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The Gender Experiment uncovers the truth behind the outrageous medical scandal that is harming young people across our nation. In this documentary, you will be moved by the story of a young woman who bears the scars of attempted gender transition, you will hear professional medical opinion and you will hear from a brave politician who is unapologetically pushing for an inquiry.

The Gender Experiment | The Truth Revealed Documentary The Gender Experiment uncovers the truth behind the outrageous medical scandal that is harming young people across our nation. In this documentary, you will...

I just don't agree with this ‘You have it all the answers inside you.’ schtik.
If that was true, none of us would have any issues LOL.
1. Sure, much wisdom IS within us, but we have to know HOW to access it.
2. And that often requires others to help us do that.
3. Everything in both the Physical realm AND the Quantum realm is ALL about relationality - the interconnections between things and non-things.
4. We heal the separation thru relation.

"When two-thirds of young men feel that “no one really knows” them, as State of American Men 2023 shows, they reveal the fragility of their connections and relationships. This “crisis of connection” collides with the reality that no one really seems to agree on what a “good man” looks like or how to become one.

The combination of these two truths creates the perfect conditions for men to seek connection in the digital world via the manosphere – a diverse collection of websites, blogs, and online forums promoting masculinity, misogyny, and opposition to feminism – which swoops in to provide clear messages around gender and gender roles to make simple sense of an otherwise complicated world. These messages have a real impact on violence, mental health, and anti-democratic trends.

This report presents findings from a six-month deep dive into the lives of young men online, primarily focused on the platforms and online spaces used by young men in the United States. There is a clear need to further investigate how online spaces and communities can be simultaneously problematic and also hold immense potential for creating solutions. We hope this study provides additional insights and directions for action."

Read the report below.

The Manosphere, Rewired: Understanding Masculinities Online | Equimundo This study explores men's online lives and the gendered narratives and features of male-dominated online platforms. | Equimundo

Sitting in the Fire - dealing consciously with your partner's anger.

Sitting in the Fire One of the most profoundly difficult things we are asked to do in healthy relationships/friendships, is 'Sit in the Fire' when your friend/partner is feeling angry. As long as they do not insult or...

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Ultimately all communication is about building connection and relationship. Even when it is just a sharing of facts and information, the relational brain/being is tracking for safety and connection by being understood.

How to get people to like you… Be a Generous Listener. Ultimately all communication is about building connection and relationship. Even when it is just a sharing of facts and information, the relational brain/being is tracking for safety and connection...

Do you want to be Right... or Alone?

No matter how fantastic your relationship is, its likely to move into the ‘Power Struggle’ stage some time after 2 months to 2 years together. In this very normal stage, one or both parties attempt to re-establish their individuality separate from the relationship. You begin to look for what is different, or wrong or bad with your partner. And this is where arguments and disconnection can start.

At this stage, people either run for the hills, stay stuck on and off for the duration of the relationship, or learn to create wonderful win-wins and stay happily together.
More here....

Do you want to be Right... or Alone? Win-Win Relating No matter how fantastic your relationship is, its likely to move into the ‘Power Struggle’ stage some time after 2 months to 2 years together. In this very normal stage, one or...

Just did an awesome FREE Organ and Gland energetic checkup with the wonderful Kemina Fulwood.
So interesting!
I'm not as unhealthy as I thought I was LOL.
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How to respond, assertively to bad apologies.

"Are you spiritually protected? Do you realise we are in the midst of a Spiritual War and that learning how and why to protect yourself against the "Principalities of darkness" described in the Armour of God is not only essential but easy?

Get the new book "Weapons of Mass Protection: Practical Tools for Spiritual Warfare" by Mark Attwood & Abby Wynne here (for free!): https://bit.ly/MassProtection

Dating or Sexual Anxiety?

Do you feel anxious or unsure with dating, meeting new partners, or anything to do with kissing, foreplay or making love?

Some people need just some basic biology, or some hints on how to communicate more effectively. But others, have some background anxiety or trauma that needs healing. Using the Emotion Code we get you easily in touch with what is holding you back and clear it up forever.

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Can someone please explain to me how a trans-bloke (attempting to be a female) has s*x???
ie if he has had his appendage removed... surely no surgeon can recreate the magic that is a cl****is - including its whole internal structure. And any pseudo-vagina they create will always just be a hole in the body with no capacity for pleasure.
So how do they do it... unless its @l???
Please explain.

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Wow, this interview with Clif High ties in so beautifully with the book I'm writing at the moment!
Thanks so much Clif for your wisdom and humility.

https://rumble.com/v4ue0xq-outspoken-futurist-clif-high-on-the-meaning-of-life.html
Outspoken: "Futurist Clif High on the Meaning of Life"

Outspoken: "Futurist Clif High on the Meaning of Life" Clif High is a futurist and programmer, who has made a reputation for eerily reliable predictions of future events. His methodology is a precursor to AI, which "crawls" the internet and identifies lin

ASK FOR WHAT YOU WANT.
So many times, we don't ask for what we want, because we don't want to embarrass the other person in case we suspect they might want to say No.
Or we feel we don't deserve etc.

