Relationship/Marriage talk

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A lady who I am close to moved to the UK sometime last year to join her husband who has been studying. She came with her daughter. She was lucky enough to get a job almost immediately and has been supporting her husband in tuition fees and paying of bills. One of their major challenges has been childcare for their daughter after school hours or during holidays. Something cheap and within their budget. Most times, it works out well for them when the husband isn't at university or at work. Other times, they have to plan and replan and reach out to friends for childcare.

This lady has fallen sick a lot of times as she is always on the move. I will always praise her because of her quick acclimatization. And her strength. "My brother, wetin man go do na? Na my family I dey do am for na."
Her husband has been very helpful as well.
Taking the child to school and making meals to support. However, recently, she fell pregnant and there was a need to move to a bigger apartment. To support with the bills, they decided to lease out a room to a female. The first time she told me this, I asked why she was insisting on a female flatmate. And she responded, "na make I see person wey go dey help me take care of my daughter na. Even if I go dey find am small something. I no mind. You know say I no fit trust any man wey no be family around my pikin na. The world no good." So it made sense. K***ing a bird with two stones.

Just recently, her call woke me up. And you cannot believe that her flatmate has fallen pregnant. I'll leave the guess to you to find out who the pregnancy belongs to. But know that while this pregnant woman worked nights to make ends meet, the man she calls husband was working hard as well at night to make ends not to meet. Men! Una sabi stain person white.
Kai!

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A lady who I am close to moved to the UK sometime last year to join her husband who has been studying. She came with her daughter. She was lucky enough to get a job almost immediately and has been supporting her husband in tuition fees and paying of bills. One of their major challenges has been childcare for their daughter after school hours or during holidays. Something cheap and within their budget. Most times, it works out well for them when the husband isn't at university or at work. Other times, they have to plan and replan and reach out to friends for childcare.

This lady has fallen sick a lot of times as she is always on the move. I will always praise her because of her quick acclimatization. And her strength. "My brother, wetin man go do na? Na my family I dey do am for na."
Her husband has been very helpful as well.
Taking the child to school and making meals to support. However, recently, she fell pregnant and there was a need to move to a bigger apartment. To support with the bills, they decided to lease out a room to a female. The first time she told me this, I asked why she was insisting on a female flatmate. And she responded, "na make I see person wey go dey help me take care of my daughter na. Even if I go dey find am small something. I no mind. You know say I no fit trust any man wey no be family around my pikin na. The world no good." So it made sense. K***ing a bird with two stones.

Just recently, her call woke me up. And you cannot believe that her flatmate has fallen pregnant. I'll leave the guess to you to find out who the pregnancy belongs to. But know that while this pregnant woman worked nights to make ends meet, the man she calls husband was working hard as well at night to make ends not to meet. Men! Una sabi stain person white.
Kai!

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I know death is inevitable but I pray for you.....
You will not die and leave your children young 😭😭😭 Amen 🙏

Please advise her responsibly

*Post anonymous* Please how can someone address her husband about *b@d body and armpit odor* in a polite way that will not make him to be angry? *Note* his armpit smell even after bathing, I have buy many types of perfumes and rollon but not working😢the bad smell from the armpit come back immediately he swelt 😢😢😢am beginning to loose interest on my hubby because of body odor, I hat£ him coming close to me and I feel d1sgraced especially when he comes back from shop and meet visitors in our house ND everywhere will change with b@d odor immediately 😭😭I really needs help...what can I buy to stop it???

The money you are struggling to get is in someone's hand ✋.

Just give solution to their problem, and the money wll be yours.

Please lets be careful who you leave your kids with because the days are ev!l and they are looking for any means to make money, read this.👇👇👇

Mummy help ooo something happen to me, am in one group on Facebook so they said we has a challenge that everybody should post their family picture and how many children you have so I posted my family picture and my three kids so a lady now charted me up, she was telling me she love my family and want to make me her friend so she ask me my state of resident which I told her and we exchange number so I invited her over she came we gist and talk so she now took me to her house , her house is even very close to mine, and I have started liking this girl so on Wednesday she took my son to buy him biscuits up till now, we have not seen her, I check her Facebook she has close down her wall and block me on WhatsApp so I took police to her house, nothing was find ,everything is empty so the compound me now said she just pack in two weeks ago ah am finish I can't see my son , I charted the Admin she refuse approving my post, and I don't have any of this girl picture, her name is Grace Gudu and she use this new sticker that is raining as her profile picture , police people say I don't have any prove and my husband is outside country I have not break this news to him please help me ma.

Dear single moms… Life is hard ⚠️
It’s not easy to be the BEST mother you can be and giving your kids the BEST life possible. Being a single mom is not a life full of struggles, but a journey for the strong & independent. Respect to all mothers doing double duty because of men failing to do their part as fathers.

To all single moms out there, always remember that you are LOVED, you are ENOUGH, you are WORTH IT, and God has an AMAZING PLAN for you and your child. Keep being the best moms and know that am proud of you. I salute all of you!🥰😘

My husband is a very good man but the only issue is that he beats me whenever he’s angry.

