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TODAY’S TEACHING…

TOPIC…

NEVER BEG FOR LOVE!!!

It is dangerous to force yourself on someone or marry someone who does not love you.There are people who will never love you no matter how much you show love to them. That's the reality of life. Love is a choice. Don't force yourself on anyone.

Don't keep fighting to be with someone who isn’t fighting to be with you, you can’t keep holding onto someone who is not holding onto you, you can’t keep planning your future with someone who doesn’t plan theirs with you, you can’t keep running back to someone who is running away from you, you can’t keep loving and caring about someone who shows that they no longer love you, and you can’t keep taking someone as a priority yet they are taking you as their option.

Trust me it’s a waste of time and energy. No matter how hard and hurting it is, you have to let go and open up a new chapter for your life. Because There are thousand of people who are praying and wishing to spend the rest of their lives with you! Why kill yourself over someone who thinks he/she is doing you a big favor by being in a relationship with you.

You deserve to be happy, loved and cared for not to be sad all the time, to have sleepless nights, to cry and plead for someone’s love. Think about it.

You have to be in a relationship in which you are loved, celebrated, honored and not tolerated. But until you let go of the wrong person from your life, you can't see the right person for your life.

Dear, if your partner does not reciprocate your love during courtship, you have to reconsider your decision!

May We Not Fall In Love And Fall Into Trouble..

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TOPIC…

NO PERFECT PARTNER OR RELATIONSHIP…

■Don't be too fast to quit your relationship because you see some bad behaviors in your partner; the truth is that we all are humans. No human is perfect and there is no humanbeing that does not have one or two comas.

■When you observe some characters you don't like in your partner, do not quit the relationship instantly, rather, correct him or her; counsel him or her. Do not expect your partner to change immediately after you corrected him or her.

■Give him or her some time to change gradually; change is a slow process. Be patient. This is the mistake that many people make. When they notice an ugly behavior in their partner, they quit the relationship.

■It is very wrong. It doesn't show maturity. Mature people don't quit relationships like that; they give their partners time to change gradually and then tolerate each other.

■If you keep on searching for a perfect person to marry, then you will keep searching forever and end up growing old without getting married; this is because a perfect person does not exist; a person that has all the qualities you want does not exist at all.

■All you need to do is to correct your partner. However your manner of approach when correcting your partner matters a lot.

■Do not correct him or her with a harsh voice or tone; correction should be done wisely with a soft tone without hurting your partner. Correct them with love.
■Remember: the devil you know is better than the Angel you don't know.

THEREFORE, LET US KEEP TOLERATING EACH OTHER JUST AS GOD HAS BEEN
TOLERATING US, SO IF YOU KNOW THAT YOU ARE PERFECT YOU MAY CAST THE FIRST STONE.

TODAY’S TEACHING..

TOPIC….

WHAT ARE THE CAUSES OF NEGATIVE CHANGE IN A RELATIONSHIP AND MARRIAGE….

SUDDEN CHANGE OF ATTITUDE FROM A LOVED ONE CAN BE DEVASTATED PHYSICALLY AND EMOTIONALLY,IMAGINE AFTER THE SWEET TIMES TOGETHER AND ALL OF A SUDDEN THE OTHER PARTNER NOW LOOKS LIKE A MONSTER…

(1)***DISSATISFACTION***

WHEN A MAN OR A WOMAN STOPS SEEING OR OBSERVING THE QUALITIES THAT ATTRACTED THEM TO YOU AT FIRST….WHAT DO YOU THINK WILL HAPPEN?

