tight already and tight muscles make it tighter. Meaning more pain than necessary.

●It is quite enjoyable when done properly for example you can't have a**l after having eaten a three course meal, because you'll need to use the toilet and penetrating may cause you to feel the pressure of whatever is in the a**l tunnel. So it's better to set a time from the last time you used the toilet and don't eat after.

●Males remember to use a condom to pe*****te this hole reason being it's not like the va**nal walls that's only used for the exit of a period. No remember that acid like poo leaves here and isn't really hygienic, so raw is most likely a no no.

Despite everything it can be quite enjoyable and beneficial to a relationship as you have completely made yourself vulnerable to your significant other.

*sorry about some of my wording I hope it wouldn't stop you from exploring all options.
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Incorporating toys♡♤

In a relationship s*x can sometimes become boring you both are not doing anything wrong it just happens.

●So what you can do as a couple is incorporate s*x toys all types. From vi*****rs to butt plugs to even handcuffs and blindfolds. It up to how far you and your partner are willing to go.

●Using a vi****or when penetrating your girl,and using that vi****or by putting it where you guys link, will give vibrations as well as her,That in itself is a great or**sm.

●Or blindfolds can intensify your senses and make the experience much better for the both of you. It can also be paired with a couple of whips or even a butt plug.

●Even being tied up as you are being pleasured can add a different sensation and add to the pleasure you are experiencing. Because your movements are restricted and you can't hold onto your partner as usual.

Don't be afraid of change do what you can to keep the s*x interesting always.
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Clean up after each round♤♡

Ladies and gentlemen never have s*x repeatedly without Cleaning up after ever round.

Reason being if you are someone who likes it raw you should remember that after ever round odor and bacteria are building up. So if you f**k and carry on it isn't very healthy.

Now the type of clean up I am referring to is cleaning up the areas that come together. You could use wipes ,there are even sensitive wipes for after s*x. Or a wet cloth just to wipe up the perverse cm and move on to the next.

Ladies this is benefits you the most because friction could cause little tears in the va**nal walls which are vulnerable to bacteria and in balance.

So let's cm together and keep the rounds clean.

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Pressure points?

These are the points of the human body which can bring immense pleasure.

In order to find this points you'll need to be doing full body play such as kissing, sucking and licking certain areas of the body.

1. Men are likely to have these pressure points namely the neck, lips, chest and ears.

2. Women are likely to have these pressure points namely the navel, neck ,lips , thighs, and b***s.

But remember that everyone likes different things it's not to say that all Men or Women like the exact same things. Or find pleasure from being touch in all the same places.

The aim here is to find their pressure points embrace them, focuse on them and you will have a happy partner. Pressure points will most likely be used when there is great foreplay.
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Intimacy ideas.♤♡♧

When you are in a serious relationship, know that intimacy isn't supposed to be just about s*x.

In order to be equally intimate in all areas of the relationship you shouldn't be afraid to become vulnerable.

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1. Washing your partner

This is very intimate, when you are in the shower or bath with your partner take their wash rag or something and put soap on it. Then begin to wash your partner clean. While doing so kiss parts of their body and washing their hair is a plus.

2. Cuddling without planning to have s*x.

This is a normal thing people do but it becomes addictive when your partner runs your butt or plays with your hair and allows you to fall asleep on them.

3. Cooking together

When you are a women who cooks that's fine if you enjoy it but when your man cooks for you it hits on a different level. Because you have the opportunity to watch your partner at work. This is a different kind of intimacy it is the kind you build and enjoy from quality time together.

So these were just a brief example of what intimacy is like it's not just all about the bedroom. You can connect with your partner on different levels in many different ways. Intimacy can really strengthen a relationship between two or more people.

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Edging. What is it??

Well to edge is when you take your partner close to an or**sm but then stop and start all over again. Now I know you guys might think why would you want to punish your partner like this. Well here's why.

When you bring your partner close to Cu***ng then leave them hanging then restart. You are building up to something even greater then the first or**sm they would have enjoyed.

All the frustration they will feel will all be worth it in the end when you finally allow your partner to cum. It will make them feel so amazing that they will feel the need to pleasure you aswell so it's a win win.

The way that this can mostly work would be with a bl***ob and or woman on top. You are in control and can stop or restart the entire process.

