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Latest on the blog. Does getting married after a REALLY long time together change anything? Why do it? And if you ARE doing it, how can you make it mean something more than a happy day?

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New blog post!!

33 Proven (by me) Ways To Make REAL Friends When Travelling.

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You're on a first date with someone, and they tell you the name of their favorite book. You immediately leave. What's the book?]

I LOVED having this conversation with Angela Haupt at TIME magazine on what i'd change about Love Is Blind. If you know me, you'll know that reality TV is my guilty pleasure. I mean, i'm picky about it- although my 'will watch' and 'won't watch' lists are arbitrarily chosen. Love Is Blind is defo on the will-watch.

Confession: Angela and I talked for at least half an hour, she definitely knows what she's on about being a reality teev tragic herself, and I have no idea how she condensed what I (or everyone else) said into one paragraph. Genius. If you've got OPINIONS then you gotta read this.

What would you change?

How Therapists Would Change 'Love Is Blind' Couples would be able to touch in the pods and phone home.

There might be a secret to a long and happy romantic relationship, but it’s not solely located in gendered behaviour.

I work with a lot of q***r couples and also people in less traditional relationship models. The issues around unequal distribution of household chores, child-rearing and emotional/mental labor are not exclusive to people in opposite s*x relationships.

These issues are not exclusive to the behaviour of men and women.

Don’t get me wrong- it’s incredibly important for us to acknowledge and address these problems: as a society, in our romantic relationships and as individuals.

But does this kind of stuff actually spell the end of a relationship?

Well, again, not so much in my experience...

What Is The Secret To A Long And Happy Romantic Relationship? - Unveiled Stories What is the secret to a long and happy romantic relationship? Recently there was an article in The Guardian entitled... Continue Reading

Spoiler: there’s no ‘secret’ to meaningful relationships, but understanding more about who we are as humans in-relationship, and then what to do when we lose sight of that can be a game-changer.

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It rained, but we did it anyway

Pages from Jenny Odell ‘How To Do Nothing’

She got That Letter. The one we all want from an ex that treated us like s**t. But did it bring closure?

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Filled with joy finding this pretty beach with no doof-doof or crowds in Bali. Definitely needed a quiet moment after a wild year. Can you relate?
Get your fat bits out in the sun and embrace those little breaks from the busyness of life.
Happy new year. X

I decided to add relationship coaching and expand my counselling services because I love working with couples who are deeply dedicated to making their relationship the absolute best that it can be. They’re showing up to solve problems but they’re also excited about the work we can do together. They’re stuck but they’re not on the verge of splitting after too much damage has been done. To be blunt, they’re not flogging a dead horse.

Many people wait until it is way too late to seek help when their relationship is in trouble, but I hope that my relationship coaching offering can encourage folks who think they don’t need counselling to get in earlier and find out how bloody great things can be.

And while I help lots of different people relationships from traditional to not-so-much, I particularly fit well with folks who are more on the margins: rainbow families, childfree couples, non-monogamous folks, expats, the neurodiverse, and I’ve been told I feel culturally safe by several POC (a huge compliment). I also support friends and family in relationship coaching, because our romantic relationships aren’t the only important loves of our lives.

Wondering if relationship coaching is for you? Have a look now or get in touch via my website. Link in bio.

I decided to add relationship coaching to my services because I love working with couples who are deeply dedicated to making their relationship the absolute best that it can be. They’re showing up to solve problems but they’re also excited about the work we can do together. They’re stuck but they’re not on the verge of splitting after too much damage has been done. To be blunt, they’re not flogging a dead horse.

Many people wait until it is way too late to seek help when their relationship is in trouble, but I hope that my relationship coaching offering can encourage folks who think they don’t need counselling to get in earlier and find out how bloody great things can be.

And while I help lots of different people relationships from traditional to not-so-much, I particularly fit well with folks who are more on the margins: rainbow families, childfree couples, non-monogamous folks, expats, the neurodiverse, and I’ve been told I feel culturally safe by several POC (a huge compliment).

Wondering if relationship coaching is for you? Have a look now or get in touch via my website.

Online Relationship Coaching - Unveiled Stories - Nicole Hind Relationships can be tough, but I’m an online relationship coach who's here to help. Safe and inclusive. Get in touch to book your session today.

I’m in Sunday Life today sharing some insights on midlife crises.

Forget the red sportscar stereotype. A midlife crisis can fuel positive change “There are phases of life in which we experience existential crises, and one of those times is midlife...it’s a particularly interesting time for women.”

Yes.

Image from the Northern Land Council website.

Thinking about quitting your job? Read this first!!
Up on the blog now. Link in bio, or copy n paste: https://unveiledstories.com/quit-your-job-and-pursue-new-beginnings/

Questions from teens answered by teens. This one I stole from The Guardian is answered so brilliantly I had to share it. After you read it, truly give yourself permission to celebrate a regular moment. Or specifically do something completely and utterly human with the knowledge that THIS is what makes a life great. What makes YOU great. X

Inspirational t’shirts with full speeches are sooooooo 2023. Cheers to being an ever-evolving creature of impermanency and remembering ‘or feelings’ never stay stuck in the worst or the best places.

The latest from my blog. Let’s TALK about the s**t spoiling our good times and connection yeah? It might be easier than you think…

No One Is The Problem In Your Relationship - Unveiled Stories No one is the problem in your relationship. The problem is the problem. Learn to talk openly without blame and defensiveness hijacking you.

Diary Of A Teacher is a really special guest post that I think many will relate to. Please share if you know a teacher who needs to feel seen. X

Diary Of A Teacher - Unveiled Stories Teacher anxiety. An insight into the paralysing overwhelm and subsequent self-loathing many Australian teachers experience every term.

We all know what 'face your fears' means, but what about 'face your butterflies'? Cultivate and nourish that parts of yourself that are On Your Side and step away from the fears.

Face Your Butterflies We all know what facing our fears means, but what about facing our butterflies? This video and blog shows you how to embrace your good stuff.

It's been an age since i've written a new blog post. I hope there's a little something for you in this piece. X

No One Is Going To Force You To Rest We all need to unplug and get more rest. But no one is going to force you to rest. Being able to expect more from those around you is a skill

A new offering for 2022...

Private Practice Coaching for Counsellors in Australia - Unveiled Stories Private Practice Counselling Australia. Why did you decide to be a counsellor in the first place? You can work YOUR way without Medicare