(2)***FRIENDS (BAD FRIENDS)***

FOLLOWING BAD FRIENDS IS ONE OF THE HIGHEST THINGS THAT CAN MAKE A MAN OR A WOMAN CHANGE IN A RELATIONSHIP OR MARRIAGE

HE OR SHE WILL LEARN BAD THINGS FROM THEM AND THEY WILL BE FED WITH WRONG ADVISES….***(EVIL COMMUNICATION CORRUPT GOOD MANNERS***)
SHOW ME YOUR FRIEND AND I WILL SHOW YOU WHO YOU ARE…

MEN AND WOMEN CAN BE INFLUENCED BY THE THOUGHTS,ACTIONS,AND BEHAVIORS OF THEIR FELLOW FRIENDS…..WHEN THEY GO OUT WITH THE WRONG TYPE…

(3)***FINANCIAL STRUGGLES ***

FINANCIAL STRUGGLES CAN ALSO CAUSE A MAN OR A WOMAN TO CHANGE IN A RELATIONSHIP AND MARRIAGE…THAT IS WHY YOU NEED TO ENCOURAGE AND MOTIVATE EACH OTHER….

(4)***WHEN HE OR SHE START SEEING SOMEONE OUTSIDE ***

WHEN A MAN OR A WOMAN START SEEING SOMEONE OUTSIDE THEIR MAIN RELATIONSHIP,THERE INTEREST WILL GO DOWN…AND THEY WILL START CHANGING (MISBEHAVING,)

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8…Mutual respect

You may not agree with everything your partner says or does but it’s important to treat them with respect. By saying something like “I don’t necessarily agree with you, but I respect your opinion,” you are signaling to your partner that your relationship is secure enough for each of you to have your own individual experiences through life.

9…Friendship

Being in a long-term relationship shouldn’t always feel like work, it should also feel fun! Making time to hang out with your partner, like you would your friend, will help keep your bond strong. Creating new memories together will breathe fresh life into your relationship.

Being in a relationship is a two-way street. Both people need to be willing to put in the work for the relationship to be successful.

TODAY’S TEACHING…

TOPIC…

Goals for a Happy and Fulfilled Relationship

1.. Embrace imperfection
It is important to remember that no relationship is perfect. You are not perfect, and your partner is not perfect, you are both two imperfect people who love each other and have chosen to do life together. Try not to compare your relationship to anyone else’s and be more realistic with your own imperfections and those of your partner.

2. Understand each other
Everyone has different relationship goals and ways they like to express and receive love. It can be helpful to understand your love language and your partner’s love language in order for the two of you to better understand and support each other.

3…Improve communication
Everyone comes into a romantic relationship with a different upbringing, worldview, strengths, and weaknesses. Don’t assume you know how your partner feels about a certain topic, ask them! Talk and talk,discuss everything

5…Emotional management
Your partner is not a mind reader. It’s up to each individual to express their needs clearly to the other person. For example, if your partner said something that upset you, instead of giving them the silent treatment, blowing up, or name-calling, simply state: “That hurt my feelings.”

6….Make each other a priority
Especially as time goes on, it’s important to remember to make each other a priority. With our busy lives and packed schedules, it’s easy to put your long-term relationship on the back burner. However, shared goals should always include consistent love and attention. Putting in the effort is essential to a healthy long-term relationship.

7…Weather the storm together
The true test of a strong relationship is if you can be there for each other when life is difficult. If your partner is going through a hard time, focus on how you can best support them. If you are the one working through something, make sure you communicate your needs.

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TODAY TEACHING TOPIC

THE CHARACTER OF A MATURE PARTNER IN A RELATIONSHIP/MARRIAGE..

(1)You always listen to your partner before making your own point during arguments..

(2)No matter how you are angry or upset,you always respect your partner’s point of view..

(3)You own up your own mistakes when you do something wrong and you apologize for it..

(4) You don’t allow your anger or emotions to control you during arguments or quarrel…

(5) You speak politely and calmly to your partner even if you are angry or mad with them..

(6) You will never by anyway fight or quarrel with your partner in the public rather you resolve things privately…

(7)You understand your partner’s weaknesses and you don’t use it against them , instead you help them to overcome it..

(8) You don’t call your partner names such as idiot, stupid, fool, and hopeless being no matter how angry you are…

(9) You always resolve issues with your partner alone, and you don’t involve third party no matter the misunderstandings…

(10) You are always there for your partner and you take absolute care of them…They are your priority…

(11)You always express your feelings in a polite and respectful way,

(12)You don’t allow anyone to come in between you and your partner,You are always there to defend them and correct them politely when you are alone with them…

(13) You keep your partner’s secrets and you don’t share it with anyone without his or her approval..