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Woman on top♤♡

When you are on top ladies know that you are in control.

What happens and how it feels is up to you. So let me tell you how to do the best thing you can on top of those muscular thighs.

1. You must be confident in yourself firstly because when you are unsure it will show in how you ride.

2. Put yourself in a comfortable position to move in and out of him or even from back to front.

3. Finding balance will also help you with your movements so you can either lean back and put your hands on his legs which will mean you're facing him. Or you can be giving him a perfect view of your b***y.

4. That's when you have him in the palm of your little hands. When you have found the position you should put him inside yourself and start moving slowly don't lift your body to high because he'll keep slipping out.

5. Then once you find the perfect movements that's when you shine and allow him to enjoy the ride. Remember that If you use parts of his body to balance yourself don't put alot of weight on him.

6. Lastly you can also put him on the edge of the bed and you use the floor to balance it's up to how comfortable you feel.

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Foreplay◇●

Is it important or not before s*x?

Yes it is extremely important.

Here's why a woman doesn't just have s*x and always has an or**sm it is because a lady needs to be aroused to a certain extent.

Beside the arousal a women needs to be wet before pe*******on and just taking off your clothes and going for it,doesn't help.

So what can you do to speed up your foreplay yet keep it s*xy?

1. Kissing her passionately plays a great role as some women get aroused by being kissed before s*x

2. Playing with her c**t will make her wet by adding pressure or rubbing it in circles will dampen the hole easily.

3. Kissing her breast,tummy and neck can feel really good given the type of kiss and the pressure or lack there of.

4. Groping her ass can make her crave you more, and want to have s*x. As it is a part of the body with many nerve endings.

5. Playing with her hair during foreplay can be s serious turn on. So it could work in your favor.

These are just the basics of what can be done because 1 out of 10 women cm each time, while the 9 just want you to pull out so they can go and never return.

Remember that sometimes when you are in your moment your partner is usually just lying their and not making any sounds. So what happens they cheat because just as a guy can be unsatisfied so can a women.

Disclaimer this is for the ladies learning how to begin.

♤♤Okay ladies it has come to my attention that alot of you don't enjoy blow jobs.♤♤

◇So here are my tips to help you all out.◇

When you want to give your man a blow do it unexpectedly, If you have braids or long hair tie it up and get on your knees in front of him.

Look at him in his eyes while you take off his pants and lower it and take off his underwear and then lick the tip first. And rub his c**k up and down while you gaining confidence to put it in your mouth.

When you feel you are confident then relax your throat and put his c**k in your mouth. Then you should pull your lips into a fish like pose which make it tighter and do your best not to scrape him with you teeth.

This is when you'll use your hand to stroke him while sucking gently. When you are getting a rhythm going you can stroke him while you suck on his balls. Ladies don't pull them like it a lollipop I can be painful.

Keeping this up will bring him closer an or**sm then you can deep throat him ,hum or moan this will give off vibrations all the while you should keep looking into his eyes.

Now if he starts guiding your head let him but that's when you'll need to relax your throat or you'll throw up which could turn him totally off and even cause a break up.

Make no mistakes ladies even if you use whipped to make the taste of cm do it.

Disclaimer this is for the ladies who enjoy blowing.

So here is a way to have and give successful head so I am not a professional but I'll tell you what I have done and been successful at.
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Let me lay down the basics real quick when you want to give your n***a head you need to know what makes him jerk. Such as if you suck the head of his c**k how it makes him feel and if you squeeze the baby makers how long he lasts.
When giving head be ready to drink up those juices because man it will drive your man crazy. To put it more bluntly if you are able to give your man good head till his toes curl then you are right on point.

• If you are in the process of giving a bl***ob make sure to firstly drink alot of water to make your saliva more.

• Then get on your knees and look up at your man while you unbuckle his pants. Eye contact is very important.

• When you have successfully released the dick use your hands and stroke him slowly at first then you lick the head while looking him in his soul.

• This is your time to shine put your mouth around his dick and hollow out your cheeks but be sure to not scrape him with your teeth go at a slow pace at first this gives you time to see if he is enjoying it and time to find his pressure points.

• When you have worked up a steady pace you can start moving a bit faster and deeper be sure to make a sound at the back of your throat to make some sort of vibration. If you are not sure about the deeper then you should stroke him while putting him in your mouth.

