Umthunzi wa Majita

To all the Men out there..
Happy Fathers Day brothers

Another event for Men by Men…
Brothers more and more platforms are forming to assist us be the best versions of ourselves.

Important Reminder

Packing in full progress

Fede Majita as promised we will always share platforms that are focused on men and their well being.. take the time to check out Kasi Men's Network page..
definitely attending this session..

Tomorrow at Lekgotleng la banna😇

Fede Majita just a quick reminder that as much as we face so much challenges in our day to day lives always speak life into yourself.

The thoughts you have about yourself will determine the man you become, show yourself some love, say kind words to yourself and be your number one cheerleader..

Majita you got this.

Here is a sensitive topic which has been discussed under many tree shades for generations..

Child Support / Maintenance.

Majita whats your take and do you know your rights relating to this topic?
We have come across alot of brothers who suffer in silence because of such battles and sadly we have lost a few to su***de. How do we correct this behaviour so that the child is the one that benefits from it?

"I was giving my baby mama, Shaniqua Tompkîns $500k a year($40k per month) and she said it wasn't enough, so I took myself to côurt and the côurt issued that I should be giving her $6700." 50 Cent

"I dîdn't make money for women and no man should allow woman exploît them. My son's mother was just feeling entitled to my money . I was giving her $500k a year, but she was still expecting more. Then I decided to make her see that I was only doing her a favor. So I took myself to côurt and ręported myself for giving child support way above average. Then it was decided in court that I should only give her $6700 a month and I can't add a penny on that because she can also get a job. Men need to start fîghting against gender înequality too since men and women are all equal. After what she did to me, I decided that I shall never spend more than 50 Cents on a woman ever again." 50 Cent

No woman should depend on a man because everyone can work. Your man's money is not your money💯

As amaJita we shouldnt be drawn into dark places such as depression because of losing focus on our own journeys. We need to instil the right kind of mindset that pushes us through challenges we face on a daily basis and have the right circle around you to help you bounce back..

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who/what is Umthunzi wa Majita?

Umthunzi wa Majita is a place where we grew up meeting after school, after work, on the weekends, it could be the tree shade by the corner, the car wash or the rock by a neighbor’s yard to discuss life’s ups and downs, our relationships, our dreams and to seek advice. At times deals were even made here, connections shared, and job opportunities presented.

And that’s the reason this page was created, a place where we as men, brothers can meet and share about matters the pertain to us on a day to day. To educate, empower and assist each other navigate this journey called life.

We will in future host events, visit schools, visit communities and share podcast of some discussions we have with amaJita from around our communities sharing their stories about overcoming lifes challenges, breaking into the industries they are in and share material from other sources that focus on men.

These are nothing to be ashamed of gents..
Lets speak up and find the help we deserve to over come these silent killers..

Since we are all about aMajita we wanted to share from one of the groups we also follow Majita Monday.

Gents go check them out.

Happy Majita Monday…
The struggles we over came last week, didnt weaken us but made us stronger and wiser.

Lets take those lessons and fight through the challenges we will face this week.
Stay strong Brothers.
…Shakes…

Lets make it possible for brothers to be able to open up …

Daily Reminder

Majita here is an experience that could give you the platform to discuss and openly share your challenges in relationships and concerning s*x. Bring your partner, your girlfriend and let’s explore the benefits of Becoming One..

We still have available spots…
Dont miss out on the couples retreat that could change the dynamics of your relationship for the better..
With speakers that cover topics such as commitment, relationships, s*x and individual empowerment. You guaranteed to learn a few things.
The Becoming One retreat is the one to be at with beautiful accommodation and plenty of surprises, it will be one for the memory books.
Book your spot before its too late.

We are all about supporting initiatives that touch the lives of men of all ages…
Lets show some love to this one as well.

We read such stories and let it pass without acknowledging the fact that this is a problem men also face in our communities…
If He had retaliated the media outlets would have acted long time ago …

So we as Gentlemen’s Indaba are here to say. You no longer have to feel alone brother.

A domestic survivor is finally taking her abuser to court. This poor woman had a cigarette put out on her face, a finger cut off, slaps and punches were part of her normal day, the man defecated in her bed while his friends laughed. There are audio and pictures to back all of this up. There were doctors that witnessed some of the abuse. The man put makeup on to imitate bruises for pictures and court appearances, but the next day there were no bruises to be seen. The man tried so so so hard to ruin this woman’s life. The media didn’t even ask her side. They blamed her drinking as the problem (she had been sober for YEARS but the violent relationship had led her back to her addiction, her only escape) the man leaked a picture of her asleep with ice cream melted on her to prove how “out of control” she was. To shame her even more. All of her past partners have stepped up to support her, all saying she was nothing but kind and loving. How can we treat domestic abuse survivors this way?? This woman isn’t a woman, she’s Johnny Depp, and the man is Amber Heard. For some reason his abuse wasn’t taken serious, it was mocked. If he were a woman would it have been so openly mocked? Abuse is Abuse. We need to protect victims regardless of gender.

We are ready to get the conversations going..

Lessons that matter

In Japan, during the war, this boy was carrying his dead brother on his back to bury him. A soldier noticed him and asked him to throw this dead child so that he would not get tired. He replied:
He's not heavy, he's my brother!
The soldier understood and broke down in tears.
Since then, this image has become a symbol of unity in Japan.
Let this be our motto:
"He's not heavy. He's my brother... She's my sister."
If he falls, raise him.
Even if you get tired, help him,
And if his support is weak,
And if he makes a mistake, forgive him
And if the world abandons him, carry him on your back, because he is not heavy
he is your brother...

We are back on radio tomorrow…
discussing the Gentlemens Indaba
Who knows we mighy give away a few tickets

With the speakers all ready to share their wisdom and knowledge on all the matters related to being a man, with tickets flying of the shelves are you ready to come experience a Gentlemens Indaba like no other..

Contact the numbers below to ask how to make a payment plan to book your seat..

Gentlemen lets make the CHOICE to take a CHANCE and attend the Indaba in our numbers to discuss topics that matter to us as men such as Health, Mental Health, S*x, Relationships and Business. Trust us you will leave the event feeling the CHANGE deep down in you..

With great speakers like Jerry Mofokeng Wa Makhetha. Thabo Moloi Thabo Lesenya Zamokuhle Khumalo we promise you won’t want to miss this gathering of great men.