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I don't fit into any stereotypes. And I like myself that way.
You are the only person on earth who can use your ability. It's an awesome responsibility.
Challenge and adversity are meant to help you know who you are. Storms hit your weakness, but unlock your true strength.
In a constantly changing world full of uncertainties, it's important to remember that you possess unique abilities that no one else has.
This uniqueness is not just a gift; it's a profound responsibility.
Your talents, perspectives, and experiences are uniquely yours, and they equip you to make a difference in ways others cannot.
Take hold of this responsibility with confidence and courage. Believe in your potential to inspire, create, and lead.
Every step you take and every effort you make contributes to a more significant impact.
Recognizing your unique role allows you to navigate challenges resiliently and turn obstacles into opportunities.
Trust in your abilities and the positive change you can bring to the world.
Remember, your contributions matter, and your journey is an irreplaceable part of the collective human experience.
You're Pretty Special… All the best …

Understanding the Difference:
Sympathy, Empathy, & Compassion.

Leaders now face the crucial task of supporting their teams through ongoing uncertainties, and it’s essential for them to grasp the subtle but significant differences between sympathy, empathy, and compassion.

• Sympathy: "I feel for you."
It's an emotional acknowledgment of another's hardship.

• Empathy: "I feel with you."
It involves deeply understanding and sharing the feelings of another.

• Compassion: "I am here to help."
This transcends feeling to actively intending to help others.

Compassionate leadership not only recognizes and understands what others are going through but also takes actionable steps to support and assist them.

Let's aim to lead with compassion, fostering a supportive and proactive environment for our teams. ♥️



Adapted from "Connect with Empathy, But Lead with Compassion," - Harvard Business Review

Silent and safe — silence never betrays you;
Be true to your word, your work & your friend;
Put least trust in him who is foremost to praise you,
Nor judge of a road till it draw to the end.

Can I help u be FEARLESS OR BRAVE

Fear is a habit; so is self-pity, defeat, anxiety, despair, hopelessness and resignation. You can eliminate all of these negative habits with two simple resolves: I can and I will!!

How To Eliminate Negative Habits

To eliminate negative habits like fear, self-pity, defeat, anxiety, despair, hopelessness, and resignation, consider these four practical steps:

• Use Positive Affirmations: Start your day by saying phrases like "I can" and "I will." Repeating these positive affirmations helps you believe in yourself and reduces negative thinking. Over time, this simple practice can boost your confidence and motivation.

• Practice Mindfulness: Spend a few minutes daily focusing on breathing or meditating. Mindfulness helps you stay in the present moment, reducing anxiety and stress. It clears your mind, making it easier to handle challenges calmly and effectively.

• Set Smaller Goals: Break your big goals into smaller, achievable steps. Celebrate each small success along the way. This approach makes goals more manageable and builds a sense of accomplishment, helping you stay positive and determined.

• Surround Yourself with Positive People: Spend time with friends and family who support and encourage you. Positive relationships uplift your spirits and inspire you to keep pushing forward. The right company can make a big difference in overcoming negative habits.

Following these steps can help you replace negative habits with positive ones and build a stronger, more optimistic mindset.

Remember, with the resolve "I can" and "I will," you have the power to change your habits and improve your life.

Establish Credibility

Credibility is key to influence. Demonstrate expertise, integrity, and consistency to gain trust. Share relevant experiences and achievements to establish yourself as a credible authority.

Understand Motivations

Listen actively and empathize to understand others' motivations. Tailor your message to align with their values and goals, increasing receptivity and influence.

Likability

Build rapport by being genuine, approachable, and showing genuine interest. Positive interactions foster likability and trust, enhancing your influence.

Framing

Present information in a way that shapes perception and decision-making. Use persuasive language and compelling stories to guide interpretation in your favor.

Mastering Influence: Persuasion Techniques

Utilize reciprocity, scarcity, authority, consistency, liking, and consensus to enhance persuasion. Adapt your approach based on audience preferences and refine your strategies through practice and feedback.

Somewhere in Kargil !