• Then just like this you can explore sucking his ball sack and licking the head. You should know when you man Is going to cm so look at his face that will be indication of when he will burst and if you hate the taste of come pop him out of your mouth and stroke him till his over the edge allowing him to cm on your b***s or face.

Lemme say this ladies if your man is not willing to wear condoms then you as a girl should say no condom no s*x end of the story.

Ways to give a girl her first kiss♤

Tips♡

Disclaimer I am not a professional advisor but I do know certain things that drive women crazy.

● gentlemen if you just started dating someone and really like this said person then note that the first form of intimacy matters.

1. Gents women are very gentle most of the time but if she likes a little rougher action don't worry she'll show you. So what is my point when kissing your girl for the first time,make it memorable. When a girl has a terrible first kiss just know she'll be telling her friends about it and telling them not to worry she'll change you.

2. When you take her out or even if you guys are having popcorn and watching Netflix. When you decide to kiss her do it in consideration of the senses. Namely touch, smell and sound. When you lean in to kiss her make sure you smell amazing this way you will drown all her trains of thought. Touch her chin and pull her close even if it seems like she isn't into in most cases she has been waiting for it.

3. Then comes the contact (touch) as you are pulling her close build the tension in her Make her burn with desire. Next comes the contact of your lips make sure you use chapstick once in a while to soften up your lips most women cave when kissed by soft lips.

4. So once you are in contact with her lips slowly slide your tongue over her bottom lip which will grant you access inside her mouth. Now this is where you show her what you've got so you should start moving your lips against hers not using to much tongue as it can become sloppy. While kissing her create a pattern to let her get a hang of the flow. Such as biting or tagging on her upper or lower lip but not to hard just enough to make her moan in pleasure.

5. When the kissing has increased this is your opportunity to pull her onto your lap then when she's comfortable this is where your hands come into play use them to squeeze her bum, pull her closer and rub her skin lightly. But also say very s*xy things to her while moving your lips on hers this will insure that she will gain more confidence.

6. To add a bit more to the pleasure you can leave her lips for a good few minutes to kiss and softly lick other parts of her body. Trust me she will alsomake moves to make your pleasure just as important.

7. Then move away from her and look at her face this is how you'll know what she thought about your kiss. Then overall you guys can either continue the makeout session or move to very s*xual things.

Do♤♤

When you in a relationship and your lady has spoken that she would like you to experiment, that is a good sign. It means she would like to keep the relationship alive.

So you gents should do as follows watch videos x rated ones. This isn't for you to just please yourself but you can gain experience.

Incorporating toys is always something fresh to liven you both up. She will feel your efforts and in turn up hers. Gents going down on your lady isn't easy as ladies naturally have to maintain a PH balance which depends on the smell of her lady parts. If you want to please her so she'll please you try using edibles. Namely Chocolate spread or whipped cream it will make her taste amazing and the smell will be bearable.

Should you feel she has an issue don't be harsh sit down and tell her you think she might need to consult a doctor. Ladies don't take offense to this as he is only trying his best to help you out.

Gents when you feel like you are not getting enough intimacy tell your women what's up, ladies like to trip about cheating but what must you do. So to avoid conflict talk to your lady and tell her it's hard to not be intimate.

Tips♧♧

Men do not I mean this do not twist a ladies breasts unless you were told to. Firstly it's painful and not very pleasant while you think it's s*xy half of the women out there don't find it pleasurable.

If you want to give her breast pleasure use your tongue to lick her ni***es gently then blow on it this will give her goosebumps. Even using props like an ice cube will have her screaming your name. If you like sucking her b***s I would suggest the area around the ni**le not direct contact with it as it doesn't feel too good.

Secondly remember that not all ladies are used to different sizes so don't just force yourself in all at once. Start with a finger or two to loosen the tightness and relax her areas. This will help when you start to move in slowly, and will not cause her as much discomfort.

Thirdly talking about your likes and dislikes helps alot. This will help your partner understand what you are comfortable with and what you do not agree with being done . Like hair pulling not all ladies like that or ass slapping vis versa. So talking about it will help you as a man to know the way around your ladies body.

Dedicated to all the men and women who were told they can't please the body of the opposite s*x. I am going to give you tips and tricks to satisfy a women, While satisfying yourself. I will tell you pressure points and what not to do when you have a lady.