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WHEN MARRIAGE IS A MISTAKE CONTINUE 🤗

Your marriage is as *good* or as *sweet* as you make it. Some couples, because of the *negative things* they are seeing in their marriage, accuse each other of being responsible. They point accusing fingers at each other for being responsible. Some even say many bad things about their spouse, even *calling him or her names;* some think that marrying that man or that woman was a mistake.

*It is not so, your marriage was not a mistake,* *but you are the mistake.*

Your *habit* is the mistake

Your *character* is the mistake

Your *manner, anger, unforgiveness, laziness, lack of love, lack of affection, lack of attention, impatience, bitterness, selfishness, ignorance, stinginess, not being considerate, infidelity and lovelessness are the mistakes.*

*Talking about Bitterness.*

Some still dream of a marriage with their ex seeing your spouse as a stumbling block. *Wake up* and smell the coffee. Be *content* with your spouse. That *behavior* is your mistake.

So *get up now* and *build your marriage* because it is not a mistake.

*Divorce or separation* are never options unless it is life threatening..

TODAY’S TEACHING…

TOPIC…

*WHEN MARRIAGE IS A MISTAKE.*

Most times when a *marriage is in trouble* , people tend to see their Marriage as a *mistake* rather than seeing the *mistakes they are making* in their marriage. At this point they *regret marrying their wife or husband, begin to think of a new partner, imagine marrying their ex .*

Some even divorce or remarry and later wish they had *remained* with their first Spouse, as they find greater trouble in the new spouse. This is because *the first marriage was not a mistake,* and the mistake has not been *discovered yet.*

So you can remarry as many times as you like, you will still experience problems in marriage until *you discover the mistakes you are making in your marriage and correct them.*

So divorce or separation is not a solution to consider when you are having problems with your marriage.

When your car has a flat tyre, you do not abandon it, but repair the tyre and move on.

When we have a headache, no matter how excruciating, we do not cut off the head but take care of the headache.

When a bulb blows out in the room we do not change the room or the house, we replace the bulb and light up the room.

When we have challenges at work, we do not refuse to go to work, we go there to solve the problems.

So when marriage has an issue, we don't have to try to change the spouse instead of changing the *attitude* that is creating the problem.

Most times when we see some couples enjoying their marriages and enjoying each other to the fullest, we admire and cherish them, but the opposite is seen in our own marriage. The reason is that some people have worked on their marriage *by paying the necessary price* and that is why they are enjoying the fruits of their labour. It is said, “The way you make your bed is the way you will lie on it”.

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He: If you truly love me you must prove to me by allowing me get intimate with you, all men do it with their partners in their relationship if you want this relationship to work, it's up to you.

She: We've been together in the relationship for few months now, he's a good person and someone who fears the Lord but he's pestering me for sex and I'm convinced he's the one for me because he told me before we started the relationship

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TODAY’S TEACHING…

TOPIC…

RELATIONSHIP ADVICE FOR SINGLE

Let me say it again, Never abandon a good man for a stupid reason, a jobless man, and a lazy man is never the same. He may not have today and that doesn't mean he will be lacking forever.

Ladies Please Listen!!!!!
Life is hard. Not everyone is blessed with a silver spoon in his mouth,So don’t judge your man based on his financial situation. He may not have a lot of money now.

