Simplifire

“Oh, I already know this. I can totally skip this! Or shouldn’t I?" 🧐⁣
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I just started this new trajectory for one single year. About family constellations and writing meditation amongst others. This weekend was the kick-off, at sea. ⁣
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While it was packed with lots of new information, there were many things I heard before. ⁣
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And so I noticed my personal cat guy wanting to take over by persisting that I really shouldn’t pay all that much attention, because I supposedly "know it already" anyway. ⁣
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Oooh! That’s my cue to get éxtra focused! ⁣
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If there’s one thing I learned, it’s that getting into that typical “I don’t know a thing, teach me, teach me, please,” is the best way to stay open-minded. To receive the gems along the way. ⁣
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Because even when I already know something about it, there’s always more to learn. ⁣
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Do you recognise this? ⁣
Sometimes it’s just that extra time that you needed to hear and understand something again, for you to reach your next-level breakthrough. ⁣
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And other times, it just takes that other person to say the same thing you’ve already heard a thousand times before, but never in his/her special personal way for it to finally click in. ⁣
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In whichever form it comes, I want to invite you to pay special attention when you want to skip something rather impulsively. ⁣
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Use your own discernment, because hey! You might be at the front door of your next breakthrough! ⁣
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Here’s to the beginners’ mind! 😉
Suki 🖤🙌

Let it be eaaaasy! 😉

When you start experiencing life as mostly hard work and a struggle? Step back and ask yourself:
“Who’s really doing the talking and walking here?”

Because let’s face it.
Letting the cat guy run wild with you will have you survive, but not prosper nor thrive.

Instead, choose what gives you energy!
What drives you forward and upwards. 🔥
For me, it’s fun.

Such as creating this comic!

What’s fun to you?
Feel free to share! 🤩

Forever cheering you on!
Suki 🖤🐆✨

Shame always does the trick, dixit the cat guy. 😏

If you recognise yourself in this?

Just know that SHAME is a complete waste of time. I’m serious right now.

It’s yet again another protection mechanism. And also culturally and collectively known and used.

Here’s what I do as soon as shame pops up in my head. I ask myself who’s doing the talking here and what would be the outcome should I let shame boss me around.

As soon as I see that the outcome is me making myself smaller, even invisible or feeling bad about myself? I know the cat guy -which you might know as ego, inner bully, inner critic, puppet master- is at play.

That’s the thing with shame. It makes you feel wrong. Eventually believing you are wrong. And then, you isolate.

So, how to break the shame spiral?

Very easy. Share your thoughts. Jot them down if no trusted near and dear one is around. Face them. Feel shame in your body.

Get to know it, because guess what. The more you start recognising it. The more you can make uplifting choices!

Here’s my plea for you to stop letting shame be this invisible abstract thing.

It’s not. It’s alive and kicking in your system. Body, spirit and mind. It’s alive and kicking in the way we were raised. Watch some television, listen to songs, read books.

Shame will be there to meet you.

You’re human, so chances are you’ve been shamed before. And you were the one to shame someone else.

Take ownership of it. Give yourself grace, compassion and a different choice from now on.

You get to choose this life.
And it all starts with your inner world.

Cheers!
Suki 🖤🐆🔥

If you recognise yourself in this? Here’s why it’s best to write your inspiration and genius ideas down. 😉 Make them visible and tangible.

Even though the girl is so excited about her new idea, it only alarms the cat guy even more.

He has only one task: protect the girl from any perceived danger or threat. He truly thinks he knows what’s best for her.

In this case, a new idea is seen as out of the comfort zone and thus a threat to her safety.

The cat guy doesn’t give a damn about her excitement if it means something new. He wants her safety above all. And so he will go into over-protection mode, decide for her and take over.

This is how self-sabotage happens.

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So, I’m sitting here with a ridiculously big smile. Feeling so much inner happiness and joy, because
you’re looking at my very first comic.

Starring the girl, the cat guy (puppet master) and their conversations, because all of life starts with perspective.