The picture reminds us that ,

there is someone Supreme ,
a supernatural force ,
Someone who defines our existence .

And no matter where you are ,
You feel His presence .

Such a beautiful moment captured by our brothers from Indian Army 🇮🇳

I'm excited to share something that might just change the way we think and speak in our everyday lives. The 21-Day No-Complaint Experiment is a challenge that's gained popularity thanks to Tim Ferriss and Will Bowen. The goal? To spend 21 consecutive days without complaining, criticizing, or gossiping. If you slip up, you start over from day one.
Why take on this challenge? It's not just about holding back negative words but transforming how we perceive and react to the world around us. This experiment encourages us to focus on solutions rather than problems, to foster positivity in ourselves and our environments, and to cultivate a habit of gratitude and constructive communication.
Imagine the impact on our mood and mindset if we reduce the negativity in our daily conversations. Plus, it's a fantastic way to boost our personal and professional relationships.
Are you ready to join me in this transformative journey? Let's take the challenge and see the difference it can make in our lives. Your view is welcome …

Day 1 completed 20 days to go…

For everything in this journey of life we are on, there is a right wing and a left wing: for the wing of love there is anger; for the wing of destiny there is fear; for the wing of pain there is healing; for the wing of hurt there is forgiveness; for the wing of pride there is humility; for the wing of giving there is taking; for the wing of tears there is joy; for the wing of rejection there is acceptance; for the wing of judgment there is grace; for the wing of honor there is shame; for the wing of letting go there is the wing of keeping. We can only fly with two wings and two wings can only stay in the air if there is a balance. Two beautiful wings is perfection. There is a generation of people who idealize perfection as the existence of only one of these wings every time. But I see that a bird with one wing is imperfect. An angel with one wing is imperfect. A butterfly with one wing is dead. So this generation of people strive to always cut off the other wing in the hopes of embodying their ideal of perfection, and in doing so, have created a crippled race.

Thank you Sanky and Utsy for being my two wings...

I began to realize how important it was to be an enthusiast in life. Life taught me that if you are interested in something, no matter what it is, go at it at full speed ahead. Embrace it with both arms, hug it, love it and above all become passionate about it. Lukewarm is no good. Hot is no good either. White hot and passionate is the only thing to be.




Thank u and Tanvi Modak

If you want to buy things without looking at the price, you need to be willing to work without looking at the clock.
Thank you Team Tusya Travels and Hospitality services


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What Can Resilience Teach Us?

Resiliency is the art of learning to repeatedly refuse to do anything else other than rise again after ANY and ALL set-backs!
The above quote beautifully encapsulates resilience - the art of bouncing back from life's curve balls. It's about enduring tough times and nurturing a spirit that refuses to bow down to defeat.

Each setback becomes a stepping stone, teaching us to rise stronger and wiser.

With resilience, we gain the power to confront obstacles head-on, armed with confidence and creativity.

We learn to embrace challenges as opportunities for growth, make discoveries from missteps and face the future with unwavering optimism.

As a result, we not only weather storms but emerge from them as stronger, more empowered individuals, ready to tackle whatever life throws our way.

So throw your fear aside and jump back in; ready to live the life you imagined!

Lovely to work with the dynamic team of MUFG Bank .....

It's worth making time to find the things that really stir your soul. That’s what makes you really feel alive. You have to say ‘no’ to other things you’re used to, and do it with all your heart.

Dreams don't work unless you take action. The surest way to make your dreams come true is to live them.
People tell me u are an Engineer, MBA, Six Sigma Green Belt and I'm like "I am a cyclist, a mountaineer. (PERIOD)"

Who's in for the next edition of Wada Duathlon ...