Some ladies left their man who was caring simply because he was broke, and now God has blessed him you are now regretting…If he doesn’t have money today, you don’t know tomorrow….If you can’t stand with him now,he doesn’t need you when he becomes rich…

***DON’T DATE A MAN BASED ON GIFTS OR MONEY,MANY LADIES ARE VICTIMS OF YAHOO GUYS BECAUSE OF THAT***

If he’s determined and hardworking,
He will work his way up and find a way to provide a better life for both of you.
Instead of nagging him about money,
Show him that you support and believe in him. Being poor only becomes a problem if he is lazy and unmotivated in life.Stop putting unnecessary pressure on your man,don’t push him into taking a wrong step that can put your own life in danger in future…

There’s nothing like a perfect boyfriend/Husband. Don’t call him a bad boyfriend/Husband,just because he doesn’t shower you with expensive gifts,take you on super romantic dates, or worship the ground you walk on. Every guy is different and has his own unique way of showing he loves you .
You shouldn’t compare him to other boyfriends/Husbands,especially fictional ones. Love him for who he really is,not what other people say he should be like.

Finally Men let me advice you, go out and hustle for money and gain respect as a Man,you ve a lots of responsibility ahead of you,to be a man is not by mouth,how long did you want her to take care of you, please wake up and hustle. no matter how small it may be and show her care and love..

TODAY'S TEACHINGS.....

TOPICS............

SOME BROTHERS/SISTERS WHO THINK THEY CAN DUPE AN INNOCENT BROTHER/SISTER GOD 👆IS WATCHING YOU O 🙄

Some brothers/sisters who think they can dupe an innocent brother/sister all because he/she is so caring towards you and you have no feelings for him/her, God is watching you o.

Don't forget that whatever you do for someone, it might return back to you in multiple folds.

This is the reason why some brothers/sisters end up in the hands of a man/woman who do not treat them right because they have made the wrong person their partner.

If you don't like someone, please don't play with them.

Avoid playing with someone's emotions and feelings when you do not love them, it speaks how valueless you are🤷‍♀️

TODAY’S TEACHING…

TOPIC…

They cheat on you, you forgave them, They ignore your msgs💔, you send another one.

You call 📞them,. They don't pick up. You comment on their posts, they don't reply⚡
You post them, they don't comment nor react😪. They get angry for no reason,💁, you apologize🙏.

They give empty Promise's you forgive em🙉😞. They leave you and then come back for second chance😨😤, you welcome them. They flirt in your presence😡😭, you kept quite😢.

But there will be a day🌑. That You will walk away 🚶 They will stop receiving your text📟🌸, stop receiving your calls and never ever see your comments on their posts.. 😒

🌚🌸You will never bother them again😏. Coz once a beautiful heart is broken💔. It can never be mend again👎😢😭🔒.

Respect what you have now coz once it is gone,🚶, you'll never see it again✋😭😢”

TODAY TEACHING TOPIC

IT IS WHAT YOU DO IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP & DURING YOUR COURTSHIP THAT WILL MULTIPLY AFTER MARRIAGE

It is what you do in your relationship and during your courtship that will multiply after marriage.

If you're the type that prays, fast and study together with your partner during your courtship period, marriage will multiply it for you.

If you're with a cheating and flirty partner during your relationship, be ready to deal with a cheater and fornicator in the marriage.

If you're the type who is with an unbeliever during your relationship, be ready to have issues of not allowing you to go to church and serve God.

If you're with a partner who care less about you during your relationship, be ready to beg and cry in the marriage to be cared for and loved.

If you're with a partner who only listens only to my mummy say, my daddy say, be ready to spend the rest of your life with a mummy's boy who can't make decisions as a man by himself.

No matter how in love you may be, open your eyes to see the obvious red flags that you know you won't even cope with after marriage.

Those who made decisions after seeing the red flags during their courtship and relationship but never paid attention to them are now facing problems and regretting in the marriage now.

Don't be carried away to knowing what will not make your marriage last, don't make a mistake that won't be corrected after you've tied the knot.

SAVE YOUR RELATIONSHIP

SAVE YOUR MARRIAGE.

