Olaitan Sa'eed Adejobi

We all face challenges in life.
And at times, it can feel like those challenges may just beat you down.

But if you want something, you have to keep going.

Don’t let the idea of quitting enter your mind; stay strong.

The people who win in life are the ones who don’t quit.

No matter how much you care about or love your partner, you have to remember you are important too.

You deserve love, too. From both your partner and from yourself

It’s easier for you to give your partner what they need if you take care of your own needs first.

Don’t ever let a sin make you feel like you can’t pray. That’s the trick of shaytan; no matter what you do, perform your salah.

The rate at which girls bleach these days, you might end up dating your ex without knowing.

I’ve learned-

that no matter how good a friend is, they’re going to hurt u every once in a while and u must forgive them for that.

If you have singing skills, please express it

There’s just something about a man that sings. Girls go crazy over it. Guess there’s just something about a bad boy rock star. This doesn’t mean you have to be a rocker to get a girl. But if you’ve got some singing skills in your back pocket, that’s a good thing.If not, just show her you are passionate in some other genre. Passion is perfect when combined with love.

...and if the whole world gather to help me; they will not be able to do anything except that which Allaah has Decreed for me.

If the whole world also united against me to harm me; for they will not be able to do anything except that which Allaah has decreed for me.

The Pen has been lifted and the ink is dry!! Alhamdulillaah for everything

Tomorrow is perhaps the most overrated word.

Everyone wants to do something tomorrow; start praying tomorrow; change for the better tomorrow; get that piece of work done tomorrow.

But you know what? Most of the time, it doesn’t happen! What if tomorrow never comes? Do it today!

Happiness, success, fulfillment. Not something you get from another person. You lead life. Life doesn’t lead you.

In the early stages of a crush, it can be hard to make sense of your feelings.

Sometimes you might really be falling for someone, and other times, you're just in love with the idea of the person.

Even the nicest people have their limits! Don’t push them too far; don’t try to reach those limits.

Once the boundary is crossed, they’ll never be the same person you used to know and you’ll only have yourself to blame! If you can’t be kind, remain quiet.

Don’t hurt people!

Stop constantly looking for a way to satisfy all your critics. Stop blaming yourself for all the wrong things. Stop telling yourself that you owe everything to everyone. Stop convincing yourself that you’re not good enough. As long as you’ve done your best, Almighty Allah knows!

Adversity is the catalyst that forces us to stretch. It propels us to find solutions to problems.

True love never dies. It only gets stronger with time.

Such a disappointment when you defend someone for so long thinking they are different and they turn out to be just like what everyone said

If you wanna be with someone, you have to be mature enough to stick around when things get tough. Relationships aren't easy.

THE POWER OF *I AM SORRY.*

*I am sorry,* a short but mighty sentence!

If you wish to live long, don't joke with this short sentence, *I am sorry.* Do you know how many people who had gone to early grave because they neglected the therapeutic power of *I am sorry.*

Single sorry can stop a war, n prevents millions of men, women including children from dying!

Most of the troubles in most homes are heightened because wives are too big to say *I am sorry* to their husbands and you can trust the ego of husbands in saying same to their wives.

Quarrel lingers between friends because no party wants to say *I am sorry.* Each says or asks, why should I be the first to say *I am sorry?* He or she would beat his or her chest and utter the ego phrase, *a whole me!*

Ladies and gentlemen, welcome to the part of the world where saying *I am sorry* is a hard nut to crack while curses are easily unleashed.

Welcome to the part of the world where people refer to a person who says *I am sorry* in a midst of a rift as a *weaker s*x*: one who is not man enough; one who is foolish.

Welcome to Africa where saying *I am sorry* is tougher than forcing a donkey to pass through a needle hole.

All of us are victims of this discussion. We have lost valuable assets, money and even lives because of this cheap and affordable sentence *I am sorry.* It simply cost only a breath of speech.

Have you ever wondered why domestic violence is less pronounced in the western world? It is simply because they understand the efficacy of *I am sorry.*

Husbands say it to their wives and even children whenever they err, wives and children do the same and life goes on fine.

Friends, this is simply a piece to encourage us to cultivate a habit of saying *I am sorry.* It is difficult but readily affordable.

Learn how to say *I AM SORRY* even if you are right.