That’s why insights about yourself and realising whose glasses you’re looking and experiencing life through, comes in very very handy!

The idea first popped up 8 years ago, in the second year of my coaching-counseling training.

Somehow, the terms and theory were too abstract for my vivid mind. And, let’s just say it, plain boring.

I needed something more concrete. Something I could áctually grasp. Something way more visual.

It’d take me years until I realised that that tiny thing really did make a huge difference.

Because once I saw and understood a certain pattern about myself, it was kinda hard to not see it.

Insight built upon insight, helping me gain more clarity, which lead to more empowered choices which lead to a much happier life, from the inside-out.

That’s what I want for you!

Cheers!
Suki 🧡✨

Which game?⁣
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This game, called life. ⁣
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Yours for the making. ⁣
Yours for the taking. ⁣
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Here’s something I’ve realised and experienced again and again. ⁣
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We as humans will inevitably make mistakes.⁣
Then instead of just moving forward again, ⁣
we start focusing so so much on those missteps we took.⁣
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And we feel really really bad about it. ⁣
So bad so that we label ourselves bad or wrong for doing it or not doing it. ⁣
Whatever it may be. ⁣
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Instead, we could’ve just realised the lesson. ⁣
Live and learned it ⁣
and get merrily on our way again. ⁣
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When I learned to be truly patient with myself and gift myself grace for my mistakes along the way, the stumble didn’t take nearly as long as before. ⁣
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Inner kindness⁣
fosters⁣
inner ownership. ⁣
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See, it’s not the mistakes that direct the duration of our stumble. ⁣
It’s our beliefs and attitudes about ourselves as stumbling.⁣
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So, do yourself and life a favour. And grant yourself and others grace.

Suki Simplifire 🖤🐆🔥

Guess what?

Your answer will radically come down to your level of convictions, both conscious and subconscious.

Which is why, keep your curiosity going. Deepen that level of consciousness. Unveil your habitual patterns.

The one thing that makes it easier to sustain your identity boost, from my experience?

Keep showing up already, repeatedly as that next-level version of self.

Make it your practice.

Through your new choice of words, thinking, feeling and actions.

Again and again.

And then choose the best inspiration, activation, motivation that supports those newly made choices from above.

Set your environment up for sustainable success.

I have a little motivational book laying around, called “actions over words”. And I just open it at a random page and use the quote on that page as my fuel when I need it.

Motivation doesn’t last.
Discipline and dedication does.
Solid habits do.

I know you already know this, so why not get practical and make it as simple as possible for you to keep going?

There’s many ways of fuelling your own motivation. I’m feeling curious. What are some of your personal practices to keep you moving forward again when you get stuck?

The more you free up what’s still in the murky dark depths of your psyche, the more life force energy becomes available to you and through you again.

May your triggers enlighten and enrich you. 🙌

The wisdom received from this one code I live by. 🙌

You making mistakes doesn’t turn you into one.

Go ahead. Experiment. Try out. Fail forward.

Excavate the gems and the lessons.

Move forward again.

Allow the experience to become your life’s wisdom.

Which is why, keep that fresh and popping beginner’s mindset.

Play.

Don’t confuse your performance with your worth.

Because guess what, your high-f**king value isn’t up for negotiation.

Ever.

Life wants to give you so so much richness.

Let it be safe.

Let it in.

You matter.

You belong here.

Suki 🖤🐆✨

Here’s what I know about you. You’ll go places. Just make sure you actually wánt to be there.

So, ask yourself: “Where do I trúly want to be in life and whó do I want to be? In two years? In five years? Heck, in ten years?”

Take the time. Write it out.