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TODAY’S TEACHING…

TOPIC…

DEAR BROTHER & SISTER,

Ever since he/she stopped calling you, picking your calls,stopped looking for you, have you ever died?🤷 The answer is no!!! So Stop begging someone to love you. Try walking away. Life may be lonely but it will be peaceful. Remember that being alone is better than being in fake love. The truth is that some men/women can never keep a good man/woman.
And to you my brother/sister, that good guy/lady you are taking for granted and don't appreciate is another Man's/woman's dream husband/wife to be. While you see him/her as a nobody because he/she is simple and kind, another Man/Woman sees him/her as a king/queen and as the most handsome, beautiful and wonderful husband/wife to be. Better make a good choice before you start regretting your Actions.

Some men/women have missed their real man/woman in life, we don’t value what we have until we loose it….Don’t take his/her crying, caring and love as a weakness, he/she is not weak, just that he/she is sincerely in love with you and he/she is not faking it…

He/she loves you so much, he/she is ready to sacrifice everything just to make sure you are happy and yet you broke up with him/her ….. You left him/her when he/she needed you most in his/her life….***Men/Women please stop breaking your Man's/woman’s heart…***

Men/Women take note of this,once a man/woman delete you in his/her heart nothing on this earth can make them to come back to you….TREAT YOUR MAN/WOMAN WITH LOVE, men/women are the best giver….

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I love him and I know he loves me too. Even though he beats me sometimes but he takes care of me and gives me what I ask for and I know he will change when we get married.

My Reaction: Dey play, just continue dey suffer in silence. Una eyes go soon open😂

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Guys/Ladies Who Fight To Keep Men/Women Are Not Wise:3 continue 🤗

Fighting for someone’s heart or faithfuIness is a battle you will never win. In your journey through life, you need to find a man/woman with the same relationship values as yourself. Fighting to keep a man/woman in your life is senseless. It is not worth it. You deserve so much more.

If a man/woman is not matching your own efforts in making your relationship work, Ieave him/her alone. There are many men/women out there who would love you and treat you right Guys/ladies, stop with the desperation to have a man/woman at all costs.

Guys/Ladies Who Fight To Keep Men/Women Are Not Wise 2: Continue 🤗

It is your right to move on and know that you deserve better than fighting to keep someone who doesn’t want to be kept. He/she is not the only man/woman on earth. There are many fishes in the sea. Stop hurting yourself holding on to an unwilling man/woman.

One of the reasons you shouldn’t fight to keep a man/woman by your side is that he/she won’t respect you. He/she will keep chasing other men/omen and giving you the unhealthy task of fighting them on his/her behalf.

It’s not your duty to fight other men/women to leave him/her alone, that’s his/her duty to you as your man/woman. Don’t forget that. You shouldn’t be making excuses for his/her irresponsibility.

He/she is not a baby. He/she is an adult who knows good and bad. So, save your strength for productive things instead of snooping around his/her phones to track his/her latest catch that you will go and fight.

You can’t force someone to love you. You don’t have to stay in a relationship with someone who doesn’t freely love you. You are limiting yourself to a person who is not in love with you and you are wasting valuable time too.

Guys/Ladies, fighting to keep a man/woman makes you look needy. If he/she broke up with you, move on with your life. there’s no point guilt tripping him/her to stay with you. Both of you will be miserable.

When you are in a relationship where you feel that you have to constantly fight for your man’s/woman's love, fight for his/her attention, and fight other men/women to leave him/her alone, you are not in a healthy relationship. You are in a personal hell that only you can break free of.

Let go of that man/woman if you are miserabIe, knowing full well that your soul mate is out there. You can find him/her if you stay true to yourself and do away with desperation. Guys/ladies, stop breaking your own hearts.

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TODAY’S TEACHING…

TOPIC..

Guys/Ladies Who Fight To Keep Men/Women Are Not Wise:

Men/Women Who Fight To Keep Women/Men Are Not Wise. It makes no sense to also fight other men/women to leave your man/woman alone. That’s his/her job and not yours.

If your man/woman keeps putting you in a position where you have to fight other women/men, you need a better woman/man. He/she doesn’t love you. He/she just playing games with your feelings and destroying your self esteem.

Guys/Ladies, fighting for a man’s/woman's love and attention is wrong. It shows you have underlying insecurities and low self esteem. You can’t force someone to love and show you affection if they don’t feel the same way.

