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15/06/2024

When a woman feels fed up and gives up in a relationship, it can be a sign that she has reached a point of emotional exhaustion and feels that her efforts to maintain the relationship are no longer valued or appreciated.

When a woman reaches this stage, it often indicates that she has been trying for a long time to communicate her needs and desires, but feels unheard and disregarded.

When a woman feels overwhelmed and decides to step away, it's usually because the emotional toll has become too great, and she can no longer bear the strain on her heart and mind.

When a woman gives up, it signifies that she has lost hope that things will change and that her attempts to bridge the gap have been in vain.

When a woman feels taken for granted, it can erode her self-esteem and self-worth, leading her to believe that she deserves better than the neglect and indifference she has experienced.

When a woman decides to leave, it’s often a protective measure for her mental and emotional well-being, prioritizing her own health over a relationship that no longer brings her joy or fulfillment.

When a woman withdraws from a relationship, it can also be a wake-up call for her partner to reflect on their actions and the dynamics that led to this breaking point.

When a woman feels unappreciated, the cumulative effect of small dismissals and lack of recognition can build up, pushing her to a point where she no longer feels invested in staying.

When a woman walks away, it’s often because she has exhausted all other avenues and sees no other option for reclaiming her sense of peace and happiness.

When a woman feels unsupported, the emotional burden of carrying the relationship alone can become too heavy, leading her to seek relief and solace outside the partnership.

- Abhikesh

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12/01/2024

Why Did My Loved One Have To Die?

“Why did it have to happen? Why to her? Why to him? Why to you? Why now? Why?” Your heart needs to be free to grapple with these questions. I take the questions of my heart seriously, including ‘Why?”

What I've discovered is “Why?” often has no answers, yet our wounded hearts must still ask the question. Maybe there's no answer to “Why?” and maybe there's not supposed to be an answer.

I no longer ask why I lost my spouse. Instead I ask, “Why not?”

I believe that things happen to everybody, so why do we have to blame anybody? Blame won’t bring my spouse back. However, there are cases where people do need to be held accountable for their actions, like in the case of abuse or murder. Even when justice is said to be served, it does little to change the grief that we feel. It may help us to move forward into a different phase of grief, but we may look back from time to time searching the horizon for “Why?”

Here's something I researched extensively, “Every 10 out of 10 people die of death.” (I admit, I was joking, I didn’t need to research that, it’s just a fact of life.)

But the best answer I could find is that bad things happen for the same reason anything happens. There's a randomness to life.

I read Harold Kushner’s book, “When Bad Things Happen to Good People” to try to find a way to answer the question “Why?” and here was the best thing I could find that he said, “Let me suggest that the bad things that happen to us in our lives don’t have a meaning when they happen to us. But we can redeem these tragedies from senselessness by imposing meaning on them. A better question would be “Now that this bad thing has happened to me, what am I going to do about it?”

I agree with Mr. Kushner that we can’t change what happened, so all we can do is make the decision of how we’re going to respond to it.

This was one really bad thing that happened to us, but it doesn’t have to define who we are going forward. There are still good things up ahead, and if we have the courage to keep walking, we'll discover the journey was worth it.

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