But if you don't ask, you don't get.

Wouldn't it be great if our culture became much more comfortable with saying No... ..and being able to happily hear a No from others.
We wouldn't have to second-guess people all the time.

And then we would feel freer to ask for what we want or need.

So, how about we:
ASK 100% OF THE TIME FOR 100% OF WHAT YOU WANT.
AND BE COMFORTABLE WITH A NO.
(thanks to the Human Awareness Institute)

My Main Life Lesson -

My Main Life Lesson Pretty much everything that's happened in my life has been a lesson in COMPASSION. I was born an empathic and compassionate child, but it seems that there were finer distinctions to learn. More and...

LISTEN FULLY - If you don't want to misunderstand someone,
make sure you listen to the very end of what they are trying to say.
If you get yourself all in a dither, because you didn't have the patience to listen properly, and you keep interrupting with your reactive comments, and end up misunderstanding.....then that's on you. Its your responsibility.
PATIENT LISTENING CREATES TRUSTING RELATIONSHIPS

Win-win is the foundation of all healthy relationships.

Anyone who has done couple counselling with me knows that pretty early on in the session, I draw intersecting circles (Vesica Pisces/ Venn Diagram) to describe the Game of Relationships. If we play win-lose or lose-lose, then the relationship starts filling up with the toxins of Resentment, Recrimination and Remorse which can eventually kill any loving relationship.

However, just like putting out the garbage every week… if you regularly clean the relationship up using the Clearing Meetings System, and also learn to create juicy Win-wins, then the relationship has a great chance to grow and prosper.

This means that when things get difficult - like money issues, loss of work or health, and problems with the kids, family and friends etc - then the Relationship has a strong foundation to weather the storms.

So if you feel like you need a top-up, or more fine distinctions on HOW to do this foundational skill of playing Win-Win, well, you know who to call ;-) The LoveCoach!

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Australian School Issues Apology After Students Taught About Be******ty During “LGBTQIA+” Presentation - The Publica A high school in Renmark, Australia, has issued an apology after students were taught about be******ty during a presentation about “respectful relationships.” In addition to there being no teachers present during the session to supervise the instruction, the speaker told students that the practi...

Nothing gets solved,
by not solving it 

Dr Seuss tip: Males are males, females are females,
and cats are cats.
And that's that.

The Tr@nsActivism is a m1sogyn1stic, anti-female movement designed to erase the feminine by fearful men.

" Last week revealed a startling contradiction in the gender identity space in Australia.

On the one hand, Sall Grover, CEO of Giggle for Girls, had to sit through a Federal Court hearing, which will determine whether s*x or gender identity prevail in law.

The Human Rights Commission made a total embarrassment of itself by claiming s*x is not a biological concept, and refusing to, or being incapable of, defining the words ‘s*x’, ‘male’ or ‘female’.

Roxy Tickle’s lawyers argued that he is a woman because he feels like one and shops in women’s clothing isles.

How bizarre!

These statements were made in the Federal Court and somehow taken seriously.

I can only shake my head in disbelief.

If the law states a person can change their s*x, it still won’t make it real. No one can change their s*x. It is utterly absurd to even argue they can.

And then on the other hand, the Cass Report was finally published in full.

The report is almost 400 pages long and contains over 30 recommendations that basically slam the current trend to treat gender identity as more factual than reality and evidence-based science.

The report found what we have all been saying, that it is harmful to subject children to experimental treatments that leave them with irreversible damage.

You can read more about it in the blog below.

Mainstream media has had little to say so far.

Politicians continue to bury their heads in the sand.

And yet, the evidence is clear and mounting.

Pumping vulnerable children full of drugs that prevent them becoming adults is cruel and unkind. It doesn’t resolve their underlying distress and it commits them to a life of constant medical dependency.

Please read the blog and/or the Cass report in full and inform your local parliamentary members. They cannot claim they were not made aware.

They are complicit in this disaster unfolding before our very eyes.

I am also facing renewed legal battles, all because I fight for women’s s*x-based rights in sport.

They don’t just want to silence me, they want to silence you.

So this week, please find someone new to share this email with, or have a discussion with, about the sad and sorry state our nation is in.

It is up to everyday Australians to send a message loud and clear to our political representatives – we will not take it any more.

Yours in protecting children and promoting parental rights,

Kirralie Smith
Binary Spokeswoman

Active Listening is an incredibly important and simple tool for creating understanding and therefore, connection.
We have had the knowledge of how to do this for decades now, and I ( and 1000s of others) have been teaching it for over 30 years as a Therapist Coach and Trainer.