If this message offends you in one way or the other, *I am sorry*
My apologies.
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Once u find that one person that makes u happy in a way that no one else can, don't ever let'em go & neva ever take'em for granted

*Essencial Knowledge*
Taking bath with rainy water is a spiritual therapy for spiritual attack of any kind; be it socery, evil eye etc. And the evidence that rainy water is a ballistic missile attack on evil spirits is Allâh's verse which goes thus:

*وَيُنَزِّلُ عَلَيْكُم مِّنَ السَّمَاءِ مَاءً لِّيُطَهِّرَكُم بِهِ وَيُذْهِبَ عَنكُمْ رِجْزَ الشَّيْطَانِ وَلِيَرْبِطَ عَلَىٰ قُلُوبِكُمْ وَيُثَبِّتَ بِهِ الْأَقْدَامَ*

*...and He caused water (rain) to descend on you from the sky, to clean you thereby and to remove from you the Rijz (whispering, evil-suggestions, etc.) of Shaitan (Satan), and to strengthen your hearts, and make your feet firm thereby.*
(English - Mohsin Khan) Surah: Al-Anfãl vs 11
Glory-be-to-Allâh!
*Do not be selfish in spreading it to because alot of people are in need of it.*

*_Quotes of the day_*

🔘 *_"Don't react to wrongful conduct of others towards you with similar wrong. "Repel wrongs with far better conduct." (Quran 41:34)_*

🔘 *_"Say, 'O My servants who have transgressed against themselves [by sinning], do not despair of the mercy of Allah..." Quran 39:53_*

🔘 *_"A day will come when you will breathe up, but you won't be able to breathe down, turn back to Allah before it's too late"----Mallam Yusuf Adepoju_*

🔘 *_“If you have not seen the saint, you have not seen the Sunna.”_*

🔘 *_"If you see a disputing, arrogant, and bigoted person, bear in mind that they are utterly lost." Bilal Ibn Sa’d (rh)_*

🔘 *_"Be a key that opens up all the doors of goodness and locks down all the doors to evil ..." Dr Umar Faruq Abd-Allah_*

My identity is in who Allah says I am, not in who others say I am. Allah's opinion is the only one that truly matters.

The Messenger of Allah ﷺ said, "He who shows no mercy to the people, Allah, the Exalted and Glorious, does not show mercy to him."
[Muslim]

An economics professor at a local college made a statement that he had never failed a single student before, but had recently failed an entire class.


*That class had insisted that socialism worked and that no one would be poor and no one would be rich, a great equalizer*


The professor then said, "OK, we will have an experiment in this class on this plan : All grades will be averaged and everyone will receive the same grade !


After the first test, the grades were averaged and everyone got a B.

The students who studied hard were upset and the students who studied little were happy.

As the second test rolled around, the students who studied little had studied even less and the ones who studied hard decided they wanted a free ride too so they studied little.

The second test average was a D!

No one was happy.

When the 3rd test rolled around, the average was an F.

As the tests proceeded, the scores never increased as bickering, blame and name-calling all resulted in hard feelings and no one would study for the benefit of anyone else.

To their great surprise, ALL FAILED and the professor told them that communism would also ultimately fail because when the reward is great, the effort to succeed is great, but when government takes all the reward away, no one will try or want to succeed.


*These are possibly the 5 best sentences you'll ever read and all applicable to this experiment :*

1. You cannot legislate the poor into prosperity by legislating the wealthy out of prosperity.

2. What one person receives without working for, another person must work for without receiving.

3. The government cannot give to anybody anything that the government does not first take from somebody else.

4. You cannot multiply wealth by dividing it!

5. When half of the people get the idea that they do not have to work because the other half is going to take care of them and when the other half gets the idea that it does no good to work because somebody else is going to get what they work for, that is the beginning of the end of any nation !


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The Almighty Allah didn't promise us an easy life. The road may be long & hard. Keep focus. May that last step we take be the one into Paradise!

It's natural for us to stumble, lose hope & get impatient during trials. But if we remember He's in control, we'll see the hidden blessings

We found nobody when we need somebody through hard times. That moment we need to realize ALLAH still and always with us. Kneel down and pray

12 Points For Wives To Note
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1. The wife that wins all arguments with her husband is not wise. The home is not a law court.

2. The wife that uses s*x as a weapon in the home - placing embargo, going to bed in jeans shorts and trousers - lacks wisdom.

3. The wife that uses the modern trends and laws of "women's rights" to insult or ridicule her husband simply makes a fool of herself.

