Bianca Kotzé

Trade your expectation for appreciation and the world changes instantly.

-Tony Robbins

We must DISCIPLINE our disappointments!

Disappointment can actually be a very powerful FUEL to drive us to the next level.

Has a stirring disappointment ever catalyzed action and change in your life, personally or professionally? 🤔🧨

Life isn't challenging you because you're weak. It's challenging you to show you just how strong you truly are.

I can’t tell you how many times I have heard the words, ‘you can’t do that’ and ‘it will never work’ or ‘you will never make it’.

The sad thing about that is, most of the time the person saying that to me was myself. I didn’t believe in me or that I can do anything of worth, I had to change my self-talk to even consider to start believing in myself.

You yourself set your own limits, if you believe you can only run 1km that is what you going to do and not an inch further and if you believe you can run 10km that will be it.
We need to rewire our thoughts and believes to achieve the impossible, and we will achieve the impossible. Don’t let you or anybody else determine your limits.
Believe in yourself and you will be unlimited.

What is limiting you?

Let me ask you a question: Do you believe that there’s something greater, something beyond ourselves?

Whatever you want to call that —God, or the universe, or infinite intelligence, or the divine mind, or energy—I truly believe God is a loving energy. And I believe that it only responds to absolute FAITH. Another word for absolute CERTAINTY.

I’ve seen in every aspect of life—whether its sports, performance, relationships, health—bringing certainty, a faith beyond what you see, to a situation that is uncertain, is one of the greatest resources you can have.

And of course, there are still no guarantees in life.

There’s always a test of faith. Every one of us, regardless of your age, gender, wealth or lack thereof, every one of us will be tested in ways we’re not ready for, multiple times, true or false?

Life tests us to see if we can find certainty in uncertain times. And the ultimate certainty is not that you get what you want. The ultimate certainty is the FAITH that life is benevolent, even when it looks like it’s not. It’s trust & patience to give it time to show us. It’s knowing that somehow everything has a higher meaning.

And I believe it’s our job to find it... If we can find the higher meaning in the midst of our pain & in spite of our fear, we become a source of love & inspiration for others. A source of certainty & safety for others, and that strengthens us for our own journey and service.

Life is always happening for us. If you develop that level of faith, you have an advantage in this game. We don’t get big muscles from the easy stuff. We become more because we’ve been through life’s difficulties.

So what’s the difference between fear & faith? Well, they are both made up—they are both energies in our imagination. The only difference is, FEAR is imagination undirected, running to the worst case scenario. FAITH is when our imagination is directed to higher purpose.

So, I choose faith. When you realize grace is always there, no matter what the outcome, that gives you a different level of faith in life itself, & a different love & appreciation for life & for every day we get on this earth.❤️

Life is happening for us, not to us.
We get to do the things we need to do today, it's not a must to do them.

Life is not a 'right' that we have it is a privilege that we get, it is a blessing, and we get to choose how we want to live that life, why not choose to live it the way that you want to?

I can help you unearth your potential to do what it is that your heart desires. Allow me to come alongside you and together we can build that life that you dream of everyday.

Nothing has the power to radically change a life more than an attitude adjustment.

"Be slow to speak and quick to listen".

We all have a voice, and we all have a story to tell. Mine isn't more important than yours and yours isn't more important than mine.

You have your struggles and I have mine; we all fight different battles, why not support one another and root each other on to become the best version of ourselves.

There is power in silencing yourself to take some time and to LISTEN to another person's story. You might just find some encouragement to conquer your own battles.

Listen, open your ears, harness your desire to speak and don't get worked up into a rage so easily.

Don't judge what you don't understand and try to listen to a voice that is begging to be heard.

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In today's life it's easy to say, "I can't do this" or "ask someone else" and just push every opportunity given to us to someone else because we don't believe in our own potential.

Secretly we are capable of so much more than what we think or can comprehend, but we feed our minds with negative self-talk and thoughts.

We simply need to take the leap and start to INVEST IN OURSELVES.

Change the way you talk to yourself and take a chance on the impact you can have on others.

There is so much gold hidden inside of you, believe you can do it and start doing whatever it is you need or want to do.
Just do it. I believe in you.

Change your thoughts and you will change your life.