Bieng a man

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Man up brother, be her peace, not her war.

The world is full of sinners, nobody's a saint, but remember that the sins of the father weigh heavily on the child.
An absent father is a sign of cowardice.
But what about father denied, do we ever talk about them?
Or do we still hide behind the notion that all men are dogs that abandon their young.

Break ups...

What does one do after him or her has broken up with the person that they thought that they would get married to and grow old with, I know its an age old question with rudimentary answers, some argue that it would be better to fight for what was lost and try again, other say that its better to move on cause if it wasn't meant to be it wasn't meant to be.

BU****IT....
There are a lot of factors that could influence two people who were supposedly mad in love to suddenly break it off, but believe me when I say that moving on is better said than done, it might be easier for others yet harder for the rest of us if you devoted all your heart and soul into that love just to have it crumble in front of your eyes,
so you spend countless hours and days heart broken over the whole dilemma, yet the thought of putting yourself through all of the pain again frightens you.

So I ask again, do you go back or do you move on?...

Volume please...

It's easier said than done for one to move on from a relationship, within the first few weeks women tend to move on quite normally, the opposite can be said about men.
As men we tend to put on a face of strength as if the break up didn't affect us but emotionally it can take a man months in some cases maybe a hole year to get over a woman whom they truly loved, and dare I say it, but it only takes just meeting that person years later to bring all those feelings flooding back like an endless waterfall.
Quite honestly, is no quick fix to forgetting someone you just gotta take it day by day...

A little something to think about...

Now growing up without a father can be a daunting experience to any young man, mainly cause its the love and guidance of a proverbial father figure, he may be a biological or a step father that setts a young boys up for the challenges of life.

Props to all the single mothers out there making ends meet without any assistance from a man, but I gotta tell you, a boy who grows up not knowing or receiving love from a male figure has a high probability of falling victim to the wrong influences in life.
I should know, having started smoking ci******es at the age of 15, having impregnated a girl at the age of 19, yes I know that may sound like an acceptable age to father a child, but take into consideration the fact that I haven't become financially stable to support a child being fresh out of high school and just starting tertiary education.

Now my question to you is who do you think the burden of raising that child befalls? Of cause it falls on your the shoulders of the mother or in my case my grandmother. If I had received the proper life lessons from my father Thing would have been a whole lot different.

I would have had my child in a period in time where I was more financially and emotionally fit to support him, God I love my kids but I'm the true definition of an absent father, young black brother don't fall into that trap that is life without direction.

good day ladies and gentlemen,

most of you know me as the quiet self centered village boy from Limpopo, a friend to most, a past lover to others and a brother to some.

I'm here to teach my young brothers out there who unfortunately haven't been given the proper tools in life to ultimately become a better version of themselves in our ever growing and demanding society.

Admittedly, I may be the last person to give out advice about life given my past digressions and wrong doings towards the people I hold dear. but please bear with me.