4. A woman that makes her home devoid of peace through bickering, nagging and quarrels needs help. A man should be eager to run away from office to be at home, for that should be the safest and coziest place on earth for him.

5. Modern-day equality in marriage does not mean competition. It simply means partnership. Taking advantage of such equality to turn around and become the de facto head of the home and oppress the man is tantamount to playing with fire. If you destroy your home, soon you will be the boss of an empty home.

6. A wise wife makes the man feel so good that he assumes that he is the head. Once he gets that feeling, the woman gently wields her power and the head actually turns to wherever the neck wants without a protest.

7. A wife that does not pull herself away from friends' influence and advice or even from the control of her mother and father will have herself to blame.

8. When a man is looking for a wife, he bypasses women of different shapes and sizes to choose a wife. But soon afterchildbirth, many women hide under the excuse of childbirth to let go of themselves.
Many stop bothering about their looks, shape, dressing, etc.

Within 5 years of marriage, people start wondering if the wife is the man's aunt, even though she is 7 years younger.

Her defence is that if he truly loves her, he should love her the way she is. But when looking for a wife, he saw people like the present YOU and ignored them and settled for the former YOU.

Today, you go to bed smelling of onions and ogiri. You go to bed wearing grandmothers' clothes. Why are you

_Every situation is a test from Almighty Allah, in prosperity, He tests our gratitude, in poverty, He tests our contentment, in difficulty, He tests our perseverance, delay in granting our request, He tests our patience, in trial, He tests our faith and obedience. May Allah grant us the spirit to pass any trial when he tests us Ameen

When I woke up I was pondering about life, I discovered that:
Sometimes, to succeed in life you need ENEMIES.... Yes!!!!!
You need people who will mock you, so that you can run to God. You need people who will try to intimidate you, so that you can be courageous.
You need people who will say "NO" so that you can learn how to be independent...I mean how to do it yourself.
You need people who will disappoint you so that you can put all your trust in God alone.
You need people who will work towards you loosing that job, so that you can start your own big business.
You need people who will sell your 'Joseph' so that 'you' can get to Egypt and be a Prime Minister in a strange land of captivity
You need a cruel landlord, so that you won't be too comfortable in someone else's house, then you can build your own house on time.
But sometimes, when we are disappointed, we feel very bad and we tend to remain on that spot. Not knowing that the end-point of disappointment is the beginning of your accomplishments.
Understand this, "that every disappointment you once had came with a blessing!" However, it is not everyone that partakes in this blessing that I'm talking about.
You cannot see a new OPEN door while you are still putting all your attention, time and energy in trying to force the closed one to open.
And again I say, "No disappointment can ever come without an attached blessing!" So, when the disappointment come, thank God for it and tell "HIM" to open your eyes to see the new blessing that HE has for you!
Disappointment is PHASE1 while accomplishment is PHASE2. I doubt if one can jump the protocols. That is why it is called BREAKTHROUGH Something must BREAK so that you can go THROUGH! Encourage someone today....you are lifted. Good morning!!!!!!!!! Still my humble self... Com. Adeola