But I remain shocked and saddened, that there seems to be almost no knowledge of this technique amongst the people.

98% of my clients have no clue about it, or how to apply it.
In fact, when I ask to use it in my personal life with friends and family, 90% of the time, there is an overt resistance.

What is going on folks? This is not rocket science.

Is this childhood trauma... Mummy stuff?
And/or Is this part of the deliberate dumbing down and destruction of relationships and families??

Attempting a Win-win is what matters.
Interestingly, the most paradoxical part of playing win-win, is not necessarily coming up with a balanced solution. The most important part is the heartfelt attempt at listening and understanding. The attempt is what sustains the relationship. Because in life, some things are just not solvable… either right now… or maybe ever.
~ Excerpt from book in progress- The Solution to almost Everything.

To those that criticise Feminism, I gently suggest that your understanding of Feminism needs to be more nuanced. Check out Mark Passio's work on the Unholy Feminine.

Mark Passio - The Unholy Feminine - Neo-Feminism & The Satanic Epi-Eugenics Agenda - Part 1 of 2 The Unholy Feminine – Neo-Feminism & The Satanic Epi-Eugenics Agenda - Part 1 of 2In this controversial presentation, Mark Passio blows wide open the Dark Oc...

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The End of Religion - Ismael Perez

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Most difficult question to answer in the last decade...
"Wh@t is a W0m@n?

Some thoughts by JK Rowling

" I believe a woman is a human being who belongs to the s*x class that produces large gametes. It’s irrelevant whether or not her gametes have ever been fertilised, whether or not she’s carried a baby to term, irrelevant if she was born with a rare difference of s*xual development that makes neither of the above possible, or if she’s aged beyond being able to produce viable eggs. She is a woman and just as much a woman as the others.

I don’t believe a woman is more or less of a woman for having s*x with men, women, both or not wanting s*x at all. I don’t think a woman is more or less of a woman for having a buzz cut and liking suits and ties, or wearing stilettos and mini dresses, for being black, white or brown, for being six feet tall or a little person, for being kind or cruel, angry or sad, loud or retiring. She isn't more of a woman for featuring in Pl***oy or being a surrendered wife, nor less of a woman for designing space rockets or taking up boxing. What makes her a woman is the fact of being born in a body that, assuming nothing has gone wrong in her physical development (which, as stated above, still doesn't stop her being a woman), is geared towards producing eggs as opposed to s***m, towards bearing as opposed to begetting children, and irrespective of whether she's done either of those things, or ever wants to.

Womanhood isn't a mystical state of being, nor is it measured by how well one apes s*x stereotypes. We are not the creatures either p**n or the Bible tell you we are. Femaleness is not, as trans woman Andrea Chu Long wrote, ‘an open mouth, an expectant as***le, blank, blank eyes,’ nor are we God’s afterthought, sprung from Adam’s rib.

Women are provably subject to certain experiences because of our female bodies, including different forms of oppression, depending on the cultures in which we live. When trans activists say 'I thought you didn't want to be defined by your biology,' it’s a feeble and transparent attempt at linguistic sleight of hand. Women don't want to be limited, exploited, punished, or subject to other unjust treatment because of their biology, but our being female is indeed defined by our biology. It's one material fact about us, like having freckles or disliking beetroot, neither of which are representative of our entire beings, either. Women have billions of different personalities and life stories, which have nothing to do with our bodies, although we are likely to have had experiences men don't and can't, because we belong to our s*x class.

Some people feel strongly that they should have been, or wish to be seen as, the s*x class into which they weren't born. Gender dysphoria is a real and very painful condition and I feel nothing but sympathy for anyone who suffers from it. I want them to be free to dress and present themselves however they like and I want them to have exactly the same rights as every other citizen regarding housing, employment and personal safety. I do not, however, believe that surgeries and cross-s*x hormones literally turn a person into the opposite s*x, nor do I believe in the idea that each of us has a nebulous ‘gender identity’ that may or might not match our s*xed bodies. I believe the ideology that preaches those tenets has caused, and continues to cause, very real harm to vulnerable people.

I am strongly against women's and girls' rights and protections being dismantled to accommodate trans-identified men, for the very simple reason that no study has ever demonstrated that trans-identified men don't have exactly the same pattern of criminality as other men, and because, however they identify, men retain their advantages of speed and strength. In other words, I think the safety and rights of girls and women are more important than those men's desire for validation."

We can't call ourselves Spiritual if we don't have enough love in our hearts to solve an upset that is hurting a friend or family member.
When there is an upset, conscious people take the responsibility to learn how to listen generously and create a win-win together.
If they don't know how, they commit to learning.
Listening generously and creating a win win nearly always enables you to come into even deeper connection together. And if you don't do this, obviously it does the opposite. It kills the relationship.
We are here in 3D to DO LOVE, not just talk about it. Living as a spiritual being requires us to sort things out in the 3-D physical.

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