Respect yourself and your dreams. 🖤🐆✨

The elevation of quality of your life depends on your honesty with self. ⛩

Update-Upgrade, Laying Groundwork - Part VII⁣ 🖤🐆✨
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I just had to keep the ball of momentum rolling! ⁣
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Sleep issues have been my normal for nine long years. ⁣
Planes, trains, subways, cars, seminars, business events, workshops. ⁣You name it, I fell asleep there. At concerts, I’d even fall asleep standing.⁣
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At first, my actions were mere fluff. ⁣
Such as taking a walk first thing in the morning, ⁣to get my circadian rhythm back in line. ⁣
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Later, I saw how my journey missed that crucial identity boost, ⁣but when I claimed myself to be a deeply well-rested person, palpable fear came up. ⁣
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So, I sat with it. And then adjusted my claim. ⁣”It is safe for me to be a deeply well-rested person, only good things can come from it.”⁣
After all, I wasn’t going to let some fear hold me back. ⁣
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It took me some days to realise that the walk was mere fluff. ⁣
The real priority should’ve been to get a sufficient amount of deep high quality sleep, starting with the quantity. ⁣
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Not even a full week later. After a night with way too little sleep, an inner mini came through spontaneously. ⁣
She was my inner 15 year old, whom I’ve never seen before. ⁣
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As soon as I identified her, I immediately knew this was gold. ⁣
See, I was fifteen years old when I first fell into a depression. The sleep issues simply came with it. ⁣
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“She’s here to tell me something of huge value!”⁣
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And speak up she did. ⁣
She had many friends around her,yet never felt truly understood by them. ⁣
Which was the most painful thing ever. A typical lonely amidst a crowd of friends. ⁣
So she let herself be numbed instead of feeling the dreadful loneliness. ⁣
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Having since grown apart with those friends, I could fully understand her. ⁣
Even more important.
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I knew at that very moment?⁣
The root of the sleep issue was DONE AND OVER with. ⁣
Now, it was only a matter of following through on practical strategy. ⁣
In other words, the fluff stuff. ⁣
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The deadline for steady enough sleep is end of this year. ⁣Looking forward to it already. ⛩
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ps: How can you honour your past selves? Because they are very alive and kicking in you, still. 🙌

Update-Upgrade, Laying Groundwork - Part VI⁣ 🖤🐆✨
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A recipe for disaster is only leaning on a strategy ⁣and not doing any inner work to beat an outdated habit, ⁣let alone an addiction. ⁣
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No insights, no lasting change. ⁣
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With not a single new course on my mind,⁣
I could clearly see and appreciate my own natural gifts and talents again.
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One of them is seeing and connecting with inner mini’s,⁣ both of my own and of others. ⁣
Call it intuition. Call it a psychic gift. ⁣
Fact is, it’s easy for me and healing for others.
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I am the liberator of inner mini’s after all. ⁣
I love it, honestly. ⁣
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So, of course I had to meet my own inner-nerdy girl-mini who’d kept binging on all the knowledge. ⁣
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She was quite shy, embarrassed and
“Look, I know things got out of hand here but pleaaase don’t take away my books or courses”-worried.⁣
Hands clasped between her legs and looking at me with her head bowed down, pleading her case. ⁣⁣
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I assumed that the situation got out of hand because she used to feel dumb in school.⁣ Overcompensation, clearly. ⁣
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Wow. I got it so wrong. ⁣
Learning really is her happy place, her home. ⁣
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Actually, it was on me - mature me. ⁣
Because I never showed any discipline before in this area⁣ and set any healthy sustainable boundaries with her, ⁣that she just kept going and learning. ⁣
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It got out of hand because I forgot that the real responsible one here was me all along. ⁣
After all, inner mini’s are nót supposed to lead in life. They’re little kiddos still. ⁣
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It was a very slam hand against head- moment. I actually closed my eyes, feeling remorse. ⁣Humbled by my own inner mini. ⁣
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Turns out an addiction is nothing more than an inner mini running wild, ⁣because that’s what they are designed to do and will do ⁣as long as nobody gives them a healthy alternative. ⁣
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I could’ve known this. ⁣
I could’ve known the answer would be so easy.
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After all, it always is. ⁣
After all, I see and teach this very stuff.⁣
Talk about a freaking blind spot. ⁣
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ps: Go ahead, think about your own addiction or habits that you wish to change. ⁣
And ask yourself, what is the true need speaking up here? And how can I honour it in a healthy way? 🙌

Update-Upgrade, Laying Groundwork- Part V 🖤🐆✨

I had just declared not to buy any online courses anymore, when low and behold, only a few days later, I found myself caving and craving again.