Abeg does a good man beat a woman? My gender sef! The thing weak me🙄🙄🙄

Money messed you up throughout this year and even till now nothing to show , hear me! It will not be the same again starting from now, If you are seeing this ,you will use money, keep using money, stand on money, send money on errand, money will be your slave till this YEAR finish

Marry a man who brings out the best in you not one who brings out the worst in you, some men are destiny killers, they take everything from you, milk out all the sweetness in you, enjoy you but can't lift a finger to help you with anything, they think everything you do out of your benevolence for granted and feel so entitled, don't over look the tiniest red light thinking he'll change or you can change him, over the years I've come to realize that you can never change a man, a man who loves you genuinely will change for you because he wants to be a better person for love, never marry a man who collects money from you or ask you for money, thinking he's testing you, a real man chase after you and entice you with good things wether big or small, Don't marry a man who's jobless and think you can build with him, some are lazy and choose you because they've seen that you're the hardworking type who'll be able to carry the family responsibility even if he doesn't bring, marry a man who'll give you his wings for you to soar, marry a man who completes you, who understands you and pay attention to your needs, be watchful, Don't rush into marriage innocently, be intentional, tick ✅all the qualities you want in a man at least 80% before you say I do because forever is too long to feel unloved, lonely and miserable, marriage is a beautiful thing when you're with the right person. Lastly ask God to guide your heart and steps as you make the decision of a life partner 👌

God is making a way for you and there's nothing your enemies can do to stop the power and provision of God in your life!

Before the end of today you will receive a huge amount of money 🙏

Have you ever cried 😭😭 while praying because the pains where too much to handle? May God heal your secret Pains now 🙏🙏🙏

Why has cheating become so common in marriages of these days?

What do you make for dinner when you have zero energy and nothing planned?

Don't Marry A Man You Cant Play And Joke With My Sister.
Marriage Is Not Military Barracks.
NO FEAR IN LOVE.
How is this Volume?

October is going to be filled with blessings, celebrations, growth, healing, change, and love. God will make a way for you.

LET'S DISCUSS DEAR MOMS

WHEN LAST DID YOU STORE YOUR CREAM IN THE REFRIGERATOR???

Silent treatment is that moment when husband and wife are not talking to each other, single syllable words like, no,yes,OK, maybe etc is used in talking to each other, probably because one person is feeling offended, and the other person does not want to apologize. Sometimes while the cause of the quarrel has been forgotten, the silent treatment still goes on because nobody wants to swallow his/her pride to apologize and say sorry.
Who said marriage is a bed of roses? If I hear. It is sweet and bitter at the same time only that we choose to see the sweet side and ignore the bitter side, that’s when marriage is sweet. You should also know your partner is not a mind reader, so whenever you feel offended try talking it out instead of giving them a silent treatment. That s**t k*ills marriage.

THAT SERVES HER RIGHT🤣

I feel so bad now and I need someone to tell me if I was wrong in any way.😭

At least to help my sanity.

A friend invited me over yesterday evening for us to talk about the business I told her about over the phone.

I was reluctant to go because of this Corona Virus but she insisted I explain to her better one on one.

I got to her house, we talked business and she was excited. We agreed on the term and I wanted to leave.

She then told her help to get a soft drink for me which I declined.

She insisted I must take something so I told her that I would be ok with water.

She called her domestic staff to peel oranges for me, which I didn't object to.

Few minutes late, the young lady (her domestic staff) brought 4 oranges and kept on the side stool where I sat.

She should be within the age range of 20-23 years.

My friend took one orange, examined it, and called back her staff.

The next thing I saw was for her to land a slap on the young lady's face.

I was surprised and wondered what the young lady did.

She slapped her again, and again up to 4 times.

I was telling her it's ok, it's ok. Why exactly are you hitting her? This girl isn't a baby. How could you be hitting her?

The girl then said to me, "aunty na so she dey beat me every time".

I told my friend that it's not right. What if she injures someone else's child?

My friend then held the girl on the clothe and began to hit her the more for saying a word.

I held her hands and told her to stop. She pushed me out with a force that I nearly fell on the floor.

I shifted before someone injures me but kept raising my voice for her to stop, reminding her that she could injure the girl.

It got to a stage that the girl got provoked, jacked my friend up, landed her on the floor, and began to punch her.

I shouted because of the way the domestic staff landed my friend on the ground, I knew she may have injured herself because she is above 40.

This girl kept punching her while crying.

I pleaded with the girl to stop but she didn't even look my side.

I ran to look for help downstairs

Called her security man.

He was so excited to hear that and told me that he wasn't moving an inch. In fact, I didn't see him. That my friend hits the girl 1000 times in a day.

I began to shout, "somebody help me". Not even a single person came out of their houses.

As I was running back, the girl stormed past me and headed to the gate.

My friend lay helpless on the floor

She had dislocated her wrist and was screaming for help.

I couldn't lift her so I called my husband to help me call her husband as I don't have the man's contact and she wasn't answering any of the questions I was asking her.

The security man later came with that of the neighbouring compound.

They both helped me put her in the car and I rushed her to the hospital.

Her husband met us there before I headed home late at night.