If the Path is Beautiful, first Confirm where it Leads To.
But
If the Destination is Beautiful, then Don't Bother about How the Path is.
But
For us both the destination & path both r BEAUTIFUL
Cheers to

As long as there is Bhakti,
there shall be Agni...
Agni Suktam - Brighter than a
million candles 🚩
What is Agni Suktam and His Powers?
The Colour of divine "Agni" makes shine like a vibrant star!!
Ruler of sacrifices,
Guard of Law eternal,
Radiant One
I glorify agni, the high priest of sacrifice, the divine, the ministrant, who is the offerer and possessed great Wealth of physical, mental and spiritual plane....
Near your presence, O Agni, day-after-day, with our Intelligence clouded in darkness..
We come, and offer you Reverential Salutations (so that our Intelligence gets Illumined).
The bright (Sacrificial Fire of the) Yagyas, the Protector of the Rita (Divine Truth) are shining and increasing the Illumination within our own Houses (i.e. within our own Hearts)...
अग्नि सुक्तम् - अग्निमीळे पुरोहितं
यज्ञस्य देवमृत्विजम् 🔥🙏🚩
Ganga Aarti, Haridwar
Uttarakhand

Dm for credit of the pics...

How to Hack Your 4 Happy Hormones.

These are a combination of actions that will make you live soulfully, happily, productively, and successfully, ever after.

NEED HELP - FROM THOSE WHO PLAY OR UNDERSTAND LEGO

MODEL - BUGATTI CHIRON 42083 TECHNIC LEGO
we are stuck on step no 464
Can anyone help




Please share if u know someone who can help

Accept yourself & Let your incredible self shine !!!

The first step towards change is acceptance. Once you accept yourself, you open the door to change. That's all you have to do. Change is not something you do, it's something you allow. These words from Will Garcia beautifully emphasize the importance of accepting oneself, including our flaws.

As we go through each day, we naturally change a little bit in how we think, speak, or act. But what if you're looking to change your life or parts of it even more? It can be overwhelming and confusing to know where to start.

The answer lies in the first step: accepting yourself entirely. This opens the door to transformation. It's not about forcing yourself to change or trying to be someone else. Instead, it's about giving yourself the freedom to grow and evolve naturally.

So, instead of pushing for change, allow it to happen organically. Trust yourself, as everything you need is already inside you. Remember, it's time to let your incredible self shine! You deserve it! and by Team Tusya Travels and Hospitality Services

This one is for my soldiers... Remembering u all...

Swing hard, in case they throw the ball where you're swinging.

The above quote emphasizes the importance of being open to uncertainty and taking advantage of opportunities that come your way. Like a baseball player anticipating the pitcher's move, you must be prepared to tackle challenges head-on, regardless of where they originate.

By adopting a proactive mindset and remaining open to the unexpected, you empower yourself to thrive amidst ambiguity and emerge stronger and more resilient in the face of adversity.

Approach your work with determination and perseverance. By taking decisive action and embracing uncertainty, you can effectively navigate the complexities of your career and make the most of unexpected opportunities.

So, swing hard, stay agile, and let your proactive approach propel you toward success in all your endeavors.

The transformative power of persuasion - Tailor your message, establish trust, captivate with compelling narratives, strengthen connections, and foster collaboration with mutually beneficial outcomes. Elevate your communication game and watch your influence soar. Ready to connect, convince, and collaborate like never before?

Key Points:

🎯 Understand Your Audience: Tailor your message to connect with their needs.
🌐 Build Credibility: Establish trust through authenticity and reliability.
📖 Effective Storytelling: Craft compelling narratives to captivate and engage.
👂 Active Listening: Strengthen connections by genuinely understanding others.
🤝 Create Win-Win-Win Solutions: Foster collaboration with mutually beneficial outcomes yes three wins
Win - one for the Customer
Win - one for the stakeholder
Win - one finally for you and it's always in this order...

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There are a few folks I actually look forward to working with when the stakes are high. Sanket & Utsav are always smiling - picture of calm under pressure. As they say, calm is contagious.

Learn from Discomfort: where growth becomes the master class of resilience and adaptability. In the midst of discomfort lies the invaluable opportunity to expand your horizons, refine your character, and unearth strengths you never knew existed.