It felt so ungrounded.
So shaky.
So full of shame.

I got so impatiently compulsive with it,
I even bought this online training twice.
Yes, twice.

Thát was my shake up and wake up to finally get some freaking accountability in.

And so I walked up to the person who loves me deeply and wouldn’t get too shaken or judgemental on me for having caved again.

After I told him what had just happened, I asked him If he wanted to be my accountability buddy, please?

He immediately voiced his support.
And I went to work and designed a year long accountability system and contract with a ridiculously severe consequence if I were to cave again. Knowing full well that I was way beyond the reward phase.

Always a fan of inside-out transformation and quantum physics, I included a strongly felt motivation in the contract and solid next-level vision of self.

A year of no buy online learning stuff would give my subconscious mind plenty of time to thoroughly rewire and find peace.

Now, almost two months later, I can honestly say that if it weren’t for the accountability this time,
I would’ve already bought twenty-something more online courses for sure.
A mixture of frivolous fluff and high level intense quality ones.

Twenty-something is a lot, but if you’ve ever tried beating an addiction yourself, you know exactly how much intenser the compulsion gets to give in. Especially so in the beginning.

And exactly as before, calling quits on the shopping addiction goes hand in hand for me with no more emotional eating. Both were expressions of gluttony after all.

Doing the rough tough stuff I once thought I wasn’t able to, has proven to be the most validating thing ever.

So naturally, I decided to gift myself yet another challenge, because why stop this steady ball of momentum now that she’s rolling?

ps: Special shout-out to loved ones for creating the space and support so we can face our stuff and outgrow our own unhealthy fluff.
Leave an emoji if you’re feeling this. 🙌

Update-Upgrade, Laying Groundwork - Part IV 🖤🐆✨

No staying power, a costly addiction
and a restlessness I just couldn’t shake off.

And yet, here I was.
Showing up for the workout, myself and next-level vision on the daily.
Committed, focused, present.
Proud.

This simple act strengthened and uplifted my own view of self. Being the kind of mentor who always puts the inner work first, I decided to go straight to the core and expand my own identity.

“I do what needs to be done, because it ís who I am now.”

Voilà.
Decided.
Declared.
Clear as f**k.

I’ve written this countless times.
I engrained it so so deeply within me
until I felt its power oozing through me.
Understanding fully that this is the one key thing that creates that same staying power.

Discipline.
Commitment.
Dedication.
Focus.

Staying true to self and my highest values.

Turned out doing what needs to be done was the very thing that grounded me in my own presence.
Solidified my trust in self.
Brought in so much inner peace.

Best choice ever.

Feeling empowered and uplifted within by this solid transformation, I decided it was now time to go back to my shopping addiction and conquer the very squeezy f**ks out of it.

Having chosen to also become
“the person who does what it takes untíl it takes” turned this into a very real possibility for me.

But first, some pre-history.
About one year and a half, I already tried to quit cold turkey. Even though it was f**king hard, it went well initially.
I even stopped my habitual emotional eating altogether, but I sénsed this cringy feel within.

And because I quit purely on willpower,
it wasn’t sustainable. At all.
So, it backfired. Completely.
Even more so than I had feared.

And my expenses were going
through. the. roof.

Also, my confidence in self
dropped significantly.

So, I did what I always did.
Back to the familiar!
Back to my happy place.
Yes, I bought more knowledge.
This time all about the subconscious mind.

And that spending habit of mine?
I gave up for now
and let it run its course.

ps: Looking for a shortcut to change? What identity boost would bring you the fulfilled outcome you want?