Forget all the lies society tells you that if you love him/her, you will fight for him/her. You shouldn’t be fighting alone. If he’s/she's also fighting to keep you, then it is a healthy situation. But when you are the only one fighting, you will look foolish and desperate.

I don’t believe you have to fight to keep a man/woman. Some men/women believe you should, even if that means degrading yourself or settling with someone who has no respect for you and your feelings. That’s settling for heartaches in the future.

Fighting for a man/woman to stay with you is never worth the effort put into it. In the end, he/she will leave you for the woman/man he/she truly wants, so why are you wasting your time holding to dead weight just because you want to claim to have a man/woman you are in a relationship with?

Putting up with all the hurt, humiliation and stress that come from being in a relationship with him/her who doesn’t want you as much as you want him/her is emotionally draining.

He/she doesn’t have the right to take away your dignity and turn you into a jealous crazed maniac, but you do have the right to move on. As a woman/man, it is your right to refuse to be disrespected.

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TODAY TEACHING TOPIC

MARRIAGE IS NOT MEANT FOR THE BABIES

Marriage is never meant for babies.

If you're finding it so difficult to respect one another in that relationship, it will be worse in marriage when you don't work on it in your relationship.

Marriage is not meant for boys and girls but for mature men and women who knows what it takes to be in one.

Your courting period is the time to knowing one another better and more, don't joke with that sensitive period lest you end up regretting in the marriage.

When they don't know what it takes to love and care for you, don't force it and hoping they will change after marriage, no one does except for divine intervention from above.

Don't enter into a relationship just because your friends are entering one, don't get married when it's obvious you're not ready for marital settlement just because of pressure.

Don't let anyone force you into a relationship you're not ready for lest you regret it later. Be in a relationship with someone who's mature enough to know what it takes to be in a relationship with you and not the one with a novice mentality about it.

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5 WAYS TO PREPARE FOR MARRIAGE… Continue 🤗

(4).Intellectual Preparation

In Proverbs 24:3-4 the Bible says that, By wisdom a house is built, by understanding it is established and through knowledge its room are filled with treasures.

According to the late Myles Munroe, knowledge is the key to successful marriage. True saying. Get knowledge about marriage. Read books, attend seminars, get counseling, listen to tapes and anything you can find on marriage to help you prepare.

(5).Character Development

Cultivating good character now is another good preparation you need to make before you marry. Bad character destroys marriage. Character will either make or mar your marriage.

Eliminate every bad character that can destroy your marriage. Every selfish tendencies must be dealt with. Bad mouth must stop now. Your character either shortens or prolongs your marriage. Work on your character.

Prepare for your marriage. Remember, the best time to prepare for it is now.

TODAY’S TEACHING….

TOPIC…

5 WAYS TO PREPARE FOR MARRIAGE…

(1).Physical Preparation

You must learn how to take care of your physical appearance, your dressing, your health, your shape, your hair and all that.

Though, this is not an excuse but many have cheated on their partners because they are unkempt, they look tattered and battered. Especially some women, immediately they got married, they stop paying little or no attention to their physical appearance. They start tying wrapper up and down with their hairs unkempt. Try your best to look neat and take care of your physical appearance.

(2).Emotional Preparation

This is another important preparation you must make if you must succeed in marriage. Many people have ended their marriages because of their inability to control and manage their emotions. Some have killed their partners, others have turned their partners to punching bags.

Therefore, before you marry learn to how to control and manage your emotions. Read books on emotional intelligence, anger management and emotional outburst.

(3).Financial Preparation

Marriage has a lot of financial responsibilities hence the need to be financially prepared. House rents, utilities bills, school fees, baby food, hospital bills, feeding, etc., are some of the financial responsibilities involved in marriage.

So, prepare financially. Work. Learn a skill. Learn to make, manage and multiply money. Have at least one steady source of income. If possible, make investments. When there is money, marriage dey sweet. Money is a major stakeholder in marriage. Make no mistake about it.
To be continued 🤗