I went to see her in the morning and was told that she instructed them not to allow me into her room.

That I was the one that instigated her help to talk back at her.

I quietly left

My husband just got back from the hospital this evening and said she's in terrible pain.

Her eyes swollen, her lips broken, her wrist dislocated, aside from other bodily pains.😭😭

Why did I leave my house to hers?

Why didn't I carry my business somewhere else?

I'm the cause of all these.

Why didn't I keep my mouth shut and allow them to live the way they have been living.

The girl isn't a minor. Maybe ask her to leave some other time.

So many why's in my head

Thank God I already rounded off my Facebook live before my husband got home and shared this terrible news.

I would have been a mess

I hate to be in the middle of this kind of thing😭

Please what do I do?

Did I do anything wrong?

Why did I even tell her about the business in the first place?

Why didn't I remain in my house and call her on the phone?

It's not as though I'm the type that visits people.

This is my first time stepping into someone's house since January.

Bikonu, my head is spinning. What do I do?

My husband said her husband told her her eyes were badly damaged.

What kind of devil is this? 😭😭😭

Should I go back there tomorrow or stay away?

My only concern now is for her to get well with no permanent scar.

The domestic staff ran away and the agent that brought her isn't taking his calls.

If you know that you have anger issues, please stop employing help.

It's either you kill them or they kill you.

"What makes a woman develop feelings for a man that is not her husband"
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Open discussion 👂👂

May you receive good news on something that you've been patiently waiting on.

When last do you wear uniform with your husband to church or party 🥳 abi since after unah per-wedding picture 😆 🤣 😂

Pls advice her

Admin good morning ma please ma post for me
I have offended my husband I don't know where to start to from
My husband is the type of man that carries all the responsibility at home including sugar #10 I don't really like assisting a man because of what I have been through before marriage
If I ask my husband for 70k he will ask me madam what are you buying the next thing you will see in
your account is 100k
If my mother comes for visiting and he is at work I will just call him that mummy is around ooo but she will be leaving before you come back he will greet my mother and send me 20k to give her for transport we have been married for four years and and have a son of 2 yrs who started school recently that's where the wahala started from he told me to go make verification at the school my son was about going to when I got there they told me everything is about 165k I called him to let him know but instead of telling him the real amount I told him it is 295k
For pre nursery my husband sent me the money instantly saying
I should pay everything so he can resume the next day
On Sunday of it we normally go outing when we went out
His friend wife was asking me the school we put our son I told her
Ahhhhhhhh she said those one when their money nah 160k plus
My husband said nooo I paid 295k
The woman say nah lie ahhh my younger sister works there this oversabi woman called her junior sister and put the phone on speaker that was how my husband got to know I fooled him he just kept calm until we got home
I saw him sitting on the bed and crying calling my name what have I not done for you
I have been apologizing to him he says no
That he will report me to my mum
And I know my mum will set me on fire
On my 27th birthday he bought me land with my name's well written on it
I have my own ride but I love riding his he doesn't even have problem
But how will I quench this fire anytime he comes home he just go straight to his room before you know he done sleep
Am tired the silent treatment is killing me
He drops money for food 7k every 3 days
But now he reduce the money to 5k I nor understand

U go take 20k go market, u go come home with nylon, like say u lose money. I don tire o
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Why are you no longer talking with that friend you were closed to before 🤔?✅

SO SAD!
A lot of good women wasted a lot of good years holding on to men who didn't know what they want. 😢💔

Please I need your advice.
My husband and I were shopping last week in Spar Supermarket when I ran into my ex.

My hubby was in another section while I was in the frozen foods section of the supermarket.

I was excited to see this my Ex when he called my name because he was my first love. We just couldn't get married because of genotype issues but we parted on friendly terms.

He is also married and has moved on, we haven't seen for almost 7 years now.He even left Nigeria and no communication since then.

I'm adding all these details so you can understand why we were so delighted to reunite unexpectedly in that supermarket. We hugged happily and we were catching up when my husband returned there to meet me.

My ex jokingly introduced himself as "the man who would have married me instead of him if not for condition" and my husband was cold towards him. He even refused to shake his hand.

My ex offered to pay for the items I picked and even though I told him not to worry, he still went ahead to accompany me to the cashier and paid for everything I bought.

My husband remained cold and quiet all through and when we got home he exploded and said I thoroughly disrespected him with my conduct with my Ex.

Before I knew it this matter had reached the ears of my family despite my apologies, even though I know I really did nothing wrong.
My husband just likes to escalate issues unnecessarily and I am tired of begging and petting him like a child.

My ex and I were simply 2 people seeing each other unexpectedly after many years in a PUBLIC place, we didn't do anything shady behind closed doors.

Both families are calling me and telling me to kneel down and beg my husband for peace to reign and I think this is the height of it.

please ask your audience on my behalf if there's anything I actually did wrong from this story and I will apologise if I am proven guilty of any offense.

Thanks and please keep me anonymous....

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What is that one thing u can't tolerate in a relationship,no matter what?
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You'll not be disgraced or embarrassed. He will meet your needs🙏🙏

You have suffered for your children you will not suffer in your children's hand..