Update-Upgrade - Laying Groundwork. Part III 🖤🐆✨

I granted myself this permission and pass to another lifestyle.
One with way less noise than ever before,
coming from a strong need to come back to purity almost, home.

A clean slate really.

In my eyes, the laptop-and-suitcase lifestyle.
Only to realise that the clutter had slowly, surely nestled its way into most of my actions and lifestyle.
Even more than that, my being had become grossly enmeshed with it.

I had become so frustratingly distracted,
while I knew I had laserfocus objectives in me.
Waiting to be performed upon.
Begging to be performed upon.

One day, a sober outfit caught my eye.
It seemed thé embodiment of my new chapter.
Simple, sensual and comfortable.
And it was white, colour of purity.

So, I went for it.

Then I looked at my arms,
but I didn’t like the view.
They seemed flabby.
Makes sense, since I never trained them before.

So I decided to change that.
Found myself a short follow-along workout.
Just challenging enough to keep it interesting for me
and simple enough to keep it going.

Decided to do it on the daily.
Felt good.
Felt really good.

Decided to add another challenge for myself:
Touch the floor with my hands.
Something I’ve never able to do for as long as I can remember.

Because every aligned higher vision I ever had, has me being flexible.
I’m a firm believer of flexible body, flexible mind after all.
So I gave into the next-level vision.

Same principle.
Easy enough to stick with it,
challenging enough to stimulate me.

When I learned about invisible progress,
I even cut my hair to use it as a useful measuring tool.
So that I wouldn’t have to focus all that much on the progress,
but instead show up on the daily for one year and trust the process.

Soon, Results started to show.

Slowly, I realised where I had been going wrong all those years:
I’ve forgotten to cultivate any staying power.

ps: What’s the one thing that stands out to you the most? How to use it so it sets you up for your own success?

Update-Upgrade - Laying Groundwork. Part II⁣ 🖤🐆✨
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I would up-level the s**t out of myself. ⁣
Only this time,⁣
grounded in presence and deeper nourished. ⁣
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Why though? ⁣
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The thing with total freedom is,⁣
it’s so scary when you can’t handle it. ⁣
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I noticed a restlessness within. ⁣
Thought it was plain impatience, ⁣
After all, I should’ve been abroad already! ⁣
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It wasn’t. ⁣
Some awareness later showed me how I didn’t trust myself. ⁣
In the past, I did land in the hospital abroad because of a total disregard of my health. ⁣
Even more to the point, I had a costly addiction and I knew it. ⁣
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Call it gluttony. ⁣
Call it Fear of Missing Out. ⁣
Call it Shiny Object Syndrome.⁣
Call it a shopping addiction. ⁣
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All of them would apply. ⁣
More specifically?⁣
Knowledge. ⁣
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Not wisdom. ⁣
Nope. Know-ledge. ⁣
Buying myself into smart. ⁣
And then not doing anything with it. ⁣
Sometimes not even opening the course at all. ⁣
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Realising again and again, ⁣
it’s only been experience that has granted me the wisdom I hold. ⁣
Actual active engagement with the stuff. ⁣
Reassess the damn stuff. ⁣
Evaluate and evolve. ⁣
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So why did I keep indulging myself?⁣
Why did I keep setting myself up for these painful loose-loose situations? ⁣
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Once again, addiction. ⁣
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I sold my house and I do not have the cheapest of taste. ⁣
That’s an understatement btw. ⁣
Count those two together and you understand this very real concern I had. ⁣
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ps: A thought experiment. ⁣
F.E.A.R. has two meanings. Face Everything And Rise. Forget Everything And Run. ⁣
Pick the one which applies to you the most. Then stretch your choice of attitude on whatever situation you picked to ten years later. ⁣
Where are you now? Is it where you wanted to be? Was it worth it? ⁣
If any answer was no, what would you’ve done differently?

Update-upgrade - Laying Groundwork. Part I 🖤🐆✨

For starters, why have I still not moved to Costa Rica?