Discomfort is not merely a hurdle; it's a teacher. Embrace the lessons it offers, for it is in the crucible of discomfort that you forge the steel of perseverance. Challenges become the curriculum, and each moment of unease is an invitation to enhance your problem-solving skills.

The art of learning from discomfort is the mastery of turning adversity into advantage. Instead of avoiding discomfort, lean into it. Let it be your guide to innovation, self-discovery, and ultimately, a more resilient version of yourself.

So, open yourself to the lessons discomfort brings. It's not a setback but a setup for growth. Learn, adapt, and let discomfort be the catalyst for your continuous evolution.

Relationship Between Mahadev
and his Son Ganesh :

Both Shiv and Ganesh are OM...

is OM in its transcendent unmanifest nature. Sri Ganesha is OM as the source of all manifestation.

That is why Ganesha is Shiva's son, holds all wisdom and rules over all Karmas..

Ganesha is the unity of Shiva and Shakti, holding the highest awareness of while displaying all the power of ..

Shiva is Pashupati, While Ganapati is the foremost of the Animal's...

Ganesha is an allegory
for Ganesha Granthi.

He's the Doorkeeper between Kundalini Shakti in Mooladhara Chakra and Purusha Shiva in the Sahasrara Chakra.

This is about Moksha. Without his BLESSINGS, it's not possible...🙏🕉️🚩

" ॐ श्री गणेशाय नमः " 🚩🕉️

Will It Be Courage or Comfort?

I want to be in the arena. I want to be brave with my life. And when we make the choice to dare greatly, we sign up to get our asses kicked. We can choose courage or we can choose comfort, but we can't have both. Not at the same time.

Life beckons as a thrilling arena, eager for our courageous strides.

Embracing bravery means bracing for the occasional stumble, yet within those falls lie our greatest lessons.

While we can't grasp courage and comfort simultaneously, we hold the reins to alternate between them.

In this delicate dance, we find equilibrium, weaving through life's challenges with resilience and embracing moments of solace along the way.

Just Keep Moving Forward: a simple mantra with profound implications for resilience and progress. In the journey of life, obstacles may arise, challenges may seem insurmountable, but the key is to persist, to keep taking steps, no matter how small.

Forward motion is the antidote to stagnation. Even when the path is unclear, the act of moving itself brings clarity. Each step is a testament to your courage, a commitment to growth, and a refusal to be tethered by the setbacks of the past.

So, in moments of uncertainty, just keep moving forward. It's not always about speed; it's about the direction. Embrace the journey, savor the lessons, and let the momentum of progress be your guiding light. With each step, you're not just moving; you're forging a path toward a brighter, more resilient future...

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BIRTH OF VANDE MATARAM

Did you know a brawl in the cricket field was the genesis of Vande Mataram? About 145 years ago a tiff erupted at the Barrack Square (now Square Field) in Berhampore playground that led Bankim Chandra Chattopadhyay to compose this patriotic song on retaliation, which is the part of his epic novel Anandamath.
Bankim babu might not have penned ‘Vande Matram’, had he not been assaulted by the British Colonel in the cricket field.
Way back in 1873, under the leadership of Colonel Duffin, who was the Commanding Officer at Berhampore Cantonment, a cricket match was being played among the British soldiers at the Square Field. It was an evening of December 15, when Bankim Chandra Chattopadhyay, the Deputy Collector of Murshidabad District, posted at Berhampore, was going back home on a palanquin. He was unaware of the fact that the palanquin bearers would go across the Square Field instead of road. This obstructed their game that became the cause of confrontation.
Col. Duffin, in the fit of rage, stopped the palanquin, pulled Bankim babu down from it and volleyed four-five punches on him. The on-field brawl left Bankim babu extremely insulted. Since the unpleasant incident happened in front of some reputed spectators of that time, which included Principal Robert Hand, Reverend Barlow, Judge Benbridge, Raja Jogindra Narayan Roy of Lalgola, Durgacharan Bhattacharya, some British officers and few natives, who were all witnessing the match of cricket.
The humiliation staked Bankim babu’s reputation as he was the serving Deputy Collector. The next day, on December 16, 1873, he filed a lawsuit against Col. Duffin at Mr Winter’s court, who was the District Magistrate of Murshidabad. The Magistrate soon called upon all eyewitnesses for testimony.
Most of the eyewitnesses denied the clash while Principal Robert Hand admitted the confrontation. Raja Jogindra Narayan Roy and Durgacharan Bhattacharya favoured Bankim babu, however, Judge Benbridge contradicted his testimonial, stating that his poor eyesight barred the view. Moreover, all the legal representatives of Murshidabad supported Bankim, while Col. Duffin had to hire a lawyer from Krishnanagore, Nadia to defend him. Meanwhile, the court passed the next hearing date on January 12, 1874.