SHOCKING TRUTH YOU NEED TO KNOW ABOUT
S*X
1. S*x is a beautiful creation of God, created to be
enjoyed under marriage.
2. God will never control your s*xual desires for u.
3. S*x is never without consequences, every
s*xual act goes with responsibilities either
pregnancy,disea
se etc.
4. S*x is not the most important thing, relationship
that begins in s*x ends in disaster.
5. S*x obeys the law of progression, if you start
kissing, it's just a matter of time...s*x follows.
6. Never advertise what is not for sale,s*x is never
for sale.
7. Count the cost before removing your clothes.
8. Never give s*x to prove love.
9. Premarital s*x is never free,someone usually
pays, now or later.
10. S*x never makes people to love each
other,else the world would have been a lovely
place.
11. S*xual stimulation (foreplay or romance) only
gives rise for more..
12. S*x makes 2 people to become one flesh
(soul,spirit and body ties).
13. Men are s*xually aroused by sight.
14. Women are s*xually aroused by what they hear
or touch.
15. S*x is the greatest cause of heartbreaks.
16. Listening to s*xual musics and lyrics arouses
your s*xual passion. Watch it, I mean what you
listen to!
17. The more you know the purpose of s*x,the less
likely you are to abuse it.
18. If you have made any s*xual mistake,don't
remain there, get up and move on the positive
side.
19. The best wedding gift to your spouse is your
virginity, if you have lost yours, you can still retain
your secondary virginity
20. S*x opens the door for demonic possession,
exchange of destinies,trans
ference of spirits,scattered souls, destroy future,
s*x has made many youth murderer.
Do you agree with me?
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One day a farmer's donkey fell down into a well.
The animal cried piteously for hours as the farmer
tried to figure out what to do. Finally, he decided
the animal was old, and the well needed to be
covered up anyway; it just wasn't worth it to
retrieve the donkey.
He invited all his neighbors to come over and help
him. They all grabbed a shovel and began to
shovel dirt into the well. At first, the donkey
realized what was happening and cried horribly.
Then, to everyone's amazement he quieted down.
A few shovel loads later, the farmer finally looked
down the well. He was astonished at what he saw.
With each shovel of dirt that hit his back, the
donkey was doing something amazing. He would
shake it off and take a step up.
As the farmer's neighbors continued to shovel dirt
on top of the animal, he would shake it off and
take a step up. Pretty soon, everyone was amazed
as the donkey stepped up over the edge of the well
and happily trotted off!
MORAL :
Life is going to shovel dirt on you, all kinds of dirt.
The trick to getting out of the well is to shake it off
and take a step up. Each of our troubles is a
steppingstone. We can get out of the deepest wells
just by not stopping, never giving up! Shake it off
and take a step up.
Remember the five simple rules to be happy:
1. Free your heart from hatred - Forgive.
2. Free your mind from worries - Most never
happens.
3. Live simply and appreciate what you have.
4. Give more.
5. Expect less from people but more from yourself.
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Read this on a group chat and thought I should share it... really interesting. ..
LANGUAGE

FORWARDED:
"UP: An amazing 2-letter word!

One word in the English language that could be a noun, verb, adj, adv, prep is 'UP'.

This two-letter word in English has more meanings than any other two-letter word, and that word is'UP.' It is listed in the dictionary as an [adv], [prep], [adj], [n] or [v].

It's easy to understand UP to mean "toward the sky or at the top of the list"...

BUT...

When we are awake in the morning, why do we wake UP?

At a meeting, why does a topic come UP? Why do we speak UP, and why are the officers UP for election?

if there is a tie, it is a toss UP and why is it UP to the secretary to write UP a report?

We call UP our friends, brighten UP a room, polish UP the silver, warm UP the leftovers and clean UP the kitchen. We lock UP the house and fix UP the old car...

At other times, this little word has real special meaning. People stir UP trouble, line UP for tickets, work UP an appetite, and think UP excuses.

To be dressed is one thing but to be dressed UP is special.

And this UP is confusing... a drain must be opened UP because it is blocked UP.

We open UP a store in the morning but we close it UP at night. We seem to be pretty mixed UP about UP !

To be knowledgeable about the proper uses of UP, look UP the word UP in the dictionary. In a desk-sized dictionary, it takes UP almost 1/4 of the page and can add UP to about thirty definitions.

If you are UP to it, you might try building UP a list of many ways UP is used. It will take UP a lot of your time, but if you don't give UP, you may wind UP with UP to a hundred or more.

When it threatens to rain, we say it is clouding UP. When the sun comes out, we say it is clearing UP. When it rains, it soaks UP the earth. When it does not rain for awhile, things dry UP.

You move UP in your career.

One could go on and on, but I'll wrap it UP, for now...my time is UP !

GIRL: I have sinned; I called my boyfriend a bastard.
PASTOR: So wat did he do to deserve dat?
GIRL: He kissed me.
PASTOR: You mean like this? The pastor kissed the girl.
GIRL: Yes!
PASTOR: Well, dats no reason to call him a bastard.
GIRL: But he touched my breast.
PASTOR: U mean like this? The pastor touched her breast.
GIRL: Yes!
PASTOR: Thats no reason to call him a bastard.
GIRL: But, he took off my clothes and had s*x with me!
PASTOR: You mean like this? The pastor took off her clothes and had s*x with the girl.
GIRL: Yes
PASTOR: Well, thats also no reason to call him a bastard.
GIRL: Then he told me he has AIDS.
PASTOR: U are a BASTAAAARD!!! Lol send this to your friends that are not in this page 😄😄😄😄😄😄😄😄😄 Yeye Pastor