Easy. Because of health challenges.
No surprises here, just stuff that I knew all along and never bothered to take serious enough.
That’s the honest raw truth here.

My beautiful body? A mere after-thought for all those years.
It’s simply what happens when you live in disconnect from your body.

I mourned. A lot. Deeply. For a long time. Probably months.
I mourned the practical decision not to go ahead and go with the flow in the jungle.
I also mourned something else.

I could feel it.
I was changing, again.
I transformed right before my eyes, again.

From rather spontaneously reckless to fully grounded.
“Grounded in presence.”
“Deeply nourished.”
These became my main intentions.
Two pillars to build upon, solidly so.

Pillars.
Foundations.
Laying groundwork.

When I stopped grieving, I decided something.
A promise, really.
A very very grounded one.
If I was to stay here still, I would make it worth my stay!

It.
The period. The experience.
The quality of who I knew myself to be.

Whew. Big words.

As always?
I would up-level the s**t out of myself.

Do what I always do, only more grounded and deeper nourished this time.

Admittedly, that did shake me.
That did challenge me.

However,
I’m not one to turn down a great solid challenge.
Too much fire in my mars placement.
The promise of wild.

ps: Intentions are the shapers of your coming season. Choose yours wisely.
Care to share? Go ahead, I’m curious what you’re up to next.

What I learned about selling my once next-level dream house, part I 🙃😎

Conclusion no1. For me, it was a big move following Heart.

Here’s the thing about making big moves.
It stretches you. It stretches you so far out that you won’t ever be the person you knew yourself to be before.

And that gets to be exciting.
And that also gets to be scary.
Both at the same time.

The question is not what makes you feel the most comfortable?
Even though human nature will have you search for it, again and again. 😙

The real question is:
How good exactly are you in HOLDING BOTH?

Because there’s gold to be found in both of them! They áre both GOLD, just in another form of expression!

They are also both part of you, so please for the love of yourself.
Own them. Own them both.

Because holding space for both excitement and fear starts with owning them.

So, find the courage to call on your inner strength to do so.
And then keep doing so.

True inner strength btw does not engage in power struggle.
It emanates from you, so deeply! So strongly! So solidly!

And you got it in you as well. So, I’m asking you to remember it.

Because you are that beautiful badass! And you know it!

In case you needed the reminder.

Feel free to own it below with the statement “I get to be that beautiful badass. And I fully own it.”

Also, I started working on my own book! My long-standing promise to my fellow adoptees.
A decision that feels incredibly right and super solid.
Thought I shared with you my own beautiful badass project of the moment. ✍️✍️📙😌

Feel free to share with me what’s yours!

Cheering you forever on, and on and on and on,
Suki! 🌅🌅✨✨✨✨

ps: Here’s how you can work with me currently. Both of them are 1:1. A session or a mentorship trajectory. Feel free to DM for more info! 💌

Fulfilment - No compromise!

For years and years and years - it feels like entire lifetimes even - I have been busy busy busy.
A typical Ms. Working Bee. Priding myself on all the work I had on my hands. All the projects I had going on.
Observations while growing up showed me clearly that hard work, blood and tears was the thing to be most praised!
So as the good daughter I was, I naturally followed suit.

I tried. I really really tried. I tried so hard, that eventually my entire identity got swallowed whole by the entire busy busy busy. (Because that’s what success is supposed to look like, right?)
I even got addicted to more more more. I’m not joking. I can’t even tell you how much investments I made in expanding my knowledge.
All because I used to have trouble with learning. And so the ones who I admired the most, were the ones who of course were the exact opposite of me.
Then again, I remember as a small child already making long lists of desired accomplishments.
Also, my astrological blueprint just breathes that whole vibe.
It’s a strong vibe indeed! Full of vigour, I can tell you that!

Back to my addiction. So, I just kept on buying buying buying all the supposedly good stuff.
And each and every time I did so, I kept myself stuck, imprisoned so it felt, in the never-ending loop of overwhelm.
Overwhelm became my biggest companion. And new blueprint to live from.