The scene at the District Magistrate court on January 12th morning was stupefied. In an open court about thousands of curious impatient onlookers, including the natives and the Europeans gathered to observe the verdict. They noticed that Judge Benbridge appeared first in the court and requested the Magistrate – “Mr Winter! Will you mind coming to the chamber.”
Few minutes later, Col Duffin and Bankim Chandra were summoned at Judge Benbridge’s chamber, where Bankim babu was solicited to withdraw the case. He refused. The request was once again placed. On this occasion, Bankim babu agreed, but with a condition. He sought an apology from Col Duffin in front of the open court, which Col. Duffin agreed.
According to the new research (reference – Murshidabad Anusandan, International Series of Book Number – 978-81-936491-1-4) compiled by Suman Kumar Mitra of Lalgola Bankim Smriti Charcha Samity revealed that a noted Bengali writer Hemandranath Dasgupta interviewed some of the eyewitness present at the court, who narrated that whenever Col Duffin folded his hands for apology, all the native youths present in courtroom began clapping, laughing and shouting ‘‘Ho-Ho” slogan. Dasgupta even mentioned that it would have been further mess had ‘Vande Mataram’ been composed by this period.
A report was also published in the Amrita Bazar Patrika on January 15, 1874, which read, “It appeared that Colonel and Babu Bankim were perfect strangers to each other and he did not know who he was when affronted him. On being informed afterwards of the position of the Babu, Col Duffin expressed this contrition and desire to apology. The apology was made in due form in open court where about the 1000 spectators native and Europeans were assembled.”
The courtroom’s incident further infuriated Col Duffin along with other Europeans. They plotted to eliminate Bankim Chandra clandestinely. Meanwhile, Raja Jogindra Narayan Roy got the tip-off and in bid to save him, he invited Bankim babu to Lalgola.
Since the on-field brawl had deeply impacted on his psyche, which followed by the nuisance at court proceedings and finally the threat of life. He accepted king’s invitation and left for Lalgola somewhere in January 1874, the study said. Although his service record stated that he was on leave for three months between February 3 and May 2, 1874, yet he left Berhampore much before his holiday was approved.

At Lalgola, he stayed in a Guest House surrounded by several Hindu temples. After having glimpse of Jagadhatri, Durga and Kali – the three forms of Goddess, he was inclined towards spirituality, but his frustrations refused to die. He kept on pondering over to connect Bengal with the rest of India against the British atrocities with one ‘mantra’.
Finally the day arrived. It was the night of ‘Maghi Purnima’ (full moon) on January 31, 1874 at Lalgola, Bankim Chandra Chattopadhyay coined the 12-letter words – ‘Vande Matarm’ – the mantra has had enough fuel to boil the blood of the natives as well as the British.
Till his vacation was over he stayed at Lalgola and never returned to Berhampore, instead he went to Malda and later he took his transfer to Howrah district. Meanwhile, a fraction of Anandmath was first published in the Bangadarshan Patrika (Vol 7) in 1881, but his epic novel Anandamath was published in April 1882.
Immediately after the publication, the British started putting him under mental torture, pressured him to change the substance from the novel. Eventually, Bankim babu could not stand the stress and he was compelled to take the voluntary retirement in 1885-86.
Even after 145-year, the national song still boils the blood for the love of our nation – ‘Vande Mataram’!

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