Somehow, I picked it up. Busy busy busy go perfectly hand in hand with overwhelm, you see.
I completely disregarded my truest wishes. The pure ones, coming from heart.
I kept half-assing stuff. Pretty sure this simple act turned me into a half-ass human! Completely giving into the compulsive needs of my inner mini.
It felt as if I kept failing stuff, because I would never give myself that much needed and equally as much beloved pause.

No noise. No.
Just. the. m**o. pause.
Al f**king final.

I realised I kept treating myself like I’m a never-ending machine.
With no respect towards myself. Let alone reverence or self-care.
And yet, through all of these highly totally unsupportive habits, I did manage to develop and nurture an extremely strong bond with heart.

And one good silly time. I got a vision.
I saw a jungle. And a beach.
I can’t even transmit to you the vibe that that place exuded for me.
What it did to me and my tired mind and fatigued body.

All I knew?
With 100% certainty?
I. have. to. go. there.
I. just. have. to.

And now, almost a year later.
The journey has continued.
I have sold the house that once was my next-level dream home.

I call it my selfish chapter.
The one where I got to live for myself with myself by myself.
Where I got to be honest with myself, more and more.

Honesty by the way can be perceived as a dangerous thing for your puppet masters and inner mini’s!
It takes a solid footing within.
I learned to massively solidify my inner standing with self.

The question “What do I truly want?” probably is the most expansive one ever.
It’s also the one sure to throw you in the field and dimensions of thrive and prosper!

But don’t get hasty now.
The question “What do I truly need right now?” is the one that provides me with that solid footing within.
It’s the one that answers to the state of survive.

I used to think it was one or the other.
The biggest key insight in this whole moving out journey, both literally and symbolically?
It’s not! It’s both of them!

Having your needs met and fulfilled is what appeases your inner mini’s (the needs are coming from them) and puppet masters.
Your wants, wishes and desires (for the love of yourself, make them big, bold, bright, with an electric zing in your system!), they come from your heart, your higher self, your higher consciousness. And they are the ones that breathe trust and faith.

So, no. It’s not or-or.
It’s and-and!
And it gets to be and-and for you as well!
If you let it, if you are courageous enough to start focusing on both of those areas!

That, fellow badass! is how you get to hold the frequency!
And more importantly (and so much more fun) how the frequency gets to hold you!

Once again, it’s and-and!
No compromise!
It’s a cooperation, a working together, a union!
it’s not a fight, nor a struggle!

You don’t waver nearly as much when you satisfy both, because the reason to get in your own way has been swiped away.

Delightful!

That’s how you get to make badass moves that no matter how much you try to wrap your tiny head around it,
it just doesn’t make sense. And still keep the faith!
By answering to both.
Both of your needs and wishes.

Honestly, I have way more key insights from this whole moving journey.
But I really want this one to land with you!
I want you to hold still. Own that pause for yourself and really reflect on it.

And better yet, APPLY it on your own needs and desires!

The wisdom always comes forth from the application of insights!
Otherwiss, it’s just some fancy whirling stuff in your brain.
That very quickly becomes all misty and woozy.
While it could become your next golden step to walk on!

What was that now?
An intention, you said?
A badass intention even?

Excellent! Why didn’t you get going with it?

The answer is to be found above!
Massive wink! (Because I’m feeling playful!)

Celebrating your potential
and your badass tiny actions!

May they flow. May they glow.
May they move your forward and upwards.
May they massively expand and excite you!
May they honour your true gifts!

So, tell me. What is your take away on this?
And how does it look for you in action?

ps: It’s good to be back 😉🙃🤩🥳🥳🥳🥳☺️☺️😊🌅🌅✨✨✨✨🙏🙇🏻‍♀️🙌

ps: If you want personal insights and guidance on this, so you can keep moving again, guess what! I’m available again for 1:1 sessions. DM for more info!